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I require a deposit from first-time clients at the time of booking the engagement. I was a bit nervous about what might happen when I implemented this, but I was also very tired of having my time wasted. I book 1.5 hours for first visits, and I leave a minimum of 1.5 hours between appointments. When someone doesn't show up for a meeting, I can lose half a day or more. What I've found is that not only has this eliminated the ones who book and don't bother to call to cancel the appointment, but since my schedule is more stable, it's easier to book my returning clients. The net result is that because I'm actually working the hours I set, I'm earning more money more consistently than before I began this policy I've been fascinated to notice that, when someone complains about paying the deposit, they also tend to complain that my fees are too high, that my service may not be worth what I charge, and that they can get equivalent service from someone else at a third of the price. A couple of them have stated that I should be deeply relieved that they asked for an appointment in this difficult economy and (of course) I should be offering much more with fewer restrictions at a lower fee. I had an exchange with one man last week who wrote a very snippy e-mail to me, warning that, since there was no guarantee that I wouldn't run off with his $100 deposit, I should be aware that he was ready to spend a couple of hours writing nasty reviews on the boards about my thievery if there was any problem. Curiously, he didn't seem to understand why I declined the opportunity to entertain him. He said I was being ungrateful. Imagine that. :-o

Alright, here's to my first recommendation on the board! I was surfing CERB looking for a pit stop on my way to Toronto from Ottawa. After so many profiles in so many cities, I stopped on CherryKiss in Belleville. After a look on her website, I've contacted her via MSN as instructed. We booked, talked on the phone to confirm and on the road I went. The place was easy to find in a quiet neighbourhood. Knocked on the door and this good looking natural red head opened up. After the proper greetings, we proceeded to the "office". She was wearing that cute little skirt that is portrayed on her album. As she went up the stairs, I couldn't help but to peek at her ass and noticed that she wasn't wearing any panties. She saw me peeking, so she stopped and leaned forward. I got an instant hard on! That beautiful image is burnt in my brain forever! Once in the "office", we introduced ourselves a bit better with some LFK and DFK and she slowly undressed me. As I layed on my back, she gave me a BBBJ that was straight out from the best porn movies I ever saw! It was deep, It was wet, It was sloppy and oh so good Then, slipped on a condom, and this cowgirl was riding! Did I mentionned how tight she was? Ok, back to reality, CherryKiss is a very nice girl, very chatty and happy. She's very picky about her customers and respects her neighbourhood by seeing a very limited amount of customers per day. I felt like an old friend that stopped by for a little action! And she's not a clockwatcher. If you like cherries, this is the place to be, It's all about cherries, smells, candles, lip baulm etc... I surely will repeat this experience each time I'll be the area. The damage is minimal vs. the quality of the experience. I surely recommend it if you go by. I had a smile on my face for the rest of my trip to Toronto :-D

