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I went to one of the MP`s awhile back in the summer I think. I booked a one hour session with one of my favorite ladies in the hot tub. We started talking about this and that and just hung out and chatted for the whole session till the knock on the door came. Now I`m kind of a horndog and love my sex but this was something different for me. I had a wonderful time with her and the sex didn`t matter. I didn`t have a problem with the tip and we both left happy. I`m wondering if this is a common thing that happens in this hobby. This is the first time that I`ve done that. is it because I`m getting old or maybe I`m just lonely. I`m not complaining but am curious as to how many others have done the same thing. I think maybe there`s more to being a service provider than sex. Cool PJ

I used to teach a first year undergraduate course (full of very young noisy engineering boys, 18-19 year olds), and while I was in a popular strip bar sitting next to the stage under the influence of wine and quietly adhoring the lady on the stage, I suddenly realized that 4 of my (noisiest) students in that course sitting there as well and pointing fingers at me and laughing:oops:. Needless to say it was very embarrasing and apparently they spread the word all over as I had real hard time controlling that classroom thereafter. Fortunately it was a term position (a one year position to fill up another who was on sabbatical leave). I never taught after that anywhere. They (18 year old engineering guys) didn't realize that I work hard and I am entitled to my fun time outside classrooms and off my working hours too. The embarassments were not limited to SCs at that time. I was going to night clubs (discos) too and I frequently encountered my (shocked to see me) students in those places too. I was only 30 years old then (hardly older than my graduate students). These personal (embarrassing) experiences taught me a lesson too. It has happened quite a few times over the past years that I have seen a lady dancer or escort in a public place (shopping mall, store, etc.) that I have known for long time and I always choose to pretent that I didn't know her (especially if she was with someone). I politely said hi, if and only if she initiated first (and I would advise same for everyone).

Hey Kiltman - I don't want you getting all the attention from the ladies! I wear the kilt too. But not every day, as I ride a bike and the winter windchill can do nasty things to the organ that carries your vital bodily fluids! lol Assuming that you wear it as a "true" Scot! But, I agree that the kilt is otherweatherwise very comfortable. Air conditioning in the summer. D ps If any ladies in Halifax are interested in finding out what is worn under the kilt - pm me. The old joke is that "nothing's worn under the kilt, everything is in perfect working order."

Archer, I think you have a great point about traditional views on monogamy affecting how people view sex workers and their clients. It is something that has been discussed indirectly in other threads and is definitely due some attention! Buggernot- I feel like my thoughts are so similar to yours that they may not even need stating but I have some pretty strong feelings on this subject so I am adding my two cents anyway- though they may look very similar to your 2 cents... Personally, I have come to learn that we- as animals- are highly driven by sex, especially me! I recently watched a video (linked from here maybe?) that mentioned how bizarro it is for us to expect monogamy when in reality the only animal who has yet to prove this consistently with no exceptions is some weird worm that lives in the stomach of a fish, who fuses with it's mate shortly after birth and is then stuck for life... We are setting ourselves up for disappointment when we expect others and ourselves to remain faithful forever. It can be especially hard to handle when we are the ones being cheated on, not to say that guilt doesn't have it's fair share of emotional weight... Many women have been raised to be "good girls" with the idea that you save yourself for your one true love and then live happily ever after. Unfortunately for the good girls, simultaneously, there have also been enough "bad girls" to fulfil the naughty desires of their husbands... (and vice versa) Of course finding out that your one true love has sullied your happily ever after is a touch hard to deal with and strangely it is more natural to harbour bad feelings against the "bad girls" for being bad when in reality these good girls are simply displacing their own insecurities/fears/anger onto the sex worker/mistress/girlfriend/insert other bad girl type here to make themselves believe that their husband had no choice but to stray/be tempted/corrupted/ etc... Perhaps some of the problem also lies within the "bad-boy" syndrome- tell me I can't/shouldn't have something and it only makes me want it more... In order to change this harbouring of negative feelings against sex workers and bad girls/boys in general it is important for couples to communicate about what is expected vs. what is actually going to happen even if that is something that neither of them wants at the time of the initial topic discussion. A friend I met on vacation recently told me how his gf made sure he brought condoms with him "just in case" and then told him to have fun! That is truly refreshing, and just the kind of mentality and acceptance that we all need to adopt in order to live happier and more peaceful lives without displacing our anger or insecurities on the lovers of our lovers. As soon as we stop lying to ourselves and each other we will stop all this negativity from being created to begin with, and then focus our energy on more fulfilling activities, like more sexy time for instance... ; )

