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I posted this in the "New to this area" as well. I went through 3 pages of Ottawa only section of recommendations, there was 6 rec's that were BUMPED to page 1 due to general comments, over the past week alone. In fact one recommendation has been closed on a lady that was on here for quite sometime but has been retired for over a year or more now. So this was my post in the area, and should be posted here too...... When posting a recommendation, a) Ensure permission from the lady is granted along with her photo's, and ensure that the details are either not shared with everyone,or if she does allow details feel free to do so. b) If she is a lady from BP or what ever other site, ensure you give as much info on how you found her. c) Posting a picture IF it is a Rec thread starter for the lady and if she is an Cerb member with pictures on her profile. Right click on her picture you and her like to use for the replacement over the regular check mark. Save the photo to your pictures, than add it where it tells you to upload the picture. (For your own safety, simply delete photo from your saved photos so you have no evidence in your photo liabary folder). You can also ask permission from the lady if the thread is already started, and add a picture by right clicking on her photo, and you add it in your comment box, which gives appeal to the recommendation. d) Recommendations threads are just that, to recommend to others, it is NOT an area where You think it is alright to ask questions about a lady in recommendation thread. Example Clicking on the bottom to respond to a thread Recommendation, to ask..... 1) How do I get in touch with her? (Info should be provided already) 2) She have a web site? (If she has one there is box to insert web sites look first on the first page) 3) Oh she sounds like a lady I like to meet!(general comments should not be used in recommendation, it simply BUMPS the recommendation to the first page) 4) What is her rates? (rates should not be discussed unless already in her web site or ad, BUT this question is already answered in the information provided) 5) Where is she located? (If the city is noted than you know where she is located) 6) Please do not make general comment in Recommendation that you saw this lady a year ago, things have changed in a year especially if she has RETIRED! There is many other general comments made lately in recommendations which is truly unnecessary and not needed as that we call BUMPING. Information already provided in the recommendation PAGE 1, will answer your questions, IF NOT simply PM (Personal Message) the lady or the gent that provided the recommendation IF YOU NEED FURTHER information. Lately there is has been many BUMPS which are UNFAIR to those ladies that may have had moved from say....page 4 to page 1 then they are quickly off page 1 because of general unnecessary comments. Perhaps this a bit of a rant from myself, but I think the playing field should always be FAIR to ALL LADIES on the board. MOD if you have anything to add, please say so..I would not even mind in the board gave infractions for BUMPING by general comments. As I know that ladies are NOT allowed to comment on their own Recommendation, than why is it allowed by gents that simply do not use the search buttons? or will not send PM'S? and they make comments on a recommendation thread that has no merits? I could be off base, but that is my thoughts and I'm sure some will not appreciate this thread, but something should be done IMHO.

Luckyme, first, let me say that what I am about to say has nothing to do with you... I'm not sure how to word my thoughts on the matter (maybe it's still too early lol) but for safety's sake, I would highly recommend that ladies get their own transportation instead of accepting a ride from a pure stranger. I hate to be a realistic downer but the fact is that not everyone has good intentions and ladies need to ensure that they will make it from point A to B (and back) safely and not end up in a ditch somewhere because they had no control over where they were being brought to by this so called "kind gentleman" who offered a ride. Sad but true. I think everyone, at some point in their lives, has guests over to their house... your visitor(s) could very well be a family member, a friend, a co-workers, etc. Our personal cars are not labelled with "I am an escort visiting your neighbor" ;) lol

i did some in the hotel. such a bummer they had to cancel the pool party but i guess the hotel staff had second thoughts. I'm wearing my custom stuff tonight so ill snap a few more and then the photo walk on sunday..and the masque.. teehee you guy are in for a treat! I dont get to play dress up often in this style!

my fripples are big fripples, lol.

I would stop. When I decided, less than two years ago, to get my licence and buy a car, I did so after losing a friend in a hit-and-run accident. I finally felt I was ready to take on the responsibility of driving, because I would NEVER do what that bitch did to my friend. Driving is something I take very seriously. I obey every stop sign/traffic light/etc, and not for fear of traffic cops, but because WHAT IF a person or animal jumped out and something bad happened. If I had to look back and say 'If only I'd stopped at that stop sign, this wouldn't have happened', I couldn't live with myself. I *did* hit a deer and wreck my car earlier this year - but I was going the speed limit, looking straight ahead, doing everything I was supposed to. So, my attitude was, shit happens, but at least I know I wasn't at fault, and there was no way I could look back and say 'If I'd done this differently, that wouldn't have happened'.

