I posted this on the other site and wanted to paste it here as well:
You know Gents, I've been sitting back and watching this all unfold while other people comment and say their piece about something they know NOTHING about. After taking time to calm down, think, and be rational I have this to say.
First, when honesty is betrayed, there is nothing that says I have to risk my safety, comfort or well being to Protect My Reputation or Please a Client.
Not only has Explorer69/Pike or whoever else this gentleman is lie to me about his identity, he also lied to me about being a member of any boards, and that he had NEVER seen me before. I have met him before, and after that meeting, never wanted to see him again. He is quite aware. Don't be fooled.
Once I realized he had been lying, which was in fact when he called upon arrival, that is when I decided that since he was not concerned with me and my rights/feelings that I should treat him with the same rude and inconsiderate fashion. As I've said many times, Respect and trust is a two way street. Yes, maybe I should have picked up the phone, said I refuse to see you etc. And for that I was wrong. However, once that trust is lost, do I really Owe Him Anything?
Secondly, The whole reason I ask for so much "personal Info" is because I've been put in situations like this Too Many Times. I'm very happy to be low volume, and see the people who love seeing me. If you want to be a new client, I encourage it! I love meeting new interesting people! But I shouldn't feel like I'm asking for too much. Lots of girls give references, and we have No Problem Doing It! It shows that we respect each other and care for one an-others safety, and that we aren't insecure that we'll "lose our client". It's not trashy. It's safety. What personal info do I ask for that others don't, other than the reference? Does the fact that I want your phone number so I know it's you when you arrive bother you? Frankly, good luck finding a girl who doesn't want Any Phone Number. It can be Any Phone Number You Are Comfortable Giving Me. Your choice.
Does someone really think I'm going to go out of my way to try and ruin a man's life just because he wrote something negative about me? Really? I'm sorry, but just because this man decided to act childishly does not mean that I am the same. And just because some gentlemen have been unlucky in having a crazy girl out them, does not mean all escorts, including me, are like that. Maybe those gentlemen should have been More Careful themselves in choosing a SP? So maybe being picky isn't so bad after all?
Also, my reviews have stemmed back for a few years as well. It's not like they all happened over night. I have been a trusted SP for a while.
Oh and by the way, even though it hasn't changed on on the other site, this site noticed and joined your two accounts Pike/explorer69. Funny, I didn't think two different gentlemen would be able to have the exact same experience and write the same post, and 5 minutes apart, on two different sites. Hmmm.... Weird huh?
Warmest Regards,
Mia