a shower together is a great idea, surely to god all men should have a shower before they see their sp. i like getting showered up, a little balm put on after a very close shave so mouth and chin are smooth as a baby's butt...very good for dfk..and excellent for daty...plus a nice close clean shave in the other area, is great for the sp's who likes it that way as well..clean smelling and no hair to get in the way! it is a date we are going on..so dress nice...smell nice..you can treated very well