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The emotional aspects of the experience is most important to me rather than physical aspects or sex itself (lots of huggings and kissings and emotions and feeling that she really likes me, enjoys me and my company and that she is having good time), but I may be in a minority in a sense so I am not sure I could help you with a majority response that you are looking for.

I guess I'm in the same minority too SA It's the emotional connection made during the encounter, the conversation, the kissing and cuddling. Yes, I enjoy the sexual aspect, but it's not the most important aspect When that emotional connection is made, you know the lady you spent time with is a unique individual with her own personality/character. Besides, if I just wanted sex, I would only need half hour, and that include undressing/dressing...me I like a two hour encounter at least RG

I do have to say, to the OP, that if I was the SP in question (which I'm not), putting this up publicly would guarantee you'd never hear back from me about what happened. There is a reason cerb does not want to 'air dirty laundry'. It never leads anywhere good! You gentlemen do not like to read threads where SPs complain about no-shows. This is basically the same thing. Never a fun situation and never something anyone wants to go through. However, the best thing you can do is move on.

I think it's rather simple, there's a lot of supply out there. I also thiink maybe all the Asian MP's aren't necessarilly there by choice.

There could be more to the story then what is being said! Never judge someone or make assumptions based on one side of the story! Maybe this girl feels that for one reason or another that she can not come forward. Judge not less YE be judged! Kubrickfan: "To whatever lady is involved in this situation: You owe this guy at least a polite PM response if not an explanation. After all, he took the time to go through your vetting process and apparently did everything you asked. Quit avoiding the situation and respond. Sooner or later this type of information can get out, and its better to deal with it before the information gets out in a fashion "through the grapevine" that may not be entirely accurate or fair to you." This comment is completely uncalled for! She does not OWE him anything! He did not PAY for anything, and to make a statement like this "Sooner or later this type of information can get out, and its better to deal with it before the information gets out in a fashion "through the grapevine"", is extremely presumptuous of you! Now I am not trying to start an argument here, but everyone "assumes" that Pikes rant is 100% accurate! There is always 2 sides of every story! And when people ASSUME, all you do is make an "ASS out of U and ME"!

Here is a link to an EXCEPTIONAL site!

Except for escorts-canada.com and it's affiliates (e.g. local-escorts.com), asking about other sites is a no no here.

Well why would you need a list when we got the best right here?

Bringing this thread back up because today I had the unpleasant experience of being contacted on facebook by someone from here. Someone I've never even MET. The audacity of such an action seriously floors me. Cleo Catra and the personal me are two separate entities. Sorry guys if that comes as a shocker! I do not want gentlemen on here to know my full real name (although many, that I've met and TRUST, know my first). That is very, very personal, private information. If you recognize someone in the 'suggestions' section on facebook from here, leave them alone. Or, if it's someone you've met, possibly mention it to them when you speak. But getting a facebook message from someone saying 'I know you from cerb', actually felt like such an invasion of my privacy I almost burst into angry tears. I responded to this 'gentleman's' message and let him know why what he'd done was wrong. However, unfortunately, I think needs to be brought to people's attention again because I don't want this to happen again, to me or to anyone else on here. Most people here who read my posts I hope know that I'm not one to come on here and rant about things that go wrong in this business, however in this case I need to make my opinion on this issue known. I would never, ever, jump into a hobbiest's personal life like that, and I expect the same back. Just be respectful everyone, and you'll get the same back :)

Pike -- As has been pointed out, there are a lot of possible explanations for what happened. I also understand that you are concerned in a somewhat "compromised" situation by virtue of the detail you needed to supply to the lady involved, but its very unlikely that informaiton would ever be used against you especially by an experienced SP unless you did something to deserve it. However, from you explanation, and the failure of the lady to respond post-meeting, this one does get under my skin a bit. To whatever lady is involved in this situation: You owe this guy at least a polite PM response if not an explanation. After all, he took the time to go through your vetting process and apparently did everything you asked. Quit avoiding the situation and respond. Sooner or later this type of information can get out, and its better to deal with it before the information gets out in a fashion "through the grapevine" that may not be entirely accurate or fair to you.

I just finished re-reading the excellent thread by JuliasUndies, "Let's talk about respect."... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=45633 ...and it made me think about something. This is a damned fine web site. I'll say it again. This is a damned fine web site. It's full of interesting people, men and women. It's a great meeting place rife with members who exhibit class, intelligence, grace, kindness, empathy, creativity. I imagine that it takes an incredible amount of time and effort to run this whole thing and I just wanted to thank everyone who is involved in the operations of it all. I don't know if it's one person or a team but here it is... Thank you. I appreciate what you've done here in the past and what you're doing here presently. Doc.

