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Well, if you dont contact the owner to help prevent this from happening to others then I am not sure what the purpose of this post was. As it stands now you are casting aspersions over a large segment of the Mas, and only one has been bad to you. Dont get me wrong, as I am on your side re the original complaint, but do think you should register your complaint vs just vent on here. There is also the other board where you can be quite a bit more detailed if you choose.

I'm stunned, now that I've seen reference to specific phrases in the chant, that a) anyone could sing this without dropping dead of shame, and b) women in particular could actually sing along. Before I found the words involved (literally "underage" and "no consent"), I though the song might be, I dunno, "cheeky" or something vague. But it's so obviously horrible. There's something powerful at work here having to do with the burning desire to conform, be accepted, not rock the boat, and just go along to "succeed" within the prevailing social dynamic, whatever that may be. So my question is: how does a chant like this get made up, propagated, accepted, and sung aloud for years? How can anyone sing this without revulsion? I think there are valuable things about society to be learned here, and especially lessons on the entrenched obstacles to really confronting the kind of misogyny that remains pervasive and unremarked upon, even here in supposedly progressive and enlightened Canadian society. Additional Comments: No, I disagree. It's certainly possible for someone who's 12 to utter the phrase "yes". It's even possible for them to really mean it, in order to please the person making the request. What it's not really possible for them to do is fully grasp the weight of the thing they're agreeing to. The law says that people who are underage are considered incapable of the kind of will, judgement, self-awareness, and required agency to give meaningful consent to what's about to happen. Maybe a shorter way of putting it is, when you wrote "there might be ethical problems," THOSE are exactly the problems the laws are there to address. Granted, people vary, and some are ready for sex a little sooner than others. But I'd rather commit the sin of being arbitrary and picking a number we all must follow, than putting ourselves in a position where we'll have to evaluate the participants separately for each case of underage sex, after the fact, to determine what they're cognitively capable of. I can't control where other societies choose to put that line, but here in Canada the age of consent is encoded in law and must be obeyed: 16, 18 if there's involvement by an authority figure, and some special rules for close-in-age partners. And, much as young boys might fantasize about their teachers (I did!), they're equally unready for the powerful emotional consequences of the relationship, and can be badly damaged by it and its ensuing collapse. And, let's face it, if it's conducted by a significantly older woman at that age... is fundamentally fucked up on her part to begin with, so things aren't going to go well. For an extreme example of that dynamic at work, see Pamela Smart and her victim Billy Flynn.

This is a tough one as far as the having to wait in the room alone for your MA, especially if you have walked into a spa without an appointment. Most spa's unless they're all inclusive, collect a door fee and the procedure is to see the client to his room first. You're usually welcome to take a quick shower and should only be left alone for a few minutes while you wait. But things happen such as.... if you didn't make an appointment and are a walk in, often the MA needs to quickly get herself ready as well. What if the lady just had lunch and needs to quickly brush her teeth or take a few extra minutes to get ready to present herself? It's definitely more challenging for the MA to be ready to go at any given moment. Seeing as you didn't mention if this was a walk in or not, I think it's best discussed with the owner. You should have been in the room for the full 45 minutes but, if I may just add how these situations can be challenging and happen to the best of us.

You are so rigth Pete.. I am 100% of the same opinion Time is Money.. In my case I always leave space between appts... Minimum 15 min... Or more.. In case something happens... Maybe the previous appt late or any other unplanned situation... Or just so I am prefectly ready to meet my next visitor ;-) I hate being rushed.. And I hate to make people wait... As you said shows lack oif proffessionalism...care and mosrt of all Respect for the gentlemen that is visiting you... And if for some reason I know that I will be late, even if its only 5 min I try to communicate with the person and let them know ahead of time... And the sane way we expect our visitors to be on time We should also be on time!

Waited 15 minutes before the lady final entered the room, fresh smell of cigarettes on her breath. GFE and DFK off of the menu, although 45 minutes was booked the brief session was sensual but lasted only 15 minutes as the MA was anxious for the release. Kind of turned me off.

