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I understand the concept of what you are saying......but There are thousands of members on here Thumper. We come from all walks of life with different personalities. Writing recco's does not suit the comfort levels of some hobbyists or words don't flow well from some. Respect that. Also keep in mind that some members come here to message or chat with ladies directly to get to know them, have fun and at the end of the day book dates and get nekkid as a Jaybirds...... and rarely read reccos. I am one of those guys. I do leave a tip or do something generous in my own little way.

I say "no thank you" to many potential appointments. If I dont enjoy the way the email is written such as lack of introduction, lack of effort ,etc. also if someone has an issue with my request for phone number, reference etc. I will decline and I dont take same day appointments or telephone bookings. I trust my instincts and if someone sounds off or iffy to me I simply say "take care and good bye". I haven't had a no show this year, maybe one in 2012. It works

Just wondering where your recommendations are that you have written? Your lines make you sound like a pimp and not a professional photographer, I shoot with one of the best and at NO time has he EVER asked about my business or reviews, that is just wrong. Your job is too shoot photos not start gossip about some girls whining. Tips and reccos are not expected, however they are appreciated when one does not feel guilted into doing either. Just because people don't wrote anything does not mean they had a good or a bad time, it is their preference not to write anything. Stop judging others until you can judge yourself.

We do not have the ability to delete comments from our threads. Don't feel sorry for my mother. She is not to be pitied. I pointed her out as an example that not everyone finds it easy to write things. An inability to write IS an excuse. I think you need to accept that not everyone thinks it's so easy to write something. You don't know everything. Neither do I. So please, stop telling other people what to do. No one likes that - I think the comments in that thread are making that quite clear. You're not doing anything to help these girls right now. Some of my regulars have never written a review for me - and if I'd found out someone gave them shit for that, I would be mortified. Something your SP tells you in private should have been kept in private, not turned into a lecture to other members of this site.

No one is saying the girls don't need recs. What we're saying is... not everyone wants to write them. And that's fine. A lot of men LOVE to write them, and I know I love receiving them. But I don't resent the clients who don't write them, and I would never want them to feel they HAD to write one. It wouldn't make me feel good about getting that rec, that's for sure. Cerb provides a lot of different things for a lot of different people... there's no right or wrong way (unless you're breaking the rules of course). Every client is different, and I for one like that :)

I like the points made by the other posters, that some men just don't like to post... but I disagree with this one. If you'd like to write a recommendation, by all means post it - whether it's repetitive or not. A good time is a good time, and we like to get those recos, whether you're writing something similar or not. I do understand the reasons why some men don't write them, but I do think repetition shouldn't be a factor. I don't think it's redundant, instead I think it shows that a provider has continuded to provide good service, so she has continued to receive good reviews :)

I spent an hour this morning with a wonderful new friend. But we didn't get off on such a good foot. Shortly before he was due to arrive, I noticed a man wandering up and down the road. ?? I live on a little dead end road with only three homes on it. When I see someone wandering around on the street, I look out my window and wonder, who's that? What's he doing? I'm pretty sure my neighbours do too! But if I see someone park in front of one of my neighbours' homes, I don't wonder at all. Obviously the person is visiting my neighbour. Nothing wrong with that, and none of my business. When he came to the door, I asked him what he was doing, and where was his car? Oh, he parked it elsewhere and decided to walk up. "To be discreet." Groan!! Actually, where I live, that probably pretty much ensured anything but! When I do encounter my neighbours, one topic of discussion often comes up: did you see those people down by the path to the river? I wonder who they were." "There was some woman out walking around. I thought she was a Jehovah's Witness, but she didn't come to my door. Did you see her?" Nobody ever says, "hey, who was that guy who came to your house yesterday?" That would be nosy and inappropriate. They only seem to notice and talk about the ones wandering around on foot. Because it's unusual to see non-locals walking around out here. Everybody notices. Guys, we want to be as discreet as much as you do. And we know our neighbourhoods. And our neighbours. That's why we sometimes give you very precise instructions for where to park and what to do when you arrive. Please follow our instructions. (And, of course, the same advice goes to SPs when visiting a client's address.) Thank you!

