Last time I checked, most ladies have a tendancy to recoil from this kind of intention. Not because of the desire itself, dancers enjoy being wanted, but the "bang" statement is quite telling. I would gently suggest a slight change in your approach and I think you would have a far better chance at achieving your quest. Thought this YouTube sums it up nicely. Just MHO...
Catherine
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVcouoRqNBA&feature=related