You are making the correct decision. Getting in contact with the owner to discuss what happened should not only ease your frustration over the issue, but also to help prevent it happening to another client. The owners of the spa's around town cannot be there 24/7, so feedback like this helps them in running a better business.

I dunno... I love the awesome experiences I have with SPs, but sticking to that would be like eating dessert all the time and never cooking and enjoying a whole, balanced meal. :) Sex and even intimacy aren't the only rewards of relationships; there's also being always present for each other, building something together, challenging each other, taking risks with each other and making the compromises that being with someone full-time requires. As awesome as the women of CERB are, they can't provide that as a service. Life's about growth. The SPs I've seen have taught me a lot, but there's a lot more potential in relationships than the SP experience can offer to a client. That's what motivates me to keep working on conventional relationships, much as I really, really, really enjoy dessert. ;) Additional Comments: Also... I can't see a Bruno Mars reference without thinking of Bad Lip Reading's "alternate version" of his Lazy Song video, with contributions from others...

Well for me this lifestyle hasn't made me lazy. I did the dating game and it didn't work for me. So, after a bad break-up and a three year hiatus from dating I decided to see a SP. Well the first couple encounters not so great and made me think about giving up. But then I met a great companion. My subsequent encounters not just with her but other ladies have been good and memorable. This lifestyle hasn't made me lazy. I just found in this lifestyle it became my social life, meeting many ladies, having a mutually beneficial no strings attached "relationship", whether for just a one time encounter, or for a longer ongoing friendship. No this lifestyle hasn't made me lazy. This lifestyle has made me see that men and women can have mutual respect for one another, in a no strings attached lifestyle, without the drama of dating and relationships An evening rambling RG

It's so, so broad. All I can come up with is: if two people interact in a way that intentionally produces sexual arousal in at least one of them, it's sex. It doesn't need to result in orgasm, and no clothes need to come off. There doesn't even have to be touching; one person could just be speaking, or putting on a show, and to me that still falls under the wide tent of "sex". That leaves aside masturbation (still a kind of sex, but not really what we're talking about here); unintentional arousal (that's sexual, but it's the interaction and intention that constitutes "sex" to me); one person just lusting after another person who's there, but unaware and not participating (that's just solo fantasy, not sex); and poly play which just increases the quantity of people involved.

I know there are threads on here about different types of guilty pleasures, but I can't recall there being one about films. So... what are those films that you just love to watch and watch again? Not necessarily your ATF films... but the ones you usually watch alone, cause you're kind of embarrassed that someone would know you like it? I was just browsing TMN OnDemand and found City of Angels. I tried to convince myself to watch something I know is better... but I kept coming back to it. So screw it, I'm watching it, and will sit here and happily cry my eyes out at the cheeseball ending. Other totally guilty pleasure films include: Clueless; Bring it On; Legally Blonde; Josie and the Pussycats; Drop Dead Gorgeous; Wild Things; and Buffy the Vampire Slayer (the movie with Luke Perry... oh yes).

Absolutely no motivation to date. Don't want to go on dating sites, to bars, etc. OMG, I'm going to grow up to be The Lazy Song's Leonard Nimoy! The sad thing is that I'm OK with that. :D I just noticed, at the beginning of the video when he wakes up there's an empty wine bottle on the dresser. I am sooooooo screwed!

Trying to enjoy a leisurely sandwich in front of three dogs. All sandwiches must be eaten MACH SCHNELL!! CHOP CHOP!! They want their cut!!

Week 5 of being in a cast (1 week to go) has severely keep me literally down for awhile. Need to literally pull up my bootstraps and get moving again.

I know for a fact this would NEVER happen at CMJ b/c this has happened before (at some other spa) and CMJ states you are never left alone. If it was at one of the two other big and well known/established spas, then the owner would surely want to know about this. Other spas, it may be difficult to pin point the owner and get a message to them. I have no doubt that other ladies at this spa know what this girl is doing and maybe they do it too. This girl need find another job if she treats her customers this way.

