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I'm out to all in my life. The reactions were varied, some stepped up and supported me; others disowned me. I prefer to know who I can count on so I disclose it up front and allow people to make the decision for themselves to get to know me or not. I'm so far beyond caring what anyone else thinks at this point in my life that it is easy for me to do. The only time it causes issues is when people are not honest with themselves about how they feel about my work. They misrepresent themselves as being ok with it when in fact they aren't. That has caused some rough patches in the past and now I take a long time to get to know someone before I let them get close so I know I've done my due diligence in protecting me and mine. I do believe that the industry as a whole needs to be prepared to shed some light on the realities to dispel the myths but I understand those that fear the reaction and chose to closet their choices. I view every interaction I have with the "squares" as a chance to challenge their preconceived ideas and as a little one on one public relations. I don't fit the stereotype (as few of us do!) and most often than not they go away with food for thought. Planting the seeds of doubt and having patience is all it takes to change minds... cat

I'm 100% open. My friends and family all know what I do, and are all completely supportive of me and my decisions.

The fact that hobbying needs to be kept private is one of the main reasons that understanding of what sex work is and how prevalent and necessary this industry is. Our media presents a very one sided view of sex work and the voices of the men and women who see providers are all most never heard. We need more books like Paying For It and more men and women who are able to speak openly about their experiences. Remember your providers when you vote and remember us when folks are speajing poorly of us.

Question 23 IF and when you start developing feelings for a lady companion, do you: A) Text her every single day because you miss her and because your day never feels complete without talking to her B) Start showing up at her incall unannounced so you can see her C) Drive by her incall and sit in your car and wait to see if she is seeing other clients D) Write her a love letter expressing your feelings in hopes she feels the same way E) Give yourself a headshake and take a step back to realize that, even though what you share with her is very personal and intimate, the lady has not become an SP to find friends, friends with benefits, personal lovers and/or a boyfriend and is not looking for any of the latter even if she genuinely likes you and appreciates your company.

I think marriage can be a great institution for two grown-up people who enter into it thoughtfully and aware. At the same time it's not a precondition for happiness, it's not the only "right" way to live, and for a lot of perfectly good and healthy people it's just a really bad fit and better foregone. The seed for marriage is romantic love and passion, but it's intended to grow into something more in which two people support each other's lifelong hopes and ambitions, and promise to be there to care for each other even through sickness and setbacks. There's got to be something kept exclusive to the relationship, reserved only for your marriage partner and which makes that relationship unique (otherwise why be married at all?). But what that exclusive thing is depends on the couple. It doesn't have to be sex... but whatever it is, the partners need to agree about it and set the boundaries beforehand. Problems arise though when people expect their marriage to be the *everything* of their lives, all the time. Or when one or both people grows into a new and different self, but they take no measures (or try and fail) to adjust their relationship to match. So yeah, there's lots that can go wrong with each marriage, but that doesn't mean it's doomed as an institution. Like anything else between two people, the participants need to communicate and adapt over time for things to keep working. Problem is, since marriage is so often entered into when young and idealistic, and marriage itself perceived with highly-charged awe, it can be very hard to stop and look at it objectively as a thing the couple themselves own and can alter to the shape they need. A really short version of all that would be: marriage can work really well when the couple themselves own the marriage, but seldom works well when they feel the marriage owns them.

Probably just Superman and Dr. Who.