I always try to look 'normal'. I actually prefer outcalls in winter when I'm going to someone's house, as I can wear a sweater and not show any skin when I arrive. In summer, I base my wardrobe on where I can park- if he says I can park in his driveway, I'll wear a simple summer dress. If he wants me to park away from his house, I feel he wants an extra layer of discretion, and I'll show up in jeans or yoga clothes. I always have done sexy panties on underneath, but that's for his eyes only ;)

My friend, you need to slow down with the dirty posts, I can't keep up. Between supporting all the lovely ladies and being completely sweet you keep all the gentlemen spoiled with boobies, fripples, redheads and all manner of sexy in between. You definitely keep the community humming right along!

I love to many to name and it really does depend on the person. Some people-men and women can really rock very short hair, some long and mid length. So long as it flatters the person it'll look attractive to my eye, long, short or in between. But I will say I do love a woman who's beauty and confidence is strong enough to wear a really short do:)

To answer your question, yes. I like it all. As long as it's a nice style and suits your face, I'm good. However, I do have a thing for weird angled, short spikey blonde hair as well as long hair pulled through a ball cap. I even have a think for long hair with shaved sides. If it's clean and doesn't smell like cigarettes I can't judge. I'm shaved bald so who am I to judge. right?

Love for everybody!!! I love a rambling man and forthright and sexy ladies. What a foursome we'd be! lol

Over my many years as a SP, one of the things I have noticed is that the client usually feels better on his own home turf. I see lots of newcomers to this hobby. Generally, people feel more comfortable in their own beds where they know the territory. I also prefer outcalls because there is no potential legal issue. I drive myself. I dress simply. I park where I am instructed to park. As far as I know, I have never caused anyone any grief. I never look like a SP. I like to joke that I try to look like a salesperson. The advantage of an outcall is the client can drink if he wants, he can smoke if he wants, he can make a total mess if he wants, he can eat what he wants, and he is more at liberty to do whatever he wants. Plus, it amuses me to no end to hear a guy tell me that he cleaned up his place just because of my visit. I love feeling like an honored guest. It gets things off on the right foot. I also offer fetishes and in some cases the gentleman caller has all the fetish toys required and in many cases those toys are not portable.

As a new member you do have a learning curve ahead of you. Once your a member for a while and have contributed then you can make suggestions on how to make the site better but for now how about exploring the site and a little less complaining (Not really off to a good start). The site is complex and has a vast amount of info and features, if it's too far over your head either take it slow or the alternative is just choose not to support the site and find another place to frequent that is easier for you. Would that not be the best suggestion?

Well, it is not complicated and a reason exists for these qualification steps. The reason is that it stops most SHILL (Fake recommendations) being made. If we did not have this step the site could be (and would be) easily abused and the credibility of the recommendations goes downhill. so.... 1) Commenting on profiles does not count as a "POST" you need to comment on a public thread (Discussion). Join in a few conversations, contribute a little, let others see what you are all about as no one here will believe your recommendation without some substantial post history anyway. 2) Once you have 5 posts and have been a member for 5 days you can post a NEW recommendation for a lady who does not have one already. Other stuff opens up on the site when you contribute more as well (like elite member status opens the doors to some new threads here that standard members can not see but you need to earn those privileges by contributions) would you believe a recommendation from a new member with no post history? To me if it was the only thing that member posted I would just assume it was a SHILL post from the lady trying to stir up business or even a agent/friend/boyfriend/pimp/etc... the recommendations must be genuine and when you make it a little more difficult to just simply open a new account and post one it discourages a lot of this sort of undermined fake posting.

@Penelope Davis I think you would look amazing in either of the last two. Very sexy.

If a woman has the facial structure and, more importantly, the neck to pull it off, I love short hair on a woman. If a woman has a long elegant neck and nice ears, well, the sight of them makes one imagine being close enough to smell and kiss them! Long hair pulled back tightly into a bun has the same effect on me too. Yeah, it's all about the neck! I kinda fell in love posting in this thread. Ahhh.

