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I have had this happen in the past and in order to balance my mental check book I put it in the tithing column. I simply listed it as a charitable donation, listed the guest on my DNS list, put procedures in place to prevent it happening again and moved on. Do not take it personally, he would have done it anyone. Just don't waste another moment of your precious life giving it negative energy as that only hurts you and he is completely underserving of your energy, attention and time. cat

Hello!! I actually love all the activities you are looking for and they excite me very very much. And guess what, I have absolutely no tattoos! Plus I am extremely sensual. Soft Sensuality and Firey Passionate Kink can go very well together. That is why I say I am sweet and spicy! I think it can all make it just a little more fun and playful! And souldn't our encounters be about fun and play?? The most important thing is RESPECT. As long as we treat each other like equals and that there is some form of sensuality. It can't be mechanical.. It has to start with kissing and let the passion build up and the playtime begin. Anyhow, I cannot speak for others, but that is how I enjoy it! ;) Maria XXXX

I think if this was any other profession their would be some sort of legal action to this. But again I don't know what it's like to be a SP, so I don't really know what it feels like. I'm sorry this happened to you. Never happened to me but I think leaving a phone or something while you go to get the money is a great idea. I have actually had the opposite experience I was once with a SP, left more money then I thought I gave her and she told me about it. I was shocked, and that's when I relized the trust that you can build up with a SP is so important.

Do not be afraid to ask beforehand. Most guys know the drill and take the money out of their pocket before anything starts. Most times I go to sit down and they realize to put the money on the table. Other times I have said "Shall we take care of business before we get comfortable?" There has only been one time a guy actually said no and I told him it's my policy and that he was free to leave. He paid upfront. Even people who will seem genuine and respectable may try to pull the wool over your eyes. I'm not saying not to trust anyone however most SPs are always on guard. Business comes first and then the good part for them.

You should blacklist him...also not sure if you have access to the sp section but should let the ladies know who he is..if he's a cerb member and his email address is what we usually post and his number so it can't happen to another lady. he took advantage your your niceness and this isn't right. hugs to you, Emma

All this talk of spinners, BBW, rubenesque, curvy, etc women is getting me aroused. ;) Personnally, I find all (well almost all) women to be beautiful. Age, size, shape aren't realy that important. All women have great features (legs, breasts, eyes, hair, personality, smile, skin, laugh...) and it is their unique combination and uniqueness that is so appealing. I think it is important to be honest with your pictures and descriptions so as not to mislead anyone. If I am in the mood for a particular "type" that day, I don't want to be surprised by a different type when she opens the door, even though she may be exactly what I want on another day.

I don't think you can read too much into it. In some areas of the country, adding an extra charge to specific services (like bbbj or even adding GFE to FS sessions) is fairly common. What it does is allows the client to choose the service session, and I think you can be fairly confident that an sp is not offering the service unless she is agreeable to it. If she is not, the option will not be available (there are some non-GFE FS sps for example in some mps in Edmonton. The rate is lower than a GFE FS session. There are many clients who do not want GFE, and having the GFE as an add-on means that the FS only guy does not have to pay as much as the GFE FS guy, which is fair considering he is not getting the same menu as the GFE FS guy. An sp who starts out in this way may find she does the same kind of options wherever she works. The other reason described to me by someone who offers greek at an extra charge, is the additional 100 means that there are fewer takers. This means the # of greek included sessions are fewer than if she did not charge extra, meaning that her body is not undergoing that additional stress as often as it might be. Even someone who enjoys greek is not going to enjoy it 3 times a day 6 days a week, or at the very least that will be super hard on her body, and/or she will end up not being able to do it one day but she won't know ahead of time, which will upset the client. The same might be said for bbbjs. It increases the risk of her health, so an extra charge means that not every client is going to choose to have it, so in the end she won't be doing it every session every day.