Come celebrate with us Friday 13th at CMJ west our Naughty back to School party ! Not to be missed. What's your fantasy Hot School Girl? Or Naughty Teacher giving you detention ;) Come experience it at CMJ. It's also a chance to meet our other girls you haven't yet as well as enjoy live entertainment, food & beverages. For all non members this is a chance to come to cmj as a Guest so RSVP by calling 613-523-6199 or PM us ;) Party Schedule 10-8 Sephora Stacy Amanda Cassie 12-10 Brianna Aaliyah Justine Leyla 4-close Mandy Britney Courtney Kiki Holly

You guys are all so sweet!! I had no idea I'd reached a milestone! :) Thanks for making me smile and thinking of me :) XOXO

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First, decide what kind of domina persona you want your site to project. If you want to go with traditional "dark and threatening" then go with some kind of black background, white text, red highlights. Images are stark, black and white, with lots of shadows. You're evoking "dungeon". This approach can absolutely hit home with a certain segment of your market... but personally I think it's a bit limited, and doesn't make any kind of unique statement. It's hard for me to imagine getting into a kind of trusting D/s relationship, even a paid one, with a cliché. Are you also/more a sensuous domina who can play with power exchange without the stern remote persona? Then take an approach that's a bit softer and feminine, but still makes clear where the power lies. Here you're evoking "bedroom", but one that's the dark shade of lust, sexual power, and indulgence, rather than girly or a cheap "honeymoon suite". Personally I'd find this more enticing. From that first page you need to clearly answer within one click the basic questions your visitors will have: a) who are you? b) what services do you offer? c) where are you? d) how much does it cost? These are pretty straightforward and there are plenty of examples to follow for content and presentation from other providers. But I'll add a particular word about b). Your service caters to a complicated mixture of psychological and sexual desires in your clients, and they'll be happiest if they see some explicit attention paid to their specific, "treasured" kink or fetish. Sure, a simple, stark list sort of works, but you'll do even better if you can devote space and imagination to each one: say, a page apiece for several common classes of interest, and some pictures and text on each. I think one of the questions on the mind of new clients is: "sure she can dress the part and talk a game, but will she really 'get' my particular thing?" Paying specific attention like this to different aspects of BDSM on your site is hard work for you, but it will reassure clients that you're someone who does understand their kink more than just superficially, and that you offer an experience that's worth investing some time and money in. (Incidentally, I can quite clearly imagine a site that would be structured like a house, with material themed to D/s for each of several rooms. This gives you a chance to explore different BDSM themes and settings in a fun way, starting with the initial introduction in the foyer, and moving through the house from there... through living room, kitchen, bathroom, bedroom, closet... and yes, down to the dungeon. This approach also lets you avoid including a context-less "gallery" of pictures, instead playing with the opportunity to present a version of yourself in each of these settings. But... how much of that really applies would depend on you and the nature and scope of your service! :) )

Thanks, Christy, for provoking some thought on this subject. For me, the older I get the more finicky my body seems to become, so I sometimes have to finish myself. I have to say this often feels kind of solitary and isolating to me. However, that isn't a very fun attitude :) An SP able to make it into a shared experience (I've met a few) changes things completely.

I just wanted to say I saw Isabella again. I saw her a year ago at her old incall location. Her new incall location is very nice and well located. I had been having a very stressful summer and Isabella definitely helped me relieve that stress. Last time I saw her, I was not very rested so little phil didn't work as well as usual. Needless, to say little phil was up to the task on this visit and Isabella was very helpful in ensuring little phil had a great time ;-) As everyone has mention before, Isabella is a beautiful person, both on the outside and the inside. I had a great time exploring her body but also just sitting down and chatting with her about life, the universe and everything in between allowed me to experience just how nice of a a person she truly is. Definitely recommend her if you are looking for a nice relaxing time with an exceptional person - plus she made me a cupcake to get back my energy :-)

Thanks everyone :) I have done a bit of digging and discovered that it has only been disabled and not completely deleted yet. It also may have been done by accident, as I later on received a message saying their automated system labeled it as spam. So I have appealed the decision, and have to wait a few days to hear a decision. Fingers crossed. :)

I like HalifaxMan who as a newer member of CERB is not just a contributor but a positive contributor to the board RG

E is for enjoying being banged from behind with reckless abandon. What's this delicate word you speak of? Does not compute!

