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Women bleed. That's the way it is. Deal with it. If you spend enough time inside women you are going to get some blood on you sooner or later. If you are willing to enjoy the fun side of the vagina, you should be prepared to occassionally encounter the real side too. The lady may or may not have any warning. Not every woman is regular like a calendar. Its not fair to assume they are neccessarily being deceptive. I'm sure if you asked the ladies they'd rather not have periods at all. It's not exactly the highlight of their month either. And anyway, periods are only one reason you could end up with blood on your piece.

I agreed with Gabriella. Really the best defense against this is for the client to contact the sp being given as a reference to expect to be contacted by sp-2 soon. I feel strongly that clients need to give their permission to sp-1 before she can just pass on anything about the client. Sure the majority of the time everything is on the up and up. Maybe the two sps know each other, and consider the information in safe hands. But what if it is the case of some unknown supposedly new sp doing the contacting, the client has not verified he is seeking a reference from sp-2, and sp-2 goes ahead and confirms having met him. And what if this new sp is not an sp, but an SO or some other person in his life out to make trouble. Now, unbeknownst to him, sp-2 has just confirmed he has seen her, and recently, and frequently possibly. So really, if sp-1 needs a reference, as a client please advise the sp you are using as a reference the full details of who will be contacting her. And if sps don't get this heads up, then please contact your client to ask if he is requesting a reference. And please please please, for the safety of everyone but only if you plan to be helpful to fellow sps and be open to the idea of giving references, start keeping good records somewhere or somehow. Any other business person would do this, it helps you remember who you have seen, it helps you accomodate to their needs when you see them again, it also prevents the total time wasters from wasting your time over and over again. It just makes sense. Not doing that, not remembering info about people you see, or have seen you, that just might backfire on you one day. Not keeping some information about the people who come to see you or you go to see and god forbid something goes wrong, how exactly is someone going to be able to investigate anything about it. It is ok to say publically that you don't, god knows there is a lot of paranoia out there about someone even getting a fake phone #, but this is a lot bigger than one nervous nelly.

Great post, backrubman. I'm especially sensitive to this because of recent experiences of my own. One great advantage of this board is that I have good friends on here who alert me to situations I may not know about, like my reviews and identity beng "borrowed" on another board, or someone impersonating me trying to set up appointments with women. We have to watch out for one another. Beyond that, screening is important. As I said on another thread, if you're an sp contacted by phone, text, or e-mail by someone claiming to be a cerb member, it's a good policy to check by pm with that member. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=79987

I am replying to this as a country bumkinses with rifles ;) I hunt foxes when need be....but for necessary reasons for instance because they are killing my chickens :( .... or population control. I will sell or give the hides to local trappers for the fur trade.... and I do have a fox hat. I hunt coyotes every year and sell the hides for fur trade .... a population control issue and kill local cattle which is the livlihood of many in my area...they run in packs and need to be controlled. As population increases so does the mange and that is not a good thing either. This is only a couple examples used to get my point across....but right, wrong or indifferent I obviously am involved in the fur trade in one way or another. I am an animal lover big time ! With the exception of a few years in the city...I have spent my life living in the bush pretty much surrounded by wildlife. It is awesome truthfully .... but there are nature control issues that are always there so the fur trade will need to live on forever in my world as I see it. If it doesn't and there are no more people to wear furs...the hides will just be tossed away.....

When I first started, I went with the average. I realized that too low was attracting people that I did not want to spend time with and too high meant that I was missing out on meeting some really great people. I then sat down and decided how many people I wanted to see a week, what hours I wanted to be available and how much I needed to keep up my lifestyle. That is how I determined my rates :)

Well, folks, I just upgraded the boot disk on my PC with an SSD (i.e. Solid-State Disk). For those who don't know what it is, it is a new form of long-term data storage that will likely replace hard disks one day. Instead of using a spinning magnetic disk as the recording medium, it uses computer memory chips similar to the USB thumb drives you use nowadays, only much, much faster. In fact, it's much, much faster than hard disks too. However, hard disks still have the advantage in storage capacity. The price of a hard disk vs. an SSD is still huge, especially if you look at the price/capacity ratios. Mainstream SSD's now have the 250GB capacity, which is what is necessary for Windows and some additional data. But SSD's are probably now in the range of good-enough capacity now, and reasonably priced. Changing the boot disk just made the whole computer feel faster, more so than any other upgrade I've done in recent times. These SSD's also work equally well in laptops. My desktop now has an overall Windows Experience number of 7.5 out of 7.9. Before the SSD, the overall number was only 5.9 out of 7.9!