I can't believe this is happening in this land. The animal guy raped a woman on the side of a road and admitted telling the woman "it would only hurt for a little while." and then the idiot judge says that it was the mistaken belief by the guy that "sex was in the air" and a "heightened expectation" that sex would occur. Why, as the judge said " the victim was dressed in tube tops and high heels when they met the guy outside a bar "and made it publicly known that they wanted to party!!!!." What the hell is this? Women around the world are looking up to Canada as a model when they demand for their well-deserved rights and now this ..... http://www.torontosun.com/news/canada/2011/02/26/17418376.html Women can dress the way that they choose and no one or no damn judge or no damn govenment has the right to tell them how to dress and it is no damn indication of invitation to rape. Women can choose how to dress whom to socialize (and whom not to), where to go, what to eat and drink and whom to sleep with (or whom not to). This is ridiculous and appalling and I go further and say the remarks from someone in a judgement position is disgusting in this free land. NO MEANS NO. Anyone who do not hear that IS A RAPIST and belong to jail.

I have been thinking a great deal lately of finances as I am revamping my budget, trying to "trim the fat" where I can etc. It seems to me that there are more and more people really struggling to make ends meet - just putting bread and milk on the table and paying one's electric bill is enough to get you in the red sometimes! Looking back I see that I have had times of little and times of plenty. Both have their positives and negatives, certainly posing different challenges....but I can honestly say that I have been just as happy with little as with much. Certainly during times of poverty there is a nagging sense of not being secure which to me is a huge issue. However, for myself being financially secure does not = happiness, although it certainly does help to know that your cup runneth over. I had to laugh this morning when I thought back to just how I had to scrape....One thing I did was help myself to extra condiments at places like McDonald's - squeezing the "free" ketchup into my empty ketchup bottle! It seems just ridiculous now, but at the time it seemed to me like it could help. lol Even now, I find myself looting my hotel room for terrible soaps that last forever, horrible shampoos that strip your hair of moisture, etc. I guess old habits die hard. It would be interesting to hear of other saving methods others have creatively incorporated into their lives to "make do"....

I actually have heard of more MAs being targeted than SPs so I doubt it's the legality. I think the answer to this question will differ from person to person. When I first starting thinking about getting into the biz, I first thought about massage. To be honest, the reason I thought that first was more about what other people would think of me, than what I actually wanted. I figured my friends/family would have an easier time accepting that than being an actual SP. But I never took the step of doing it, because I always knew it wasn't what I wanted. I wanted to do exactly what I'm doing now - why I can't really say, I just knew it was the right choice!

Chemistry!! And you know it immediately, the first seconds can make it break it for me. Peace MG

For me, it's all about chemistry. It's nothing that can be anticipated, manufactured or faked. It's there or it's not. One the reasons that CERB is so important to so many people is that you can build a bond of sorts with the provider prior to any encounter. You can do that by watching what they say in threads, the way they advertise themselves or by the nature of the PMs. All the people that I know here become all the more special in person - it's tangible chemistry. At the session? It's about fulfilling that bond. Playful talk. Lingering touches. Kisses that are teasing, tasty and tantalizing... passion and play. Just a thought...

I think this is the site you want RG

I have a long list of secret crushes, But Charlot Sinclair has certainly peeked my interest! Also, Megforfun, she is definitely in the top 10! Her humor, her body and wits I find very attractive! Also Emily In T.O i think is cute as a button! I hope someday i can meet you all, hope to see another social, I was not able to make the last one:(

Bridgette_Dances - I agree with you that it's always best to ask a gentleman before sitting and I always did so. Another good rule to follow is not to even think about approaching a gentleman until the waitress has brought him his drink. Too often I saw ladies sit down with gentlemen the second they come in the club. Let him get a beer first!

I stumbled across a video today of a guy in the US who apparantly is quite popular. When looking through his videos on youtube you can see he's been on the news multiple times as well as The Maury Show, the comments and number of views on his videos shows that he has a following. http://www.youtube.com/user/videovigilanteokc#p/u http://johntv.com/ Has anyone heard of this guy?

Too many people spend too much time and energy worrying about the next life and not enough time living the life they have which is the only sure thing.

since you did ask for our input I4fun, so here is mine (from a 10 year long strip bar veteran).... They are two aspects of this to look at. So far most of us looked at one. The missing side is that the lady in the SC is there to make money because she needs money to live on. That is to pay for her rent and food and most of them are single mothers too which means they need the money to buy milk or food for their baby. This was the aspect that I think was missing and I thought I should mention it briefly. On second aspect - yes I very much understand OP's situation that he may like to be there just for the beer and the stage dance and like to be picky to spend his hard-earned money on the ones that he likes most. So, there should be a balanced approach to this and in my view (my 2 cents) there may be a solution. To the OP: 1 - If you wish to watch only and have a beer, then it may be wise to sit next to the stage. This shows to the ladies that you may not be interested in CR and it would be less likely that they approach you for private dance. Then if you wish to see someone specific, walk to her and ask that specific lady. 2 - As I mentioned earlier the ladies are there to make money and pay for essentials. It has happened to me many times that I have been approached by those that I really didn't have preference. Usually I take them to one CR dance (and I let them know beforehand that it will be one dance only). The $20 doesn't affect me that much but may make a difference to the lady. It is not pity by no means at all. I like all females but like some more. So when I take a lady who approaches me to CR and have preference for others, I still will enjoy and have good time but will reserve my 3 to 5 songs for those who I enjoy the most.