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it's not just girls, it's men too. I can't tell you how many times I've had clients try to get a reaction from me about something they see as juicy gossip, only to get a blank stare and a change of conversation in response. Unfortunately gossip will exist no matter what business you are in. I've encountered it everywhere, in every place I've worked. All you can do is stay quiet, and stay out of it. If you react, or feed it, then you're a part of it. I've had some pretty incredible rumours spread about me. It can make me laugh, and it can hurt. But the way I deal with it is to stay out of it. When someone comes to me and tells me a wacked-out story they've heard, I think my word is taken as truth mostly because I present myself as a non-gossipy, trustful person. If I don't gossip about other girls, but those same other girls gossip about everyone.... then who's word is to be believed? If people need to put others down in order to feel better about themselves, I feel sad for them. But I do my best to not let it effect me. That's all you can do, really.

In addition to the personal contributions already mentioned by mistert, we would like to acknowledge and thank the managing staff from ALO and CMJ. The 2 Spas provided over 20 door prizes total. Their contribution was key to making the evening a success and sure made our job even more pleasant. Combined with other contributions and ticket sales we had door prizes for at least half the members attending. Awesome!!! So again to ALO and CMJ, the 3 of us would like to say Thank you very much P.s. I know its back to reality and work for many but please for those lucky winners take a few minutes to thank the spa. They both have a corporate account here on CERB. And of course enjoy! :icon_smile:

Ouch! Although I can understand where this temptation comes from, how will you avoid being perceived any differently from the ones you would like to expose? Seems to me like it's a double edge sword. You always have the option of posting about your personal experience(s) on a review board. If your list of no-shows and cancellations and SPs who change the terms of the encounter is growing so much, perhaps revising your selection process could be beneficial to you in the long run? Additional Comments: I am curious... NL, I ask this with the utmost respect... How is what you stated above not considered gossip? Because it is between men only? How do you know that what is being shared is the honest truth and that those "facts" are 100% accurate and haven't been altered in the slightest to make one look good (SP or client) and that it is not some manipulative way at getting back at whoever it is that is being talked about? Do you trust all these people that provide you with so called information?

In behalf of all the Ladies @ALO and management we would like to thank Mister T, Spud and Loneskater for all the eefort, time put into this event to make it a memorable one! It was a pleasure to be part of it and looking forward to many more socials!

I don't think the three us can express our gratitude enough to everyone who showed up last night. A massive thank you to CMJ and ALO who were more than generous in the prizes they donated for the members. All the of the out of town visitors who have pretty much turned the socials in to a national event, it was great to meet you and we do sincerely hope you come back to Ottawa for the next one! All in all it was a great night. Mistert, Loneskater and myself cannot thank you all enough for showing up and making the Ottawa Social such a highly anticipated event!

First of all I'd like to thank Mistert, spud and loneskater for organizing such an amazing social last night. I had so much fun! It was great meeting so many new people and putting faces to screen names :) and the treats...oh the tasty treats... As some of you know I found out yesterday that my best friend from high school lost her mother in the barhaven bus tragedy. She was an amazing lady, a second mother to me during that time. I honestly cannot believe she is really gone. I think you'll understand when I say that I am taking a day to myself today. It's a day to hug loved ones in tighter and spend with friends and family. My friend comes in today and I need to see her. It's such a weird feeling. I am split right down the center - half of me wants to mourn but the other half wants to grab life by the balls and live hard. Don't take a second for granted.. If that feeling sticks around I might host tomorrow. Nice beds and pretty pools are a nice distraction. Thank you to those who said kind words and sent good thoughts last night and thank you for making sure my drink was never empty (or maybe not so much thank you :P) This community has overwhelmed me since I started with support, kindness and friendship. I'm not sure what I expected but this has been a great surprise. I am lucky to count so may of you as friends. xxMeganxx

Gentlemen, you sure know how to throw an amazing party....It was a pleasure to be able to attend and thank you for having me :) Everything was perfect and it was great to catch up with old friends and meet new ones.... You boys are very spoilt in Ottawa, there are ALOT of hot women in your city....

I have been a provider for 16 years I have never put down a fellow provider. I don't understand why they feel a need to say others in my town who do this are junkies or have stds. How do they know are they using with them? Are they there when they get test results back? Why do that we are all providing a service that is a need for.. I think that by putting others down it ruins your business cause what person would want to be with someone who is mean and not discrete if they can talk about others. So ladies if you insult others stop it its not right we should all be on each others side work as a team it will only Increase your business

Wow my first social in Canada. Boys you did a wonderful job. I've been to ones in Manhattan and Chicago and I must say this one was my fav. Lots of beautiful women..fun and sexy men. Everyone was so welcoming well almost everyone..hahaha Olddog thanks for the laughter. MistrerT thanks for the goodies. Skater thanks for everything. Spud thanks for being you mister FFS is your new name ..lol love you guys! Emily R I hope you left your tomboy alone..lol and Carrie moon your the best kisser ever. A special shout out to mr big watch and Emily Oreo and Lou...kisses everyone

Please add your name or nod to this thread as a show of strength for THE LIQUOR and as a force against that sob cancer that keeps invading his life. May all this positive energy help kick it out of his life for good!