I love to read a really good erotic story, so let's start a new one. Simple rules, using only five words or less, continue the story and let's see the out come. He made the appointment in incredible anticipation, with baited breath as he reached her door.......

Cristy, I think this post may be the one to which he refers: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=85546

CC if you were as concerned about animals as you say, you would holler as loud as you could the names and addresses of these places that "skin animals alive". To say you're concerned about lawyers is a copout, you can't get sued for telling the truth.

Most companions, myself included only work with a male that we are comfortable with and trust. Having an encounter with 2 men you don't know is kind of risky in my opinion. I feel that I never want to be out numbered in a room, unless someone I know well is the other person present. That being said, there may be a lady or 2 out there who do offer this type of scenario....

HA! Angela makes these! crochet penis covers.

Yes, November this thread does have a certain eye catching ability. I never knew that it was such a popular sport. 50strait seemed to have started a trend. I'll probably give it a whirl myself but as I am a big chicken some rope would probably help :) The rotisserie concept would take a little "learning curve" but it sounds like fun after the necessary "practice".

I have to say, it is definitely not my favourite position. I don't really enjoy the same feel of things, and doesn't really stimulate me that much. Now doggy, that is a very nice view. Guess I just like the nice bum staring me in the face, and many of the ladies seem to really enjoy this too. I always thought that lady on top, was more ladies choice, but guess that was more from my perspective.

I know that when asked why they do this, or to justify why they do these sorts of reviews, one at least honestly said it was because he wants to 'relive' the moments. Actually I think I've read that a couple of times. And same two guys have to, again, justify their reviews, as others who try to see the same sps have actually walked away without staying, the reality was so far removed from the tale they had spun. I once asked one, if you bring a bag of stuff, and basically recreate the exact same repetitive routine with each new sp, how is that a good thing for you, for her, for anyone? She is another sp who is a good sport about having to try to do all those things, just as the next 25 he sees, all within 45 minutes and a cuddle at the end (or bad review will come), rather than simply allow yourself to be taken on a journey by this new sp her way, with her strengths and ideas. Try meeting each one as an individual and not a trained seal or blow up doll, and maybe start getting more out of these experiences worth sharing. I have heard this comment a few times, actually. The review comes out so incredibly different from reality. And the best an sp can hope for is quietly pm the guy and say, "um, I don't do bbbjs, you didn't get one, so maybe you can edit that part." And that is just one small thing. lol

Personaly I see no difference in wearing leather, or fur. I have a leather jacket, a couple pair of leather shoes, and I have fur (badger) hat (which is nice to wear for ice fishing) I am also a animal lover, and over the course of quite a few years I have saved four cats, the latest one being adopted as a feral kitten, given a good home instead of being put back out in the colony...only problem, I have to put up with him LOL Without knowing the intracacies of trapping, at least in Ontario, like hunting and fishing, it is governed by regulations including proper training and licensing of trappers, limits on what can be trapped and probably certain seasons to trap. I do think there is an element of furry animals being seen as soft and cuddly, and thus getting sympathy But other animal/life species not looking so soft and cuddly don't get the same sympathy. For example, killing of alligators, and using their skin used to make alligator leather jackets, or boots. But gators aren't cute and cuddly so not the same concern shown. What if the furry animal was a rat, any concern then? And who is to say furry animals aren't also used for food As long as animals are harvested in a legal, ethical and humane fashion I have no issues be it a fur bearing animal or non fur bearing animal A rambling from someone who doesn't trap or hunt...but I do fish, and occasionaly keep one or two for the frying pan RG

My mother always owned and still does own fur coats in different styles and lengths. I remember being a child and dreaming of owning one of those coats. I even had thoughts that she would leave them to me in her will, in fact my sister and I often fought over them. How times have changed for me. It makes me feel so sad to even think of what the poor little animals had to go though to get those coats made. I am not fullly aware of how the animals are killed but I do know of the small cages and filth they live in. No breating creature of the universe should have to go through that. Of course eveyone chooses what they would like to do but I say no to fur and taking innocent animals lives for our vanity and enjoyment. On the other side I enjoy leather so am I any better?

