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Who says public teasing has to be physical in nature? ;) I think a lady can easily accomplish public teasing without ever touching her partner by dressing and behaving in a certain sensual erotic way. Also, when I know a gentleman very well and we decide to go on a dinner date, I sometimes enjoy using a remote control vibrating cock ring that I can turn on and off when I want to when sitting across the table :) Let's just say we always skip desert and have an amazing one in private instead lol I also don't mind wearing a remote controlled vibrator to make things that much more interesting :)

I'm out to all in my life. The reactions were varied, some stepped up and supported me; others disowned me. I prefer to know who I can count on so I disclose it up front and allow people to make the decision for themselves to get to know me or not. I'm so far beyond caring what anyone else thinks at this point in my life that it is easy for me to do. The only time it causes issues is when people are not honest with themselves about how they feel about my work. They misrepresent themselves as being ok with it when in fact they aren't. That has caused some rough patches in the past and now I take a long time to get to know someone before I let them get close so I know I've done my due diligence in protecting me and mine. I do believe that the industry as a whole needs to be prepared to shed some light on the realities to dispel the myths but I understand those that fear the reaction and chose to closet their choices. I view every interaction I have with the "squares" as a chance to challenge their preconceived ideas and as a little one on one public relations. I don't fit the stereotype (as few of us do!) and most often than not they go away with food for thought. Planting the seeds of doubt and having patience is all it takes to change minds... cat

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I'm sure you can agree that it takes some practice for a man to know exactly what to do to initiate this type of orgasm. It's the same as women have to know what muscles to contract to "build up" their head of steam, so to speak. If a gentleman is not hitting the exact right spot, which is different on all women, it's not going to happen. This is why when I know what's about to occur but things aren't aligning right, I will either gently guide said appendage (fingers, cock, whatever) to the area or do it myself while he watches. I have never seen disappointment on any playdates face. I suppose I can understand the disappointment of not achieving this yourself. It most certainly isn't a failure on anybodies part. Especially if the Gent is a new client, and doesn't know the Ladies body, or doesn't know the technique. (It's not that difficult guys) Plus one can always try again if the women is a multiple orgasmer. ;)

I think the question a lot of people are asking is: on whose behalf are you looking? No, probably not. But she might, if she asks the questions herself.

Bonjour, My name is Jade. I am a beautiful Chinese girl from Quebec city. I am new on cerb and trying to contribute. I wanted to know your opinion on squirting... From what I learned, some like it and others are disgusted. So what do you think about squirting? Does is turn you on? or it makes you uncomfortable? And you ladies I'd love to hear from you. :) xoxo

I'd think any guy who looks horrified at a woman squirting has gotta just not understand what he is witnessing. I know that's probably not always the case and there are some truly turned off by the idea, but that concept is so hard for me to wrap my mind around I find it easier to assume such a guy just doesn't know what's happening. Seems nearly tragic to me given how many of us would love a chance to witness or cause a woman to squirt that don't get the opportunity, only to have it wasted on someone who doesn't appreciate it...or worse, someone who makes the lady feel self conscious about it to the point she can't enjoy it either!

Hearing my baby brother cry because his dog died and not being able to be with him and give him a hug :(

For personal and professional reasons my activities within this community have remained with me. And they will stay that way. I am extremely discrete and private and very cautious when meeting ladies. I almost never partake in my home town and only when I travel to reduce chances of seeing someone I know and could be recognized. Also the reason why I've never participated nor would in activities like CERB socials. As much as I would love to meet more of the community and even some of the great guys here...just too much at stake.

You guys are like little detectives! I suppose I should help you out a bit though. We are all still independent however we have been screened and interviewed before being brought into the team to help one another out. Nikki knows what she's doing so you can be reassured that any of us in the team do too;)

Seems a bit harsh no? All he did was ask a simple question and you seem to have just dismissed it as common sense. To actually contribute to the thread productively, just do as was mentioned. If you think there might be a preference in race, just casually add it into your introduction and proceed from there. As far as I have seen, not many sps/ma's do this, but there is always the odd one that might. Happy hunting

If you're concerned about it, and you're communicating by e-mail or message, then I think you could just include that information casually in your initial introduction. "Hi! My name's X and I'm a Y-year old Z male", where Z is your race. That's all. Now she knows, and you're comfortable because she knows, and you can proceed without any worries.

