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Morning All. Again, to all my Cerb Family, thank you for the continued support, prayers and best wishes, it means a lot! Sooooo, as most of you know, I went to the Cancer Clinic at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbour to see if they had any ideas on how to fuck this cancer up. Got stuck with lots of needles, probes, scans and ended up pissing in technocolour (with the help of alcohol), see previous post...or not!. There was a conference call yesterday afternoon, with myself and the local docs, plus the docs from Toronto and Michigan. Here is the result: -The cancer that attacked the muscle around the shoulder is rare (around 1 in 750 cancer patients have this type floating around) but not so rare they were scratching their heads. -It spread, however the good news is it missed the lymph nodes under the arm (which would have meant a very short game plan for me!!!) -However it has spread to the lymph nodes in the neck and the muscle that surrounds the spinal cord (medulla oblongata?) that interfaces with the brain stuff. Bottom line, they have deemed it stage 3, with minimal options with significant, severe consequences including looking like a zombie with major holes cut out (unless Walking Dead is going for another couple of seasons and they need a new leading zombie !) . So will continue with chemo about every eight to twelve weeks to try and slow it down, rest whenever, and live life LARGE until I can't function any more, hopefully 3-5 years, worse case 18-24 months. So unless I get hit by a bus or swallowed up by a City of Ottawa sinkhole, or die in bed because of being drowned by Cerb ladies continuously squirting in my face for three continuous days (the CIA should have done this to the Taliban instead of water boarding!!) I will be around Cerb and you good folks until I can't play any more. THE OTHER GOOD NEWS.....IS THAT MY TONGUE STILL AND WILL CONTINUE TO FUNCTION UNTIL I AM PUT INTO THE GROUND!!!!!! This weekend will be spent telling family and friends in Southern Ontario what is going on and probably drinking lots of 30 year old Macallum single malt scotch. Well, that is it for now! Thank you again Tom TheLiquor xoxox

The following is based on one picture: Unless you are really ready to book with a lady who goes by the name of Hailey in Red Deer (on BP) and also goes by the name of Alicia in California (NR) and by the name of Aimee in Phoenix (on NR too) and etc... who probably all stole the picture from "Stockings amateur selfshot".com (check out the tineye links), then by all means, have fun, take a chance, live life on the wild side, TOFTT and book the lady because I have to admit, "her" picture is really smoking hot :) I am sure "she" was reallllly nice by text too and told you all about the amazing service she was going to provide you with! Don't forget to report back by writing a wonderful recommendation for her :) Damn, I am thinking maybe I should start a new sideline B&S business! It sounds a lot easier than actually being a legit SP! On a more serious note, if you decide to meet with the picture, because it is a bait & switch picture she is using, hopefully she won't have a pimp or "enforcer" waiting to collect the scam money in case you change your mind and refuse to see the actual lady who is going to be behind the door (or show up at your home or hotel). Maybe if you're lucky, you won't get robbed or beat up and will end up in one piece, unharmed. How much (and not just talking about money here) are you willing to risk for a pretty picture on the net? Gentlemen, stop looking with your dicks and start thinking with your (big) head! I apologize if this offends anyone but what else can be said? Please play safe!!

It really does depend on the provider. I am an email person, I send an introduction which is a small book if you're on a handheld but it contains just about everything you need to know plus links for other information. I prefer a gentleman spend a minute and send a reply with a bit of detail about himself, what he's looking for and any other questions. I will exchange emails after an appointment is booked as my time permits if the flow of communication is engaging. I have cancelled appointments because the emails presented red flags that weren't displayed during the initial booking emails so it can help with my screening. Inquiries that continue to ask questions already answered in prior communications are deemed Askholes and written off. Guests who insist on over communicating between appointments are at times annoying simply because of time constraints on my end. If I see someone 4 times a year but receive emails weekly, then it's disproportional to the relationship we have but I have several who have more than earned the privilege of daily communication and it's something I enjoy and look forward to. The better the client, the more time I'm willing to invest answering the comm's. In my books, a WOT is an actual time waster. Booking an appointment then rescheduling, moving the time, cancelling and rebooking etc. These are Wafflemeisters in my books. Move an appointment more than once and I raise an eyebrow. The next time I put a yellow flag on it, one more then I'm out. Wafflemeisters are second cousins to Twatwaffles from the far reaches of the Ozarks and not people I need to entertain. Ever. Be aware of the relationship you have with your provider and that will guide you in the communication style she prefers. If you haven't met her yet, then keep it simple and concise... cat

