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Hello CERBies, I'm not that much new here but i think i can show myself and my thoughts a little more so i decide to open myself to all of you and i hope you will respond to me AND SHARE YOUR GOALS WITH ME.... Today I want to talk to you about some new years goals that you might already have a list or something in mind. Years after years, I always make some goals but i end up finishing half of it so this years one of my goals is to finish all of them :-) We all say the same goals money, gym, school (for some of you) , some promotions at your work well i think this year i want to set up goals for my spirit and my soul.. I think you trust me so i decided to do the same this year, GOALS FOR 2013 !!! 1. HAVE A CLEAR MIND ( So everyone around me who are not appreciate me for who i am i decided to remove them of my mind) 2. ALWAYS BE POSITIVE(even if I'm persuaded that there nothing i can do because there is always a way to make it) 3. ACCEPT GOD (yes I'm a believer but sometime in this business it's hard to keep faith in Him) 4. STAY WHO I AM (there is always something that you want to changes ,well if you do it for you it's ok but when you want to changes for people that's not okay ....i do not apply this rules on role play :boobeyes: ) 5. NEVER COMPARE MYSELF TO SOMEONE ELSE ( i love who i am i don't think i need to compare myself we all have our differences that's what makes people be unique ) 6. SEE ALL THE POSSIBILITY THAT LIFE OFFERING ME ( you need to keep your eyes open you never know what life can give you) 7. REMOVE ALL THE BAD THING THAT HAPPENED LAST YEAR ( the past is the past it will help you create a better future if you can accept the actions that you did good or wrong but there's some part of it that you don't need to go forward in your life ) 8. KEEP YOUR GOOD FRIENDS CLOSE AND TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM( WE NEVER SAY I LOVE YOU ENOUGHT ) 9. HAVE NO REGRETS ( I always think to much but this year I'm acting too ) 10. APPRECIATE EACH SINGLE MOMENT IN MY LIFE (because we can't go back in time so we better live today like they were no tomorrow!!) I ALSO HAVE SOME GOALS THAT I WILL MAKE REALITY FOR YOU CERBIES: 1. MAKE EROTIC MASSAGE TO ANOTHER LEVEL WITH MY ROOMMATE KATRINE CANNON 2. OFFERING YOU ALL THE BEST EXPERIENCE EVER WITH ME 3. BE MORE ACTIVE IN CERB DISCUSSION 4. CREATE NEW SERVICES FOR ALL OF YOU WHO COME TO SEE US 5. BUY MORE COSTUMES FOR YOUR FANTASIES 6. HAVE MORE TOYS TO PLAY WITH 7. ALWAYS BE TOP SHAPE (MEANING WORK LATER FOR SOME PEOPLE THAT ONLY HAVE LATE EVENING AVAILABILITIES) 8. DO MORE SPECIALS AND CONTEST FOR MY CERBIES BECAUSE YOU DESERVE TO HAVE SOME SURPRISES. I HOPE YOU ENJOYED MY THREAD AND I ALSO HOPE THAT IT WILL HELP YOU WITH YOU 2013 GOALS! YOURS TRULY JESSIE BROWN

I personally disagree, many clients have a particular fetish or specific interests and I for one would not like to have a client leave unsatisfied because he never asked if I offered that and it turns out I didn't. I am a firm believer that if you want something, ASK IF IT'S AVAILABLE. This helps to ensure a good client/SP match rather than throwing your sausage and beans into the dark and hoping for the best. If I don't offer what you're looking for, rest assured that someone does and hopefully other SPs agree with me that being asked what is on the menu is not distasteful. The only distasteful way to approach it would be to ask if there is any reduced costs for such & such services...as most of us know, it's the time you pay for not the service. But asking what services are available should not be taboo, imho. That's like saying it's wrong to ask the McDonald's cashier if Big Mac's come with pickles or not. You're not asking for a price check on a pickle-less burger...simply informing yourself of the...err...toppings. :) Additional Comments: Yes, most of us I'm sure have "heard it ALL before" ... I don't think there's much left to surprise me!

Small or big, discreet or spectacular, tattoos has become pieces of art shown on an individual, and shared by the others. The more I see tattoos, the more I find them sexy, interesting, and try to find under those magnificent drawings what they say of the person who wears it and what the tattoo artist has accomplished. Many of the ladies here on Cerb wear tattoos, and I'm a fan. Tattoos have become part of our culture.

i have many tattoo and at the beginning in this buisness i tought it might be a problem but instead of being a problem it was a plus my tattoo define who i am each single one of them. i decided to wear them and be proud of them no mather where i am they can be discrete or not i love them ... they help me, they are a descriptions of me plus they are soooooo sexy ... Additional Comments: yes yes you're right pistol

Very strange lol as so many people were born on this day (January 1st). We have to see what day is 270 days (or 9 months earlier :) (Valentine's day? No!!). No in my case it is real. I was born Noon time, January 1st but my guess is likely for a few it may be a cerb birthday. Nevertheless, my best wishes to all for a very happy and prosperous New Year and Happy birthday wishes to all those born today too.

My iPod died... Now no music to work out to :( Im out of scented candles and now must burn only inscence :( Lol My barista forgot my extra expression shot and I can still taste my sweet concoction over my uber caffeinated coffee... Sigh..

In the Maritimes I think if you want to start an agency there are several things you should be cautious of. Competition can be catty. With other agencies booking fake appointments and sending you on calls that aren't legit. Also if you are going to open a new agency you will immediately be on the radar L.e. From what I've seen they usually don't bother people involved in the. Business as long as there is no issues and business is kept generally low key I think there are pros and cons to agency vs independent. My personal opinion is for the area that your isn indepedent is the way to go When opening an agency your biggest cost will be advertising. Yellow pages ads, internet ads. And ibdont think you should hire someone I think you should alternate shifts between women working so that way clients can feel assured trgt their privacy and discretion is maintained That is just my personal opinon, but whatever you may decide I wish you the best and good luck in the future Take care and happy new year

Agreed!! It's good to see what's available publicly! :)

Have a look back at 2012 with me.... http://emilyrushton.com/blog/

Dropping my phone in the dish sink full of water, scooping it out, taking it apart, drying with hairdryer and having to wait 12 hours to see if it would turn on again. Turns out it works fine - just water mark on the glass - whew!!

Yesterday I wrote in the "Things that Suck," thread and even as I wrote I just KNEW that it should have gone in the "Highlights of the Day," because it became a highlight. The snowstorm that wasn't , actually came, even though rather late. One of my kids who was going to fly home via Ottawa was in the airport, checked in, inside security and the plane arriving from Montreal that was supposed to take them home could not land and diverted back to Quebec City. (That sucks for those passengers.) As a result all of my kids are still home for New Years Eve. I just finished making a lasagne for supper and we have more food than we can possibly eat for all through the evening. Shrimp, mussels, brie, chicken wings, homemade squash dip, tortiere, cranberry pudding, homemade ice cream, and it is a sign of how spoiled we are that we passed on lobster because we have had so much of it over the past week! So along with a few drinks, an evening of games and eating it will be a great send off to 2012. A great highlight of the day for me. :) Happy New Years everyone.

This is a great point, and thank you for making it! :) I am not going to actually make a list, but I do want to say that there are very many interesting lads around here that I feel very fortunate to have met and many more whom I really hope to get the opportunity to meet in the new year! Thank you to all the CERB gentlemen for being interesting and funny and especially for making me feel welcome here at CERB! :) It has become kind of a safe and cozy second home to me. I feel free to be myself, and for that I am forever greatful! :biggrin: Thank you! I love you guys! :bowdown:

Can we have a wish list? :)

Claire Heavens, MiaBella, SinCindy, Alexxxis, Emily J, Taylor Monroe Kianna, ..... And so much more!

