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Good points Cristy, and it goes to the heart of the difference between CERB and certain "review" boards. I think you're right to exclude some types of experiences from this discussion -- health issues, baiting and switching, age issues, fraud, that type of thing. These really do need sharing, just like unsafe clients should be reported. But you'd hope that mere hiccups in an experience would prompt a gentle and private discussion between the client and provider, as it should between any two people who like and respect each other as people. Or maybe the client needs to reflect upon his own contribution to the situation, and could benefit from a few pointers from the provider. Instead, some clients dash off to the nearest computer to post a scathing review for others to see on one of those review boards. Sometimes this is just petty revenge for a minor disappointment. But I think mostly it's done to score points within the culture of those boards, where detachment from, and disdain for providers is encouraged and a power dynamic of "us vs. them" is routinely enforced. In those places, the client is on top because he has the money, and the provider is an anonymous, subservient, essentially dehumanized agent whose sole function is to perform sexual acts in certain ways. The client believes he has purchased the entitlement to a specific set of services performed to some particular (though arbitrary and subjective) standard, and if the provider fails to deliver what he wants as he wants it, he'll issue punishment in the form of a bad 'review'. You can see some of that revealed in the phrase "take one for the team", used when one of those board members visits a new and unknown provider; it's clear who the team is, and she's not on it. So yeah... is it unkind to shout from the rooftops about minor perceived shortcomings of an experience, without trying a simple human discussion and without any consideration for the impact this might have? Absolutely. But kindness would imply acknowledging the other person as an equal who deserves understanding, and is a 'member' of the same 'team', instead of a mere vendor of services and 'meeter of needs'. And that's not something that would be tolerated in certain us-guys-on-top, money-first online communities. CERB draws the line elsewhere. Now granted, the positive-only rule excludes what could sometimes be useful discussion if it was restrained and considerate. But what we gain is not just a generally positive and egalitarian community of clients and providers, but we've remove the elements that would otherwise build an ugly, client-on-top, and plainly misogynistic snakepit where what you describe is the daily norm.

Is giving a thumbs down, or outing someone as a "bad" or a "you should pass on this one guys" provider really beneficial? I'm not talking about the obvious, like people who use stolen pictures, those who are( and this you need proof of) a health risk, those who may be dangerous, or for any other reason that may put someone in jeopardy. I'm talking about things that might be better discussed privately with the said provider, such as poor hygiene, lack of enthusiasm, this might have something to do with their partner, poor skill, etc, or things that someone has no control over, such as their attractiveness. Not everyone in the business is good looking and publicly calling them out on this is mean, if their hygiene is poor, perhaps a private discussion would solve the issue. some people are just not sexually gifted, have skills, but again maybe a private conversation might help to motivate one into improving. My point is, we are all human beings, with feelings and different needs. Just writing someone off for reasons that might be improved with help can't really benefit anyone can it? Yes, its a responsibility of those selling their time to be professional, responsible and hold themselves to a particular standard, but they need to know how in order to do this and if they are lacking wouldn't being helpful and discreetly discussing your issues with them be more beneficial and kind? It just feels so harsh to me to just write someone off so easily. Remember this is a person, your negative comments may ruin them, not only financially but emotionally. Each and every individual deserves a chance, and maybe even a few. Each is irreplaceable, we are not buses, soon as one passes another comes along, which is sometimes how those comments make it seem. So perhaps if next time you meet a new provider, or just a different one and things weren't as you hoped, or for any reason other then the fore mentioned, stop and think- is your negative comment you are about to write really going to help anyone?

The interesting part of this is how the OP landed with an enforcer? If you try to bow out of the appointment and leaving her with some kind of compensation - there shouldn't be any 3rd person in the room to intervene. If the lady took offense to this and had her bodyguard/enforcer involved - well it sure does look like a bait and switch to me. I don't think CERB policy is at 100% protecting the lady or not reviewing them. There is section in each city for dangerous encounter. When you are not sure - PM the "mod" ask for his take and if you should post it or not - cause trust me if there is a 3rd person intervention during an encounter while you are not being offensive/abusive and just trying to bow out graciously - I classify this is as dangerous; also bait and switch.