No one has said they're not important or needed. What most of us are saying is that not everyone wants to write them. And although you think it's 'legit' to disagree with my statement that not everyone is comfortable writing, I will flat out say this: YOU ARE WRONG. Not everyone is comfortable writing. In addition to my mother, two of my siblings have learning disabilities and do not like having to write things. Now that does NOT mean they should be pitied, or that it's 'no excuse' not to write things. You need to be more understanding. Not everyone is comfortable writing things. Why is that so hard to understand? Also: your statement "Their handicap or inability to write something is no excuse. As mentioned below, there's help in that area for whatever problem they have." is both insensitive, uneducated, and well, just plan mean. I'm glad you find it so easy to write things, but not everyone does. And I wouldnt' want them to have to find help somewhere just in order to write an escort recommendation. Rather than listen to anyone saying that not everyone wants to/not everyone CAN write a rec, you're instead saying 'sorry guys, wanted to help, but they're not listening to me!'. You don't seem to be listening to the responses. People have responded in many ways, explaining why they do or do not post, and girls have responded as well. Not everyone agrees that every client should write a rec: why is that so hard to accept?

The total membership of my "take 'em to the bank" regulars do not write recos. Ever. I have few recos in over 5 years, I advertise rarely and yet I exist comfortably and with total satisfaction in my business. Reco's are not the be all to end all. They don't add to my business, if anything they discourage the kind of client I like to attract at this point. So really, having lots of recos depends on the provider and the kind of business she's trying to establish. I understand the OP's intention as well meaning but we are all different in our goals and objectives and a guests never has to kiss and tell... cat

I get no-shows... but I don't screen my appts the way some girls do. If you take the time to ask for references, and set up appointments with minimum 24-hour notice... I doubt you'll get no-shows. If you take last-minute calls with no references, you're opening yourself up to no-shows. I like being able to accept short-notice bookings, and I'm willing to accept that because of my lack of screening/references, no-shows are going to happen. I agree with Monique, it's completely avoidable, if the lady takes the time to screen.

Honey, your heart is in the right place, but I disagree with you. Not everyone wants to post. CERB is the best place to find quality girls, and I don't think someone should feel that they can't come to this site unless they write reviews. I personally appreciate every review I've received - but I've also seen many gentleman, more than once, and they're never made one post on here. That's their perogative - and I don't think it's anyones place to give them a 'kick in the ass'. If someone is a big poster on here but just isn't posting reviews, then I'd be more inclined to agree with your postiion that they should review as well. But if someone is just using this resource to find the girls they want to spend time with... I have no problem with that. Additional Comments: I also think that if every client wrote a reco for every encounter... this site would be bogged down with them and then the recs wouldn't do much help... if every girl received a new reco every day, they'd stop losing their 'power' They wouldn't mean as much when selecting a girl if they popped up as often as the advertisements do.

Many of us on this board don't do no shows So Thanks but we don't need enlightening. The way you are wording your comments you make it sound like we are all guilty of doing no shows and I am sure I may not be the only one finding this insulting!!!

I can say I have maybe 1 no show per year, at most. I think its completely avoidable.

I think your impulse is good Thumper, but I'm also with Lee and and Roamingguy on this one. I assume most Ladies consider recommendations along the same lines as they do tips -- appreciated when they happen but not necessarily expected. Good hygiene, respect, following directions, etc. -- these are rightfully expected. But a recommendation is, I would think, more a nice treat or bonus. Now I for one quite enjoy writing them. I think they are a valuable way to show your appreciation, and like you think they are well deserved. But I don't think they should be mandatory or that someone should feel guilty if they don't. Actually, I think they would lose some of their value if it was seen as a chore. Surely it's better to have fewer ones written by those truly moved to do so than have a string of them from people guilt-tripped into providing one. It's also worth pointing out that some ladies prefer not to have recommendations posted, or at least have preference in terms of content (a recommendation isn't typically the place for a "dear penthouse" type letter). There's nothing wrong with a gentle reminder that recommendations are often appreciated and worth doing. But they are not everything. I'm sure a lot of gentlemen have other ways of showing their appreciation, and it may not be fair to harshly judge those that prefer not to leave public recommendations of their encounters.

