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If you are looking for mileage and options, Ariel and Barbs are not for you. Ariel is an amazing young lady who will light up your day when you talk with her and then have a great time in the champagne room. However, nothing extra is ever going to happen. Her dances are super hot, but completely within limits. She is a legend because she is beautiful, and fun, and cares about her regulars and friends. Barbs is the last place to seek extras. The walls in the CR are very low, there are cameras everywhere, they have installed mirrors, and the bouncers check the room often. This pretty much rules out any extras activity. It might also be why so many attractive dancers work at Barbs. Dancers and strip clubs are still relevant simply for the experience. If I want to see 3 or 4 lovely ladies in an evening, I can. I can also see many more on stage. Lots of variety, lots of energy. The massage or escort experience is different obviously. There is no reason why a hobbiest can't dabble in all of them.

So this is all a bit new to me but I will try to be open and honest here. This is a question I've wrestled with for most of my adult life - the pursuit of happiness. I like others have wrestled with depression and discovered this 8 or 9 years ago. I don't know how to describe it to those not going through it, but it's like being alone every minute of every day even if you're in a crowded room. In the darkest moments I have looked at the easiest "solution" but suicide luckily or me has not been the only solution. I think we all want to be happy and until recently I didn't know if I was capable of being happy. I experienced a high like no other thanks to a dream and a chance encounter where I believe I experienced love for the first time in my life. Unfortunately, as fate would have it , this was not to be. It's complicated and still very fresh in terms of the wounds. I learned I need to understand how to be "happy" with myself and by myself before I think I can be with anyone else. Otherwise, a dependent relationship where all I my "happiness" is dependent on what that other person says or does is doomed to fail. I wish everyone here could understand the depths and challenges of depression. It's not about just wanting to be happy. It's not about material things and sadly not even about sex or physical pleasure. Im sorry for rambling but this topic is timely and very relevant today as I step back, lick my wounds and look to recover and move on. I hope everyone finds happiness - whatever that may mean to each of you. Additional Comments: I think the time to appreciate the challenges of others might put things in perspective but on its own to feel joy o happiness it comes from within. The person whom I recently had a "relationship" with is the most amazing individual I've ever known. She has overcome adversity that would have destroyed me and probably most people. I think as someone who hasn't felt happiness and suffers from low self esteem I saw this as inspirational. I would even say it was attractive and "sexy" to me. That was all a bonus but also part of my mistake. I need to find my own strength and not try and enjoy the strength of others. I can't gain inner strength vicariously. I know that now but it's too late this time as I've lost her forever. I share this as I think spending time volunteering etc is always positive but it all starts and stops with knowing and liking yourself. External forces may help or hinder but I think happiness comes from within. Just my opinion.

Sometimes it is awkward meeting someone new, sometimes you end up feeling self conscious or overly 'aware' of yourself and what you are doing and wondering if the client is OK, or wonders what you are doing, lol. This is not unusual in first visits. I had a client once who seemed very unresponsibe, kind of slow to talk, so much of the session was quiet, and for me awkward. Even the getting dressed and end of the session time felt off. However at the door on his way out he gives me a smile and asks can he come back and see me again (the start of a long relationship lol). Turns out part of the reason for the quiet is he is hard of hearing :)

My answer would be both also. I initially started off seeing only a couple of SP's and MA's that I enjoyed being with. Saw a couple of new ones but not as good as my regulars, But this year I started meeting some new MA's and SP's and have had some great experience. Each experience seems to get better. I've repeated with many of these new girls and intend to see most of them again. However my known list is getting too large, and there are a few girls that I haven't met year that I would like too :). Known is good and each repeat get's better as you get to know each other. But meeting someone new generates new interest and excitement. However my problem is that all these Cerb women are so awesome, that if I could I would meet them all. How ever due to budget and time, I have to try to limit myself to only a few new ones at a time, as I really like to see my regulars also. So many women and yet so little time :(

To me a real sexy woman just extrudes her sexiness. It's the way she looks at you with bedroom eyes and licks her lips. And has that come hither look. A woman who is really horny and want's you to ravish her, all she has to give you a look and you know what she wants:) Physical beauty and sexy clothes enhance the sexiness of a woman, but true sexiness comes from the inner person, it's not just physical but the confidence and look that generates sex appeal that makes you naturally drawn to her. A beautiful woman who is dressed sexy can act sexy, but a truly sensual woman can attract men, by the way she looks at them, smiles and smells. I'm not sure if I explained myself, but those that have experienced a truly sexy woman that enjoys what she does and has chemistry with you, will know what I mean :)