This is a great topic, glad I came across it! I guess from my perspective, yes a "regular" client is a good thing of course, but if I lowered my rate to see you (simply because u see me often) I may be missing on a larger donation from someone else, simply because they don't see me as often? Doesn't seem very fair to me or the gent forking out the full rate. After numerous visits, if both parties enjoy each other, the chemistry has now grown and you're having an even more spectacular time than you did on your first visit... and if I get it right, you think this should cost you LESS? ERROR CODE 69 : Does not compute

TODAY 3:30-11P M!! Fellow hobbyists If this is your first visit be sure to check out... RECO'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=R&t=82591 PIC'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6979 I am a M/A with an INCREDIBLE drive.. A naturalist at heart <3 ME in the buff = YOU leaving happy I am petite (5ft' - 32D - 107lbs) but my presence and personality are larger than life. ( Don't be nervous ) I have a soft approch and a HARD finish. My techniques are magical And I love to entertain. Lucky you ! My Schedule: Wednesdays: 3:30-11 Thursdays 3:30- 11 Fridays 10 -11 Sundays 10-9 Exclusively @ Angels Entertainment in a relaxed environment 613-274-7073 to book or PM me

Totally illegal, but on my own time there's nothing like getting it on in the bushes or tall grass where one wont get caught. ;)

For years I have repeatedly asked that they stop wasting the trees and stop delivering mine. Those requests go ignored. It gets stored in the basement and gets recycled all dusty and unused. Bad Bell. :spank:

50% of the people close to me know between close friends and family members... I have open up to friends that in the past have shown to me that they are my true friends no matter what.., in good and in bad.. It was not easy because there is always the fear of rejection.. fortunately they have accept me and nothing has change between us... Some friends not as close I dont feel omfortable talking to them about what i do and i just orefer to keep them in the dark... And when it comes to the rest of the world... Is really none of their business what I do...

My friends and family know that I'm an escort. Although I'm not out on 'paper' because I'm apprehensive about the effect this could have on future career opportunities. For example, if you Google my real name there is no indication that I've worked as an escort. Apart from being slightly worried about my safety on occasion, mainly because of what they hear in the media, my friends and family know that I'm an intelligent young woman and I'm doing what's in my best interest, both emotionally, physically, and financially. When I speak to 'square' folk (as Cat aptly put it) I do think it's a great opportunity to disrupt some of the stereotypes associated with the industry. Most people react with curiosity and want to ask questions without being rude or invasive. I've had good experiences almost everytime I've told someone, but that's perhaps because I surround myself with awesome people! I don't scream it from the rooftops but I definitely don't hide it either. It's definitely hard when people seem supportive but prove not to be later down the line... It's an entirely different story for people in the industry who have SOs, be they sex workers or clients. Being out can have broader implications. Sometimes there are two (or more) people to take into consideration...

I also have a so, as does my friends I brought. The reason I had the idea of cmj was because one of the friends likes the strip club way to much and the other is basically a virgin, they both have confided in me very privately some information, so I decided to repay the favor. As cristy said, to be friends like we are, we have to be open about everything, he opened up aand now so have I. And honestly, being able to speak freely on Cerb helps, but now I can sit and have a true conversation about the industry with someone very close to me without judgment

Just like NotchJ, I also have the need to keep all of this under the radar.. There is however, one of my best friends of 35+ years, who has confided in me about his second persona last year. He is a Dom and has found his Sub and has his needs, wants, demons and desires fulfilled. We have had a few excellent conversations about each other dilemma or alter ego, i recently told him that I am on CERB, as a vehicle to have and open and honest means to voice my feelings. which is true!! but i have not told him of a few connections I've made... But he is a very intelligent man... I think he has figured it out that I have sought solace in a lady's arms... :-) I'll stop here.. D.

I used to be quite open about this profession and my opinions concerning it. However those I told used it against me so now I keep it between myself and two of my closest friends, I would trust those two people with my life:). They had to know as I didn't think I could be truly close without them knowing everything about me. I believe great friends need to know about one another. But as the old saying goes -if you don't want anyone knowing anything then don't tell ANYONE!