I am reading on with this post now only to find out if it can get any more condescending than it is after this comment. This, coming from the same poster who objects to "Trolls" on another post today

Just because something is called one thing its the only thing it means; wow... I cant believe how often do we have to beat this topic. I wrote recommendation when I feel like it; in any means or way trust me it does not reflect anything along how I like a lady or not. There is many ladies here in CERB that I have seen more than 3-4 times and still have not written recommendation about them. I don't want to let the world know who I see on which day of the week as that is my business and my business alone. I really find your post of calling other lazy offensive. Learn to communicate your thoughts before the name calling. Enough is enough.

While I agree with your intent, that good sessions should result in good recommendations (if the provider agrees - some don't), I'm a little taken aback by your approach. I'm taking myself back in time to when I first started here. I've got to learn the rules and the etiquette so I don't come across as the bumbling fool I'm afraid I might be. Now I've finally figured out who I want at the helm of my maiden CERB voyage. Gotta learn the details on how to arrange, present myself, conduct myself, and gracefully exit. Done. And now I should get my ass kicked if I don't write a recommendation? Seriously? I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess you didn't write this with newbies in mind. I agree with your un-selected choice of a gentle reminder to the more experienced members. But I can't quite shake the idea that there are one or four newbies reading this thread asking "WTF?" The above reflects only my uniformed opinion and no one else's. And who knows. I might disavow them tomorrow.

None of the above! I think 'She's ADORABLE and looks like soooo much fun, I'd like to have a no-pants dance party with her!'

As a photographer, I usually get to chat with the clients and I found a disturbing phenomenon amongst most of them. Guys that don't leave any kind of recommendation for the ladies... even after seeing them several times. They obviously liked what went on in their session or they wouldn't be back... right? Most of them come from this site and they know what it's all about. That's why it's called CERB. We come here to read these recommendations and make an informed decision on who we will meet. Some deserving girls don't get the recognition they need because some selfless, lazy-ass dude won't take the time to say something nice. Unfortunately, most establishments have rules so the girls can't even ask for one after a few visits. In my opinion, it should be mandatory. If you met her on this site, and yes, probably based your desition on her recommendations, you should be required to post one. By not posting, you are insulting the MP/SP or at the very least, making her think she has done nothing right or something wrong. Whatever happened wasn't important enough for you to mention. If that is the case, why do you go back to her? I hope some of you lazy ass dudes that read this feel guilty enough to take the time and say something nice about the ladies you have visited. They work very hard to make a living and they deserve big tips and all the recommendations they can get. Who knows, she may even show her appreciation on your next visit. This is a site for the hobbyist so he can be informed. Other MPs/SPs know that most hobbyists see different ladies from time to time so there's no jealousy issues to worry about. There's no acceptable reason why you can't leave one. Don't be a miser. Leave a generous tip and say something nice for once in your life. Okay, rant is over. :-)