well Buggernott, u beat me to the punch, as i finally have pc @ home. i know, i know, i'm a bit behind the times. as unfortunately my list will not include pictures, as i am a little electronically challenged. but here goes, in no particular order. From PK agency: Suri: at the time, very open-minded, a bit on the "different"side, but lots of fun, great service, enthusiastic. Brianna: beautiful, great service, a little on the quiet side. seen 2 times Jenna: gorgeous, great body, great oral. seen 3 times. Leah: tightest pussy ever. sexy, very shy until she gets to comfortable with u. seen about 8 times. will repeat eventually. Samantha: at first was unrestricted, amazing bbbj, and very fun and enthusiastic. has changed her restrictions a lot. seen 4 times. Vayda: wow! gorgeous face and body. great service. lots of fun. seen about 9 times. will see again at some point. Stella: a woman on a mission when she gets u on the bed. boosted my ego when she said i was an oral king! so much energy. only seen once as she only visits here. defenitely will try 2 see her again. From T2T: Chrystal: a little tall for me, but wow, excellent service, abslutely beautiful and fun! seen her 4 times, and will again Annabelle: curvy, but sexy. amazing oral. seen 2 times. From TOG: Maggie: fine, just ok. Vivian: great boobs, hot water bbbj outstanding. very tight. Celina: very fun, great service.From Addicted: Jessy: huge boobs, loves to fuck. seen 3 times. Alicia: top 3 favorites. amazing body, and face. service beyond great. we click and talk about everything. bbbj to die for!! seen about 20 times, and plan on another 20 lolNow for the non agenciesMaggie( from Connie and Maggie): the best asian in town! seen her from the beggining, years ago. miss her when she leaves, happy when she comes back. excellent service, beautiful and sexy, goes the extra mile to make u happy. does things 4 me she doen't do for others. if i didn't like variety so much, would have never seen anyone else.lol. seen her at least 25 times this year. maybe more times next year. Marianna: used to love this girl, one of the sexiest around. think she quit the biz, or is under new name. seen her 10 times. would love to see her again.Sexy Brooke( Amy's friend): Best man made boobs in the city. sexy sexy girl. very responsive, amazing bbbj and service. seen her 6 times, will again.Yaya: great body, fun girl, energetic. only onceLolita: lots of fun, too loud for apartment, lol, pretty, but not my type.Niaomi( asian): seen her once, was amazing, then dissapeared. if she came back, would kill to see her again.Annessa: there is only one!! was for some reason intimidated by her before meeting her. first time for me! all great after meeting her. totally amazing and mind blowing. seen her twice, but gonna try and change that in the new year. Annessa is the girl u would brag to all ur friends about being with if u could.Kate Dot: what can i say. true gfe. i didn't even realize i was with an sp at the time. she makes it feel like a rel gf. when i relized she wasn't my real gf, is when i got home, i was still happy, but sad that she was gone. be careful, she's easy to fall for.Now for asian mp's that i got fs from which 'do not work at locations anymore for different reasonsYummi: had seen her years ago when she was in house off Fisher, then opened her own places. incredibly sexy, great body. took me years to convince her to fs, but luckily paid off. was all i had hoped for and more. the best of all was at no charge. i talked to many hobbyests who had tried with her, and no one could. so i felt really blessed. then, unfortunately for those who follow mp's, she quit do to LE. so sad! sadly only the one timeBibi: also worked at same location,2nd best asian boobs! not very open-minded and a bit overpriced, but great fun. seen 10 timesMimi: the very best asian boobs. spoke no english, but loved sex. very vocal when receiving oral. same location as above. seen 9 times. would go see everyday if she came back.Nichole: from the Holland place that closed. great face and body. very responsive both with oral and sex. i think she liked more than i did!! Judy: a little heavy for asian girl, but loved having fun.Amy: not the hottest girl, but wow what energy and enthusiasm.Yoki: a little tall for me, hey i think i share Dumppy's problems!, but again loved to have fun.Jenny: from same place as Yummi, Bibi, Mimi, and Yoki. first girl to not want me to stop. total energizer bunny. did not give oral or kissed, but this girl almost drained of all bodily fluids and energy. she was insatiable.well there were a few more of the asian mp's that i saw that was no fs, but we''ll see what happens! Btw, Slurp, i may have to challenge u as to who is the biggest asian connoisseur!!! lol.now in conclusion, here are my top 3 in no order:Kate Dot: the girl u want to marryAnnessa: the girl u would brag to everyone aboutAlicia: she is the booty call friend u would love to havehoping to an even better year if finances and health permit.to Slurp: only Jasmin Thai i have not seen yet that is on my must do list. but the challenge is on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Agencies have fucked me over so many times. They treated me like a slave, some of them well known on this site, some not. I find great fun in being independent and yet, I have made the mistake of joining agency after agency, hoping I could find someone that would treat me like a human being and not an OBJECT. The societal objectification for women is already common enough, I don't want it to follow me into my career. Yes, I have to work a little harder and I have to scrutinize all my clients, but in the end... An independent woman is a happy woman :D