Do you think this is true? I'm not sure as I certainly am not. I make an average living at best but combined we are doing OK. I will admit this is part of the reason I haven't jumped in with both feet, but it's a very small portion as to why. I KNOW the ladies here are worth every penny they charge and then some, as you can't put a price on happiness. If an encounter lasts for an hour, how long does the feeling of happiness stay with you? Just that hour? If so, I would think you have much bigger problems. Hammy. I kind of know where you are coming from. Years and years ago I fell madly in love with someone I thought was my soul mate. She was perfect in my mind. I however, was someone that she loved, but was never sexually attracted to. This relation ship has haunted me to this day. I see her every few years and she usually appears just I happen to forget about her and all the feelings come flowing back. She knows how I feel about her to this day, but nothing has changed. She is divorced and looking for a man but I am still not the one. After 30 years have passed and 3 kids, she still has the body of a 20 YO and is sexy to the core. This woman can get you hard by looking at you. I must say (if I haven't already) CERB is such an awesome site. I love coming on here and learning about other people and about myself. This thread in particular has helped me over a bit of a hump and I appreciate all of the feedback that has been given. I do feel like a bit of an outsider at this point but in time, that may change. Thank you, especially to the ladies.

I have to agree with HalifaxMan58 and Midnite-Massage - my answer will be Both. I have my regulars whom I have been seeing for over a year. I am also lucky enough to have the opportunity to see a few new ones. For me, this is the best of both worlds and I won't change a thing. :icon_biggrin:

Was she pissed off or was it just a case of no chemistry? If no chemistry, well that sometimes happens. Not every two people will click. If pissed off, look back at your encounter, did you say or ask anything that could be construed by the lady as offensive. If you don't know then maybe send the lady a nice respectful email, and ask her if she is angry with you, and if so, why. The only person who can answer why the lady is angry (assuming she is in fact angry) is her. Then you can apologize to her if in fact she is angry, and you did something to cause her to be angry None of us on CERB know what happened during your encounter. Only you and the lady know what happened. You should, and just my opinion, direct your question to her, if you are concerned about if she is angry and why she is angry A rambling RG

This thread has been nagging me a bit for the last few days and I realized in my initial response I only answered half the equation and left out the most important part to me personally. My real and complete answer is both. There is nothing wrong with seeing someone who compels something in you even if they are new. However, it's the internal voice that you should listen to. Even in this industry there are connections and relationships and only you can determine which aspects are important. As for me personally, I love my regulars. I get excited to see them and I miss them when its been awhile. I like that connection and getting to know them and their desires. So for me to leave out the known part of the equation was wrong and against my character. If they were suddenly off on the next best thing, it would impact me. So, the answer here can only be what you make it and how you feel led. Only you know what you need at any given moment and how best to get it. You wouldn't go to someone new if you needed something you had established with someone else and if you wanted some NRE, you would look to someone new. Nothing is wrong with either as long as you feel good about the choice.

God what a face!

"All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him." "Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared." - Buddha

Most CERBians are relatively affluent--this is an expensive activity after all. I'd suggest a few of them go volunteer at places that help the less fortunate, either homeless shelters or care facilities for disabled people. I spend four or five hours a week at a place that cares for long-term disabled people, people with spinal injuries, stroke victims, multiple sclerosis etc. Some of the stories of how they got there are heartbreaking and infuriating. Every day I leave there thinking how incredible it is just being able to walk by myself, to feed myself, to be independent. Yes I'm happy!

This is part of the reason I really enjoy working where I do. It's a flat fee for the room and my company! The tiered offerings always seemed to create a lot of confusion. If you communicate with the person you are going to see you can get the financials out of the way up front. This ensures that any tips that are beyond that are a token of appreciation for the encounter. I believe that just like any service industry the tip u leave should be in line with your own comfort level, and the service you were provided. I believe tips are not required, but I definitely remember the gentleman that offers one. In short in my opinion the answer to your question is that if you communicate up front you will never be left feeling like you shorted the lady, and anything above that is a kind token that will definitely be appreciated. Kelly