To hear them tell it, this hobby is a simple exchange for services. Nothing more, and most certainly nothing less. It's a hard old world out there. The old timers tell me, there will be some who are just out to take your money. Try and bleed you dry at the slightest sign of weakness or vulnerability, and try and return as little as possible. I listen to the locker room bravado, a slight smile on my face. I guess I can consider myself an old timer too, after all these years. I think, not so much of their words, but of what path in this life has gotten them to this place. I wonder if they have been hurt. I wonder why their words are so bitter. Because to believe that that's all that makes up this world is to deny the existence of the magic that surrounds us every single moment. Yes, I believe that there are ladies who as the song says, will "steal your money and break your heart". But that's not the whole story, any more than saying that my little city is cold and snow covered perpetually and year-round, an overcast sky blocking the sun, heat and light from my little corner of the Canadian prairie. You see, I've often been the grateful recipient of unspeakable kindness and generosity. Ladies who have given their all to me, given much more than they had to. They gave their bodies to be sure, because that's the bargain. But they also cared more than they had to, shared a little more of their souls than was absolutely necessary. I can only wonder why when I get told that I'm so nice to them, because all I do is treat the ladies I see with respect. I just treat them like the human beings that they are. I try and keep that sense of wonder in this world. I try not to get frustrated, I try not to get bitter. I must confess, I don't always succeed the odd dark day. But for the most part, I still do. I still see the magic, the little miracles that are easy to overlook. Here is a case in point. I will soon meet a lady who is almost legendary. I've been following her for a long time, wondering what it would be like to meet her, what would happen once the doors closed behind us and we were all alone. I feel elated by the anticipation I feel, the excitement, the tingle every time I imagine her touch. I want to scream from the rooftops that we are meeting, I want to write and tell her how thrilled I am. But I don't. I don't want to brag that I'm going to be seeing her, because there's no point. Anyone else who is reasonably civil can get to meet her, and I know that there's been a long, long line before me who already have. And I'm not going to contact her, for no good reason. It's mostly because I don't want to distract her from her busy life, and also because I don't want her to think that I'm needy before we even are face to face. But it's also because I want to sustain that wonder just a little longer, hold that sweet anticipation. I close my eyes and imagine that first moment when we touch, of my lips brushing against hers. I can feel the delicate skin of the nape of her neck underneath my fingertips as the tip of my tongue touches hers. I dream of taking my time, my lips and fingers telegraphing their own wordless welcome as I slowly, deliberately undress her. I want to savor every moment, explore every little out of the way place on that exquisite body of hers. I want to make her gasp, as I stroke and kiss the parts that many others have overlooked in their haste to their own happy endings. I want to give. I long to see the delight in her eyes when she has her own release, because I know that there comes a point when my pleasure and her pleasure become indistinguishable. I know I'll see the gratitude in her eyes, and that makes me happy. Why do I bother? It's because I know what she knows, that all guys aren't out to get as much as they can. To get off, get out, leave nothing behind but their envelopes and a deflated glove. To have shared nothing of themselves. To slip out silently, without so much as a goodbye. I could do this, of course. But I won't. To deny that human contact, that gentle and caring touch, is to deny that there is anything more than those frantic moments before, during, and after that final release. It's to deny that there is any emotion in this odd little hobby of mine. It's to deny that there are other sensual pleasures that are out there, to be savored, other than that most obvious one. But ultimately, it's denying our humanity itself. And I don't want to do that.

Cleo & Monique are exactly right. I haven't had a no-show since 2012, and even then I only had 2 when I first started working independently because I was learning how to screen & book, and still figuring stuff out. It took some trial and error to perfect my processes and now everything is all gravy. We see these threads all the time and if something's not working for a lady and she is having lots of problems, she should consider taking a look at the way she is operating and make some changes, if necessary. Everything can always be improved! And I'm with Monique about being selective about my guests. I think that's why I still love this job so much. Quality over quantity! :)

Another thing to keep in mind: some people aren't comfortable writing in any venue. It may be a language barrier, could be dyslexia, could be a fear of writing, could be many different things. My mother gets so nervous even typing a simple email it can take her hours to do so. Does that mean she shouldn't be a member of any online forums? Just because someone doesn't want to sit down and write about their encounter does not mean they didn't enjoy it, it does NOT mean they need a kick in the ass, and it definitely does not mean they don't belong on cerb.