So if CERB is strictly a recommendation site and we can't post negative ( but truthful) info on here then where can we post that type of info ? Reason I ask is because I very recently seen a girl who has had adds posted on this as well as other sites. Her pics are at least 10 years old and 40 lbs lighter. Her age is not truthful (not even close) and other info posted is not accurate at all. Also landed with her body guard / enforcer but he got a bit of a shock when he met me lol. This is not a bait and switch scam. Pics are really her but not a recent or truthful portrait of what your about to meet. I am also not sure of the intentions of these two if I hadn't been the size of a man I am and have worked in an industry where I know how to handle myself and deal with that type of situation . Also I am not responding to a 100 inbox messages asking for details. If I can't post it on a site for the betterment of all members then that's SAD .

This is a very thorny issue. Firstly, you imply that there are "sneaky" negative comments that have managed to be posted on this board. I would say they are few and far between. People have learned that those are caught out pretty quickly. IMO there are a lot more shills in the rec section than "hidden" negative comments. The problem here is that when someone writes a recommendation, you are essentially asking for a critique. However the value of that critique is diminished if you can only say positive things. I don't think I have had very many experiences in my life that were 100% positive. There is always something that could have been better. The value of a true critique is that someone can improve their service to make it better. If that is something they want to do. So we have the situation here where clients don't write recs, and we get threads like the one this past week, that call their motives into question. A thread the mod had to shut down. Of course as mentioned before any place that allows negative comments is going to get the trolls and others who revel in complaining. Just look at any other review site, like Trip Advisor, restaurant rating sites etc. etc. They get their share of trolls and shit disturbers, but the real reviews give important information not only to other potential customers, but to the person or persons being reviewed. They get feedback that can help them improve their service. The choice for the provider is to take the valid criticism and address it to fix a problem, or to ignore it, get defensive, go on the attack. They can react positively or negatively. The point is that IMO frankly discussing or giving a valid critique with negative points, can be beneficial. But it can also result in more negativity. This board chose to allow no negative comments, and I think it has been fairly successful. I don't think any negative comments that may be hidden were put there by the trolls and people trying to stir the pot. It takes time and thought to do something like that, things that are in short supply in trolls. If there is a "sneaky' negative comment on this board I think it is most likely would have some validity, and a wise person would take it to heart.

The first thing to do is communicate well during the appointment. Maybe she's forgotten some of your favourite details. No problem; bring up the topic of the missing bits with a smile and a laugh, and guide her and the session on the course you had discussed. If you haven't established friendly, positive back-and-forth communication with your provider, then that's your first problem right there. Then again maybe there's some reason why, now that the moment is upon you both, she doesn't really feel comfortable following through. Again, communication during the session is key. Raise the subject in a friendly way to make sure she hasn't forgotten, and if she's not comfortable with X, work together to find another way to have fun that works for both of you. But ultimately, if all of your discussions to resolve the problem fail, then you need to remember that the contract between the client and provider is solely for time spent together in which things will probably happen, but there's never a guarantee. She's a human being, not a vending machine; your money gives you no claim over her body. So all of those details you discussed are requests, but there's never an ironclad guarantee they'll be fulfilled. If you ultimately aren't satisfied with a session, and your conversation with the provider hasn't resolved that to your satisfaction, then just don't go back. Chasing after your money with "but you didn't do X! Give me Y dollars back!" is crass and fruitless. And, last of all: don't compare sex work to other industries. The comparison is always misleading when it comes to these types of up-close human interactions. Your SP is not your mechanic.

I have seen 3 of their ladies and they are all great. Elise is definitely one of the BEST lady I ever spend time with.