This is just my perspective so for what it's worth;) The only rules I EXPECT from all clients are to respect my guidelines/boundaries, those are usually discussed in our first email/conversation, be polite and clean:) Anything beyond that is subjective and relative to chemistry. With some gents I may interact and enjoy a lot of messages before and after meeting, others a few, and so on. I'm pretty laid back, not terribly structured, more go with the flow. Or that's what I'm learning I'm better at:) I would suspect every lady is going to react and expect different things, messages and ways of communicating, from each gentlemen, but perhaps I shouldn't speculate. Hope this helps.

Well written meaghan, I agree with you. Personnally, I do not answer block numbers especially when traveling. I understand the need for discretion for some gentlemen. However, us provider must ensure our safety as well. I find it fishy when someone calls me private... From my experience, they tend to book and not show up or simply waist my time with prank calls. These days, most reputable indys request an unblock phone number for booking to ensure their safety if anything happens and I think it's a good thing. Us ladies must be careful with who we meet... cuz we never know who we are dealing with... If the gentleman is serious and really wants to meet you, he shouldn't have a problem following your booking instructions. xoxo

I love all that goes with each of the holidays but I agree being timely is important. Decorating to early is annoying. December is for Christmas, October-thanksgiving and Halloween, March-April is Easter and November is for remembering, that's how I see it:)

I can understand the first time contacting an unknown sp, blocking your number. However, if you block your number, and she clearly states "no blocked or private numbers", she will most likely not answer. If she is a reputable provider, there should be no reason why you would want to block your number. Remember, discretion goes both ways. Follow her booking instructions. If she asks you to email her, do that. If she says text her, do not call her, text her. If she wants a pm first, do that. When you call from a blocked number, you are starting the conversation on an unequal playing field. I always recommend getting a play phone - if you are concerned.

The liquor, I don't know what the future holds. I don't know where any of us will be in a year but the good news is, nobody else does either. The best any of us can do is hold on tight and enjoy the ride. Smile whenever you can. Laugh loudly. Love with all your heart. Fuck, just generally. Most importantly know that friends will always be there with you - at your best and worse. Thinking of you

Hey everyone, Just posting this here on Lykas behalf. I called and she told me she posted incorrectly. She will be in Saint John on the 17th, as right now she is in Newfoundland. She just chose the wrong province when posting her ad. You can find her on .........

@vazimollo It's wonderful that you had such great experiences with her and are sharing it here. I just wanted to suggest you may want to start a reco thread with this information as I'm sure it would be appreciated by not only Gina but also by those others who may be looking there and not specifically in these threads. Just a suggestion of course, it's whatever you feel comfortable with, it was just such glowing praise.

Cristy, yeah you're probably right. It's likely not a numbers thing and the interaction will likely be as individual as the people having it. Some ladies with some clients or potential clients might choose to engage in a variety of back and forth scenarios as long as it appeared that things were moving in the direction of a date. Also, Realnicehat had a good point that struck to the "intent" of the communications with the lady. If the intent is genuine with the ultimate purpose honestly being that the client intends to see the lady then perhaps it's not a factor of numbers either. Thanks for the contributions.

Yup! Much older men have always fascinated me because sometimes... just sometimes, you can get them talking afterwards. And they tell you about things you won't find in any history book. They were there and lived it. When I first started, back in the 70s, I was privileged to listen to men who'd lived through the Great Depression, WWII, and survived the Holocaust. My soon-to-be 90 friend was an adolescent on the verge of manhood in Holland during WWII and told of how his parents had to hide him and his brothers from the Nazis, who rounded up young men and sent them to labour camp. Another friend told me of eating mashed parsnips mixed with isoamyl acetate (blech!) to make a sort of fake bananas, they were so desperate for any food variety in Ireland during WWII. One of my earliest regulars was a sweet little old man (who's eyeballs were just about at nipple level on me). He'd done well for himself in commercial real estate but was almost pathologically cheap. He also _always_ had food stashed away in his pockets. A half eaten sandwich. A bit of pastry. It was kinda gross. One day I asked him about it, and he explained that he'd lived through the Depression. He was just a kid, but his family had it rough. A fear of being hungry never left him. One thing that impresses me in many of these personal accounts is the resiliency of humans, and I realize just how lucky I was to be born in the exact time and place I was. Twenty or more years, one way or another, or a few thousand miles made a whopping difference in the opportunities I could expect.