Phone books are only useful for short people now I find. They have to see over the steering wheel somehow right? We were wasting well over 700$ a month on our family business for a listing that people never saw because no one uses them anymore, I don't even remember how to look someone/something up anymore I don't think

When you have a request, the best way to communicate it is to send a PM or email to the SP and start out by telling her what it is you are looking for. Most SPs are receptive to this when it's done in a manner that shows you took the time to write it as opposed to saying "xxxxxx?" or one of the many one liners in PMs, emails or texts that an SP gets on a daily basis. This isn't to say that you would write that but when it is conveyed in a respectful manner, you are likely to get a better reponse. Don't get too long winded about it and keep it succinct. Most SPs prefer it that way as many of us don't have time for back and forth exchanges ( I know I don't!) to only request a specfic service in the fourth or fifth email or Pm. An intro with your name, age, your experience in seeing SPs, what you enjoy in the bedroom and what you like from an SP during your time together will show the SP that you are serious and not wasting her time. Straightforward in a nice, respectful way that is not crude is what many of us look for.

So covered (aka. Protected, wearing condom) is not always desirable with some men. I agree flesh-to-flesh with your lover is my preference too. However, there is a way to tip the scales to wearing protection. When applying the protection, put a drop or two of warming up water based lubricant inside the head of the condom. Then roll it on. A few strokes to spread the lube around the entire head of the penis. Then HJ, BJ, FS, whatever. The condom feels like it's not even there at the most sensitive parts of the head. When the man releases pre-cum, the lube heats up and travels down the length if the penis. It feels like she came hard and covered you cock with her cream. That's usually enough to set the guy off. And there is very little to clean up. No need to aim it in a safe direction or wash the ceiling tiles afterwards. Guys can try it by yourself. Let's hear back of your experiences.

No doubt this is all true. For those who are able, I'd suggest a weekday afternoon or Saturday afternoon visit. On many weekdays the CR is not that crowded and a good deal of privacy may be had, although Thursdays and Fridays can be busier than other weekdays. Saturday afternoons can seem a bit slow, but if an ATF dancer (say Jenny or Ariel) is in, it can be the best of all possible worlds - relatively empty CR, no visits "every couple of minutes" and not as much of a wait if you have a particular fave dancer in your sights. Just my view though - I know some clubgoers prefer the more active evening atmosphere.

Mudbunny, previous posters have already given you some good advice and I believe if you use some of the tips you were given, you will do just fine ;) and enjoy your experiences that much more! As RG suggested, have a drink with the lady when you arrive. Talk a little to set the mood. There's no need to rush into anything. From there, the two of you can easily go for a sexy soapy shower together to warm things up a little more. When the two of you are being intimate and you feel yourself getting too close, you can always stop and take care of her for a while ;) and then enjoy some more direct stimulation later. If you happen to orgasm, nothing says the two of you cannot go for #2 :) If a second orgasms in not in the cards, the two of you can easily spend the remaining time cuddling and talking or giving each other a massage (and maybe take another sexy shower together). There are many ways of delaying the inevitable. Just use your imagination, explore and enjoy it! :)

Remember though, in this day and age with even more ladies getting into the business than ever before, not all older SPs are necessarily more experienced than some of the younger ones. I know SPs in the their late 20's/earlier 30's who have more experience than some ladies 40+ who have only recently gotten into the business. I think Roaming Guy pretty well hit the nail on the head, that it's not so much about age, as the attitude. As a mature provider who has been around for the past 15 years, I can say that when I started (part-time), it was agency driven and outcall only. It was a completely different mentality then. GFE was not even heard of and I was only permitted to provided FS with CBJ (no kissing an no daty were allowed). Over the years, the shift being able to work indy, provide incalls, offer one'es own brand of service and of course the Internet revolution, has changed things considerably. It seems now days, anyone with a picture, Internet connection and a cell phone can call themselves a Service Provider. This has provided a tremendous pool of ladies to choose from, not all of them necessarily providing good service. It really is "buyer beware" out there. The good news is though that regardless of age and description you are seeking, you need to do you research. There are many amazing ladies out there, and boards such as CERB and sites like escorts-canada are not fool proof guarantees, but a good place to start in finding someone with a good reputation who offers the type of service you are looking for, regardless of their age.

