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joe64 contacted me yesterday with a text that read.... '3pm incall?' I was at the Dentist's and responded to him as soon as I had turned my cell back on. I explained myself and apologized for missing his text. But I also went on to tell him he would have to include more than what he did in his next text for an appointment. I sent him an example of an appropriate text here on cerb, and he responds by complaining that I didn't text him back right away and wasn't available when he wanted me. My next move is to ask him for a reference. He says he already sent me one. He didn't. Finally today he tells me 3 ladies he has seen but then berates me for not valuing him as a client and that I'm putting him through too much hassle. Ending his PM that he would be looking on BP for someone serious. I'll tell you right now joe64, it has less to do with your race, and a lot more to do with your approach. You want me to give my body to you and you think ' 3pm incall?' is sufficient as an introductory first text and that my asking for a reference is a hassle? I think you may have a couple of things to learn before you start worrying about your race. I know for myself, if you properly introduce yourself and conduct yourself respectfully towards me, race is not an issue. I believe that gentlemen come in all shapes, sizes and colours.

My Dad and I are very very close. Always have been. 3 days ago my dad was told he has a brain tumor. He and I discussed at great length yesterday....cancelled a little go for a drive getaway the two of us....for now....he is at peace about it, moving forward and will do what needs to be done. Soooo reason for my post. A very good friend of mine hadn't talked to his Dad for several years. Silly the reason why...IMO.....I called up my friend last night and told him about my Dad. I asked him...."So Mark. Do you want to get this news about your Dad someday, realizing he only may have a short time to live, knowing that you two aren't at peace? Forgiveness buddy forgiveness " He hung up on me. Mark's mother phoned me not long ago today crying and said "Thankyou....I don't know what you said to Mark but he is here and they are hugging...Thankyou Thankyou" Made my day :)

Very well said Soleil. Although I 99% of the time ignore texts, & the reason for it is because of their approach. U available, or where you located. Not a single hello or an introduction. Eventually what I see having happened here was him getting a lot of pm's wondering who this apparent racist SP is. You asking him to tell him a bit more about himself is far from being racist. He seems to be quite hung up on his race & unfortunately he thinks that the ladies will decline him an appointment due to it. That won't be the reason to decline the appointment, his attitude & how he treated you when you'd like to know a bit more about someone that you are providing your body & time to. Wow Joe is all I can say. The majority of the ladies I know would have ignored your text altogether, zero response. Soleil was nice & patient enough to respond then you play a blame game with her. She is a very sweet & kind hearted woman, who probably doesn't have a single racist bone in her body.

I think, in this case, only 2 opinions matter: Yours and the guy you are trying to be with. Sure, it would be nice to hear other people's views, but keep in mind their opinions ultimately mean nothing.

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Since many of us deal with criticism on a daily basis, I found this authors idea for a disapproval matrix quite interesting.

As in everything, there are those people who mind and those who don't, those who give in relationships and those who are parasites. I think the big questions here are the ones you need to ask yourself. Do you want to continue as an SP in a relationship or not? What are you looking for in a partner and a relationship? Once you know the answer to these questions to make yourself happy, you simply look for partners who will blend with you into what you're looking for. If you want to be an SP yet you have someone completely monogamous or jealous, it will never work, don't delude yourself thinking it will. If you want a strong man who does not sponge off you, then don't allow him to and if you see the behavior send him packing. Life is all about choices and making life into what we want it to be. You either chose things that will do this or you don't, either way, you have a choice. Good luck!

This video is re-calibrating my own mental gyroscope. The Hubble Space Telescope points at an apparently empty area of space and discovers 10 billion galaxies. "Awesome" is over-used, but this time, it's accurate.

2 Great on the room Lee, I will take it, will send funds via email transfer. Now I was hoping to have the duo with you and OD, perhaps the other fellows can video for promo stuff. But here is the thing sweetie, you need to understand what interactive is. I want to see you and OD make out and stuff , 2 guys kissing is a super turn on for me, I'd like to see some oral as well, but hey I understand the gents get to make their rules. You know what makes you comfortable is what I want. Please though a little kissing, I am sure we can work it all out and of course when I recco you it will be a ladies recco, what goes on behind closed doors is private. :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin: Anyhow the money is sent and I sure hope that Andy fellow makes it, he has a bit of a treck!! Love to all you boys!

