Ottawaadventurer, I am with you on this one.
As time progresses, I find that some of the more memorable memories of past encounters have nothing to do with sex or even being naked. It is all about the time that teasingly leads up to the bedroom. There is nothing more enjoyable than being able to initially sit down on a sofa and chat over a drink and seduce or be seduced. Following into passionate kissing, touching, teasing, caressing and groping, fully clothed, for almost half of a 2 hour encounter.
An excellent courtesan is one who recognizes that an encounter is about satisfying both mind and body, sometimes more of the former.