No Kidding. I want to talk about Turkey, roast turkey that is. I am cooking one right and since thanksgiving is coming soon. I thought we could talk about recipes. I've cooked over 100 turkeys so far and all of them have came out great. I learnt a secret long time ago from a chef at the Chateau Laurier on how to cook moist turkey and have improved it over the years. The would soak the turkey breast down in about 2 inches of beer. and baste it before cooking for about an hour. I tried and the turkey came out moist and brown and juicy. I later started pouring beer inside the cavity also. But now I found the best way is use a flavor injector, I inject a bottle of beer or ale into the turkey breast and legs . This is the best way as it gets the beer into the meat. For the stuffing and gravy. When I take the giblets and neck bones out of the turkey I put it a small part of water with a bit of salt and pepper and boil it for 20 minutes. Mean while I just chopped some onion, celery and mushrooms up. Get a large mixing bowl and pour about a cup of the turkey broth from the pot, add 3 tablespoons of butter into the broth to melt it. add a tablespoon of onion soup mix, remove the giblets from the pot and chop it up. Put all the vegetables in the bowl into the broth, mix it up. Now add a box of stovetop turkey stuffing into the mixture and stir it around. Add more broth until the mixture is moist. Now let it sit for 5 minutes to absorb the liquid. Now add more water the pot containing the neck bones, I also add a tablespoon of onion soup mix to the broth, now chop up about 5 mushrooms into tiny pieces and add this the broth, this will be used for the gravy later. Keep checking and make sure that there is enough water at all times. Now stuff the turkey with the dressing, roast it at 325 until it is roasted. When the turkey is done, add the pan dressings to the broth, I also add a tablespoon of oyster sauce to the gravy mixture for extra flavour. Skim the fat off, and then heat the gravy up and add some cornstarch slurry to the gravy to thicken it. Sorry I don't have the measurements, i eyeball it and taste. you may add salt and pepper to the gravy to your taste. Please post any of your Turkey recipes or hints, for stuffing and gravy :)

I finally got to see DoubleDDLove666 aka Cassie . She a former dancer , and wow she still got the moves . Before booking with her we had chatted a lot and I found her to be a sweet charming girl . Everything about this girl is great . There nothing much I can complain about . I meet her at her nice incall place . She spent the time to dress up and we had a great time . I won't spend time explaining just go see this girl ! She well worth time ! Trust me gents ! Hope to see her around more !

Morning guys! I just had a thought (obviously because I started a thread). How open are most of you to your friends/families about what you do? Be it a sp or MA or dom or hobbyist. I recently allowed two of my closest friends to see what goes on behind closed doors, and invited them to cmj for a bachelor party. I got a mix of reactions from them, from shock (at first) to intrigue, and finally excitement. We had a conversation about what had gone on once we left, and both of them thanked me ffor bringing them to the other side. To allow them to sit and talk to some of the girls at cmj, to get on the same level then go through and have a good time completely changed their mind thought. I was a little skeptical because in previous conversation, one of my friends had spoken about the industry with a very closed and media driven mind, now I'm happy to say that he is planning on becoming a member of cmj. Do you guys have stories like this one? Did it go south? I'm interested to hear what has to be said.

To those guys that insist on asking if I am a cop, I want you to think about your question. If I was an undercover cop, would I tell you the truth and say Yes? If I was an undercover cop and you wanted me to kill your wife for money, if you asked me if I was a cop, would I tell you the truth? No, of course not, I would lie and say I am not a cop. Touching my breasts would only give you an assault charge if she was a cop. I think you need to realize that if you are worried that your sp is a cop, dont discuss business in public, dont pick her up on the street corner or a hotel lobby. I am not a lawyer, but my understand of the law in Canada is that if you are not soliciting in public, if everything is being conducted behind closed doors in a private place, you are ok. Not sure if others are noticing an increase in these types of questions, but I just have to shake my head. Cops lie all the time, especially those that are undercover. Just incase you are wondering, no I am not a cop, I am not an undercover police officer or any other combination. I am just a sp who works alone, will never work for an agency and trying to makie some money on something I love doing. I only advertise on CERB and will never do a call in public (ie, your car is very public), or in the washroom of your local restaurant etc... Have a great day!

