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Ever since becoming a member I have noticed more and more hobbiests that do not write recommendations. I have heard numerous excuses as to why they don't write them, and I heard a new one today so it prompted me to post this to see what others think. Excuses (in the order I have heard them): Negative Reco: This one I completely understand, if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything. SP has a Do Not Review policy: Also completely understandable, no reco should be written if the SP doesn't want one done. I Don't Write Recos: Somewhat understand that some people don't want to make it known that they are seeing SPs, but you are a member of an Escort Recommendation board, so most people here assume you are a hobbiest and seeing SPs. So write the reco to show the SP you had a good time and show your appreciation. (The other thing I find funny is some hobbiests that recommend an SP to me and say they had an awesome time but they don't write recommendations will then turn around and write one for another SP a week later.) She's not my normal body type: (e.g. I had an awesome time but I normally see spinners and she wasn't a spinner so I am not gonna write a reco.) Is there a law that says you can't see SPs with varying body types, hair color, eye color, etc.? Are you afraid other hobbiests are going to make fun of you if you didn't choose the head cheerleader as your SP? If you have a great time, let people know, and let her know. How do you think this makes an SP feel if you tell them you have a wonderful time and you repeat with them but you won't do a reco and yet you do them for other girls? I don't want her to become too popular if people like my reco: Crazy reason, if you don't write recos and she doesn't get business she won't be around for you to see. I told an SP I love her, so I don't want her to know I see others: She is probably is hesitant to believe you when you say you love her. I'm sure there are lots of hobbiests that tell SPs that they love them. I see the word throw around some as if it means nothing, so I'm sure SPs are very cautious to believe when the word is thrown out. They are going to be very careful and will know that you are still seeing other SPs whether you write a reco for them or not. I don't have the time to write a reco: It takes a whole 5 minutes to write a reco, you don't have to go into detail if you don't want to. It's easy to say you saw her and had a great time and show her you appreciated it. If you have the time to spend an hour or more with an SP, I'm sure you have the time to spend 5 minutes to write a reco. The Latest one: I can't write a reco because an SP I see will get mad if I write them for others: This one threw me for a loop. Do SPs really get mad if one of their regulars writes a review for another SP? I'm pretty sure most SPs know that hobbiests will see more than one SP. Most hobbiests like variety. Yes there are those that choose a regular SP but they will still seek variety from time to time. Do the SPs that get mad give you worse service if you write a reco for another SP or do they stop seeing you? Is this the new way to catfight with other SPs without being open about it, just make sure your hobbiests only write recos for you? I'm sure these are just a few of the excuses people have heard. Just thought it was an interesting topic and figured others might have more insight or more excuses to share. Closing thought: Show your appreciation to the SPs and write a reco, it only takes a few minutes, and they will really appreciate that you did.

Good Morning everyone, I'm Pete...I'm an sex addict:shock:...I love women, they are so generous to give their souls,their hearts,their time, and of course their love to us gentlemen. I have done,completed numerous recommendations on lovely ladies that I've encountered over my time here. Some ladies asked not to be reviewed, some said please do, while there has only been a few where I did not write a rec simply that there was no chemistry or simply put not a good date. On the most part 99.9%, over my time I have shared my thoughts,feelings, my personal views of my closed door events with special ladies, while other's (hobbiest) have stated nothing. I have also shared my personal views through pm's with well known hobbiest that have also shared their wealth of information. Afterall that is what it is all about, sharing, giving and keeping these specials ladies busy so they can also enjoy their time and life with us lucky men. I like to finish by thanking Cumquat for producing this thread, it is about time that something was said about this topic. Pete, not your sex addict, but a man that loves ladies!

For the most part, I try to post shortly after the encounter. There have been some situations where I did not post right away but I do try to follow up within a few days. I've been fortunate that most of my experiences have been worthy of a positive recommendation and future visits. Also, the style, level of detail about the encounter is always as per the lady's comfort level. I typically do not mention details like tattoos, piercings, stretch marks or anything so personal. Most always preface with YMMV. Now I also have seen ladies while they were not officially working (not officially posting an ad) but still available to a few clients. In these cases, while I did have a great time, I did not post nor will I post unless the lady says it is OK to post. If a lady is not advertising and recommendations start showing up people will get accused of shilling, showing favoritism and create drama. I don't need this. This also goes back to respecting privacy and being discrete.

There are men that don't like it???

I think sometimes guys are too free with what they post on this board. IF (and I've never seen her so don't know) this girl is high mileage in the CR, posting that here will end everyone's fun in a hurry. PM for this type of info is what guys should be doing. Guys post about stuff in CR or getting laid at a MP and then wonder why the girl is gone or arrested ......... discretion is a good thing in the hobby. It makes things a lot more fun and less dangerous for all involved. Please think before posting and help protect the girls who make our life more fun.

hmm. I almost forgot about my first attempt at escorting but a couple posters brought it up about a girl not being ready/right for the biz. I actually answered and ad for a guy looking for a mistress when I was in my early 20's and I was trying to figure out a way to pay for my post-grad education. I met him in his fancy penthouse appt in Yorkville area and ended up giving him just a massage and he paid me. No sex. He was compassionate enough to realize I wasn't ready.. I was very nervous. Months or maybe a year later when I went for an interview with an escort agency they put me to work before I really had time to think about it. I was very very nervous.. but after my first night and 3 appts later.. I was hooked. I obviously got less nervous as time went on.. then after some time the same guy who had had the mistress ad booked me and I was by then a pro.. we had a good laugh over the original time we met. But yes.. what started me in the business was financial interest. I needed to pay for school. OSAP maxed and waitressing etc was too much for me. Escorting provided the perfect part-time job with a full-time income.