Like Lee I hear what you are saying and understand where you are coming from Me, I personally don't use recommendations to decide who to see, but I know that some gentlemen do. That said, I do write recommendations, and love writing them. It is just my way of providing the lady with a public thank you for providing me with a wonderful encounter. Second maybe it will help her business, she might get another client, or more. And finally sort of the opposite side of number two, some gentlemen will know of a wonderful lady to see. Why do I love writing them, it means I just had a wonderful encounter with a lady, and I love wonderful encounters So recommendations are just my way of saying thank you to the lady and giving back to this community But many gentlemen are shy about posting, especially recommendations. They think it has to be a university essay. But a simple couple lines such as "I saw _________for an incall/outcall. Place clean. Photos accurate. She arrived on time. Had a very good time (don't even need details here) Would see her again" would suffice for a recommendation What really irks me though, is those members who won't see a lady citing lack of recommendations, but you pull up those member's posts, they never have posted a recommendation in their life. Consumers of recommendations also need to be producers of recommendations (of course when they are due;-) ) A rambling RG

And any lady should be thankful and grateful that the client enjoyed her so much that he went back for more even though she didn't receive a recommendation from him. Repeat business and regular clients are priceless! Hummmm, from reading this thread and the other one you started today, why do I have a feeling that, even though your general intentions seem to be good, that you are directly expressing someone else's personal frustration about not receiving as many recos as she would like and because she is experiencing a lot of no-shows? Anyway, back on topic... I believe it's a good thing that ladies are not allowed to solicit recommendations, even from a repeat clients: first, it puts the client in an awkward situation (he may or may not want to repeat after that) and plain and simple, it is tacky. If the client wants to write a reco, I am positive he will *without being asked. For newbies reading this thread, please know that not every lady feels that way and you should never feel like you HAVE to write a recommendation. Most will appreciate your repeat business over a recommendation any time. You call some hobbyists "lazy-ass dudes" because they do not write recos for some deserving ladies? Really? lol Everyone has their own reasons for writing/not writing recommendations and it's no one's place to judge if their reasons are valid or not. Sure, it would be great if many more recommendations were written for the ladies but the fact is that a large majority do not write them and never will. Mandatory recommendations after a few visits if you're a Cerb member? I can't even start to tell you how wrong that would be for all kinds of reasons. And as far as tips are concerned, it has been said before, over and over: tips are always appreciated but never expected and no one should ever feel pressured to leave one.

Perhaps then the wording of your post, and self described "rant" could have been less imperious ... Nothing is perfect, but based on what I see it is definitely not broken... I am not sure there are as many of us out here that actually need your "advice" as you may think...at least I hope not

I'm afraid that ship sailed a few years ago. Much more of a social board like facebook as anything else now. Peace MG

When I came to cerb I logged on registered and made mistake after mistake, one being asking a couple of clients to leave me a reco if they liked my service. I felt pressured to need them and that having them would make me a more respected provider. I never read the cerb rules, nor did I know the etiquette. I've since learned and in time have realized that a lot of men read and rely on recos yet just as many if not more don't and prefer not to write them also having them doesn't mean anyone is better or worse than anyone else. I have enough repeat clients now to give me the assurance that I provide a great service so I no longer feel the pressure of needing them or even wanting them. Everyone is different and even though cerb is a reco board its also offers providers and hobbyists a whole lot more:)

To those guys that insist on asking if I am a cop, I want you to think about your question. If I was an undercover cop, would I tell you the truth and say Yes? If I was an undercover cop and you wanted me to kill your wife for money, if you asked me if I was a cop, would I tell you the truth? No, of course not, I would lie and say I am not a cop. Touching my breasts would only give you an assault charge if she was a cop. I think you need to realize that if you are worried that your sp is a cop, dont discuss business in public, dont pick her up on the street corner or a hotel lobby. I am not a lawyer, but my understand of the law in Canada is that if you are not soliciting in public, if everything is being conducted behind closed doors in a private place, you are ok. Not sure if others are noticing an increase in these types of questions, but I just have to shake my head. Cops lie all the time, especially those that are undercover. Just incase you are wondering, no I am not a cop, I am not an undercover police officer or any other combination. I am just a sp who works alone, will never work for an agency and trying to makie some money on something I love doing. I only advertise on CERB and will never do a call in public (ie, your car is very public), or in the washroom of your local restaurant etc... Have a great day!