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Good afternoon gentlemen, First I would like to greatly apologize to the CERB members for posting misleading photos on BP. My name is Nichole and I am a Quebecoise advertiser (Was on Escorts Canada but they removed my ad because I was using these photos on BP causing them to receive complaints). My description and pictures on Escorts Canada were always 100% real and truly me as I have verified with Escorts Canada. Some of the pictures on BP of costumes and fantasy pieces were not me and they have now all been ERASED. I WILL ONLY POST ACTUAL PHOTOS OF MYSELF ON ALL SITES GOING FORWARD. I will clearly state my services and restrictions so that there is no confusion. I will only be able to offer mild to moderate submissive services, no longer hardcore due to some traumatic injuries. I am apologizing and asking the members to give me another chance. I will work extremely hard to rebuild my reputation with this community. Thank you for this opportunity. Deepest apologies, Nichole :icon_cry:

Ladies and gents, its now official !! The Ottawa September Social will be held Thursday, September 19th, so mark your calendar!! There will be 60 spots available (30 gents and 30 ladies) for members in good standing. Gents, tickets will be made available soon, at a cost of $35, which will cover snacks, drinks for the ladies and door prizes. I will keep everyone up to date via this thread as things progress. As it's an event organized by CERB members for members, you can contact myself, Loneskater or Spud271 directly should you have questions. Cheers!! MisterT

I believe everyone deserves a second chance!

So Wet Dripping Down my legs.. I am 26 years of age, with long Blond hair and beautiful hazel eyes. I have a fit, tight body. Sexy long legs and a ass that's out of this world. I am 5'10, baby soft skin! I have been working in the massage industry for 5 years now. My expertise will give you a unforgettable experience...! I am a very horny open minded girl who loves getting new experience's :wink: My services include teasing, flirting, role play, hard core, body slides, full body massage, Hottub sessions and reverse massage. I cater to some fetish's or you could cater to mine Schedule this week: Monday 2:30-9:00PM Tuesday 3:30-9:00PM Wednesday 3:30-11:00PM Thursday unavailable Friday 3:30-11:00PM Saturday 5:30-11:00PM

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Was at Barbs on Saturday afternoon and the club was full of beautiful ladies. The only one missing was Bridgett. I had some amazing dances from the very sexy Bella and after had a chat and dances with the stunning Jenny. I will be returning to see these Ladies again soon. I wish I could have meet Ariel as well for next time

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Interesting topic. I fall into the both seeing regulars and trying the new now and again camp. A while ago, in a fit of boredom or whatever, I listed all of my sessions and who with and how often. I found that 42% of my sessions were with one very fine lady. She and I got a chuckle out of that since 42 is, to me, an interesting number. The remaining 58% were, with a couple of exceptions, one or two time visits with other fascinating people. For the most part, I consider it all time and money well spent. I suspect if I sit down in a year and do that exercise again, the numbers will be similar. Regularity and variety. A wonderful mix.

So Wet Dripping Down my legs.. I am 26 years of age, with long Blond hair and beautiful hazel eyes. I have a fit, tight body. Sexy long legs and a ass that's out of this world. I am 5'10, baby soft skin! I have been working in the massage industry for 5 years now. My expertise will give you a unforgettable experience...! I am a very horny open minded girl who loves getting new experience's :wink: My services include teasing, flirting, role play, hard core, body slides, full body massage, Hottub sessions and reverse massage. I cater to some fetish's or you could cater to mine

She IS real although she's unbelievable ;) Ariel is still at Barbs. Worth searching for. Holy. Mother. Of. GOD.

Technically, I think they can do it without doing anything illegal, though there may be an ethics clause in their license. If they provide the proper RMT session and then give the happy ending but don't charge for it on the insurance portion, then it would be okay. So you go, get a proper RMT session and pay $70 and get a receipt for that. Because she "likes" you, she give you a happy ending. Because you like her, you give her a tip. Nothing fraudulent there.

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It would be a pretty quick way for any RMT to lose their license. Add in the fraudulent insurance claim and the customer is also looking at fraud. And if you are one of my employees on WCB or using our benefit plan I'd fire you right quick. And they would only have to do it once for word of it to spread all over these boards. I can't believe you guys keep on asking.

Just found out about an hour ago that an old colleague and a very dear man was murdered yesterday in Toronto. One of the gentlest gentlemen, soft spoken, polite, calm and a very sweet disposition - I haven't seen him in a few years but this was like a gut punch - life is so precious and it can be taken away so easily....

