Just new to the group and have always enjoyed BDSM with a domme I recently have tried pegging and really enjoyed it looking for service providers that will also partake in this as well

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Shhh....someone is coming...

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Awesome test! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 97% Voyeur 96% Rigger 96% Exhibitionist 96% Experimentalist 95% Dominant 95% Master/Mistress 95% Owner 95% Switch 93% Primal (Hunter) 90% Non-monogamist 79% Rope bunny 70% Primal (Prey) 64% Submissive 59% Brat tamer 56% Ageplayer 40% Daddy/Mommy 39% Sadist 32% Brat 30% Slave 27% Girl/Boy 21% Degrader 15% Vanilla 13% Masochist 10% Pet 1% Degradee

Lately I have been feeling a pull towards having my own female sub or slave. I have even considered the possibility of having two female sub/slaves in a polyfidelity (also sometimes called polyexclusive) relationship. For myself, I am not into causing a female sub/slave pain, punishment, or humiliation. That just seems so wrong. But, to each there own, I do not judge those who do lean towards that style of Dominance. I would use kind words, praise, love, affection, guidance, training, etc. -- to win her honesty, loyalty, commitment, and love. Yes there would be consequences if she did something wrong. Such as discussions, correction, corner time, time out, and in extreme situations bum spankings. Followed by after care. I would consider her to be my equal, best friend and l-o-v-e-r. Yes she can be all that and still be submissive. Submissive to my wants, needs and desires.

== My results from bdsmtest.org == 82% Dominant 75% Rigger 75% Vanilla 74% Master/Mistress 58% Experimentalist 58% Voyeur 56% Switch 49% Owner 46% Daddy/Mommy 45% Brat tamer 37% Rope bunny 30% Sadist 26% Submissive 25% Exhibitionist 21% Primal (Hunter) 18% Brat 15% Masochist 15% Ageplayer 14% Non-monogamist 13% Degrader 12% Girl/Boy 7% Primal (Prey) 6% Slave 1% Pet 1% Degradee

Hi There is much talk on "Fetlife" about censorship lately as it would seem the bank has declined their use of CC payments and ������ them to clean house and remove a lot of posts as undesirable. 1 What are your thoughts on this. 2 Is censorship of adult consenting sites an intrusion into freedom of speech? 3 What alternative BDSM social sites are there out there worth joining. I know of three 1 fetster.com 2 Alt.com 3 one44.net Please add any others you may know of worth joining.

@Alana Sweets - if you simply wish to serve him... then just do that.. dote on him, spoil, pamper/praise him.. he will warm to it pretty quickly I suspect <grin> If it is more of a 'restrain/choke/tease/torment me pleeeeeease' thing hehe tell him to be rough with you... let him *see* what that does to and for you during sex... There are so many dynamics to a BDSM and/or M/s relationship, they are defined only by those within it :) are you a 'pain-wh0re', a service sub, a pet... masochist... ;) best advice is always communication; tell him what you crave, no beating around the bush (HA!) see his reaction.. and don't worry about his reaction ;) Feel free to PM me.. I have many years on both ends of the toys so.. ;)

there is a much more recent/accurate one found at; http://bdsmtest.org/ == these are the top findings from my results ;) 100% Experimentalist 95% Bondage receiver 94% Primal (Hunter) 94% Switch 91% Exhibitionist 88% Voyeur 87% Submissive 84% Brat 78% masochist 82% Dominant 77% Owner

Myself puuursonally, I am not much of a 'pain wh0re' <grin> but am very adept at providing it ;) I am fairly involved in winnipeg's kink community and know a number of impact fanatics ;) it fascinates me, but not my thing hehe I very much enjoy breath play (giving/receiving), shibari (g/r).. I have very few avtual taboos... and welcome any/all questions inquiries and discussions.. as most who have met me, find me wonderfully open and candid ;) and yes, this definitely needs to be brought back to life ;)

...what is it you are looking for/offering Luna? puuurhaps if we knew.. ;)

This thread needs to be brought back to life! I'm personally a big fan of pain, is anyone else with me? I like it all but impact play makes my heart race like nothing else. :)

These quizzes are so much fun! :) Not too many surprises though! I like pain and being tied up...

How do I make my partner understand That I need him to be my Master,I need to serve him and I need advice as to how he can train to be MASTER and I'm his Slave