Seems a bit harsh no? All he did was ask a simple question and you seem to have just dismissed it as common sense. To actually contribute to the thread productively, just do as was mentioned. If you think there might be a preference in race, just casually add it into your introduction and proceed from there. As far as I have seen, not many sps/ma's do this, but there is always the odd one that might. Happy hunting

I'm not ashamed about partaking in this lifestyle. And I'm single, no concerns if discovered. That said, this is my private life, and I treat it with discretion, not telling anyone (well except for those on CERB and ladies I see ;-) ) It's no one's business Now if discovered I would tell, obviously without revealing ladies names. But what would come as a surprise to most I know is first, that I am even seeing professional companions. I doubt I would fit society's stereotype of a male who sees escorts. And second, that sex is only a small part of an encounter, companionship entails far more than sex and it is all aspects of companionship I enjoy. A rambling RG

looks like someone needs to get an LTE superphone lol

I live in the US and it is not as bad as some have made out. The Erotic Review is a great site. Only see providers that have many reviews and you will have no problems. I have used many Winnipeg SPs as references in Minneapolis and other US cities. If you have specific questions feel free to pm me.

Oh I should add that I'm open about the work I do also.

Thanksgiving is coming up soon. And I know some of the people are excellent chefs and home cooks. It would be nice for people to post their favourite recipes for roast Turkey and the trimmings and also recipes for Turkey Leftovers. Let's see what we come up with. Looking forwards to trying something new year for Thanksgiving dinner.

Come get me wet, lets play ;) Sexy duos with Britney until 4pm Sexy duos with Molly after 4pm Text me at 6138698432

My afterglow is often dependant on the lady and the connection and chemistry that existed during the encounter. I tend to play in the daytime and in the morning in particular so I'll usually get the glow to carry though the rest of the day and I'll fall asleep to images of my experience. However I have been extremely fortunate that I have met some ladies who value the connection and chemistry (beyond the sex)as much as I do and in those cases there was a build up of tension and attraction before the encounter. In those situations, I carry a tingle with me perpetually and when I think of them or even see their name mentioned on Cerb I get super vivid flashbacks and a tingle in my spine. Truthfully, they probably be with me forever, it was that amazing.

Check out Kimaya from Montreal at Angie's. by far one of the best lap dances I ever had anywhere. This girl does the most erotic dance , there is no way you aren't staying in the back for many dances. This girl is awesome.

Yup, the delight and fulfillment I get from a good session with a wonderful lady usually affects the way I see myself and the world around me for days, and in its wake follow a bouquet of daydreams and a whole series of quiet little smiles to myself. That subsides after a while, but most of the time I carry one or two particular moments and images from each session with me forever. That's just one of the ongoing rewards.

He did say nothing too serious, clothes on. Who knows, maybe he received some private replies.

SexxxyRebecca works relatively near there, i would recommend her to no end :D Additional Comments: Also, someone i have noticed advertising in barrhaven is DoubleDDLove666, ive seen her on cam in chat and she looks amazing, i would deffinetly suggest you check her out :)

I decided to start a new social group for the Cigar Aficionado where we can share our favorite smoke, comment about ratings, make recommendations such as what beverage you would enjoy with which cigar etc...( maybe even a cigar fetish story? * evil grin * ) Look forward to meeting and sharing with each of you. Cheers http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=190