Great day for horror movies and popcorn!!!!Friday the 13th marathon whoo hoo...and yes I had a pretty good day considering the superstition..hope everyone has a wonderful safe Friday evening xo Additional Comments: Great day for horror movies and popcorn!!!!Friday the 13th marathon whoo hoo...and yes I had a pretty good day considering the superstition..hope everyone has a wonderful safe Friday evening xo

I started in this business when I was eighteen, and I have always been painfully aware of the perceptions some people hold of young SPs. I cannot address the circumstances of other young SPs in this business, but I can talk about mine. Necessity was a factor that led me to this work, but I have never felt trapped in this situation. I know the risks of my occupation, and I still choose to do it over other jobs because this job allows me to be creative and independent, teaches me business skills and allows me to connect with people I wouldn't have otherwise met. Is it really necessary for me to have access to other high-paying, 'empowered' positions to make this choice valid? I am not a child. I am a young adult with an enterprising spirit who hates doing shift work for minimum wage and would simply prefer not to have to answer to any boss. At last, I have found work that does not leave me feeling exploited. Please don't belittle my agency, maturity or intelligence with sweeping ageist statements. My age does not make me a victim by default. I have tried to de-emphasize my age in advertisements because I am concerned about the assumptions clients will make about me as a young person. But that isn't really something I want to have to conceal, and I would prefer if people would make the effort to see me as a whole person, and not an age-based stereotype.

I completely understand the budget part and that is probably the greatest factor. no one wants to feel like they wasted their budget. That said, life dynamic and if one does not take a risk (even a well researched and thought out risk) then there is no potential for greatness. Remember, all your regular ladies were once a risk (to put it into perspective). CERB is wonderful in that you can explore the person via posts, pictures, PM, and a variety of interactions here before you make the decision thus reducing the risk. If someone is ringing your bells at a distance, chances are they will do the same in person provided you go in with an open mind, openness to the person and no expectations. I for one, believe that a life without risk and potential for greatness is a life not lived. Enjoy what you can when you can. When it's good, give thanks, when it's not, be thankful for the experience (because there is always something good in the experience). in the end, the decision is up to you and what sort of risk limit is comfortable for you.

As Peachka said perhaps the chemistry was not there. It would be unrealistic for anyone to think every session they engage in will be a "hit". Nor should you be overly disappointed if it isn't, we are having sex, playing, engaging not saving lives, curing illnesses or starting or stopping wars:) But if it continues to bother you ask her, if she doesn't reply, then move on and forget about it not everyone is always nice or willing to explain their moods or reasons for them. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong:) I've had great sessions, mediocre sessions and a couple that I just prefer not to remember;) Sometimes clients aren't nice in spite of trying to be all one can be, They sometimes think what Jane does you will as well, some might expect to much or again there is just no attraction to one another. It takes two willing open minded participants to make a great session, honesty, understanding, chemistry, a willingness to be thoughtful, giving and the ability to let loose and have fun:)

As I am in my early 40's my age limit is from 25 years to about 50 years old. Many ladies who are 25 are very mature and tend to have a University education. They have a certain sophistication and elegance about them. They also tend to be knowledgeable about a variety of subjects to enjoy some wonderful conversations with. Many 18 year olds lack the maturity to make an informed decision about whether or not to have sexual relations. Like Christy said some mistake sex with love. Something I did many times when I was that age. I find it morally wrong when a 50+ gentleman pursues a relationship with a lady that has only just turned 18 even if she was the one to initiate it. I guess it was the way I was brought up and it's just my opinion.

There is something very very wrong when a grown man has no issues about having sex with an underage girl...even if she does want it. So wrong...

I am hoping you are misunderstanding the word Pubescent and consent: Definition Pubescent - arriving at or having reached puberty. Puberty - the age at which puberty occurs often construed legally as 14 in boys and 12 in girls The age of consent for sexual activity is 16 years. It was raised from 14 years on May 1, 2008 by the Tackling Violent Crime Act. However, the age of consent is 18 years where the sexual activity "exploits" the young person -- when it involves prostitution, pornography or occurs in a relationship of authority, trust or dependency (e.g., with a teacher, coach or babysitter). Sexual activity can also be considered exploitative based on the nature and circumstances of the relationship, e.g., the young person's age, the age difference between the young person and their partner, how the relationship developed (quickly, secretly, or over the Internet) and how the partner may have controlled or influenced the young person. A pubescent child cannot give consent - no matter what she or he says, she/he is unable to give consent before the age of 16 years. I am hoping this was just a misunderstanding in your statement.

@cometman....it's all you can do! You can't give in to the negative feelings, it will overwhelm you <HUGS> stay strong!