The Collection. If you like movies like saw, this is right up there. Very graphic and had me on the edge of my seat the whole time. Also watched The Dark Tourist. This is a deep movie, and probably would not have watched it knowing what was portrayed. However, it was well done, and I am glad I watched it. I was surprised that the ratings were not more clear on what was involved. I mean, I see movies that say things like "sexually suggestive sceens" and nothing really shown, but this one I don't recall having the warnings.

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Panama, because it's snuggled nicely between Costa Rica and Columbia. Now, can you guess my motive? :P I've read that Panama is a great place to retire, and while I'll never fully retire, spending January to March there might soon be in the cards!

When posting a recommendation, a) Ensure permission from the lady is granted along with her photo's, and ensure that the details are either not shared with everyone,or if she does allow details feel free to do so. b) If she is a lady from BP or what ever other site, ensure you give as much info on how you found her. c) Posting a picture IF it is a Rec thread starter for the lady and if she is an Cerb member with pictures on her profile. Right click on her picture you and her like to use for the replacement over the regular check mark. Save the photo to your pictures, than add it where it tells you to upload the picture. (For your own safety, simply delete photo from your saved photos so you have no evidence in your photo liabary folder). You can also ask permission from the lady if the thread is already started, and add a picture by right clicking on her photo, and you add it in your comment box, which gives appeal to the recommendation. d) Recommendations threads are just that, to recommend to others, it is NOT an area where You think it is alright to ask questions about a lady in recommendation thread. Example Clicking on the bottom to respond to a thread Recommendation, to ask..... 1) How do I get in touch with her? (Info should be provided already) 2) She have a web site? (If she has one there is box to insert web sites look first on the first page) 3) Oh she sounds like a lady I like to meet!(general comments should not be used in recommendation, it simply BUMPS the recommendation to the first page) 4) What is her rates? (rates should not be discussed unless already in her web site or ad, BUT this question is already answered in the information provided) 5) Where is she located? (If the city is noted than you know where she is located) 6) Please do not make general comment in Recommendation that you saw this lady a year ago, things have changed in a year especially if she has RETIRED! There is many other general comments made lately in recommendations which is truly unnecessary and not needed as that we call BUMPING. Information already provided in the recommendation PAGE 1, will answer your questions, IF NOT simply PM (Personal Message) the lady or the gent that provided the recommendation IF YOU NEED FURTHER information. Lately there is has been many BUMPS which are UNFAIR to those ladies that may have had moved from say....page 4 to page 1 then they are quickly off page 1 because of general unnecessary comments. Perhaps this a bit of a rant from myself, but I think the playing field should always be FAIR to ALL LADIES on the board. MOD if you have anything to add, please say so..I would not even mind in the board gave infractions for BUMPING by general comments. As I know that ladies are NOT allowed to comment on their own Recommendation, than why is it allowed by gents that simply do not use the search buttons, or send PM'S, and they make comments on a recommendation thread that has no merits? I could be off base, but that is my thoughts and I'm sure some will not appreciate this thread, but something should be done IMHO.

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I like it all, & in your case you could shave your head and you would still be a sexy lady!

No worries, Gabriella, I completely understand your points. Safety of the ladies is the most important aspect of this hobby. For my regulars, it is our trust of each other that they feel comfortable to accept my offer since we have seen each other multiple times previously. For the new ladies ( they are cerb ladies, by the way), for their satisfaction and peace of mind, I gave them my phone no. and the address beforehand. With this info. and ( hopefully) with my established profile and history here ;), they would feel safe enough to accept my offer - and they did. One lady even after I picked her up at her friend's place, asked me to drive her back to her house to take her shower and do a few quick chores. I agree with you though, that it is still not advisable to accept a ride offer from a total stranger. On your second point, I just feel that with a stranger's car driving in my driveway, and then a beautiful lady stepping out and into my house, it can still look unusual. When I drive in with the lady myself, I'll drive straight into the garage - it is a lot less conspicuous. Those are just my experiences, and I am not advocating that everyone should do the same.:icon_smile:

