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I think one of the best compliments one can receive from a client is repeat business! Seeing them again-especially shortly after our first meeting- is really sweet, it shows me that I have left an impression and they want more of my special touch! When someone says they can't wait to see me again, and really can't- how much more of a compliment can I ask for? Great question! Bethany Xoxox

If you aren't soliciting, or providing illegal services, or allowing SP activity in your spa... then why the need to hide? CERB is not considered a public space by the way. You have to join the community and its topic specific.

My childhood dream was to become a genie (lol) just like Jeanie... I wanted to be pretty like her, have big boobies like her, live in a beautiful plush bottle full of cushions and have tons of pretty outfits like she did lol I also thought that it was way cool to come out looking like smoke and then materialize as a beautiful girl dressed in pink. I also wanted to travel the world with a blink of an eye, a nod of the head and be free to do what I wanted, when I wanted... That was until I saw in a movie that genies could be trapped in their bottles for thousands of years and belong to mean masters lol Even at that age, Gabby didn't want to have a master so she changed her mind... Having a mommy and a daddy was quite enough! lol

This could be a rambling response, as recommendations for me have become an issue - a personal issue. In the early days, I did not write reccos at all for the first number of encounters. I did not feel confident enough to do so as a new member, and wondered who would even read them much less take any stock in them. As time went on, I realized that after a woman had taken my interest through her posts and contributions that I would then go on to look at the recommendations made for her. I am 100% confident that the reccos did not result in final decisions for me as to whether I would contact them or not, but having read them I am sure that it must have had at least some influence. Influence however is the key word here for me with my personal dilemma about writing them. What 'works' for me might not necessarily work for someone else. I do not like being in a position of influencing others. Every person is different. I realize that I am way more 'into' a personal connection than many CERB members are. When I have written reccos, for the most part they dwell on that personal connection and are written from the heart. I take that as a personal goal to present the lady in a respectful manner and to share some of the personal characteristics that I found so intriguing and amazing. To write with the "same format" each time for me would be meaningless. At the same time, as I have said in previous threads, I have never ever had an encounter that was not pleasant, unique, or repeatable. But I have not written reccos for all of them. Why, I am not entirely sure. Perhaps one that I delayed for so long was one that meant to me so very much on a purely personal level and I did not want to share it. That was wrong because every SP deserves recognition and if I as a client can help them be more successful, I do feel an obligation to them to do so. Generally I feel that I am at least a decent writer, and a positive person, and most of my reccos reflect what I have spoken about above. I hate the idea of comparing one woman with another, and would never ever do that on paper. I do not like to do it even in my head. Every experience is and has been unique. As I said I would do I know I have rambled, but for me reccos are a difficult aspect of the CERB experience.

I think the honorable thing to do,is to write rec for the lady, that what this board is all about is to 'recommend a MA or SP' to other gents. Personally I was really pissed off back in the summer when a statement was made in a thread, a gent thought the rec's were 'shit'. It took me a long time to get over that comment. The best thing I think a guy can do is share his experience to others,in a format that can be short and sweet to the point or if you like lots of details and great reading material either way it is more beneficial to the ladies that are here on this board.If a gent did not enjoy his time, then he simply does not write a rec. I understand that other gents may not take my advise or others that write rec's on ladies, but then what would you have left here on this board? Just a lot threads on other discussions and ad's.....right? And I simply write recommendations for the ladies I see, NOT always for the other guys but I don't mind sharing...I do it because it is my way of saying thank-you in a long version of a compliment. Then again I know when I do write rec's I always get a dozen of pm's asking for further info on a lady, so I think the section is a excellent tool for all concerned, I just hope those that are on this board,and have been here for a while, or those that have just started, consider writing the recommendation,the ladies are always flattered and like I said it is good for business all around for everyone. My two pennies on the subject.

I trim. Shaving/waxing makes me feel decidedly unsexy!