Hey it is Nichole, Yes I am still around but I have been working way less. I will gradually work on my advertising and start touring again slowly mid-October with a full time return in February 2014. I will post my tour dates and schedule soon. Thank you to those who support me.

I prefer exotic if possible; Asian, Middle Eastern. Slim, tight body, great ass. Larger breasts are a plus, not requirement. Height not a concern. Age not really a concern. Definitely not a blonde. Any suggestions? I realize this is a EB/TO thread, but another place is not out of the question. Additional Comments: What can I say? I decided to check out EB. The place is very clean and the owner/ manager was very helpful. I flipped through the book of girls that were working. They definitely try to cover the bases in terms of variety. Several of the girls on shift weren't my type at all. Three of them were, but one was already booked. That really left me a choice of two. As fortune would have it the girl I thought was by far the hottest was available. When I say hot, I mean I don't think she had a single flaw; tight body, beautiful face, and some nice sized store bought accessories. Tub for two was nice, and the massage was great. An overall enjoyable experience. Would I repeat? I'm on the fence because I'm not really sure that it's my thing. I think I prefer having the focus more on the woman than on myself. The pampering was nice, but I also enjoy being on the giving end. However, that being said the girl was great.

What she said!

I'm not trying to start a debate about fees. I've been doing this longer than most and am well versed in the "pay to play" philosophy. When it comes to guys simply looking for an R&T the reason most guys don't see SP's is more about the cost. Most of the local SP's will charge a guy $100 -120 for even a half hour of massage with a happy ending (HJ or BJ) and more for an hour. The "relaxation" massage places are usually in the $45 - 60 per hour and another $20 for the tip. Thus you can get a nice relaxing 1 hour massage and a HJ for $70 - 80. When I was actively pooning I spent a generous sum and saw my share of ladies for FS and think most would have nice things to say about me. But there were those times when I needed a kink worked out of my back and just felt like a little stress release as well. For those occasions the R&T providers fit the bill. Cheers

LOL now I get it. Blonde moment for me ha ha. Let's think about this for a moment......paying for a :handjob: and getting a receipt......paper trail......that can be followed..... Hmmmmmm......

I really think you are entitled to a sex life. In fact, it should be enshrined in the United Nations declaration of human rights. Sex is almost as basic a need as food and shelter. You get to decide how you want to meet those needs. It can be that easy.

What makes you think they don't look at this site? I know for a fact they do as I have spoken with police in the past in regards to the site. In fact a very nice lady police investigator contacted us not too long ago asking for assistance in a case. Now, your new so I suspect you think prostitution is illegal right? We watch a lot of american TV and prostitution in Canada (unlike MOST of the USA) is very much legal here. In canada streetwalking (public solicitation), brothels (common bawdy houses) and pimping/procuring is illegal. The actual exchange for money for sex in private is very much legal and since a website is not considered a PUBLIC PLACE discussing and advertising such activities in classified ads and online is NOT illegal. We do not allow discussions of illegal nature here. Included on this list is - streetwalkers - FS massage spa's - public brothels - sex in public (including "Car dates") - underage (18 is the legal age) - drugs - pimping and so on... Hope that helps

I know this is going to sound rude because my straightforwardness always sounds rude in text ( as opposed to in person where you would see me smiling and hear the sarcasm in my voice that is often missed in written word ) ... ...anyhoo here goes: Tell that guy to stay away from the reco section of cerb. There's lots going on in Genereal discussion area... He should also stay away from threads asking for recommendations I suppose. Does he expect you to not allow reco's? Sorry, I thought he was a client, not a BF....then again, no BF of mine ever dictates what I do either, so... It is not your fault or problem that he cannot cope with his reality, that of course being that he pays for a service and other people do too. "Oh you don't like reading reco's of me? DON'T READ EM! kthnxbye"

Well, I was checking out this thread a couple weeks ago and I think it's about time to give it a little bump and update it! A nice website definitely turns my crank. :) Here is a few that I haven't seen mentioned on this thread yet that I have come across over the last few months which I thought were very well done :) Nathalie Lefebvre - http://lovely-nathalie.com Emily Osgoode - http://www.emilyosgoode.com Lara Belle - http://www.larabellesydneyescort.com Alanna Johnson - http://www.youreurogoddess.com/ Julie Wilde - http://pixietryst.com Kerri Sussex - http://www.kerrisussex.com/ Gabriella Laurence - http://www.gabriellalaurence.com There is many other great websites already mentioned in previous posts, and several more not listed yet too. Please add more of your favourite, well put together, informative and sexy escort websites!! :)

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