Bah, I hate being on top. I have inturned hips which depending on the day can make it slightly annoying to full out crying shooting pain. The only way I can do it and have a good time is if the person I am with doesn't move their hips at all or pull on me. Posted via Mobile Device

I know when I book an encounter with a lady I haven't met before, and requires verification, I provide personal information (name, phone, email, board handle) via email. I then pm the lady to verify it was me indeed who emailed her and it confirms my board handle. But even with ladies who have no such verification requirements, I still follow up email with a pm to confirm board handle If she requires a reference, I let her know I will provide one, but I wish to contact the lady I'm using as a reference first. If she is ok with providing me a reference (and she knows the lady I am planning on seeing) then I provide her name and contact information to the lady I am planning on seeing It is up to the lady to check all verification information provided, but from my end I do what I can to be as open and above board And it is creepy, someone trying to impersonate you. If guys like that spent as much effort being a gentleman and developing a positive reputation for themselves, instead of being impersonators, hiding behind someone else's earned positive reputation, we wouldn't even need this thread. Hopefully it hasn't happened to me, but I now do wonder if it has A rambling RG

The letter that cannot be named. The alphabet equivalent of Lord Voldemort in Harry Potter.

The following suggestion might not solve all problems but it might help to reduce the potential for deceitful games... - Contact the lady you are planning to use as a reference and let her know that she can expect to be contacted by another lady for a reference. Most of my gentlemen proceed this way so when I receive an email from another companion for a reference it is something I am already aware of.

I'll admit to being a hypocrite. I'm a major animal lover. Animals are frequently the subjects of my artwork and I've always lived with cats, dogs and birds. I also eat meat. I wear shoes and belts and I carry leather handbags. I've had a couple of wonderful leather jackets at different times. I wore a gorgeous full length mink coat for awhile--a gift from a man to whom I was engaged at the time and which I returned when I decided to break the engagement. My dressiest coat these days has fox fur trim. I'm more than a little ambivalent about fur, though. I don't expect to wear mink ever again. Or any "farmed" animal, for that matter. There's really not much reason to wear a fur coat in Vancouver: it's rarely very cold for long. But if I lived somewhere that had cold, snowy winters, I wouldn't rule out wearing fur if the animal had been hunted or trapped for the reasons Lee Richards has noted. I'm also conscious of the Aboriginal fur trade and don't object to it. So, I could see myself wearing badger, beaver or fox. They're wonderfully warm and a good fur coat lasts a very long time. I wear silk, too. I don't think there is a humane way to harvest silk, but I'm much less anthropomorphic about worms than about mammals. I wear cotton, but less than I once did since learning about the environmental damage cotton farming causes and the health damage workers often receive, in addition to being extremely poorly paid for their labour. I wear wool, a lot, but it comes from animals that I expect are well-treated. The animals don't have to die to give up the fur, which is a relief. I don't wear polyester though, unless I can't avoid it (I haven't been able to find a bra that wasn't mostly polyester, for example). It's a petroleum product and I've been trying for years to reduce the petroleum products, including polyester and plastics, that I use. I think that petroleum products are just bad for us and our world. But I'm pretty hypocritical about this, too. I do drive, after all.

Something else about some, and I emphasize some reviews. They seem more written by a guy wanting to brag to other guys...sort of a review board version of locker room talk. I still prefer to go primarily with board postings by the lady, as well as her website, and any emails. To me the lady I would like to see (based on posts/website) is a better person to communicate with via email and find out if we will click, than reading reviews from people I don't know. The only time recommendations really matter to me are when they come from people who's opinions I know, trust and respect...and in this lifestyle that is from other ladies. When they tell me a certain lady I would like, that reinforces my interest in meeting her As for the encounter itself, letting it unfold naturally is to me better than have a script and expectations in mind...after all, this is your first date. And if you both click, and see each other regularly, each encounter still unfolds naturally, but it is pleasantly surprising how these natural unfolding encounters evolve with repeat visits A early morning rambling RG

I've always found the opposite. When I was with my ex girlfriend for instance, she liked being on top since it gave her more control over the action and heightened her ability to orgasm. The thing is, it also decreased the sensation for me, although I was able to last longer because of it. However, for the record I prefer the missionary position. It feels the best and IMO it's also the most intimate.

