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I just finished re-reading the excellent thread by JuliasUndies, "Let's talk about respect."... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=45633 ...and it made me think about something. This is a damned fine web site. I'll say it again. This is a damned fine web site. It's full of interesting people, men and women. It's a great meeting place rife with members who exhibit class, intelligence, grace, kindness, empathy, creativity. I imagine that it takes an incredible amount of time and effort to run this whole thing and I just wanted to thank everyone who is involved in the operations of it all. I don't know if it's one person or a team but here it is... Thank you. I appreciate what you've done here in the past and what you're doing here presently. Doc.

6 years ago this March, 4 US Marshalls escorted me shackled on a flight to Canada. I had a jailhouse uniform of gray track pants, a wife beater and a sweatshirt. I had a box with books, my comb, a toothbrush and a pair of running shoes. $26 in my pocket, No ID, no contacts but some estranged distant family here in Canada. I spent $13 on a shuttle from Pearson to Union Station to put a fellow deportee on a train to Montreal so they could get to their family. I walked across the street to the Royal York, put my box down, sat on it and marveled at how thin Canadians are and realized how cold it was without a coat here. Made it to Ottawa after a couple weeks of bouncing around Toronto streets and a friend brought Vivian (my Volvo) from the US. I lived in Vivian for the next 5 months working for every agency here in town at the same time and starved. I was lucky to do an appointment a week because I was "too old". I lived off of dinners from guys on Quest and washing up in the Tim Hortons around the city. I slept in the Kettleman's parking lot and down at the Byward Museum watching the city at night. Hurricane Katrina had pushed gas up to $1.35. I was being sent to Rockland and Almont for $90 after agency fees. A guest talked me into going independent but I didn't understand the online business here and didn't have a computer. I used Quest aquaintences computers for the first couple of months. I literally lived on carrots, yogurt and a couple of hot meals a week from Quest guys. Sometimes I would order way too much food so I could have some for later and I would make it last for days. The poor guys must have thought I was a greedy cow! If you are reading this...I apologize! I didn't realize how traumatized I was then, I just toodled around and smiled doing my thing. A Quest dinner date handed me keys to his place and told me to come over if I needed a shower or a safe place to lie down. We have become life long friends. I have started over a couple of times in my life, but this time was by far the financially poorest ever. It has been a bit of a roller coaster but I don't fear being dispossessed anymore. I know I could lose everything I have and I would be fine. I was happy altho a little stressed. I am still amazed at the patience and kindness so many people showed me. Not a day goes by that I don't look around and give thanks to what I have. Life is still a little hectic but I get by and that's really all I need... cat

If I only knew then... 1. Forget about the focus on a career...it never materialized (don't get me wrong, I have a good paying job, but I've been stuck in it for 26 years) 2. Don't have alot of friends, but the ones I have are good true friends, the rest aquaintances/co-workers. 3. If I had known how my dating/relationship life was going to turn out, I would have started hobbying much much much sooner in life...and from my experience, the ladies I've met hobbying have been much better than the ones I dated 4. No matter what, family is important. 5. Generally speaking (some exceptions to this) nobody is better than somebody else, we all have our strengths and weaknesses. Yes, someone may be down one day...help them up, because tomorrow you may be the person that is down Some ramblings RG

I have never messed up anyone's appointment but have come close to making errors. Hopefully it will never happen but if I made a mistake or forgot you I would do something to make it up to my client. At the very least I would offer a free massage or more than likely I would offer a make up date on me. We all make mistakes but as a S P I would want to show my client I was really sorry and this would be a great way to make ammends.

Mine is MegforFun. I feel like I know her even though we never met and always look for her in the chat room. She makes me laugh which is so sexy. Awesome lady and just love her cleavage as I'm a smaller girl too. However, I just had to comment on one of your gorgeous pics as well Megan. There's so many fine ladies on here. : )