Congrat's on hitting the 500 post mark Mighty Pen....

If you want to book a specific girl at an established place, like CMJ, Angels, Paradise, Vibe or one of the ALO locations, I think you should call in advance. A few hours before will do... but maybe for the really popular ladies, it should be early on in the day. CMJ's pricing is on their website. clubcmj.com. You need to be a member, but a membership plus initial session is only like xxx on top of the price of a session. Angels/Paradise pricing is on most of their MA's ads. I don't know all the prices offhand, but I know that 60 minutes is xxx and the bodyslide option is xxx 'tip' because that's all I ever get. Never been to an ALO location so I can't comment on the pricing, but you can message PassionVitto and she will let you know. Probably similar to Angels/Paradise pricing I would imagine. Katrine's prices are listed on her website katrinecannon.com, and there's also Vibe, and their prices are listed in their daily ads in the massage section. However, if you're looking specifically for a busty MA/SP, especially a busty French one, then Katrine is probably who you want to see. If its an MA you want to see, then there are many fine well-reviewed ladies at most of the popular, established places in town (Vitto@ALO, Chantal@Paradise, Mandy@CMJ, Gina@Vibe, Courtney@CMJ, Mandy@Angels, Robyn@Angels). It just depends on what your type is and what you want. Hope this helps Polydeuces

In my case...only very close friends that i trust know about it because i felt the need to tell them, I hate having to lie to close friends, I just don't feel good doing it...the ones I told are very supportive... As for my family...well...this summer I decided to tell my daughter (23), a very smart young lady...why? coz I didnt want her to find out from someone else...She had a lot of questions...and she finally said...as long as your happy and gave me a smile...That was such a releif to feel supported by your kid...so now my two oldest know what I do (as i told my oldest son when i started and we are very close) but the youngest doesn't need to know...If he ever asks me I won't lie but I dont think a 15yrs old kid needs to hear it... My parents don't kow either and I would never tell...it would probably kill them...they are both 82... If it was just about me, I would out myself without any regrets...but there are too many important people in my life that would suffer from it... BJ xxx

Gentlemen, I am trying to "link you up" for research purposes. From the "Nova Scotia Warnings: To Report Bait and Switch, Scams & Dangerous Encounters" section: 24/7 agency http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=146788 Gabrielle on BP http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=152164 and here from the discussion section: Misleading pics , ages and info. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151989 She is advertised by the 24-7 agency on BP--GABRIELLE Text or Call 902-219- 87xx I am not including all the numbers in case I am not allowed to post it- I can't remember the rule on this, sorry. Maybe mod could clarify?

Hey Guy! Riley here. I'm a petite dirty blonde with green eyes. Young and silly. If you're looking for a little fun on this Tuesday night then come to Paradise Spa in the west end and get riled up with me as I treat you to a very sensual and relaxing massage ; ) I'll be here till 9 tonight. To book your appointment just call 613-820-8887. See you soon! xo

I am adding to this thread in hopes that gentlemen will do their research before seeing an unknown SP/agency in order keep themselves safe by avoiding Bait&Switch, scams and dangerous encounters (like this one). http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151989 This is about the 24/7 agency

she is hot. if you like a brunette with a nice body, face and attitude this one is for you. enjoy.

No one is aware of my "lifestyle". I feel no shame or shyness about it. The fact of the matter is.....well...it's MY Penis. It's MY business. Mine! :p. Even if I were just a "player" with multiple "non-pro" lovers my outlook would be the same. Gentlemen don't kiss and tell or brag. Quite honestly....with the exception of a S.O (which I don't have) my friends or family really don't need to know what I do or don't do with my cock. Posted via Mobile Device

Christine is right on every point. The oldest client on my dance card passed May 24 weekend at the ripe old age of 94. He was a delightful, crotchety ass grabber that saw me every 3 weeks like clockwork for more than 5 years. No viagra or cialis, just lots of skin and fun. I don't think men ever get to old to play... cat

Who cares why? She advertises "White Gentlemen Only" We as hobbyist have the luxury of choosing our provider, I don't see anyone questioning our choices. Why do we have the right to question the choice of any given lady's preference. Her body her choice, plain and simple....

Happy anniversary Tracie!