TODAY 3:30-11PM!! Fellow hobbyists If this is your first visit be sure to check out... RECO'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=R&t=82591PIC'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6979 I am a M/A with an INCREDIBLE drive.. A nautarlist at heart <3 ME in the buff = YOU leaving happy I am petite (5ft' - 32D - 107lbs) but my presence and personality are larger than life. ( Don't be nervous ) I have a soft approch and a HARD finish. My techniques are magical And I love to entertain. Lucky you ! My Schedule: Wednesdays: 3:30-11 Thursdays 3:30- 11 Fridays 10 -11 Sundays 10-9 Exclusively @ Angels Entertainment in a relaxed environment 613-274-7073 to book or PM me

I totally agree with the "get the edge off first" concept. You are not alone in this. I have done quite a bit of "edging" and most SP's know how to read the signs. Some of us even endeavour to "train" speedy orgasmers. The last thing I want is for a Gent to think that that was it, that was all. When a guest is upfront about this it makes my job easier, as distraction can slow things down quite substantially. I also fail to understand the "one off" way of doing business. I am certainly not dissing any SP who works that way, it's just not for me. If I get to orgasm multiple times, why shouldn't you? The best advice given here imo, is beforehand thinking about your pending visit and privately ripping one off just before your playdate. Then take it really slow when you do arrive. There are ways around this; you just have to find the one that's right for you.

Waking up minutes before the alarm feeling rested and relaxed. Some days, getting out of bed is double tough. Today was a breeze. Gotta be thankful for the little things.

I don't personally have any allergies that would affect anything. I've had one person call to tell me that they were allergic to condoms (latex and otherwise) which was good so I could refuse the appointment right there. I'd like to think that if you a severe allergy you would inform the oTher party. Nothing ruins the mood like anaphylactic shock

Question #10: Upon meeting a lady on your first time, do you..: A) slap her on the ass and shout - YEEHHAA.. HOT Damn... !! B) Great her with a warm smile, take her hand, and say "Its wonderful to meet you..." C) ask for Rolaids " this spicy burrito isn't sitting well.." D) request her -Suck start a Harley-Davidson- qualification papers.

The total membership of my "take 'em to the bank" regulars do not write recos. Ever. I have few recos in over 5 years, I advertise rarely and yet I exist comfortably and with total satisfaction in my business. Reco's are not the be all to end all. They don't add to my business, if anything they discourage the kind of client I like to attract at this point. So really, having lots of recos depends on the provider and the kind of business she's trying to establish. I understand the OP's intention as well meaning but we are all different in our goals and objectives and a guests never has to kiss and tell... cat

Oooppps disregard I did send you birthday wishes But another happy birthday anyway Using my phone for the past while, I'm disorganized :-) RG

Andrea is very clean and safe spinner.

As someone who has experienced both, I must say there is a huge difference in service and atmosphere. when I see an RMT it is for relieving tense muscle and aches due to stress or physically abusing myself with laboursome work. I often come out even more sore than when I came in but the mobility is gained. Its very professional done and I cannot understand how someone could get confused or just ignorant and behave in a sexual manor when there is nothing sexual about it. now when attending a spa who provides this sexual encounter it may have a lot of therapeutic effects but (no offence to the ladies) the massage is not the same. yes its relaxing and loosens the muscle a bit but not nearly as much as an RMT. however they sure know how to make me rise if you know what I mean. I guess what I'm trying to say is they provide two separate services and one should never be confused by the other. I think some people may of watched one too many porn movies. It is sad to say but perhaps RMT may need to voice record their session in order to protect themselves. This could even be used as evidence when some horny prick decide to sexually assault by make this types of propositions. great point cyclo!

1. Yes. I've been in a relationship with a woman and even lived with her for a short time. 2. At first doing duos was mostly driven by customer requests or gay for pay because I didn't really know the women until.. read below... There is only one person that I have done duos with where there was a real life spark. We exchanged a long glance out of the blue one day since we both live in the same neighborhood and I saw her getting out of her car one day as I know someone who lived 2 doors away. This was 2 years before we formally met and before she became an SP. I know there was a reason for meeting her. There is a real chemistry there. Now that is fate!