Here I've been naked since 10am and ready.... I have time before tonight's football game... lol

I have yet to find an Agency or an Independent MP that was not forthcoming with information regarding services that were available or the compensation required. All one has to do is use a little common sense and a little discretion, any information that you want can be obtained through email, phone or even a PM via CERB. Discretion goes a long way in this hobby... Rodehard

I find myself in a similar situation as MrNice, often in a little more personal connection with the Cerb ladies I visit with, therefore finding it hard to write a recco sometimes. I also end up with delayed reccos many times...but I eventually get there :) I only hope the ladies appreciate a delayed reccomendation that is somewhat thought out and worded appropriately, rather than an off the cuff writeup that perhaps is hastily worded after a very enjoyable encounter. I like Pete said, write a recco for the lady. So I want it to be what she would like. Not a menu orientated writeup, or how many shots on goal there was. More about the lady, and the environment, the mood and the fun and enjoyment that was had.....sexually and non sexually.

The highest compliments I have received are inquiries from clients that I have not had the pleasure to meet, resulting from the kind words from my fellow MA/SP ladies. There's no better compliment I can receive, than a sweet recommendation from another lady.

I am going to jump into this and expect to get flamed to well done. I am NOT offended at all by the question. What I am offended at is perhaps the wording, and most of YOUR responses. What I feel I have just read is a whole bunch of folks repeatedly attacking this person for making a mistake and splitting hairs. Shame on you. Lets take it out of the forum context..... We are at a CERB social. A new person comes up to one of us and asks this question in normal verbal vernacular. You might be slightly offended; but I'm sure you would explain in a much less assertive way why this is not a question you should ask. I highly doubt one would call over some friends to rudely explain repeatedly why this is not acceptable. And then when the gent tried to rectify the matter, y'all jumped on that. Btw, I share on my site exactly how many clients I see in a day. That is my choice. I'm sure half of you are thinking, "get stuffed Chanel", but since you all felt it necessary to share your opinion, I am sharing mine.

Hey guys, Coming back to Ottawa again this weekend and I can't wait to meet Annika again. I have always had great visits with her and she is one of my favorites. She is strictly GFE and extremely gorgeous, with a killer body that looks great naked. She is skilled, responsive and creative at what she does and I always have a great time with her. The showers for 2 afterwards is always a great touch. She can carry on a conversation and is easy to talk to. You guys should defiantly check her out so she keeps coming back.

Check out my tan lines ... Eyes off my nipples and look down people !! ... Heidi says ;)

Thank you for sharing Malika! I love your Sexy Back! :) **I'm still new to the board and I fully understand that some women would not want to post here due to identity purposes. I just wanted to start a thread that falls into my personal fetish...:P

I wanted to be a horse, and also a lion. And a wizard. Perhaps all three at once?

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I find this chart to be inaccurate and outdated... BBBJ is listed as high risk for Syphilis' date=' which the medical industry does not currently consider it, based on not only how it is transmitted-- but also based on how often it is tested and how easy it is to test for, which it is tested for regularly when you go for STD testing. It also lists protected vaginal sex for no risk for several STDs, I think that's beyond misleading-- [b']Using a condom does NOT negate all risk involved[/b], especially when used incorrectly or past the expiry date. Nothing is really safe... Leaving your house everyday isn't safe. At least when it comes to STDs you can take control, practice safe sex and get tested regularly... There's no test for if you might get run over by a bus leaving the house.

This chart should give you a pretty good idea: http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/sti-risks-chart/

There are two fee systems with massage. One is all inclusive. The rate will be roughly 150-180/hour. You will likely be expected to pay the rate upfront and you should not expect negotiations or requests for extra money throughout the encounter. This is the system that I use and I prefer it because I find negotiating money during an encounter really breaks the mood. The other system is the "door fee + tips" system. The door fee generally about $60/hour goes to the parlour/club, and then you "tip" the massage provider, generally based on what services you want. For example, one spa I applied to work at (but never did) charged $40 for a clothed release, $60 for a topless release, $80 for a nude release, and $100 for a nude release with body slides. The tip could also be one set amount for her time. It's very important that if you go to a door fee + tip place that you tip appropriately, because the woman giving you a massage is probably expecting to be paid by you directly, and not the club/parlour. These are just some very general guidelines. When you pick which independent provider or establishment you would like to visit, you should clarify with them directly exactly how fees work. Ottawa has a great massage scene. Welcome and enjoy!