At the risk of sounding a little harsh, I think a fair review is just that. And it is up to the reader to interpret and take away what they will from any review. Compare this to any other review system. There are always going to be people who will twist their reviews to the negative based on personal preferences that will mean nothing to most people. Then again, there may be some critical information that didn't come across in the ad (sorry ladies, and believe me I think you are all fabulous, but you don't ALL have a technique that is different and better from every other provider on the planet, the nicest cleanest incall, etc.). From a very much newbie hobbiest's point of view, this is a very expensive hobby (and you are very much worth it) but if a bit of information, and I DO NOT mean a personal attack here, lets me be confident that I am approaching the right person for the service that is best for me, that is very important to me. This is the nature of a public service industry, and some people may not be cut out for it. I would recommend putting as much info as possible in your ads, link reviews you want potential customers to see so we don't go searching and find Mr. Pettyman's rant on another board, and a big one, if your concerned about being knocked on looks, include multiple pics so the person reading the ad can see for themselves and not get some guy with unrealistic expectations giving his 2 cents...

I think if you are pointing out a part of experience that is advertised but never actually happen its not a negative comment. And I completely agree with the part it should be pointed out - Trust me; I believe in credibility review more than recommendation only as canuckhooker said - some of the recommendation are just shills... But how do one know if this happen to all the clients without anyone is able to speak up. Hence this is few things that could be looked at and discussed in civilized manner and benefit everyone. You highlighted the point really well "none of us respond to criticism well." But common sense is not really that common, quickest assumption would say based on the last review things might have changed and this providers is now have completely changed the experience. Sex and go is part of the industry - major part. I do not dismiss the fact; but if you are looking for a sex and go; did you get off? Then her part is done. Shouldn't you ask what is provided in the beginning? And back to that if a provider advertised something but not following up then it back to your first point; is it something negative or just false advertising or maybe YMMV? Without being able to review - this will always be a grey area shaded with uncertainty hence it will be taken as negative. Take it to the other board; let it go rampage over there - CERB is not the place. I never said I stuck only to CERB. Does not mean I don't find it distasteful as most of the negative review I've seen is more bashing rather than commenting for constructive.

It's a mute point as negative comments aren't allowed here. So you must be referring to other Boards. Peace MG

WriteOn, the answer is yes, a lady has the right to offer or refuse her services to whoever she chooses, based on whatever criteria she chooses. Be it age, gender, hygiene, number of dimples, favourite sports team, and yes, even race, it is always her choice to make. Whether or not you or I or anyone approve of her reasons is completely irrelevant. It is her body, plain and simple. And the comparison of a lady to a grocery store is just...wrong.

I write this because I'm sure the MA's days are filled with great times and some bad times. Here's hoping the 'great times' are far more frequent!!!! Had a session with a ruffled MA because of their previous client. Not worried all was calmer is a few minutes with some kindness, assurances and being considerate and respectful of her plight. In the end, we were both very relaxed and thanked each other for a wonderful time and many more repeated visits. In times like this I am reminded of a story told to me by a dear female friend; Two stallions are under the shade of a tree on the top of a hill over looking a group of mares. The younger stallion says to the other; "Let's run down there as fast as we can, jump on a mare and fuck her brains out!" The other stood up and said "No my son! Let's walk down there calmly and fuck them all" Anyone can be an a$$hole and idiotic. It takes real strength and intelligence to be a kind, and polite gentleman. That in itself has it own rewards and gratifications.

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Lets be honest, things happen at times in our second life that we lead (clients and companions) and sometimes things are out of our reach. I can say I have had a few clients over the years that have disappeared for when our date was to happen. Days later I heard from them with an explanation of what happened. Real people sincere people provide answers, maybe not today - but in a few days. I am sorry you were stood up, however I think this post could have been avoided or at least you could have waited a few days before posting as if she is as Reputable as you say, her name is her business and if something in life happened, once she is able too she will contact you. How hobbying is a secret in mens lives it is the same for most ladies as well and sometimes you just cant get to your phone. NO Shows piss me off to no end, however real life is a priority and not every person that no shows does it on purpose, I say give her the benefit of the doubt.

