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I read these threads every so often and question why I even do this job. I do my best to mitigate my risk and hope that my clients do the same, and it disturbs me that some have so little interest in protecting my health. As an SP I do not want to see clients that engage in BBFS with anyone but their SO. I realize they have wives they most likely are fluid bonded too but to engage in BBFS with others is a greater risk than I want to take. I don't think it's fair for a client to make a judgement call that xyz SP is okay because "she only does this with me" and then to put me at risk by engaging in any services with me without letting me know about their high risk lifestyle. I do not wish to engage in BBBJ's with those clients, DATY, LFK, DFK, heck I don't even want to GAD (Greet at Door!) because it's just too risky for me. I know my fellow SP's and many are very professional and I would highly recommend them, I have even had the good fortune to work closely with a few and enjoyed every minute of it. I have also had the misfortune of meeting some that are far from professional and I would definitely not trust with my health. Sadly because we all see the same clients I am to some degree trusting them with my health, because I am trusting you the client with it. So I must trust you the client to be vigilant with using protection and that means using a condom for FS. Since the most likely way an STD is going to be transferred to a male is via intercourse, vaginal or anal, I trust that you use them in order to help to protect me. I don't trust you to use your judgement to determine which ladies are okay to use BBFS with and which are not. Not only are you at a disadvantage when trying to make a decision like that about an SP as you are looking at marketing not the actual girl, so you have no idea if she is a drug user, if she has a SO, if she leads a high risk lifestyle, etc. but plain and simple when in a state of arousal people make bad judgement calls and looking at a girls website is meant to arouse you so you. So forgive me if I don't trust your judgement and don't trust all the ladies in this industry either. Oh and to illustrate the point of why you should not trust the girls here's a little adventure I had last week. I went to the Hassle Free Clinic in Toronto for my reg. appt as that's where I get my blood work done. They have a special womens clinic hours and drop in times along with appointments for the HIV testing. I checked in for my appt. and then sat down near the sign in window. A young girl walks in and I hear her asking for a pelvic and oral swab, she thinks she has an infection. Her throat is white and more important she says it burns when she pee's and she's had some spotting. They say to take a seat and she'll be seen soon. She sits down across from me and in about 5min her phone rings, she answers the call and I don't really hear much I'm playing a game on my phone. Then I hear the words "yes it's $140 for the half" and my ears perk up, I know what that call is about. I can't help myself and I eavesdrop a bit, she actually books the call for later that night, one hour at his downtown hotel. I pretend to have not been paying attention and keep playing my game. They come in and call my name and just as I get up I grab my purse and take a good long look at her face. I smile at her and she returns the friendly smile, I have not seen her face before in person or in a picture. She is pretty and young, I have no idea who she is but I do know I hope I never meet her and that my clients do not as well. She went to work that night even though it takes a week for the STD test results and she was sure that she had contracted one. I mitigate my risk, I hope my clients do the same but I am sure many do not. It is always best to err on the side of caution and get yourself tested regularly, and encourage others to do so. Oh and please guys don't put your SP at risk either, we offer services like BBBJ's assuming that you are not engaging in BBFS with those that are high risk, if you are then by all means please let us know. I have two clients that have the courtesy to let me know they indulge in higher risk activities so we keep all things safe and despite what you may think they actually get great 'mileage'. Yes it's 100% safe (which is what they were looking for) but I trust them a great deal as they are so honest and forthcoming with me so we indulge in some very different activities that I normally would not offer as they were so forthcoming about being fluid bonded with a couple other women.