This position has a variety of advantages: -It's comfortable for men with back problems. -Sometimes a woman prefers it when a man's penis is a bit big for her, that way she can control the penetration. -It leaves everybody's hands free to do other things while having sex. -The aformentioned view of the lady. -Psychologically people prefer it for different reasons, some because they see the person on top as being the dominator, some because they see being on bottom as being pampered.

Women's mestral blood can attract bears. So if your incall location is a tent in the woods, you shouldn't work during your period. That is just my advice.

Cristy...if every moves you do is to get adknowledgement and appreciation it may be deceptful If someone ask help..ask a reference or ask infos...i think it is common courtesy to respond with a thank you..Giving someone compliments..Well it is very nice of you and get even better if they adknowledge but as per example i don't see my profile posts very often..And when a lady only write to me to either compliments me or ask advices i have to be honest that it doesn't go in priority as i am usually behind schedule and need to catch up on my emails for my current tours... I think if it is a fellow sp that ask help..a thank you is well deserve as you take some of your time to cater for that person and you don't really have to But keep in mind that you shouldn't do anything with the expectations of reward. xVJ

Definitely you should do some market research to see what the range of rates is in your area. Another thing to consider is how much you need to make to achieve your goals. Then you need to look at how many appointments per week you would find reasonable to do, and which you can reasonably expect to get. Between these three factors, you will be able to determine the right rate for you, and also set a reasonable budget that will help you avoid problems. Best of luck!

Christy, taken directly form the rules & FAQ section of cerb: Ladies rates should not be up for public debate/discussion. IMO Determining what rate structure works for you, is part of being self-employed and should be a personal decision. Kim

Miss Victoria, You of all people have nothing to prove! You are extraordinary in your very being and anyone who questions that is, without a doubt, unworthy of you in any capacity. I agree with backrubman that the art of seduction is indeed forgotten and sorely missed. It is why my minimum visit is 2 hours. The first part is a "get to know you" and if we don't click, my guest leaves with his $, my best wishes and recommendations of someone more to his liking. I don't want to play if it isn't "right" for both of us. I can always tell if he's not into me and I certainly know when the chemistry is wrong. No amount of $ makes that situation worthwhile. cat

If I want to agonize over a menu, I'll go to MacDonalds. If I want to meet a special lady, I'll watch her posts here for awhile and then I'll talk to her in some manner. It really doesn't take too long for me to decide whether or not we'll click. I'm pretty easy going and low maintenance and I seem to gravitate towards those who have a sense of humor and appear to have a genuine interest in seeing me as a person in addition to being a client. I don't see my friends as escorts, really. I think of them more as friends with benefits. Every lady is different, but if I treat them as a lady, they'll treat me as a friend. The first hug and smile are the icebreakers....and then it's all good.

I will reiterate...not all of us have a regular, calendar counting type of menstruation. Nor do all of us have any warning signs of it's impending arrival. This could make for an uncomfortable or unpleasant experience (one I have not yet gone thru, touch wood) so bear in mind that the lady may not have been trying to deceive!

I would like to add that sometimes Mother Nature's "gift" comes without any warning and at an innapropriate time. It is entirely conceivable that she started her period while you were engaged in intercourse.

Possibly the opposite of the Stray Cat Strut Rolling Stones - Stray Cat Blues http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lDTe0aq0MkY

Sometimes I think people ask questions like this as a joke, a way to get the folks here at cerb riled up. I guess it's a big world and it takes all kinds but the fact that someone thinks getting an escort pregnant is different than getting any other woman pregnant seems outrageous to me.

Same as if you got a 'civilian' woman pregnant ;)

Well, I'll start - Gina's very good.

I never understood why people put up fake pics. It 8s putting you and your xlient in a very awkward situation when it comes time to meet. Everyone reacts differently and some timrs humiliation brings out anger and things could do from bad to worse Hopefully this jenna one learns her lessons before she is in a very uncomfortable situation