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April 01:

This has probably been done before but I've found lately that I only run into a handful of clients that choose to use a different name other than their own. Then I pause and think...well its not like I'm checking ID, could John really be a Dave etc...? Obviously the ladies rarely if ever give their real names. The hobbiests know this and generally names don't play such a huge role in the game with us anyway....but for some strange reason I'm taken back slightly when a regular client that I've know for months as a '___insert stage name__' is actually a '___insert real name___' so my question is, Gents: how many use stage names and how many want the glory of hearing us SPs scream your *real* names while you're having your ways with us? lol obviously no one has to out themselves as having a fake name being used here in PMs etc and can just post their opinions or potential devils-advocate views on the subject

I don't see the need for a fake name, but I have nothing to hide either. I would imagine in some cases you may want to be as secret as possible - guy might be overly paranoid that a SP might shout his name out in public if they ran into each other, or it's part of the thrill to "be" somebody else. Maybe 'Perry' has always found his name unappealing, so for an hour he can be 'Roch' the sexy fuck machine instead. Personally, I don't care much for my own name but I use it willingly, nothing to be afraid of. I don't like it being used during sex EVER. You can call me baby, honey, sweetie, cutie, dude, pussymaster....whatever, just don't throw my name out there. I always hated the thought of it with SO's but never had to deal with it. But I had a SP one time ask me all embarrassed on her 4th or 5th visit what my name was while we were chatting. I didn't take offence that she didn't know it at all, but when she used it during sex....I told her not to do that ever again! I don't know why it bugs me so much, I think it's a bit fake to begin with because me or my SO's never called each other by our names ever anyways. And in that situation where it was obvious it was being thrown in as an 'added bonus', it made everything seem contrived. So take note of that girls, don't use my name! I would rather be told to 'lick the dirty fucking toejam from between my nails you dirty fucking piece of shit' than hear "Oh, Perry!" And that's saying something since I'm not into the being abused thing, nor is my name Perry...

Excellent witty post Wrinkled. I couldn't agree more with this particular point above the most. I remembered when I started working under the name Chantilly before becoming Annessa I had a hard time relating to a new name other than my own.....I also felt a strange pang of guilt from feeling like a phoney...getting used to a new name is like being two different people at first. Now I can do that successfully as I even turn around when someone calls out "Vanessa!" to a girl across the street, lol....however the only difference between my two "lives" is the name. you can change a name but you can't change the person, lol i always wondered how similarily it must feel for a guy who uses a false name to feel in the moment. are they truly enjoying it knowing that they aren't completely being themselves? I've had one regular eventually say (names changed to protect the innocent, hehe) "you know what...just call me Derek" he had realized that a friendship had grown and felt silly having to hide the most important aspect of himself to me was I surprised? yup. was I happy that he had been open with me? oh definitely! I guess the real topic of this thread should have been "why do some hobbiests use false names?" instead of a poll :-P

When the girl screams "Oh Capitalman!" it's really weird.

I've always used my real first name for incall appointments and if I've been entertaining a lady at my hotel while travelling on business, my full real name is used for registration. In some cities, I've had to produce proper identification for SPs over the years as well. Besides, I find that trying to keep fictitious names straight in my head is a pain. It's hard enough to keep track of all the SPs names especially when they are changed frequently. "Elvis"

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