Been there. Done that. There were times that I loved being married. It was a nice feeling to be a part of something special. The problem was that it takes two to tango and marriage is like an old car.... it takes a LOT of work to keep it going smoothly. Unlike the old car, you absolutely need both parties working together to make it both work and be rewarding. Since the marriage, I've nearly been married again three times.... but something inside just SCREAMED "get the fuck out, NOW." I'm still friends with two of the three... and I am glad that we salvaged a distant love. I can't say that about the ex-wife... BUT then again, neither of us was or is perfect and we were too young and idealistic to see that our incompatibilities were insurmountable. Would I do it again? You never know. I am not averse to the idea BUT then again, I do like the life I lead at this moment. It's rather fun not being accountable to anyone else but yourself....

My friends and family know that I'm an escort. Although I'm not out on 'paper' because I'm apprehensive about the effect this could have on future career opportunities. For example, if you Google my real name there is no indication that I've worked as an escort. Apart from being slightly worried about my safety on occasion, mainly because of what they hear in the media, my friends and family know that I'm an intelligent young woman and I'm doing what's in my best interest, both emotionally, physically, and financially. When I speak to 'square' folk (as Cat aptly put it) I do think it's a great opportunity to disrupt some of the stereotypes associated with the industry. Most people react with curiosity and want to ask questions without being rude or invasive. I've had good experiences almost everytime I've told someone, but that's perhaps because I surround myself with awesome people! I don't scream it from the rooftops but I definitely don't hide it either. It's definitely hard when people seem supportive but prove not to be later down the line... It's an entirely different story for people in the industry who have SOs, be they sex workers or clients. Being out can have broader implications. Sometimes there are two (or more) people to take into consideration...

She has pictures posted of a hot blonde I would like to meet. Unfortunately I did not see her when I dropped in to see her....it was someone else. I did not stay

I've read many reviews and recommendation of SP that state they love to role play and have various outfits. What are the MAs thoughts on this? A massage session is ideal for teasing and setting an ambiance of excitement and arousal. Role playing is a way to add spice to this interaction and if agreeable and communicated ahead of time, they could bring an outfit for the session and change into it in the privacy of the massage room. Are there MA's who would like to try this? Is this beyond your comfort level? Am I missing something? Some possibilities I can think of are; Plaid short skirt with White blouse and thigh-high socks. String Bikini with pull tie sides and top. Lace or mesh corset with matching bottoms and stockings. Frayed jean shorts with the top button undone and mini-camisole or loose short bare-midriff top.

I noticed browsing the web the term impulsist the other day and wondered why its not used more. Hobbyist is always used but on that site they noted a difference between the two. The hobbyist was described as the gentleman who like to pre-plan his rendezvous, the impulsist was the type of gentleman who contacts a provider spur of the moment, when the mood hits. I liked the difference and just wondered why more don't use both terms. Both types are appreciated, needed, knowing the difference might be beneficial for some?:)

I'm definitely more of a planner. I enjoy having a few days of rising anticipation. It's nearly impossible to have a bad day or get stressed out by work if all you have to do is think ahead to an expected encounter. The daydreaming is half the fun! Well no...not half...maybe a tenth...well, a percent anyway...okay, the point is it is also fun! The other thing though is that I like to have at least a day to snag a haircut and shave, attend to any necessary manscaping, make sure I haven't forgotten laundry day and so on.

So my dear Lee are you ready to get arrested.., handcuff.. and be tortured by this BAD COP!!! You know I can be pretty bad when I wnat to.. and Cruel... Not sure how long will it take for this COP to actually bring you into Justice... So the Lawyer and the Judge may have to wait a liitle hahaha That if you even get to find Justice with this bad cop ..., she might just wanna take Justice in her own HANDS! I may even call some BAD COP REINFORCEMENT!! (*Evil laugh" BUAHAHAHA BUAHAHAHA)

Ohhhh baby you girls are making me randy !!!!! Okay soooo. Lee .... being me ... is the "bad boy" ;) bad bad boy Passion you are the "bad cop" in a proper female police attire of course of short black skirt, black top and showing lots of cleavage :) bad bad cop ... frisk me baby Chantal you are my "sexy but bad lawyer" haha In proper lawyer attire of once again of a short skirt, tight top and cleavage please :D no undies either (be sure to drop your pencil and pick it up ) bad bad lawyer ... and Taylor ... You be the "sexy but very bad judge" ! May I suggest an open judges robe, black lace bra, sitting at your judges table with your legs slightly spread but still closed enough to tease me ?? (like basic instinct ?) ;) Then you girls punish the bejesus out of me because I am a BAD BAD BOY !! GUILTY !!!! hehehe