Dear Cute0asa0Button, I shall get things going immediatly! Far from me the thought to temp you, but now inspiration arises for a dessert menu for the social (just ?) with a progression in flavours; we shall start the course by having a cookie, followed by a tasty cakepop, to continue with a frosting-topped cupcake ... Hopefully this will meet you highest standards as a foody, and not be just be a proverbial carrot on the stick. Baking-ly yours, T

Dear MisterT, If you must tempt me I can think of other things you can use. At this point I am ready to come to your house and start licking your baking pans... ummm butter not the salty treat you should be using as the proverbial carrot on the stick

a very forward way of getting a number lol...i couldn't do this.

An older gentleman sitting at a bar texting, and surfing on his smartphone. a young girl not that bad looking sat next to him, and without a word of lie, this guy hands the girl his phone, and says... "would you be so kind and show me how to text on this thing?" a brilliant ploy... The girl starts to show him by sending herself a text from his phone, then when she receives it.. txts back to his phone,... and says.. "see.. that's how it works: Brilliant I say.... because now he has her number, she has his number.. its the smoothest introduction I have ever seen... one day I think I will poach that

seeing the spark starting to return to my little dogs eyes and her pain bouts starting to subside:)

What is sex to me? Pleasure:) -kissing, touching each others bodies, teasing, anything that brings arousal in the genital areas, a way to release stress, get close to someone, to feel good about myself, to make someone else feel good and to satisfy my throbbing clit, sometimes;). Between myself and a client sex is just that, whatever we decide to do that will satisfy one the other or both of us in an agreeable fun sexual fashion. After all sex should be fun, feel great and satisfy whatever desire you need it to;) Thanks for asking:)

Going to the OP's actual question, what would I do for a last hurrah if I knew, for whatever reason, I was leaving the game? I would figure out how to explain being gone for 24 hours. I would arrange to spend those 24 hours with a specific terribly wonderful lady. We would spend 22 of those hours just being... chatting, walking, drinking wine, holding each other in bed. Interspersed in there we would spend one hour on a duo with her and another specific lady. We would spend another hour just the two of us being as intensely sexual as possible. And if everything went according to plan, at the end of the 24 hours, the EMTs would show up to take me to recovery.

She will be a very lucky woman. I have done Staycations in the past where I am with a Gent for hours and hours. I have also gone on vacations with some very happy results. So speaking from experience, treat her well, firstly. For your chosen Lady, perhaps ask her what she might like and if it suits you, do it. Flowers and good conversation or a spicy movie might work, you won't be "active" the whole time. Also try something you have never done before. Perhaps an agreed upon third playmate for an hour or so? Or do what you wanted and have a parade with your favourites. It is your weekend after all! Make it memorable. I would like to note here that I am always sad to see men leave because of age. Either theirs or the SP pool. But especially when they think they are "beyond" an acceptable age. You might be stunned to know that there are some very sexy and desirable older Gents out there that hobby well into their 70's and even 80's. It is always a pleasant surprise. If the SP's are getting younger to a hobbiest, and I am not trying to change your mind here, sometimes one needs to find someone they are more comfortable with. Again, it's been my experience that sometimes it's not all about the sex, but comfort and connection, which of course then brings out some amazing sex, in whatever form it takes. Of course if you like variety, then I wish you the best choices CERB has to offer. :icon_smile:

I read the title 'Sadistic' and got excited. Then kept reading.....and got bored. lol. I do not watch the news. I rather not know. Someone has to know what's up tho- so I am Glad other people watch it- but if you purposely watch something that's called News- then dont be upset or surprised that its graphic and disturbing- It's Not so much Sadistic as it is realistic. Sadistic would be YOU making ME watch the news knowing I no likey. ;) But, You making yourself watch the news and you dont like it....well thats just masochism lol.

I'd say "sex" is anything that you're doing with a partner once all the clothes come off (or even before the clothes come off): nude groping, oral, mutual masturbation, penetration (with fingers, dicks, toys), etc.