There are some SPs who will promise anything to get you in the door and get your money in hand. But there are some things an SP might have a hard time delivering on after promising, sight unseen. DFK is one. I love to kiss, but DFK, to some people, seems to mean something I'd be more likely to describe as tonsil tasting or attempting to discern what I had for breakfast. Think of it yourself. You love DFK, but when you meet, you discover that your SP, while being clean and not having bad breath, simply doesn't have a taste or a style of kissing that works for you. People don't kiss to satisfy terms of a contract, but to explore, arouse and be intimate with another person. That's why I never feel comfortable being put on the spot to agree to such terms, sight unseen. I've always been skittish, and more quick to write someone off than to push for a sale (and I've only gotten worse with age, I know), but that's something to consider when communicating with an SP beforehand: some are working hard at selling, and others are working hard at identifying who will be a good match. I suspect you'll get your best service from the latter, if she chooses you. But too, I suspect that, like me, such SPs will be put off by someone who wants them to commit to too much, sight unseen. I recommend you only dive into "hammering out the details" of a contract if it's absolutely essential to you. And make it clear that you will not pay if it doesnt happen. But don't be surprised if many SPs wish you well and send you on your way.

For those who understand french, lapresse.ca published a series of video reports, news stories, rather, on the industry in Montreal. La Presse, Montreal's main french newspaper, had a series in their hardcopy about four years ago, but on slightly different topics. Montreal always was - and still is - a hub in North America as a "Ville Libertine", an open city. Yet, as open as it is, there are still pressures to limit the development of the industry. A little history of Montreal's red light district Some of Montreal's wards (arrondissements) are making an effort to limit the expansion of spa's and "Barber Shops" A look at male strip clubs and saunas: "Gay sexual tourism in Montreal" A minor gives a bit of her story

Saw her. Took one for the team . Gents save yous $$$ :cry:

Yeah yeah, but here we are calling them "reviews" ;) Additional Comments: Cristy, you pointed out the real issue there with "Bad provider" or "skip this one guys". That's going beyond just giving an honest review of your experience and instead pushing the reader away from making their own decision. :D There's a middle ground between the ad (which is of course self promotion and so it should be) and individual takes on an experience. No one likes a critique but no one likes to walk into a situation based on exagerated pretenses either lol My opionion, anyone who makes a decision on only one type of input is setting themselves up for a disappointment OR missing out on what could be a perfect thing for them. With that I'll stop spamming this thread lol

I'm sorry, but have to disagree on that. This service is absolutely different and much more personal preference but it's up to the review reader to take that into account. But we are talking about just that, a service industry, where the customer does not walk away with a shiny new object that can be clearly seen before parting with hard earned dollars. There really is no other way other than to research reviews to get an idea of what you are getting into. This is only one tool, the ad, absolutely talking to the SP before meeting, etc. should also be in the toolbox. I do agree 100% with your point that if there is a disappointment in your session, it would be appropriate to mention it after. The risk there is that it will STILL be taken personally, the person go on the defensive, and you have a coffee cup take flight towards your head. To handicap reviews to only be positive isn't fair to the customer making a decision based on them, and if this is the case to call them reviews is incorrect. Let's start calling them praises. I would still read praises, take valuable info from them, and use them to help any decisions, but also factor in that anything less than positive has been filtered out.

For me an encounter isn't a case of was it one hundred percent positive, ninety percent positive sixty percent positive well you get the idea. My recommendations are about telling about seeing a lady and that I had a good time with her. No sliding scale percentage wise of how good, just that I had a good time with her. One thing about the recommendations I write, the encounter to me had a intangible value far exceeding the donation I paid the lady. All the ladies, every one, is beautiful. Their beauty deserves to be appreciated, especially since they are with you alone intimately. Their looks should not be assessed by men on how to improve. Who are we men to even judge these ladies on their looks. Those who do might want to take a look in the mirror, or have the ladies assess their looks. And none of the ladies I see criticize me for being a bald, middle aged, overweight man. They appreciate me for the man I am. And criticizing a lady after an encounter...well do any such criticizers (reviewers) ever look in the mirror. An encounter is about two people, of which the reviewer is one. Maybe his actions or inactions contributed to the poor encounter. But with a review any failure of an encounter is borne completely by the woman. And that failure could mean loss of self respect, loss of income, possibly her livelihood gone. Even with the few (very few) poor dates I've had I understood there were two of us in the room, maybe (but not likely ;-) ) I contributed to the poor date. If there were things in the date that need improving, either contact the lady privately and let her know, that would be respectful. Or just don't have another encounter with her Finally one last thing. Some people on here talk about reviews. CERB is not a review board. CERB is a recommendation board. Here on CERB positive recommendations are allowed, reviews are not. This is covered under the Rules and FAQ section which should have been read when you joined A rambling RG

Usually when there is a thread about or created asking question about a lady, whomever has seen her will comment and either say, that's her in the pictures and I had a great time or without being negative many will say pictures are her but not up to date anymore and I have no further comment. Usually the other gents know what that means. Search if there is a thread on said lady, they are usually in this section and just keep whatever you post within the rules and motto of Cerb. If I had been you, I would have politely said your pictures are no longer accurate and I think you should update them, or if you were not impressed and felt deceived I would have left. If you were put in an unsafe position or anything like that then you are allowed to post that information in the NS warning section. Sorry this happened to you. Hugs, Lexy

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Vitto mentioned a very important thing, if you receive a particular request and can't commit to it then be honest and say you can't guarantee it but are willing to offer it under the right circumstances, the problem comes when as Christine already stated a provider takes a booking knowing she will not follow up. I agree that yes, there is YMMV but there's also lack of professionalism and being people or our services being too personal does not equal/justify us (escorts/MA's) being deceitful. I also think the way Cat works (I do it very similar to her) reduces issues like this as is difficult to guarantee services that depend of many factors, especially when you haven't met the person inquiring. So the gentlemen that look for particular services have more chances to have a successful encounter if, as suggested already communicate with the lady but also do research on comments made by others who have seen her (recommendations) and pay attention on if the things he is looking for are constantly mentioned, that would give very few chances to not be satisfied at the end of the date.

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Mighty Pen's words speak truth. There are times a provider hasn't prepared for the appointment by keeping track of requests. That would require keeping records and that is something quite discouraged by hobbyists. I don't provide a menu or promise a single service when I book my appointments for this reason. If a guest has a check list of activities that must take place during the playdate, I'm not the provider for him and I'm clear about this upfront. If a guest let's me run the session the way my intuition tells me he will leave smiling and completely satisfied. Walk thru my door with specific services demanded and you will be shown the door but I don't keep the envelop. I think it's dirty money at that point and brings no good to my life from a karmic level. A good provider trusts her instincts and if her spidey sense is tingling, the agreed upon services are at her discretion. She needs to be honest about why she won't provide the agreed upon services if she wants to make the appointment work. Won't kiss? Probably a hygiene issue at hand. No shower? She has probably booked appointments after you that weren't on the books when you set up your appointment and won't have time to redo her hair after you leave; or she feels it's a bad judgement call from a safety perspective. There are a 100 reasons the menu will change. Has the contract been broken? Yes. Is she required to give you a refund of some sort? No but if she's smart she will make it right. It's good business to be honest and keep clients happy. This business is only viable if you can build repeat business and violating the agreement doesn't accomplish that... cat

It is a business unlike other business'. In short, no there is no claim to a rebate etc. Ethically, yes but highly unlikely she would give back any $ as she likely lied in the first place to get you in the door. The other thing is if you have conversed with the SP via email or text, you really don't know if it is the SP you are conversing with. Some have 'Booking Agents' that handle these details.

It's easy to say "crappy reason" but the truth is we don't know why she has specified the race of her guests. I had a girl work for me who was gang raped by a specific race and she simply couldn't service guests of that race because she couldn't guarantee that she'd be able to go thru with the appointment. That was before PTSD was better understood but even passing someone on the street who was the same build or dressed the same as her assaulters would send her into a tail spin for days. The fact is this provider clarified what she feels comfortable with is all we really need to know. The OP wanted to know if he should disclose his race before meeting a provider and the answer is "yes" if he wants to alleviate any concerns he may have. The truth of the matter is that most providers don't have a problem with race because we know all humans bleed red... cat