If you are looking for a massage where you arrive and shower, get a massage of your back, legs, arm, neck, feet, and then get a release, I would advise you to book a 90 minute appointment because it just cannot all be covered properly in 60 minutes. Massaging takes time! So I would recommend you look at Jude Masso or Katrine Cannon, both of whom are certified to give therapeutic massage, or Gina at Vibe, who has good strong hands and gives a nice massage. She's a great tease too. Tell the ladies know that you want a 90 minute appointment and also let them know what you are looking for out of your massage. Good luck! Polydeuces

Unfortunately, even it been discuss a lot in the past, no-show will always exist.. Like other ladies said.. the best way is try to avoid them by screening, etc... Anyway, I think I prefer to dont see somebody who dont have respect for my time and is not able to inform that he cant come for whatever reason.. A quick.. Hey sorry, I can't come doesnt cost much. If you dont have respect for my time.. So you dont have respect for me? Not interest to meet you! I had a no-show from a cerb member tonight. It piss me off, yes but at the end.. Its his lost, not mine. I had a great gentlemen who book me instead of him and he just ruin his reputation... Too bad!!

If I can't cuddle and kiss you I don't want to see you. Love my cuddles and kisses!

For those of you who think phone books are useless: learn to tear one in half. It's a good party trick. And it's far more about technique than brute force. Unfortunately I speak from observation more than from direct experience...

Hey folks, here's a fun way to help support a local charity and stay informed about fake, flakes and frauds. For the next 30 days I will donate 10 dollars to the Ottawa food bank for every follower who follows my twitter feed ! More details here http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=7521 It's a great way to lend a helping hand to a worthy charity and it won't cost you a cent!

I am not "out" or open at all. This life and my public life are somewhat different. However, in many ways, this life is more honest.....no lies, no regrets. I have come close to telling a couple of my closest friends about this lifestyle, but have backed off for one reason or another. I am a fantastic best friend and confidante and never betray a trust, but cannot be sure about others. I love my girlfriends on here and hope we're always good for and to each other.

I'm married to a wonderful woman and love every minute of it we are coming up on the 1 year mark. Ours is a Poly and open relationship I lovey wife, my partner, my girl friend and a special guy. The trick with a marriage is to make it what the people involved want and not what you are told it should be.

Another stray cat spayed and rehomed. Such a sweetie too, so she will do well. I'm up to 27 stray cats spayed and neutered. A new puppy too. She is a boxer pit bull cross, and very smart, opinionated and feisty. Perfect combination and a real joy around the house (well, maybe not for the cats, but for me she is). The weather has been fantastic too, so that's nice as well.

I personally didn't think it was harsh, just responding to the OP in a matter of fact manner. Also I think MightyPen gave the best advice, sad that you have to do that but if you're worried that there might be an issue better safe than sorry.

Phone What? Lol my phone book now days is called GOOGLE....

I'm not ashamed about partaking in this lifestyle. And I'm single, no concerns if discovered. That said, this is my private life, and I treat it with discretion, not telling anyone (well except for those on CERB and ladies I see ;-) ) It's no one's business Now if discovered I would tell, obviously without revealing ladies names. But what would come as a surprise to most I know is first, that I am even seeing professional companions. I doubt I would fit society's stereotype of a male who sees escorts. And second, that sex is only a small part of an encounter, companionship entails far more than sex and it is all aspects of companionship I enjoy. A rambling RG

I think marriage can be a great institution for two grown-up people who enter into it thoughtfully and aware. At the same time it's not a precondition for happiness, it's not the only "right" way to live, and for a lot of perfectly good and healthy people it's just a really bad fit and better foregone. The seed for marriage is romantic love and passion, but it's intended to grow into something more in which two people support each other's lifelong hopes and ambitions, and promise to be there to care for each other even through sickness and setbacks. There's got to be something kept exclusive to the relationship, reserved only for your marriage partner and which makes that relationship unique (otherwise why be married at all?). But what that exclusive thing is depends on the couple. It doesn't have to be sex... but whatever it is, the partners need to agree about it and set the boundaries beforehand. Problems arise though when people expect their marriage to be the *everything* of their lives, all the time. Or when one or both people grows into a new and different self, but they take no measures (or try and fail) to adjust their relationship to match. So yeah, there's lots that can go wrong with each marriage, but that doesn't mean it's doomed as an institution. Like anything else between two people, the participants need to communicate and adapt over time for things to keep working. Problem is, since marriage is so often entered into when young and idealistic, and marriage itself perceived with highly-charged awe, it can be very hard to stop and look at it objectively as a thing the couple themselves own and can alter to the shape they need. A really short version of all that would be: marriage can work really well when the couple themselves own the marriage, but seldom works well when they feel the marriage owns them.

I believe in marriage. I consider is an emotional union between two people. When I get married it will be to a man who will be my rock, who will be there for me when everything else goes to shit, who will hold me when I cry and be next to me when I laugh. I'll be happy to wake up every morning and do the same for him. I do not see marriage as a promise to never sleep with anyone else every again. If I saw it that way I would never get married - I don't take on challenges I know I can't succeed at. I love having sex. I love doing it with people I know, with people I love and with people who are just plain there. It's fun and it's adventurous and I'm not going to give it up for anyone. ..yeah. lol

i think there is a reason you have no replies in this thread. A lot, i wont say all because you may find someone, of women wont really do the whole public tease things because your breaking the law with public indecency and other things like that. Also, would you want to be walking your young child around a park or public area, just to look over at a women groping someones crotch? i wouldnt. so just to be safe i may not try to venture to deep into this area with most women. hope that helped

Perhaps I missed the Cerb memo where the ladies needed someone to come to their rescue & you were elected saviour of the downtrodden, but dude, enough already. Because personally, as a smart articulate woman who can fully advocate for herself, I find your attitude & posts incredibly patronizing. That said, I have a whole other issue to address. This entire post makes me uncomfortable for reasons that have nothing to do with it's tone. Firstly, it reeks of a fishing expedition on how to run an agency & I feel reads like an SP or Agency/Spa discussing an Escort Industry problem. Because why does a photographer need to know the ins & outs of how to reduce the number of no shows? Again, why is this so important to you? Respectfully, if you ask questions here, you will get answers. Whether or not you like them is immaterial. This is a public forum with strong opinions from intelligent people. No one is trying to be mean, they are simply being honest & sharing their thoughts. If you have something informative, why not post it here if it is so awesome? But just because folks disagree with you does not mean that anyone is twisting stories, taking things out of context or that your posts are considered useless. I find them incredibly useful for my main bone of contention: your lack of discretion in implying that professional secert keepers are sharing info with you, followed by YOU cryptically sharing it here. I have 2 photographers that are also friends. They know my real name, address, phone number & personal details of my life. If I were to read a post such as this from either of them, I would be beyond incensed. And they would no longer be trusted. They would, however, be in every SP only area in which I participate as a warning to other ladies not to engage their services. You may wish to consider this when you read again how you have spoken out of school in reference to your clients. And since you feel that the reco is of such paramount importance that it MUST be written, know this, also, please: by alluding to the fact that SPs are talking to you, complaining, whatever, you are, without proof, quietly & perhaps irrevocably, casting aspersions as to the character & discretion of ladies you have seen. This alone may cost them more in terms of clients, money & reputation than any reco or lack thereof. In my mind, a sincere apology is rarely followed by a comment like this. The fact of the matter is: you got a lot of answers. Also a fact: you just don't like any of them. Fact: not a Cerb problem. Also fact: seems it's only yours. Sandi

Girls you can call me anything you want pretty much :) Except Shirley. For God's sakes don't call me Shirley and maybe not Fatty....perhaps I don't like that either and I suppose not Fucknut or Fuckhead ....those are out too......but Fucker is Ok.... You can say "Hey fucker....I am coming to see you in Manitoba today" haha I tend to use stuff like sexy pants, shexy, Frenchie ( for those it applies to) sweetheart .....stuff like that so if it bothers you please just tell me. Many of you have shared your real name so for those I do like to just use that most times. I find it kind of hinges on the nature of the conversation as to what terms you use ? I personally have never minded anything I have been called to date ! Some ladies have common terms of endearments they use. some have pet names for me, most ladies I have met know my real name and often just use that. Not much bothers this cat and my focus is usually on things other than what you call me ;) grrrrr baby grrrrrrrrrr

I prefer to be addressed by name, and I try to do the same with clients.