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If a driver is used and they are professional then the protocol as to how where and when they do drop of and pick will be in your best interests, to protect your discretion and the safety of their sp. When choosing an independent communicate with that sp, check references and go with your instincts as good feelings usually result in good outcomes. I've visited many private residences without any issues. Its easy, dress appropriately, get good directions so you aren't driving around or circling neighbourhoods and park where your client instructs. But as its been mentioned proper and careful screening is important for both parties :)

Paths of Glory(1957), starring Kirk Douglas. Anti war war flick, sort of like Breaker Morant only set in ww1 with French troops. Imho, Michael Douglas only inherited a fraction of dad's talent. Btw, whenever K. Douglas is mentioned, I have to note that my mom dated him a couple times at St. Lawrence Univ. before he was Kirk Douglas. If things were a bit different, I could've been crank Douglas!!!

Cabot trail in Cape Breton, NS, by motorcycle. Supposed to be hauntingly beautiful and I have had it planned twice, but cancelled by others both times. In a perfect world, I would run into one of you beautiful Cerbies enroute. Okay.....clarification time........one of you beautiful sp's on this board.

The only way to spend today in NS.

I like Halifaxman cause he is from my hometown.....don't know enough about you yet but I am sure your posts will make you shine!

I'm sure the SP has the driver's number. While you're putting together the extra donation, she can drop him a text to tell him she'll be there for a bit longer. Well, I've never actually done an outcall, so I don't actually know what I'm talking about, but.... some ladies address this on their websites and make a point of saying they'll be dressed in casual or business attire when they show up. They can always change once they arrive. If not, I don't think it'd be at all unreasonable to ask someone to show up dressed appropriately for the time of day and the neighborhood. It'd be nice to think that this would never be necessary, but it appears that's not the case.

I've hosted several outcalls in the past few years and have never had anyone show up looking anything less than totally discreet. Usually the ladies show up dressed casually and conservatively. (That doesn't last long once they're inside though ;) ) Posted via Mobile Device

I like Emiafish because he obviously has good taste in women, because Midnite-Massage does have very sexy eyes.

I normally do only incall. The few times that I had outcalls, I offered to pick up and drop off to the ladies including my regulars and new ladies. They all accepted with no problems. This could have avoided many potential problems since it is a lot less conspicuous with my car driving into my driveway than a stranger's car.

If you have a SO don't use your place for an outcall. It's a lack of respect, and can save a lot of headache for both you and the lady if you get unsuspected visit from your SO.

It is very nice to have an SP come out to your place from time to time. There's really nothing like "home court advantage". I have used different agencies and the drivers have never parked near my house or even on my street. Maybe the driver is parked around the block -- I don't know for sure -- but if that's the case, then that is fine with me. HOWEVER -- I live in a house, not an apartment, and I have had two instances with two different agencies where they were less than discreet. One time the car rolled up blaring loud music as the lady got out and walked up to my place, easily (and stupidly) drawing attention to herself if one of my neighbours had bothered to look out their window. In another instance, the brakes were dying on the driver's car and were squealling loudly when the car came to a stop for both drop-off and pick-up -- again, this would be a noise in an otherwise quiet residential neighbourhood that would draw attention to my evening companion. If you live in a high-rise apartment building or condo, even if you have a person stationed at security after hours who requires every visitor to sign in, I think having an SP come to an outcall is not going to draw much attention to you, if at all. Just like a hotel, hundreds of people come and go through buildings throughout the daytime and in the evenings. There are a million and one lies you can tell if anyone ever asks you about a girl coming to visit you after hours. C'mon, I bet you can think up three plausible ones right now........ That is why I love this hobby: it is as much a thinking man's game as it a horny man's game! :biggrin:

I rarely use a driver for residential outcalls. I typically drive myself. However, there are times that I use a female driver. I find it funny when clients don't want me to park in their driveway. I'm like, where am I supposed to park? I am not going to walk 3 blocks in dress and heels, so they don't have to worry about neighbours seeing a strange car in the driveway. In these cases, I use a driver. Or use a taxi. I find though that it is different when you are dealing with agencies. The girls generally do not have a choice and must use the designated driver. Don't forget, the driver does not want to draw attention to themselves either, so will be discreet. They generally have a cell phone too, so the lady will let them know when they are ready to come out.