Got in for a few pints this afternoon. Ariel looked jaw-dropping HAWT! She carries herself so well...very sexy little sway as she walks by. Great moves on stage and in the back. Nice to see her again!

Thinking it's Friday on Thursday. T.G.I.......T? Worst!! Additional Comments: Getting to McDonald's at 10:50am and being told they've already switched to lunch. This gets me every time! Now, I know what you're all thinking "just go earlier Max", right? and ya that's a valid point, but shouldn't it really be a question for Ronald McDonald? Something like "If you're going to stop serving breakfast at 10:50 instead of 11, why don't you make that your official breakfast hours?" But then I'd just show up at 10:40 and it'd be lunch and we'd be right back where we started.

I've done it, not many times because of the same reason other guys answered here. My most memorable time was with an MP, she got turned on massaging me and she got on her knees over my head and started to play with herself and asked me to masturbate for her. Her favorite part was when a man would blow is load and when I did so did she.

I think the beauty of not having a "menu" (like a restaurant menu for pizza and toppings lol), is that we can go with the flow during the time spent together and enjoy various sexy activities within the established boundaries. Your personal preferences for the encounter can always be discussed in private... A great thing about ladies who have an all-inclusive donation is that you never have to pay extra (except for Greek) for some things that might be considered "out of the norm" or considered a fetish (sometimes it's not) because you are paying for the lady's time. The old "I only want xyz, can I pay a reduced rate" is never popular with the ladies ;) Time is time no matter what you do during that time. Back to pleasure, masturbating, watching, being watched and orgasms :)

You'll find some ladies with that body type here on cerb. If you want you can PM me and I'll pass along any recommendations I have. Best of luck in your search.

May I echo each persons sentiments that have spoken. If it makes you feel better I once had a guest that asked if the TV could be turned on . Fortunately I do not own one!! I am truly at a loss as to what this lady was thinking. Sometimes I am not familiar with a new guest so my eyes and ears are on him looking for clues, anything that we can both use to make our date a memorable one. Communication, touching and listening, these are some of the keys leading to a really nice experience. Be sure to ask questions, if you are not happy with the answers ask again. If that does not work please move to the many eager ladies here that will endeavour to rock your world and maybe even their own!

My dogs wanted to answer this question as well:

I actually LOVE the eyes wide shut idea :) It would be so sexy and hot to have a sex party type night with a bunch of SP's to choose from. The only issue is that we'd have to keep the ratio of women to men on an even keel. Maybe even turn it into an auction with a min bid decided by the lady and all of us girls donate a portion to the family of the sex worker and close friend of mine who was murdered. We can have a fabulous night of drink and fantasy AND show that we care that things like this are unfortunately happening in our community. I absolutely adore all the members of cerb, even the ones I haven't meet (yet, lol) the lot of us "cumming together" for both pleasure and purpose is such a turn on for me. Jade is already down and I'm sure we'd have a "gushing blast" with an evening such as this one. If we could make a night like this happen it would defiantly be a highlight in my job as a prostitute <3 K now I'm wet............. Feel free to pm me if you don't wanna answer publicly. If there is enough intrest I would be happy to make ALL the arrangements for both SP's and hobbiests :D Additional Comments: But I would still like to hold a social of dinner and drinks that doesn't involve the work aspect :)

That is correct, your welcome to use the leave a comment icon to thank people for the info (it will not BUMP the thread and will give the guy some rep points rewarding him for the nice comment and info provided). I would encourage the use of this from both the ladies (as a thanks) and the other guys (who found value in what was added).

As someone who asked himself this question many years ago and answered it, I agree 100% with Boomer. How you feel about paying to be intimate with professionals is something only you can answer for yourself, based on your own life and that of those around you who are important. For your sake, and that of the ladies you may or may not see in the future, I urge you to be completely honest with yourself and answer the question in your own mind before you go any further. Whatever you decide, you'll be much happier for it in the long run. :)

I know this is a serious topic and perhaps I should post this in the "funniest commercials" thread, but when I saw this on tv today I instantly thought of this thread: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XS1dM6kmCx4