Ever since becoming a member I have noticed more and more hobbiests that do not write recommendations. I have heard numerous excuses as to why they don't write them, and I heard a new one today so it prompted me to post this to see what others think. Excuses (in the order I have heard them): Negative Reco: This one I completely understand, if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything. SP has a Do Not Review policy: Also completely understandable, no reco should be written if the SP doesn't want one done. I Don't Write Recos: Somewhat understand that some people don't want to make it known that they are seeing SPs, but you are a member of an Escort Recommendation board, so most people here assume you are a hobbiest and seeing SPs. So write the reco to show the SP you had a good time and show your appreciation. (The other thing I find funny is some hobbiests that recommend an SP to me and say they had an awesome time but they don't write recommendations will then turn around and write one for another SP a week later.) She's not my normal body type: (e.g. I had an awesome time but I normally see spinners and she wasn't a spinner so I am not gonna write a reco.) Is there a law that says you can't see SPs with varying body types, hair color, eye color, etc.? Are you afraid other hobbiests are going to make fun of you if you didn't choose the head cheerleader as your SP? If you have a great time, let people know, and let her know. How do you think this makes an SP feel if you tell them you have a wonderful time and you repeat with them but you won't do a reco and yet you do them for other girls? I don't want her to become too popular if people like my reco: Crazy reason, if you don't write recos and she doesn't get business she won't be around for you to see. I told an SP I love her, so I don't want her to know I see others: She is probably is hesitant to believe you when you say you love her. I'm sure there are lots of hobbiests that tell SPs that they love them. I see the word throw around some as if it means nothing, so I'm sure SPs are very cautious to believe when the word is thrown out. They are going to be very careful and will know that you are still seeing other SPs whether you write a reco for them or not. I don't have the time to write a reco: It takes a whole 5 minutes to write a reco, you don't have to go into detail if you don't want to. It's easy to say you saw her and had a great time and show her you appreciated it. If you have the time to spend an hour or more with an SP, I'm sure you have the time to spend 5 minutes to write a reco. The Latest one: I can't write a reco because an SP I see will get mad if I write them for others: This one threw me for a loop. Do SPs really get mad if one of their regulars writes a review for another SP? I'm pretty sure most SPs know that hobbiests will see more than one SP. Most hobbiests like variety. Yes there are those that choose a regular SP but they will still seek variety from time to time. Do the SPs that get mad give you worse service if you write a reco for another SP or do they stop seeing you? Is this the new way to catfight with other SPs without being open about it, just make sure your hobbiests only write recos for you? I'm sure these are just a few of the excuses people have heard. Just thought it was an interesting topic and figured others might have more insight or more excuses to share. Closing thought: Show your appreciation to the SPs and write a reco, it only takes a few minutes, and they will really appreciate that you did.

Maybe I'm just overly confused, as it happens from time to time, but... I really don't get these reputation points. I lose "reputation" because someone "disagrees" with something I said/ an opinion I had? ...Maybe I'm missing how these are helpful?

No but I'm sure they boot people for B&S and shill and such.

Did someone say Boinking :grin::mrgreen::lol: OK by me. 3 cheers for Boinking ;-)

Shouldn't we be booting these people from the site rather than removing reputation points?

Except for safety issues and good recommendations... How about everybody just not believe anything they hear about anybody here. OK... now can we end the paranoia, gossip, bullshit, and other crap and get back to the business of <grin> boinking?

The rising tied raises all ships, the more we write the more ladies get praised the more they make the higher the profile for the board the more ladies will come on and promote and the more people who will turn to the board for information etc... etc.... etc... The opposite is also true if we try to discourage individuals from writing by punishing them for there admissions than the board will become useless cyberspace. It only takes one bad apple, if we join together to keep this a safe place by calling out the bad apples than the board can flourish and get better. These bad apples will not simple pick on one person and then decide that they have had there fun and never return, they will continue to peck and when they are gone more will come to peck we need to keep vigilant and make a stand to not put up with it, if someone sends you something fishy out of context or hurtful pass it on to the mod who can deal with it appropriately. Have a look at the sad state affairs we are in, reviews are far and few between, chat is basically imploded, people are afraid to say anything because of a few people, lets get it straightened out.

Naomi, best of luck in your adventure. And, sorry for the unsolicited advice, but you WILL be offered big $$$$$'s for BBFS - know your policies before hand and resolutely stick to them. What price for your health/life? Play safe - always! Assume that everyone you meet will be great, but will also be playing for their own advantage - allow NO EXCEPTIONS.

We are all newbies at something at some point in time. Please contribute. Do not try to keep these gals to yourself because that really does not make sense. They have their lives away from this work just like we have lives away from this hobby. No one can possibly justify "keeping her all to myself" - I think that would be marriage, which by the way, most of us are escaping in some fashion by visiting these ladies. If the experience was worthy, take the time to give a little back and above all, everyone has feelings and emotions, be respectful. We're here for a good time, not a long time.