To many to list,:) kind people are plentiful lately and I'm so grateful:):) Life is great:):)

I LOVE anal. It's a very intense amazing feeling. There are so many nerve endings that it's a whole different feeling. I love sex period and wouldn't want to chose any one activity over another because it's the whole spectrum that makes it such a wonderful activity. There is also the whole aspect mentally that you're completely opening yourself to someone in ways that may be taboo to some. Mind you, in order to make it good, you need to have the right approach, you can't just force it in and entry should be slow and easy. When it's not, it can have impact on whether someone views it positively or not.

I'm like that with SLAYER. My best friend won't let me put them on when I drive.

Hard to say, I'm a fan of both. If it came down to a decision, I would go for a plush sized partner. Bed or chair?

Have to also add: Katrine Cannon Claire Heavens SweetSami EvaAdore The list is expanding! Better get on it!

There are actually quite a few...I'm 49 :)

Some pictures from EvaAdore Album:

Many ladies offer incalls out of their homes, and follow safety protocols, so I don't see why they shouldn't do this. I know some women who have happily been doing it for years. As for gentlemen inviting SPs to their home, I have been trusted to do so on many occasions. There have been multiple circumstances: sometimes it's with a gentlemen I have met previously at my incall, so he's built up the trust; sometimes it's with a new client, but we've emailed back and forth significantly, so he's built up the comfort level; and, I've even been invited to someone's home for our very first meeting after our first communication. I delete the address information as soon as I'm gone, so even if I'm invited back, I need the info again. I don't keep my clients personal information (unless I'm asked to, which has happened). And I do of course have a safety call who knows where I am, and when I should leave. Now, I once was invited to a man's home during our first text conversation. He wanted me to go to his home, in the outskirts of Ottawa, for a home-cooked meal. I denied this request. Going to a secluded area, for a meal cooked by a man I'd never met = RED FLAGS. I told him I was happy to join him for dinner if he came to me, and we went to a restaurant. He declined. Which made me feel happy I had said no. When you've been in the business a while, and I'm also assuming when you've been a hobbiest for a while, your gut does a fairly good job of telling you when you should say yes, or when you should say no. Mine hasn't led me astray yet!

I used to offer outcalls to private homes when I had my trusted driver with me that would wait close the gentleman's residence. For now I don't offer them to everyone, only to the locations I've already been to or to hotels. Since I'm not from Ottawa, I don't have anyone close to take care of me (they'd take 2 hrs to get here!). Plus the taxi fees get a bit expensive... However for the time I did provide outcalls to homes I really enjoyed myself as my clients were usually more comfortable at their own place and I didn't have to stress about the traffic at my hotel. There was also the fact that I avoided the no-shows (extremely frequent since I mostly advertise on BP). I hope this helps!

I have done outcalls in the past and will continue to do them just as long as I get proper verification. I also check in with someone before and after while I'm on an outcall. As long as you know the SP is reputable and discrete in her behaviour and how she dresses, you should be fine. When I first started out with an agency, I would get the driver to drop me off a few houses down so no one would see a car pulling up. I also dressed tastefully so I wouldn't draw any attention to myself.

I like Gabriella, was not educated about sex work until university, and it really is a different world than I had been taught to understand. They call me a Hooker or Whore? No. I am a Companion. A Haven. I provide the ultimate in personal services. Many clients are looking beyond just a shag now, and into ... a girlfriend, a playmate. I love my job, because I make people smile, and feel better for a time. I am compensated for the happiness consultation we had. It's poetic no? We are therapists in a way. Muddled late night thoughts ;)

Hi Phil, New members can not post recommendations right away. New members must get past the moderation period first (5 posts and 5 days) meaning you must post at least 5 posts and you must be a member for at least 6 days before your account will move to a non-moderated account. WHY? This stops people from creating SHILL accounts (Accounts that are FAKE members trying to post fake recommendations to falsely promote someone). We can usually spot the SHILL posts a mile away and close the accounts and with this 5 day 5 post rule... it makes creating fake accounts a lot less appealing for those who try to do this. The moderation period also stops people from posting Negative/slanderous comments, posting in the wrong area and generally breaking the site rules. To get past the moderation period simply join some conversations, ask some questions (or answer some) and the 5 days and 5 posts will be done in no time... this will give people some post history so that when they read your recommendation is has a little more history to show your not SHILL posting.