Happy Anniversary! Hope you have a memorable and wonderful day!

I've always enjoyed your posts, enjoy your milestone!

I'm a little confused as to why you want in, when you spoke of such an event in a negative light? U don't like to share, I don't think you'd enjoy this type of party....and yes, there is a cost involved. Thought that was implied considering the site we are on?

Happy Anniversary Tracie! You know I love you and all your posts, sending lots of *licks* and *kisses* to you on this special day!

Thank you for sharing this year with us... Is been a pleasure to read your posts and have you be part of this community xoxoxo

Happy anniversary Midnite-Massage. May your next year be filled with more fun and various pleasures. ;)

Watch this. I'm going to make a straight line between war rape and the Canadian Census. From a CTV news story: The federal government will not fund overseas projects that give victims of rape during war or child brides access to abortions, International Development Minister Christian Paradis said Friday. After a meeting of the Canadian Network on Maternal, Newborn and Child Health, Paradis said the government will continue with the funding guidelines it announced at the G8 summit in Muskoka three years ago. In pledging $3 billion for maternal and child health initiatives at the close of the summit, Harper said projects that provide abortion services would be excluded because there were so many other important projects to support. My first thought on hearing this news was that this was a bit churlish on the part of the Harper Government. Then it occurred to me maybe they were being sensitive to taxpayers who do not want their taxes paying for something they have moral qualms about. But then there is the 89 year old lady being hauled to court because she objects to filling out a census form that will be processed using software from Lockheed Martin, a major arms manufacturer. She has moral qualms about supporting Lockheed. So I guess the whole moral qualm thing only works if your morals match those of the Harper Government's.

Yeah, well, I think I read somewhere that Hitler was a teetotaller and a vegetarian. On the other side of the coin, FDR died in his mistress' bed, Jack Layton visited massage parlours, and Bill Clinton ... well! I look at some of those stick-up-ass self-identifying Christians south of the border, with their uterus obsessions, and I think, please spare me from virtuous leadership!

The liquor, I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you, but I wanted to send you a message to let you know I find your strength, courage and overall approach to the difficulties life has thrown your way to be genuinely inspiring. I am not a religious person, however I firmly believe that in this life, we are offered challenges not to test our strength, but because we have the strength to endure it -- sometimes whether we realize it or not. Hold onto your strength. Gleam it from other sources... Your friends, your family, through things that matter to you. And above all, LIVE. Fully and completely each and every day. Have no regrets. Feel the fear and do it anyway. Each and everyone of us gets ONE CHANCE at this thing we call life, and I for one want to slide into home base at the end screaming "WOOHOO what a ride!!" ((((Hugs of strength)))) from me.

Congrats MightyPen.

Well done, and thank you! Looking forward to many more.

Back in the retail-working days, the mall would start putting Christmas decorations up on Hallowe'en, right at store closing. I started dreading Hallowe'en because it marked the start of two months of horrible "seasonal" music. (Quitting + zombies = I love Hallowe'en again.)

I'm on a horror movie kick for October, trying to watch as many movies from this list as I can - http://www.listchallenges.com/the-greatest-horror-films-of-the-past-5-years I watched 'Buried' with Ryan Reynolds recently. The movie was decent, but it was the last two minutes or so of the film that really got me. I shuddered for hours after thinking of it. So you know a horror movie is good when :D

Mighty 500 Fantastic !

Congratulations MightyPen on your 500th post! :D

I believe in taking each holiday as it comes. I celebrate both Thanksgivings and Christmas goes up on the American Thanksgiving weekend. It seems that as a society we are in such a rush about everything that we make shit up to rush... cat

You mean besides you Emma? .. opps did I say that out loud?:icon_smile:... its Sienfield reruns.. and I have no logical explanation as to why:icon_confused:

Even when I was very young... my late teens... my bfs were always at least 10 to 15 years older than me.... Now I like them even when the age difference is higher. .. Finding a provider that likes ans enjoy the company of a more mature and older gentlemen wont be an issue here older=mature=experienced=interesting= SEXIER!

An sp can legally refuse to engage in sexual activity with anyone they choose, regardless of the reasons. The question of whether an sp can legally refuse to see clients of a specific ethnicity also applies to whether they can legally refuse to see clients of certain cultures, nationalities, religion, age, gender, size, hygiene, manners, ability to follow instructions, reputation, previous contact... