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For the first time in this new career (just one month), I have had a very bad experience. So much, in fact, I had to take hours out of my day to let this client know how much his behaviour affected me on a personal level and with the hopes of making sure his mistakes with me would never be repeated with another service provider. Hi XXXXX, I thought I would take the time to write you an in-depth explanation as to why I can never see you again. I'm not sure you recall everything that happened XXXXXXXX night because you had much alcohol to drink, but a part of why I am writing is also as a therapeutic exercise to myself. Although I didn't show how upset I was (to my regret), I cried as I drove home after seeing you. On my website, I have a very clearly written list of rules/etiquette that you reassured me you had read beforehand in full. I'm not sure if you fully recall, but last night you broke and/or attempted to break 7 of these rules/etiquette that were listed on my website. http://www.mandalaybaylover.com/Etiquette.html The most upsetting rule to me personally was to ask me to have sex with you without a condom. I know you are a husband/father and would never intentionally do anything to jeopardize your family's health and well-being ... but what you requested of me (having sex without a condom) is the worst possible faux pas you could have with an escort and the worst thing you could do to your family. I realize you had much alcohol to drink, but that request could have resulted in you bringing home a deadly STD that could have killed your wife - the mother of your children - and devastated your entire family and life. My words are harsh, I know, but need to be spoken. I was honoured that you opened up to me and showed me photographs of your beautiful wife and adorable children. I also feel you need to be reminded of the possible exposure/devastation you could have brought to the ones you love. I am a very responsible escort and care very deeply about my own health and also your own. If I may kindly ask you to do some reflection on your actions while under the influence of alcohol please do so, if only for the well-being of your beautiful family. As you pleaded and begged with me to have sex without a condom, I kept seeing your beautiful wife's face in my head as well as the adorable faces of your children. I also saw my own children's faces as well as the gentleman who is the love of my life. No amount of money is worth risking the health and the future of the people I love most dearly. No amount of physical pleasure/release is worth your own family's health and well-being. I know you are a good man deep down inside. Please do not accept these words with anger and take a moment to re-read and realize that I am writing these words out of kindness and a personal need to pass along an important message to you. Please be careful and if alcohol takes you to a place where you are unable to make responsible decisions (such as having sex without a condom), perhaps it is time to re-evaluate the importance of alcohol to your life. There is no need to respond, apologize or say anything other than accepting my words without anger or judgement. I am not a perfect person and most women in my position would simply never call you again. I hope you can appreciate my courage and concern in taking the time to write this very difficult letter to you. Warmly, Mandalay

@Capitalman I Love It!

My opinion on rec's is that love reading and writing them. I get a pretty good idea of what type personality the lady has, by reading about the hobbiest's experience. The more detailed the better. There are usually key indicators in the stories that turn me on and make want to seek out an appointment with that lady. I read any and every review I find and do a thorough search of posts about or from the provider. Again this gives gives me background on the way she thinks, her sense of humor, seriousness about safety issues, sensuality etc... I guess you can say I do my homework before making my appointment. I always ask a provider if she would approve of me writing a rec and if she didn't mind if it was detailed. Of course I would never write one without permission or if it was a negative review. The Hun

Why would you want to see that? I ask this sincerely because I really don't understand. I also don't understand when guys send me close-up pics of their genitalia. I can only be interested in the whole package -- so much so that even a full face or full body pic wouldn't influence my feelings, unless I had some insight into a person's heart and intellect also. To me, this is like saying you'd like to see a pic of the fan belt before buying the car. It's just a part.

I will generally respond to such queries, but if I've had a number of similar queries that day, I will refer you to my site. It's annoying to answer those emails when that information is clearly laid out on your site (in terms of rates) and in reviews (in terms of location, services offered, etc). A little research can go a long way. I also don't like discussing services, it takes the fun out of the actual appointment (if it happens). As well, I prefer messages from gents who sound as though they actually want to see me and they aren't just messaging every SP on CERB looking for the best rate.

You could use innuendo, allegories or have her pre-read the recommendation. I know how you feel though as I'm the same way. My time with my special someone is my special time with her. That is why my (limited) recommendations are quite 'tame'.

There is always one loudmouth attempting to crack jokes and get some laughter going (no not me).:lol: If you try flipping through a magazine, you can hear some interesting conversations around you. It is interesting to watch the look on people's faces as they go in for an examination and how they react as they come out. There always seems to be one couple hell bent on making out in the waiting area. Probably not the best place to whip out your mobile device and start surfing CERB but I seem to remember Kyra_to telling a story of a girl at a clinic in Toronto, waiting for an exam, and making a booking for later that night. OK- so I'm having a bit of fun with a serious topic. Bottom line, regular testing is a good thing people, whether or not you have breakfast with dummpy.:-)

If you only knew what the real weights of these girls are...5ft10 and 120 lbs seems skinny to me. 5ft5 and 120 is still a very thin girl I would think.