Normally I am not the type to share something like this, however the cerb community has been a large catalyst in me taking a step into this hobby (Thank you farmboy and AlexTrebeck!) So in the spirit of giving back, and with Mandalay?s encouragement (she agreed not to mention anything publicly about our time together, and left it solely to my discretion), I offer my story of meeting with the lovely Mandalay. Take it with a caveat when I say that Mandalay was the best SP I've ever seen, because she is the only SP I've ever seen. Now however, after my overwhelmingly positive experience, there is a good chance that will change. Mandalay provided the exact type of experience I was looking for. Of course someone looking for a different experience (such as just a quick release) may not agree, but different strokes for different folks, and YMMV, right? You?ve probably noticed that I didn?t tick any boxes in the ?search tags? category of the recommendation. A good way to put it is that the best of what she provides has nothing to do with all the acronyms. All I can offer is a review of our all-to-brief time together. I hope that if you are like I was, considering ?taking-the-plunge?, but nervous and a little intimidated by it, and you want to be stimulated intellectually and emotionally as well as physically, then I strongly encourage you to consider Mandalay. She is not for everybody, and everybody is not for her. If you have appropriate expectations, she will more than fulfill them. Yes, the information requested on her website form is somewhat intimidating. And one of the things that we discussed is data destruction vs data deletion. Mandalay has assured me that she takes this very seriously and I have no reason to doubt her. On with the story? I booked a room with a hot tub, checked in early, showered and prepped and then waited, trying to read the paper but unable to concentrate. I had some vague plans for the evening but I allowed flexibility to be spontaneous and have fun. And truth be told, to also allow me to exit gracefully if things weren't going well ? remember, this was my first time. She arrived on time (ok, 3 min. 23 sec. past, but this was during rush hour? and she called? and who?s counting anyway) She knocks, I take a deep breath, and nervously I open the door and she did NOT throw herself upon me kissing me with wild abandon. This was starting off well! She is a beautiful woman with very pretty features. I felt an immediate attraction. Her face could definitely compete for attention with her awesome cleavage! Now, she is a real woman with real curves and painfully shy about her stomach (no matter how much I reassured her that I did not expect nor want a barbie.) Read her age, height and weight and you will know what to expect. I did not look at her website pics before hand, other than the publicly available ones, because the anticipation was a big part of my experience and I chose to be surprised (not the wisest move, I know, but it worked out for me.) Now that I?ve seen her website pictures, I find her to be prettier in person - she smiles a lot more than the pics show, and she just lights up when she does. So after she enters the room and we have brief introductions and she produces a very nice bottle of red wine (nice, reasonably priced California Cab. Sauv., for what it?s worth). I was a little worried when she says on her website that she brings wine. What if she brings white zin? Will I have to choke it down just to be polite? Or, god-forbid, hochtaler or black tower? :shock: Not to worry, the lady knows her wine and now I know that she has some great bottles in her ?cellar? (Hmmmm? how many times will I have to repeat for her to bring the chateauneuf-du-pape?) It was a good wine - great touch. And she brings fruit too ? how cute is that?! We had a couple of glasses (something I desperately needed to calm my nerves) and started into some very pleasant get-to-know-you conversation. There was most definitely a connection of the mind, and my level of arousal steadily increased. This was going to be fun! She tried to provide some music but alas, she was missing a component. I tried to assure her that no worries, but she insisted and well, we had the flexibility. Thus began our epic quest. In the end she was definitely right; the music added to the entire experience. It not only confirmed that we had the same taste in music, but great tunes can definitely get a body moving! So we ended up having fun enjoying each other?s company in the cab with some unplanned shopping. At this point I have to say that I felt just the right level of PDAs. She understood discretion, but she knew just what to do and when to do it to get me excited. Ah, that was truly the best way to taxi! Now that I think about it, a limo would?ve been well worth it... After our quest ended with a workaround success, we went for some brief entertainment (no, not to see strippers, that was someone else), followed by some planned shopping. Normally I hate shopping, but man, this was fun! Once we had purchased a couple of nice things it was off to dinner. We had a private room (and