I've heard from several sources, especially the successful ones, that they are experiencing a lot of No Shows and Trolls of late. Why is this happening and what can we respectable guys do about it? These MPs/SPs work very hard to market their skills and make preparations to meet clients. When someone just doesn't show up for their appointment, these girls loose valuable time and money as they could have scheduled someone else in if they had some kind of warning. Everyone knows that things can happen that require a cancellation but why on earth would you not let the girl know you can't make it. You'd call your Doctor, Dentist, and even your Mom so why not them. Even if you only had a 20 minute notice yourself. Some of these girls may have even turned down some other clients that could have replaced you at a moments notice. A quick call from her to one of them, could possibly save her that session time if the client is only a few minutes away. You are disrespecting our MPs/SPs and not giving them the level of attention that you will with other professionals. You cancel a cab at the last minute because you don't want him to show up at your door and you don't come out. Understandably, the cabby will be upset so how do you think your MP/SP will feel while she waits patiently for your arrival and you don't show up. I have never had a last minute cancellation for any photo shoots but if I ever get one, I'm pretty sure my client would give me a heads up as soon as they know they can't make it. Why are these hard working girls treated any differently. Some of the girls believe that most of these no shows are just trolls. Usually fake profiles set up to make appointments just so they don't show up. So why are these so popular with a successful MP/SP? I believe they are created by certain recruiting establishments that want this successful girl to go work for them. They feel if she looses enough money from no show clients, she'll move on. Hopefully she'll accept their earlier offer this time. Some believe these trolls are other competitors, perhaps even working in the same establishment. They're trying to make them want to get a different job because all their clients keep canceling and they make no money. They may just want to make them look unorganized and unsuccessful so the establishment boss will fire them. If anyone has any ideas how these MPs/Sps can avoid these no shows and trolls more effectively, please post it here. The regular communication options like PMs, text, and e-mail don't seem to be working. There should be some kind of fall back system so the girls can report these no shows and trolls so they can be instantly banned. Possibly even an IP collecting database so these Trolls can be tracked down later. I don't know. Just a thought I guess.

Close, and good on ya for apologizing. I'd only point out that your final conclusion is off the mark. It's not that you won't find those answer "here", it's that you won't find them "this way". "Here" is actually a pretty awesome, thoughtful and informative place. So here's to tomorrow being a better Thumper day! ;)

I screen my clients and personally speak to every person I book. It takes more effort to screen potential clients but it resolves the no show issue. It is a trade off - more screening time leads to much less time waiting for no shows. Every SP needs to decide for herself - either you spend time screening potential clients or you spend time waiting for no shows.

A recommendation needs to be written from the heart, because a gentlemen had a good encounter with a lady and wishes to share. It's not written because if he doesn't write one he deserves a good swift kick in the ass. That isn't the right reason for writing a recommendation RG

No one wants you to feel awkward or uncomfortable and for your session to be great both parties need to know what's to be expected. So ask first. In your pm ask away, politely and respectfully and I'm sure you'll get the response you'd hope for. We are all different, want and provide differently, and the only way to know anything is to ask up front. For those who are more shy sometimes pm'ing is easier than other forms of communicating.

I used to write a bunch of reviews, (excuse me, recommendations) but lately I have not written as many for a variety of reasons. One of those reasons is for the fear of saying something negative, or that could be misinterpreted. Not all encounters are 100% perfect and a less than positive comment on any aspect, even if it was only the venue, can be frowned upon. If I see someone who is a relative unknown or a new-comer I will gladly get the word out if I have a positive experience. That is on this board. However if the lady is well regarded the word gets out there through a lot of other means aside from the recommendation section of this board. PM's, chat room conversations, talking with other hobbiests is how I get most of my information and how I share my info. It is fine that this only a recommendation board, and that all comments need to be positive. The downside is that it can be slightly misleading because it is not necessarily balanced. It is a trade-off.