I was told recently of an sp talking shit about me...well i feel great knowing that she feels the need to do so in order to make herself look good. Anyone with a brain knows that`s why people do it. So a special thank you miss .... you made my day.:icon_razz: I've learned along time ago mot to take things to heart and the truth always comes out. Anyway my point is people need to grow up this is not high school and we are supposed to be adults. Don't believe everything you hear. Real eyes, Realize, Real lies.

On request Alexxandria and myself coukd meet you at Acqua, the DT location of ALO :-)

A huge thank you to MisterT, Loneskater and Spud for their hard work tonight! The Social was in a great location with amazing attendance! Thanks fellas! You did a phenomenal job! kisses, cat

And I'm sure each of us in this community have enough reasons to be grateful for and at least one person to feel grateful for having in our lives so although I know is something we should and hopefully do everyday, is always good to have a little reminder so I just posted this to remind you that there's always something to feel grateful for and is not only right but it also feels right to show appreciation for those things/people in our lives and want to thank those who in one way or another are currently part of mine :D

She has been found and she is safe :)

Gents, what a fantastic night. Thank you, thank you, thank you! It was so great to catch up with old friends and make some new ones. My one regret to the night is not being able to say hello to everyone! But that's what the next social is for ;)

In an effort of being transparent, here's yesterday's social balance sheet: Revenues (sale of tickets and extra donations) : 1285$ We had an extra 35$ not counted towards this social. It'll be carried forward to the next one. Expenses : Food and drink tickets for the ladies : 633$ Gift cards: We've gotten 17 cards for prizes 1 X 100$ for the Keg 4 X 50$ - Rideau Center, Shopper's Drug Mart, La Senza, Premier Salon 9 X 25$ - St-Laurent Shopping Mall, Shopper'S Drug Mart, a card for restaurants, Petro-Canada, La Vie En rose, La Senza, Metro and Loblaws 2 X Lush Cards (30$ and 35$) 2 x 20$ LCBO We had a Vintages card and a Body Shop card donated by members (see below) Congrats to the winners!! On behalf of Loneskater and Spud, i'd like to acknowledge and thank the following gents for donating their extra donations ($ and cards) towards the social: Icebreaker Lee Richards Boomer EMB3750 Many thanks to all who attended, it would not have been a success without you!

Hey Guys Thanks so much for organizing the Cerb social! I had to miss it at the last minute because of work....(sigh...) but , I'm certainly in for the Christmas social...(lighting doesn't strike twice......Hope not) Anyways, I did drop by at closing time and I was glad to see and talk a little with you guys! See you all next time! Cheers Mates!:bigclap: Hastings56

Yeah, this is a common attribute of people (and businesses) in general, not just women or people in the sex trade. By knocking down a competitor, they hope to improve their own prospects. But it's a lazy and dumb strategy that seldom works in the long term. Sometimes it does works with the right audience though, which is one of the reasons people keep doing it. But a wiser audience will realize, "if person X is willing to do this about person Y, eventually person X will have a reason to do it about me." Whether it's tearing someone else down, or just thoughtless indiscretion and gossip, this is a good reason for me to drop someone from my life -- personally, professionally, or SP-wise.

BACON??? Nobody mentioned bacon before.... Boobs... beer ... and bacon. I love the letter b. Boobsbeerbaconbumsblowjobsbutterscotchbananasburritosbeefbolognabreastsbonerbunsbubblesbathsboobsagainbeeragainbaconagainandagainandagain...bliss.

It's very unfortunate that some ladies have not grown out of their teenage mentally. One would think that mean girls would change once out in the real world but apparently not.

Just putting this out there - So you've booked a lady for 8pm, you get back to your room from your business dinner at 740ish and you need a bathroom break:) So maybe something we all should pack is air freshener:), matches or cologne-just in case:) You see where I'm going.... Please remember a lot of rooms don't have windows that can open and your bathroom break will linger long after you leave it. So if you don't have matches, cologne, air fresher your lovely companion is going to have to suffer the results:(

I know the answer to this!!!!!!!!!!! They are big pooheads. Carry on.

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I too would like to join the chorus of thanks and congratulations to the organizers for a wonderful evening!

Thanks mistert, Loneskater and Spud271 for organizing a great event! The venue worked out really well, and it was awesome to both say hello to old friends as well as meet new people!

Turn on the fan and leave it on before, during and especially after! Remember men, we may think we are special......but our shit does stink!

I wonder if this works for men??

Was this at your incall? My bathrooms are always stocked with air freshener, because I would never want a gentleman to feel bad or awkward about having to perform a simple bodily function. Most girls I know have a bathroom stocked with air freshener, baby wipes, body wash, etc... everything needed to ensure their client has the necessities.

i was to attend the social, but received a call in the afternoon that my father was in the hospital. thank god it was just a false alarm, he just good he's release about an hour ago. we try to attend the next one.