more) in a place that offered us complete privacy amongst other things. A couple of cocktails and a selection of appetizers later and we were taking our flirting to a whole new level ? let?s just say that I?m pretty sure some of what happened couldn?t be called ?flirting? anymore! Whoever thought that ?wet?n?dirty? martinis could be so sexy! Sorry I can?t share details, but there were a lot of laughs and a lot of great ?moments? to remember. We then go back to the hotel and proceed to give in to the feelings that had been building throughout the evening. What a great time! Her enjoyment of giving oral is obvious and genuine. Fine skills and interested in learning. Except for one rookie mistake, which ended up being absolutely hilarious and a memory that I will treasure forever! Thank god no one got hurt! :razz: Now speaking of oral, I have to say that it is no idle boast when she mentions on her website about how good she smells and tastes. If you are a fan of DATY, this alone is worth the price of admission. If you are not a fan of DATY, Mandalay could very well change your mind! Up close and personal, she is exquisite. It is hard to describe (especially for someone like me with limited experience) but it is very mild and slightly sweet, minty even! I have a very acute sense of smell and I assure you she is absolutely wonderful. She was very good at directing me in pleasuring her, and I truly enjoyed bringing her to orgasm. And yes, it was real. Physiologically there is no way that I know of to fake that. I am a guy who loves to please and it was very special to me. We continued to have fun for a while until I had my most volumous release ever! Allow me to boast a little and say that it was porn star quality! :-o This was undoubtedly due to the extended foreplay and genuine attraction (not to mention the huge aching balls I had by then!) We cleaned up and spent the remainder of our time chatting, cuddling and learning new things in the hot tub. I learned a little more about female psychology and sexuality ? Mandalay learned that a full container of bubble bath combined with hot tub jets makes it very difficult to find each other, even in a two person hot tub! Foamy hilarity ensued! Had we accidentally fallen asleep, I?m sure that the entire room would?ve been filled with foam. So ends my play-by-play. As an epilogue there are a few things worth mentioning. None of this is meant in a negative way and if you feel any kind of ?well she shoulda ?? or ?I paid for?? then Mandalay is probably not your kind of SP and you are probably not her kind of client. I offer the following only as guidance. If you are looking for something specific, be up front about it and know that it may require gentle reminders. She took great interest in what my favorite position is, but we have yet to fulfill it, only because I didn?t bring it up. Now I will have to book another session, so maybe it is just her good business sense! Also, Mandalay is very sexually aware and her orgasms are very real and intense, this is most definitely a good thing, but there is a flip side; that being she can become exhausted after multiple orgasms. Now, I am not exactly a young guy (not old either) so for me MSOG is not that big a deal. (Although I was so turned on, I may have been able to try for a personal best? remember my boast earlier in the story? There was plenty more where that came from!) I?m pretty sure that it is not her ?policy?, it is just that she was physically spent. Again, my lesson learned: communicate, communicate, communicate. I now have a better understanding of the girlfriend experience. I truly enjoyed the fantasy of a beautiful girlfriend on the most fun date in the world! It took me a long time to do this, and there was much trepidation, but it was well worth it. So is Mandalay right for you? She is very personable, beautiful and easy to get along with. She is very good at putting you at ease. But if you do arrange a meeting, take your time, don't be cheap, be gentle, and above all treat her with the utmost respect and you will experience a girlfriend like no other. Oh, and for you newbies, make sure you read the cerb section for you ? it answers a lot of questions. Feel free to PM me with any questions, taunts or flames you may have. Post script: Before I had the chance to write this, I saw Mandalay again (it was an unplanned, last minute ?the opportunity comes up? kinda thing.) Not only did she remember, and bring, a bottle of my favorite wine that I had mentioned, but a few other favorites were satisfied as well. Actually, I experienced positions that I didn?t even know existed! :twisted: I didn?t think it could get any better ? I was wrong. This lady is SPECIAL, if you see her, treat her that way!

As taken from my website; "...and lush lips that are currently adorned with a single lip ring." Some of us ladies do put a lot of work into our websites and put valuable information about contacting us and such on them.. I really appreciate clients who take the time to read a little bit of my site so that I don't have to waste time answering questions already answered and such. Nai xx