I don't have a problem with the CERB board. I think it's an excellent forum to find what you're looking for... It could be better if there was more participation in what it was originally designed for though. Yes, I am ambitious today. I'm taking a break and just thought I'd stick some pencils in a few ears to see if anyone is listening. lol I'm seeing a lot of negativity on this subject which is disappointing but not only for me, for the ladies that want and need recommendations. Some girls have been doing a great job for months but it's slow because they have no recommendations to show anyone. They look new, inexperienced, or incapable of pleasing anyone. I can understand the girls with lots of recommendations that can now say they don't need them. However, I'm sure they helped get her where she is today. I'm not trying to strong arm anyone. I just believe its a good habit to get into and it's just as important as tips, being a gentleman, hygiene, and showing up.

When asked to share more about yourself on the booking form or email you: A) attach a penis photo B) share an brief introduction and ask if the lady requires any more details C) ask the lady if she is a cop

Any chance you can enlighten us all on how you remain so successful Monique? How do you avoid these no shows and trolls?

Question 6: preparing for my encounter I should? a) Watch porn and get myself ready... b)go to the gym and have a good sweat... c) take a nice long shower, brush teeth and smell squeaky clean for the lady.... d) take a few beers to help me relax...

What can we gentlemen do. Continue to be gentlemen, and show and not troll. And if we have to cancel provide ample notice, or compensate her if a last minute cancellation. And through posts educate those no shows/trollers. Ladies can always employ methods (screening/verification, deposits) Ladies deserve to be treated like ladies, meaning with respect. And no shows are disrespectful RG

kinda shitty to say, but i believe it will have to go to a deposit situation if you want to almost guarantee an appointment. something like 30-50% of the fee upfront at time of booking then the rest in person. its sad that it may actually come to this. remember being about to leave the gas station without paying so you could go home and get your wallet? guess its a bit different but almost the same

There's much more to an encounter than an orgasm. Take time to have conversation over drinks. Spend time getting to know one another. Then go to the bedroom. Being intimate with a lady, and just my opinion, is much more enjoyable with someone you spent time getting to know a little. After sex, and you orgasm, continue to lie in bed with the lady, kiss, cuddle, conversation. Ladies are much more than providers of sex, they are providers of companionship. And companionship is special My two cents RG

You're never doomed because of early cumings dude. I think most guys go through that at some point. There are a lot of good suggestions here and you only need to learn some of them. Most guys know when they are about to cum so if you don't want to cum yet, stop what you're doing for a few seconds. Take away that feeling down there so you don't cum. If you're inside her and get that erg, pull out and go down on her for a bit. Then start over. If it's a bj, lightly pull her head away with both hands and passionately kiss her for a while. It's just mind over matter. Make the mind think about something else for a moment so the rest doesn't matter. Early ejaculation will be a thing of the past and you'll get the reputation of being the long lasting stud you're probably looking for. :-)

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Nivea Men products are nice too and pretty subtle in their scent. For incall I'd stick to products that have little or no scent for discretion purposes. the one that Emily J noted is great the scent is very soft and what you can smell just smells clean and not cologne like. I have used it and it'll never result in anyone being tipped off because of a scent.

Love this. I saw they were doing a lot of research on rebuilding damaged heart tissue with stem cells - there's hope for me yet!

Good advice. I & other girl's I know will work out of their posted scheduled hours. Just prebook.If the lady is a morning person & likes to go to bed early, she can prepare herself with a nap to put a little pep in her step again. She's revitalized & ready to go for you at a later hour. I personally if I don't have a call booked by 9:30pm for before 11pm, when I finish. I wash my makeup off throw my granny jammies on & kick my feet up & catch up on pvr'd shows I've missed.That might be the case for the ladies you are trying to call. Especially if the phone is just ringing or its hung up on you. Easier to ignore it then answer to say sorry if only you'd prebooked, there's always a feeling of disappointment turning someone down.

I keep a few different varieties of men's body wash in my restroom. The best one in my opinion and also the one that my guests seem to use most is the "Dove Men's Care: Sensitive". It's labelled as "Unscented", however it does have a very mild light scent (I have a super keen sense of smell), but nothing compared to some of the other options. I agree that it is actually pretty hard to find unscented men's products, as I have looked high and low, and this is the best one I have found.