I personally use their names or dear. I HATE being called babe by people I've never meet.

When I first started, it was through an agency. There was a gentleman who called regularly & when we were asked to call him to try & book, it was stressed that we only use his name. He was a travelling businessman who met new people all the time & hated anonymous platitudes. He felt them terribly impersonal no matter what the industry & only ever called us by name too. Super guy, great manners. Since then, I only ever address a gentleman by his name in any & all communications & make an effort to use it often. Of course, I have been known to scream out " Holy Christ " or " Sweet Jesus " mid happiness. But that I can't stifle & so far, no one seems to mind .:wink: Sandi

I love it when a man refers to me with a "term" so long as its complimentary I'm happy to hear it. As far as me referring to a man sometimes, I use babe or sweety, but I get the sense that a lot of men just like to hear their given name:)

As some of you already know, I do TRY to host gang bang parties on a monthly basis...I used the term TRY simply because most of the time, the events fizzle out and don't work out. I am curious as to why! I'd like to know if the reasons for these failed parties are within my control or not...Should I continue trying or not bother? I have 75+ cerb users on my mailing list for these events, yet I can barely organize one.... and even the ones that do happen have only 3 of the intended 5 members show up. I ask those who are interested to please partake in this poll so that I may have a better insight as to how to make these events successful. If you are not interested in gang bangs, have no intention of ever going to one, I ask that you please refrain from partaking in the poll... but please do feel free to comment in the thread with any feedback/comments/opinions you may have.

Michel Sean Stanley - violent high-risk sex offender http://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/more-sa...nder-1.1482012 Has targeted children in the past, but you can never be too careful. Mod - may want to post in SP Only Area too. Stay safe ladies! Gabby xoxo

I've been married for a long time and I love her dearly. For over 25 yrs we had a good sex life and often an amazing sex life... both of us GGG though I was the instigator most often. Physically it hasn't been so for a few years now...no one's fault....and that''s why I'm here. I wouldn't be, at least not without her participation, if we were still physically intimate, and a few years back if there had been cerb, it probably would have been something we would have tried together. And it's why cerb is a good fit for me now. I've tried going down the play around with people you meet route. But in more conventional settings, the fact that I'm a big suck takes over, and my feelings are more likely to engage, and its more complicated and difficult. So marriage can be wonderful, if you're lucky enough to survive the inevitable turmoils of a long term relationship, and you get to look back on the life you've built and the time you've shared with a sense of " I couldn't ever walk away from this now, not ever."

I know it's a fantasy, but just keep it real. Real names or Cerb handles work, but if you moan and call me "Little Richard" before I sing, I'm probably gonna be offended.

I don't really discuss my sex life with other people. But I don't have any problems honestly expressing my opinions on the sex trade, which is a topic of conversation that comes up from time to time. I never feel under any pressure to pretend that I am some sort of conservative and condem the sex trade.

I guess that tread need to be pump up In the last days I request protocol to confirm..it seem that all half new clients choose to not follow it.. I'm trying to understand is it like the 5 years old kid that refuse to comply to rules?fake the shower?? I even modify my ad how I work on two calls system which is on my website and yet people don't follow..don't provide info I'm really puzzle as I get told I am cold ..not nice via text when the same questions are asks without any info and appear on my site "How can we hook up" To which I rly what is already request on my ad to get "It could be more friendly but I guess those are manners that should be expected from a whore" I would love to make our time together awesome however if along the process I get constantly ignored as per request it does somehow not put me in the best mood... It very hard to be respectful when people are very rude...I understand that those days clinics,public gov place have sign saying verbally abuse won't be tolerate..should we have one Why is it so hard when you never met a lady to the least introduce yourself with Informations as she requested..then she may be more incline to respond to some apprehension or questions she may have Sadly when repeatively gents don't follow instructions it put. I. Annoy mood I'm expected to provide the best experience however I am human if I feel my instructions been ignored it does affect my mood VJ

Congratulations on your milestone! Looking forward to reading more of your posts in the future!!

At the conclusion of an encounter you should: A) Wipe all your drippy sticky parts on her good linens. B) Just hang out until she begs you to leave. C) Be polite, get dressed, say you had a great time and go. D) Suggest she surprise her next client with a MMF experience.