I'm seeing that you are new to this site as you said in your OP. revising and changing your original post only confuses future users as to what the following discussion is about and generally just makes the whole thread useless to future "learners"....also adjusting your post to be more sugarcoated doesnt tend to work either as from what I've seen your angry posting to the lady in question might always be quoted as done here.....Call this unsolocited advice if you want but you might want to consider apologizing in your replies to the post and leaving the original ones....dont worry, we will see that you have learned your lesson, but when you edit and change your posts like you did above you make it so future gents might not be able to learn those lessons along with you. Good luck.

hbon, i am sorry, but as a client, i have to offer another insight. If you went to a bar and tried to "pick up " a girl, would you ask her the same question? I think you may not get the same answer you got from these lovely and respectful ladies. You would probably get a slap in the face. I think the ladies here were very respectful in the way they answered. They were just honest. I also think it's a very rude and inapropriate question to ask anyone, unless it's going to be your possible life partner. The SP's are much more aware and clean, than most girls you would pick up for a one nighter in a bar. The sp's know all the risks, as opposed to a drunk girl in a bar that may have no clue what she is doing.

I have no problems giving references at all. I haven't been ask for that much, but I am always willing to give them if someone ask me. But as Kylie and roamingguy said, it's always best to tell me when I saw you and some details that will help me remember...especially stupid things in my case...like pussy fart stories, not having a bottle opener for the wine, head bumping when doing oral...all those things did happened and I remember them well...even if it was months and months ago... just saying it's John, I saw you for 2 hours mid March....eh I am not really likely to remember everyone and everything how it was unless it was really bad

The problem with your question is that it does not have a single answer. Every hobbyist has different requirements which can be as fluid as the wind. With a morning breeze, it is a simple itch that needs scratching so a 30 minute special is the order of the day. An afternoon whisper in the leaves may bring visions of slippery fun on his lunch hour. When the wind turns cold he may find himself craving companionship enveloping an extended foray into sensual seduction. His price ceilings are unique to him and only him. The key is to determine where a provider places her focus on value. There are many providers who provide 30 minute sessions with the same attention to detail as they give for the hour. Another provider charging the same amount perhaps doesn't have the same focus on delivering value regardless of how long you are staying. As every hobbyist is unique, so is every SP and the service she provides unique. The key is understanding that unique in this industry isn't synonymous with quality, it means existing as the only one or as the sole example; we are all individuals. There are elite providers that carry their pricing based on their looks alone and they cater to the visually stimulated and egoically driven. Then are elite providers that take the time to make it an experience to remember for the both of you. They are intelligent, charming AND beautiful. It all depends on what you are looking for. There are extraordinary providers in every price range, you simply need to explore and find the one that "fits" you best... cat

5 years ago when i was solely based in Toronto and only wanted to work on occasion, my donations were $450/hr(daytime) & $600/hr(evenings & outcalls). I visited part time and had no issue getting bookings, and if I had wished to entertain full time I am sure that it would not have been an issue. Companions will charge a donation that they feel they are worth and one that the market(bad term) will support. What may be out of reach for one is not so the case for another. Some may not understand why someone would drop $500+ an hour on company, but that is ones personal choice, one that others have no right to criticize judge or bitch about. Good company comes in all shapes, sizes and donations, when you find what works for you, make the most of it.

I have been tweaking the iphone/ipad detection for mobile and think I have a better solution. The general mobile version does not display the ad banners down the right side of the screen (as banners like that are way too heavy for mobile users to download each time you view a page) but the ipad/iphone and even andoids and such can use the full version better then most mobile devices... so I have changed it for the ipad/iphone to view a less bandwidth intense full version (Without the right side banner ads) Is this better? I am trying to get it so you could choose between the two versions... having issues doing that right now... but let me know if you prefer this or should I keep working on it. Tapatalk does not offer all the features (It only is capable of the basic features and none of the add on stuff or custom stuff)

I don't think whether a member is of a senior level or new will make a change to the recommendation threads and the bumping problem. I've seen threads bumped up repeatedly by members commenting with things like "I've got to get out to see her" or of the sort but has never met with the provider, so this is not part of the recommendation. I see these from new members and the Elite. It reminds me of Cheerleaders. These statements are not reco's and should be kept in the Courteson, Massage discussion. This issue has been discussed many time in various threads and the problem still exists. However, it is abuse and can be reported. It takes us all to press that "report abuse" button and MOD encourages us to do so if the rules are being broken. I started this thread and messaged MOD on the questioned reco. He advised me to just report and passing it on to everyone else.