Pretty much every day, I'll receive a few texts from numbers I've never seen before, just saying 'hi' or, 'hey'. I will never understand why these texts are sent. Most girls ignore them, to be honest. I occasionally will respond, saying 'Hello! If you'd like to see me, please introduce yourself and let me know what you're looking for, thanks!' other times I've said 'Hello! Who is this?', to get a response back with just a name. Like, Frank. Just Frank, nothing else. Not, Hello, this is Frank, wondering if you're available today?' I know sometimes a new client can be nervous with the first communciation. But please keep in mind, we are very happy to answer your questions, and if we accept texts (some girls state in their ads that they do not), then you are welcome to text us! But please, ask a question! Tell me what you're texting for. Because to just say 'Hi, then 'Frank', it's like pulling teeth. I'm not here to draw what you want out of you. You need to ask me, and then we can make an arrangement. I will admit, I sometimes can be a bit snarky in my responses to these texts. And i'm not a snarky person. But after the tenth 'Hey' or worse, 'hey babe', text I've received in a day, my patience may have hit it's limit. And I would hate for us not to get a chance to meet only because our texting didn't work out. Communication is key to a good encounter. Tell me who you are, and what it is you're looking for by contacting me. If you can't say more than a hello in a text, now how will we be able to talk in purrson silly!

Im wondering if Vanessa is indicating she has what we are looking for

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I think that the common thought and thread here is that whenever possible pleasure for "both" parties is paramount. So if as an SP or client, you feel it, enjoy it and show it. However, in reality there will be days where either party will not be at their best and that's ok. I'll be very blunt, if I'm involved with an SP and I sense that dispite my best efforts she's just not getting there on that day, at that time for whatever reason I'd just rather roll over, lay back, trace my fingers over her skin and chat. Trying to just carry on and power through for the sake of "finishing" is just embarrassing. Because I derive so much of my pleasure from the ladies pleasure I've learned that for me longer dates are my preference. That way I can have a sufficient amount of time to connect with the lady and allow the pleasure to build for both parties.

Way back in the day, I learned to hack DTV. Of course, I damned near got hooked on Jerry Springer. There was nothing like him on Canadian tv at the time. One commercial that came on every day at lunchtime was the Smart Beep commercial. Farkin' hilarious.

It's not that it's an unfair question, but that it's a very awkward one, Bushwacka. No one responsible is going to make generalizations about a particular group of companions. Those who might are likely to be biased and their opinions may have little factual basis. It's perfectly fine that you like Asian ladies. And it's also perfectly okay that you like anal sex. You'll need to contact Asian companions and ask them if this is something they do. There's really no other reliable way around it. Even when agencies claim that someone does or doesn't do something, they're not always correct. And I'm sure you don't want to expect something from someone only to find that she's feeling pressured into doing it when she may not want to! For something like this, which is a special activity that not everyone does or is comfortable promising, your best option is to ask the ladies you're interested in, yourself.

Well, as for why he did it, in his brother's words: Same as everybody else. And here's the case for him (probably) being back next season. Now, onwards to the glorious future when this sort of thing isn't remotely newsworthy!

Try the male masturbator head for the Hitachi Magic Wand, play with it alone or better yet slip in side it and then have your partner sit atop you cow girl style. It's made of win.

Not sure what other SPs reasons might be? There is however no shortage of men who treat women badly regardless of ethnicity. Cheers,

Can't say there's been any male-directed toys I've enjoyed. Well, unless you count a piece of fabric that was used to bind my hands to the bed-frame once. For a simple "toy" I've very fond memories of that one! But as nothing turns me on more than a turned-on woman, I'm most likely to get a thrill from a toy when it's one the lady has brought out to use on herself while we play. I knew one lady who had a collection of variously-sized buttplugs that she loved having used on her during intercourse. The fact that they were quite obviously her favourite toy by default made them mine.

My personal favorite is a little viberator bullet that can attach to a finger. Worn on the front of the finger the bullet is applied direct against the pussy/clit/anus but I always perfer to wear it on the back of the finger turning the finger into the viberator then the finger itself gets applied against the pussy/clit/anus. Vibes are great but nothing beats the sensation of skin on skin. Keeping it in batteries is a bitch though. The other is a viberating cock ring with a bullet on both the top and bottom side so she gets stimulation on both the clit and anus during intercourse.

Sophia please accept this big hug, so sorry to hear about your troubles, may they only improve for you. To Miquelon, thank you for your hug and the kind thoughts you always send:)

I agree. I'm prone to tendonitis in my right arm and have had good results with avoiding heat and using ice. I use a frozen gel pack from the drugstore, with a tea towel wrapped around it--just one layer of towelling between the gel pack and my skin. My doctor and physio recommended 20 minutes on, 20 minutes off, and repeat. I usually do three repetitions because it's hard to find more time than that to sit still. I take ibuprofen every 8 hours, around the clock, to help reduce the inflammation. I don't use a brace because it doesn't seem to make a difference for me. But if you have carpal tunnel involvement, a brace may help you get relief.

Well in the movie, My Big Greek Wedding, the father used windex for arthritis (and pretty well anything else that ailed him!)! A treatment that can work for soft tissue injuries (and a lot of athletes use this) is ICE therapy. I have used it myself several times for various injuries over the years with lots of success, but it is also painful to do as you have to immerse the limb in ice water for five minutes a couple times a day for about a week. Then you take it out of the water and move it around to let the blood flow back into the area. The theory behind this is that the ice constricts the blood flow in the area and reduces the pain and when the area is taken out of the ice bath and moved around, new blood comes rushing in and helps to take away the damaged stuff.

Was trying to track down one of my favorites and ran across this........ Any of you ladies try this ? as seen on TV ...

I think that first of all, when you - a very pretty and sexy blonde girl - puts up a note asking if people would date you, it isn't surprising that you got a ton of replies in a very short time :) Honestly, I think a lot of guys would go into the potential relationship with the best of intentions and an honest belief that your profession wouldn't be an issue day in and day out. For some guys it might stay that way, for some guys it wouldn't. It's like getting into a relationship with somebody that travels all the time. At the beginning it's great, but after weeks, months and years, even though you both knew what you were getting into - the time apart might start to be a problem and then the resentment starts to grow. Resentment is hard to overcome too. Having said all that - of course it's possible for things to work out for you! I just think you have to both go into it realistically - not with loveblinders on. Communication would be so important because there are a lot of different feelings that would be stirred up - for both of you. Bottom line is - you're a person who deserves to be loved and who deserves to be happy - and I have no doubt that there is somebody out there who will respect you for who you are - no matter what you do for a living!

I concur....I have witnessed virtually miraculous results with my brother and a close family friend......regular acupuncture and Chinese medicine methods.

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I had been playing phone tag with this girl for quite some time. And each time she was quick to respond and verry friendly. When she finally made it back to Fredericton I scramble to find the time to meet her. And was it ever worth it! Basically on my diner break I had discovered her add and wanted to meet her. A quick text back and forth ensued. Before I knew it I was in the parking lot Nervous about what to expect behind door never 1. If you have seen her adds you know the little pink outfit she was wearing. This clings to her in such a way you wouldn't believe. Within moments of opening the door she had me laughing. And within moments of that she had me disrobed. Jesse is a master at her craft ! And one of the most occomodating sp I have met. She's touring the province and I look each and everyday wishing it was my city she was visiting!

i have -plays pretty safe, GFE, CFS. non rushed, everything pretty much what you see in her ad is what you get. Enjoy! Cheers

Hi Samantha and all: Reaching the immigrants and a new workers who adds a group I agree suffer the abuses of the most might be done by finding people already in the trade by choice who are already part of the various cultures. "Who" would be a trust, and how can their safety be assured are serious questions which mean to be answered along the way as this idea unfolds. This absolutely must be done from within the community and totally community driven. - By community I mean all who work in the sex trade and related fields. - I haven't looked at the petition links MsSarah posted but it occurred to me that ideally the petition should be hosted by one Canadian based organization [preferably grass roots] which is accountable and transparent. --- Is there such an animal? -- so that it doesn't become a statistical nightmare. As this come together, -I'm just thinking off the top of my head now- we might approach people in organizations like Free Geek Vancouver to find is such a hosting organization or maybe even a programmer who happens to be in the sex trade. This is totally not part of free geek's mandate or even focus, but they are very good at digging up resources especially open source and are run on a consensus model. I have had an off and on affiliation with free geek Vancouver for years so I can approach them it we run into problems regarding putting the petition online etc. Samantha, you have raised spot-on concerns regarding bureaucracy etc. [How many thousands of hours spent on the phone, writing reports and endless correspondence with people they don't really want to change the status quo; entrenched in their own reality.] Part of this survey process will undoubtedly be very stressful and demonizing as things proceed. Sorry if this sounds like a bit of a downer everyone but it is the true when dealing with the hierarchical machinery. Nevertheless we should proceed and keeping it run by the community. I will post again tomorrow or later tonight. Rereading the entire thread and allowing some ideas to gel to the point where they can be presented any moral or less coherent form for feedback etc. PatrickGC PS: I hope the above does not sound authoritarian or arrogant. That was not my intent. If anyone feels that I, in any way overstepping boundaries. Please do say so.

Due to the rules of the board I cannot comment. PM if interested.

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I am a car guy so here are a few good car commercials. And I always liked this one.

There is no perfect answer to this question, but I will throw a couple questions out there for discussion Isn't it going to be a better encounter with a lady who will like you than with someone who appears to have prejudices If you see this lady knowing ahead of time that she has a prejudice, aren't you in fact creating a situation where the sex is coerced, and not consensual. This lifestyle has to be mutually beneficial. Even if her prejudice isn't right, don't compound a bad situation by showing up knowing she wouldn't have seen you had she known (I know, badly worded) and knowing she may be going through with the encounter more because she feels forced...doesn't it comes dangerously close to being a sexual assault, not a mutually beneficial encounter. If you are at all a gentleman, you will ask her if race is an issue for her, if it is, see someone else, if not then see her Above all else, this lifestyle should be open, honest and consensual RG After reading Soleil's post, which paints this much clearer, disregard what I posted above. Joe, verification and references are normal practices in this lifestyle of meeting ladies. If you consider it a hassle, this may not be the lifestyle for you. Second, bashing a lady who is well established on this board, while you are new here is not getting off on the right foot. And dragging this community into what is really a nothing complaint (changing your method of contact to a lady to more than two words would have done you a world of good) by spinning it into an issue of race, well JMHO, despicable. Guys aren't the only ones who look at a lady (check recommendations etc) prior to contacting her There are ladies who check out guys before an encounter through verification and you aren't on your way to having a good reputation amongst the ladies A rambling RG

Although not from down east, is this the lady being referred to? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=130766 RG

Part of the 'hype' is because she was for a time the only massage specialist in town. For many of us (YMMV of course) she was worth repeating because she is gorgeous, provides an excellent massage, incredibly sexy striptease, and brilliant ending (non-FS). For me, she was a wonderful change of pace from GFE FS encounters, while still providing top-notch, personal, and intimate services. She has a wonderful, warm, kind, funny personality and made me feel welcome and relaxed as soon as I met her. It may seem that she was singled out in a way other wonderful SPs who retired/left weren't, but since she was massage-only, she filled a gap in the services provided in Halifax.