Agree with the others. We too often hear about guy 'no-shows' in both a public way and I believe in the ladies private area. And I have no objections to these communications. I have never missed a date but have had a couple of times where 'our meeting' was forgotten. In both cases the cirsumstances made me question the sincerity of the lady. But if you've been genuine a client has no recourse but to just move on and not consider that lady again. The good news is that the majority of ladies are of the highest calibre in their business and as professionals. You would hope in your case you'll receive some kind of explanation. But don't count on that happening and move on. Odds are you next experience will be much better. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Unforunately poverty is widespread in the world. This is a rich country and so much stories of people living below poverty not having enough for essentials like food and housing:icon_sad:. Just imagine all the sad stories that people could share from other continents. There is enough wealth (food, housing...) for every citizen of the earth. It is just that about 10% wanting more than they need and keep some 90% of the wealth to themselves :icon_mad: and the button 30 to 50% live in absolute poverty. Yes, this is the human nature regretfully. The more they have the greedier they become to have even more even at the expense of others. Yes, my life story is unique in a way ......... I was lucky to be born in a relatively well off family with both my parents working hard one as a surgeon and the other as university teacher until something happened that changed all that. So, while I was in university the funding (coming from my parents) was cut off (not by my parents ....) and I suddendly had to count every dollar that I had and make sure it is spent on essentials. Hard for someone who was used to living in luxury suddendy to drop to the button. Never used to the below poverty life. Worked and studied for most of the 10 years I was in the university and got myself back up to become a middle class (self-made) but still far away from the lifestyle I used to have in my childhood. I remember when I was first year graduate student, I rented a small room with no air conditioning (cheap) and one day it got so hot that my heart went into fast irregular beating likely as a reaction to the heat or lack of essential food rich in vitamins and protein. Yes I have seen it all. Wealthy in the childhood (my parents) poverty borderline between 16 to 26 while studying (got scholarship at 26 for 3 years and worked too) and middle class from 29 years of age (when I started working) till now.

I would have to agree with Erin, we arranged our first meeting thru email and made the final arrangements by phone. I found that we were able to communicate a lot easier at first by email then by a "cold call" over the phone. I find it a lot easier to express my thoughts and feelings by writing them down along with the luxury of time to think about things. I am sure that the provider feels the same, it allows them the time to "get to know" a client. The initial online communication between Erin and myself led to a wonderful encounter when we eventually met, it was like we had known each other for years............ Rodehard

Okay, let's agree to it being a tie. The two together work just fine.

She smelled like vanilla. He was nuzzled up to her neck, breathing in her sweet, soft scent. He inhaled deeply, wanting her delicate aroma to fill his lungs. They were sitting on the edge of the bed, their arms entwined. Her lips were soft against his and their tongues were dancing. And to think, just moments ago he was sharing a bottle of white wine and some small talk with her; needing both to calm his nerves. Now he was pressed up against her, kissing her supple neck and bare shoulders. Her skin felt like silk on his lips. He asked her to stand up so that he could undress her slowly and admire her body. One by one, as each article of clothing came off, it revealed simply how breathtaking she was; the curve of her hips, her perky breasts, her round ass, her shapely legs, slender shoulders and long cascading hair could be a muse for artists. Naked now except for her high heels and thigh-high stockings he guided her back to the edge of the bed, having her lay down so that he could give her oral pleasure. She laid back, giving him access to her most intimate and private areas. She felt soft and moist and could have spent all evening devouring her sweetness. The way she moaned, squealed and giggled urged him to keep going. She soon returned the favour. The way she used her full lips and soft tongue on him drove him to ecstacy. Every now and then she would look up at him and give him a sly grin. He could have let her go on pleasing him like this, but he wanted more of her. He was thrust into another world when he felt her legs wrapped around his waist and over his shoulders. He never wanted this to end. He loved feeling so pressed up tight against her. They switched positions and he was kneeling behind her now. He took her waist in his hands and looked down at her perfect heart-shaped ass. Again, he was thrust into another world of ecstacy; to feel her this way and to hear her moaning and heavy breathing. He wanted to feel enveloped by her again and beckoned her on her back again. He loved feeling wrapped up in her. And as their evening came to a close, they bid each other a pleasant evening with a hug and a kiss, already anticipating a next time...

I've said it before (and heard it before too), the difference between free sex and paying for it, free sex ends up lots more expensive in the end RG

Or a free lunch.lol Those women will want something in exchange. They are not on those sites because they are in a crappy marriage and are lonely or being on there out of the goodness of their own haeats. In the long run, SPs are less expensive with no strings or promises made so you can walk about satisfied not having to worry about any b.s.

Hey Guys. You want to try a wild way of DATY. Go get an ice coffee or a glass of small crushed ice, take a couple of cubes in your mouth so it cools down your mouth and tongue then start eating at the Y. Every now and then refresh with more ice, keep the mouth chilled. Most that I,ve tried love it. ENJOY

I would think the suggestion in the clip is more reflective of a stong tongue as opposed to methodology. I would imagine that "surprised" might be an understated reaction to a blast of air during a session down below. :)