Well here it goes....
After much debate on posting this, I have decided too. I am apologizing upfront to anyone whom I have offended or put off with what I am about to write. For the respect of people that I have been in communication with I will NOT mention names.
I enjoy what i offer and the quality time that I spend with the select few that I do get a chance to visit with. I value my time and yours and ALWAYS try to be accomadating to whom ever I am going to visit with. Hence things do come up, delayed flights, traffic, hotel room not ready for check in, possibly your wife or SO coming home early, child sick or a work related issue.
I understand as yes I have another life outside of this situation as well. What I am upset about is the LACK of respect from said indiviudals. I prefer to arrange my visits via email and confirm over the phone, I enjoy getting to know who i may be visiting with and this system works for me ( I am sorry if it does not for you). Yes I screen my potential company and it is for my safety and yours. My door is not a revoloving door and I visit with a few gentlemen a week. I am not a pizza which you can order in 20mins or less. Please do not tell me my donations are too high or not the going rate that is really not your place to comment, so please keep it to your self.
I travel because I enjoy seeing all parts of Canada and enjoy the opportunity of all that life has to offer. When you prebook our engagement, and I email to confirm and with details to be told "im in Cuba for the remainder of the month" why would you wast my time, when you knew 2 weeks ago you would be going to cuba. When I visit I provide an expereince that is unique to me. I am NOT for everyone and everyone is NOT for me and I completely accept that. If I feel that I am not for you after a few brief emails I will always happily reccomend someone I know in the area if I am able to do so. I am not a clock watcher and always take my time to get to know who I am visiting with, so we can both be comfortable with one another.
I respect the fact that you have a life outside of our encounter, so please respect that the same goes for me. I entertain because I choose too and no, noone is making me do this.
I prefer to visit with mature gentlemen and that is my choice. You may prefer a blonde or a spinner, do I question your preference?
Why am I ranting on and on..... Yes CERB is an amazing community and there are ALOT of wonderful contributers out there, but due to the amount of recent lack of respect I feel it necessary to make this post.
I am not posting to offend anyone, but more to "OPEN the eyes of those offenders".