Sorry about your bad experience hun.. Hugs and virtual kisses to you! Cerb is amazing and even for us providers is safer. I do advertise on CL and BP as well but specially lately I see soo many new adds from many ladies that oFfer their services at lower rates.., but that's excatly what you get a lower quality of service. You get for what you pay.. But many gentlemen think they are getting a deal, when in fact they are getting riped off by non proffesional subjects.... Again smiles, kisses and hugs!!!

I can not get enough duo action! My close friend Monique Matheson and I would love to have you join us in the mix. Fully interactive and always HOT. Check out my duo photo album entitled "ME" (Monique and Erica) to get a glimpse of what you're in for.... Lets do it!

I've seen her a few times an it was always worth visiting her

I was ok with the HI text from guys I have never met.., I am jsut so easy going... but to be honest recently I have started to be a bit more "rude" and cut off.., for the simple reason that is not only sayin hi, today, but tomorrow, the day after, and the day after that, you have already given yoir rates explained what u do and after trying to be friendly and polite.. You get guys that want to meet you for lunch, a drink, dinner or coffee.. Really? Even after you say no, they keep going, hi every day.. You even stop answering any texts from this number, next thing you get is empty txts.. Really?? And next is ... What did I do why don't you answer? What did I do? Really??? It just makes me shake my head... Wtf??? And keeps going for months....

You need to be smart enough to know when to avoid a particular client base, such as ..... 1) Men who have been burned badly by others sps, and then paints all sp's with the same brush..... 2) Those who are always looking for the cheapeast of the cheap when it comes to cost...these men usually tend to go over their said time and you will burn out quickly-and that will kill your chances of success in this business. You need to be strong enough to ensure that you avoid: 3) Clients who try and persuade you to overlook your usual restrictions... 4) Caving in to suggested rates by hobbiests...they have no idea what is to do something like this. There seems to be an 80$ trend going on right now...and that is all I am gonna say ;) MOST of the men on this board prefer quality over quanity...THANK GOD :bowdown: I would suggest CERB as the place to attract your best client base! All of the other sp's advice is very good too!!

When I began my career as a dancer, I had some bars refuse me because of my small chest size:( After some time went by, I finally had a few places that did hire me. My audience grew larger and larger each time I got on stage, eventually having standing ovations! One of the bars that refused me, actually asked me to come to work there, as they had seen what a great show this small breasted woman could give! So I did go. I must say it was alot of fun, but then the management said if I wanted to stay I had to have an augmentation done and they would pay for it. ( Even tho I continued to get raving results for my shows) I said no, I am too young to know if I will want this later in my life. I am happy I did not, I love my small breasts, perky and in the right place, lol.... When your young, we have so many insecurities. I am happy that I had the fortsight to not do this procedure. I think I would have regretted it in my later years.

Personally if I don't get a lady off or make sure she doesn't enjoy herself,I don't feel great after leaving our appointment. As I have stated to some SP's it is not about" wham bam thank- you mam" it is about chemistry being sensual and erotic and ensuring the lady really gets herself off too. That itself is rewarding for both parties, there is nothing like hearing a lady moan,having her scratch your back,or pull your hair or bite your nipples ;) " it fucking turns me on hearing her,feeling her getting turned on" I really like the two hour sessions lately :) so much more time to explore, appreciate and really get off two times or more:) So if you get off myarain or really turned on "it's all good" after all that's what it is all about,so enjoy it!!

I had to remove a thread tonight and I am very upset that people are posting crap like this. Some idiot PM'd one of the members claiming that one of the local girls has aids. The member posted this along with other nonsense. Why he felt it was necessary to start a thread like this I will never know but I am done with people trying to slander other peoples reputations. If your too stupid to realize a PM or POST like this is just slanderous and made by either a jealous competitor, ex-boyfriend or drunken idiot trying to cause a problems then let me help you out by telling you first hand that you should just delete the PM and report the user name to me so we can get rid of the trolls! If you feel the need to accuse someone of such a thing publicly do it elsewhere as I don't care to slander anyone on this site and as long as I am moderator of this site I will NOT tolerate it from anyone else here! I will shut down the board before I allow that to happen so if you enjoy the site please respect this policy and rule.