Ottawa gents, ladies, and visitors! I was so looking forward to joining you for this event, however I am stuck in Toronto dealing with a situation that requires my immediate attention and energy (c'est la vie!) :/ I sure hope all of you who made it out are having or had an amazing time! Really hope to make it to the next social! Warmest wishes,

Well folks.... I am sad to say that I did not make it to Ottawa today. Just before I was about to check in to Westjet I got the call that my two young kids and my parents were in a car accident. The were T-boned by a truck. It is a miracle considering the circumstances there were not serious injuries or fatalities. I just brought my little girl home from the hospital bruised up but okay !!! My mother is bruised up and father and my son are fine. My 4 1/2 year old daughter just said ...."I am OK now daddy....you better go to Ottawa I will be just fine " I teared up but couldn't leave ! Too cute. Just sitting watching her sleep now :) So anyways I wish you all a fantabulous time tonight !!! Hopefully I will still see some of you in a week or two when I reschedule my trip to your fine city !!! Take care peeps ! PS ..... I guess the Xmas social it is !!! Plus there is missletoe at that one and 30 hot chicks !!! grrrrrrrr baby grrrrr ;)

100% honesty. Smack talk by an SP about another SP (whether true or not) is a sure fire way to turn me off and make me walk the other way. Talking smack is drama and drama is NOT sexy! Period! FYI...Us clients don't live in a rose coloured bubble, we talk (many times privately not on public boards) a lot more than some SP's realize and know what's going on with the SP's in our respective areas. Running your mouth will kill your business. Don't do it. Sorry, Chuck is grumpy and playtime scheduling has been awful lately. I'm in withdrawal:(

Of course you know what this means.... RG has to sleep with you. RG sleeps with everyone who has 3000 posts. Don't worry he is gentle. And spooning after is not as uncomfortable as you might think. Congrats dude!!!

Another hot, fit cerbite, Miss Jessica Lee. Thanks, Jessica!

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I need to get one of these cups. Perfect mix all the time. ;)

I agree that some clients can be notorious for this as well. Momma always told me to kill 'em with kindness!

Congrats, Lee! I enjoy your posts, so keep it up.

Firstly, we all know it is very easy to hide behind a keyboard. And easier for some to trash talk someone else to make themselves look and feel better. Also since there is rarely more than 2 or 3 folks in a personal conversation, it is easy to make ones self look good if a person feels the need to. In this business there are many types of people, both SP's and Hobbiests. When you throw all of those differences into the stew, some people feel they come up short and will do and say things that can be mean and spiteful. Peer pressure, business pressure, self esteem; it's not just an SP issue. And this is not unique to this industry, but it is easier here because its a personal and intimate one. Discretion is not our cultures strong suit these days. Nor is truthfulness. It is easier for some people to just go with the flow and be the norm, rather than step off the treadmill and be different. Excaliber, please understand, these are not my "sisters" nor are they my co-workers. To a point we are each others competition. But only to a point. Like all businesses there are reputable ones and not so reputable. And yes some of them can be my friends. Just as some hobbiests who's type I am not, can be. I am not suggesting that hobbiests are a commodity but to a degree you are. A human one. Somewhere along the line some people lose that sight of the communal fact and become self serving. Lying and making up rumours can be seen as a useful tool to some people, others are just like that normally. It is up to you, as the Consumer, to decide if it's worth it to put your money there. As an SP it is also our choice to be that "business type" or not. Since we all bring ourselves to this industry, the stew will always have these types. Like it or not.

Having 5 cerb members text me to tell me they missed me not being able to attend the social. That felt good.

While I have never seen her, I believe she is/was "Sky" as discussed here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=141530 I'd be interested in hearing more about her myself.

I met Olivia (Sarah) 3 week ago for hh and it was good time. the pics are accurate. She not the most active but for 120$ i think it s fair. Very nice bum.

This acheivement.. has just awarded you 3000 Spankings... hehe see ya at the Social bahahahaha

Come on, ladies, Don't all rush at once. If you're not wet from just looking at it, I guarantee you'll be dripping after a five minute ride. Guaranteed. Lee guarantees it too, and will even pull (you) out when he thinks you're wet enough. Woooo hoooooooooooo ..... guaranteed or your money back !!!! Just like the "Slap Chop" as seen on TV ..... we have that there "Wet Couch" as seen at FB BBM lodge and.....If you can last five minutes you are goin to the bottom of the pond On a side note... if you are lookin for RG.... Roaming guy was spotted here........... Then here .... and here after his last fishing trip ... proud fella I bet

Shamona Lisa

I run to eat. Trying to outrun my bad diet, but wtf, you have to enjoy life too. I am doing the half marathon this weekend...... then eat what I want. Foodies need their intake.

Sorry, couldn't resist! Poor Eva is going to get a complex (or a restraining order) if I keep posting her pic in all these threads!