I think the OP is asking a valid question if he is concerned about putting himself in an awkward situation upon arriving at a playdate. There can be a number of non racist reasons why a provider prefers to exclude a certain group. In my younger years I was married to a brown man and I didn't see East or West Indians because he was very well networked in those communities. I didn't want to open the door to a surprise visit from someone my husband may cross paths with. Ladies have a life outside of work and if they feel there is a risk of either being found out or causing someone they love embarrassment, they may opt out because of personal ties to a community. She may have had a bad sexual experience and her comfort level isn't there due to memories it may stir up while being intimate with someone. No one wants to have a melt down in front of a client for something unrelated to him or have him feel her discomfort when he is there with hard earned dollars for a playdate that isn't going to end well. Emotions are hard to control at times. In an industry that is constantly trying to overcome unfair assumptions, I find it's more prudent to simply not assume. If you have any concerns about your race, run it by your provider! She will tell you if she has an issue... cat

Sadly that is not true, things are slowly changing but racism is still very much alive.

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You guys are like little detectives! I suppose I should help you out a bit though. We are all still independent however we have been screened and interviewed before being brought into the team to help one another out. Nikki knows what she's doing so you can be reassured that any of us in the team do too;)

If you're concerned about it, and you're communicating by e-mail or message, then I think you could just include that information casually in your initial introduction. "Hi! My name's X and I'm a Y-year old Z male", where Z is your race. That's all. Now she knows, and you're comfortable because she knows, and you can proceed without any worries.

Lets keep the site positive and inviting to everyone. Please and thanks, And photographers who wish to announce they are photographers on cerb (advertising) they must have a paid account. I froze 4 photographer accounts today.

I will say it here, flat out. Based on your random, out of the blue, posts today the OP is either a troll, or someone who has a complete conflict of interest. You advertise yourself as a photographer, and I will be careful in what I say here, but it seems you have clients for your service who are in turn providers on this forum. I may be wrong on that belief, but based on how you started this thread I doubt it. So do you not think it is a little self-serving and in complete conflict that you are advocating for those individuals on this board? It doesn't pass the smell test in my book.

Dude. You've got a remarkable talent for delivering an apology in a way that says "what a shame it is that everyone but me sucks".

And any lady should be thankful and grateful that the client enjoyed her so much that he went back for more even though she didn't receive a recommendation from him. Repeat business and regular clients are priceless! Hummmm, from reading this thread and the other one you started today, why do I have a feeling that, even though your general intentions seem to be good, that you are directly expressing someone else's personal frustration about not receiving as many recos as she would like and because she is experiencing a lot of no-shows? Anyway, back on topic... I believe it's a good thing that ladies are not allowed to solicit recommendations, even from a repeat clients: first, it puts the client in an awkward situation (he may or may not want to repeat after that) and plain and simple, it is tacky. If the client wants to write a reco, I am positive he will *without being asked. For newbies reading this thread, please know that not every lady feels that way and you should never feel like you HAVE to write a recommendation. Most will appreciate your repeat business over a recommendation any time. You call some hobbyists "lazy-ass dudes" because they do not write recos for some deserving ladies? Really? lol Everyone has their own reasons for writing/not writing recommendations and it's no one's place to judge if their reasons are valid or not. Sure, it would be great if many more recommendations were written for the ladies but the fact is that a large majority do not write them and never will. Mandatory recommendations after a few visits if you're a Cerb member? I can't even start to tell you how wrong that would be for all kinds of reasons. And as far as tips are concerned, it has been said before, over and over: tips are always appreciated but never expected and no one should ever feel pressured to leave one.

Well I for one am happy with CERB just the way it is. Nothing wrong with having a positive escort recommendation board in a internet world full of escort review boards I like having a community where both the ladies and gentlemen are equal participants and the ladies feel safe here My fear if CERB becomes a review board, a lot of the ladies won't be here posting, and may even close their accounts. Not to mention the Mod and Town Council have a hard enough (and do a great) job of moderating this site. Do they wanted the added burden of having to police a review board Guys that want a review board, well there are already a lot out there, why the need to turn CERB into one too escapes me. And if anyone doesn't like CERB the way it is, a question, why are you here My two cents worth RG

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