Dad decided to fly back to Florida, after deciding to stay in Canada. When he got back down to Florida we (my brother and I) were told he doesn't have the most treatable form of leukemia, it is far more serious. And the cancer has spread to his lungs and bones. He wouldn't tell us how long he has left, but said he is staying in Florida till the spring. And he wants us to see him. So today running down to Whitby to the passport office to get my passport. But because they lost my Certificate of Registration of Birth Abroad (I was born overseas) when I applied for a passport a few years ago, I need to apply for a citizenship card (yes I'm Canadian) So this weekend fill out the forms and documentation, send to CIC, proof of applying plus proof of travel (plane tickets) and Passport Canada will expedite a passport for me. But another trip to Whitby Monday This December has sucked, so far no improvement At least this community and a few special ladies I have been in touch with and have been in touch with me help brighten things and take my mind off matters at hand, even for a little while RG

Every year I pick a families name from a tree and try to provide them with the best Christmas as I possibly can. I do fundraise all year long and my regular "friends" contribute to "Lexy's Jar of Hope", I also put just about all of my tips in the jar to make sure I can do this and keep this family tradition alive, as I have everyone in my house involved. Today was the day that I dropped the boxes of food, gifts and a grocery store gift card to provide the family with their Christmas meal and a little something extra for the single Mom, just for her and to pamper herself. My family met the Mom and her 4 children, the look in the Moms eyes and her children's faces makes it all worth. I wasn't sure I was going to be able to reach my goal this year beacuse of personal family issues but I did. Thank you to everyone who helped this year and in the past. We Did It Again!!:bigclap: I see now why I continue to do this each year, the feeling is amazing. Time to start for next year!! I need a new jar. Big Hugs and a Happy Holidays to All, Lexy

The little black dress is a must in every women's wardrobe! This one is my favorite :) I love to wear it on a date! Perfectly hugging my curves, this black lace dress contrasting with my porcelain skin is perfect to wear with a sexy corset under, a garter belt and stockings. I love to a woman! :D

Thank you for posting this, it is such an eloquent expression of truths that I experience, too.

Jesus, Jade........that was beautiful and what many are feeling.

I just updated my blog. I wrote a short poem and posted a picture of my adventure at the Nordik Spa in Chelsea (Québec). I hope you're all having a fantastic day! [and I hope other people post on this thread eventually... I know there are lots of people on CERB with blogs!]

Although it is totally normal and understandable to develop genuine caring feelings for gentlemen we truly like and see every so often (and vice versa), the bounderies ARE clear- the exchange of money for companionship takes care of that all by itself. Ladies do want repeat clients BUT not clients who are going to let themselves cross emotional bounderies. After all, this lifestyle is all about NSA 'relationships' without all the drama, headaches and complications a real relationship can bring. Once your vision starts to get blurred (client or companion), it is time to pause and re-evaluate the mutual-beneficial relationship. Personally, I believe a professional companion, with just a little respect for others and herself, would not 'milk' a client for all he has before putting an end to the situation (even tough that client represents a certain income). Everybody needs money to live but money is not all that matters in life.

I love my tattoos. They all have meaning, and whenever i look at them i remember that period in my life, I can look back and smile. The one i have that takes up my whole left thigh is my fave, it was birthday present from a very close friend who drew it and tatooed it just for me. I represents me and my story; my life and who i am. I know no one will ever have that tattoo, its mine and mine alone. It is a life changing experience getting one, it changes you as you now have a marker in time, i.e. before this tattoo and after. Its almost like taking a photograph to me, freezing a moment in time. I have 8, i will always remember who i was with and what i was doing at that time in my life when i got them . I look at them its like looking back fondly over a scrapbook of my life, mementos that are always with me. To me,they symbolize something important to the wearer, something they want to express to the world. I always loved tattoos, I come from a place where almost everyone has quite a few, full bodies even. I'm done getting new tattoos, i might add to my existing ones, but at this time i think im done, except for my father's tattoo's. I think my love affair with ink started as a young child looking at his arms, i was fascinated with their beauty and begged for one ever since i can remember. I was with him when i got my first one, it was a great day i will always remember and cherish , it's truly one of my best memories. I always told him when he passes i will get his tattoos, maybe even in the same places as a tribute to the greatest man i have ever known :) To me thats what tattoos are a tribute on your body to someone or something that's eternal. To love/cherish something that much is true beauty.

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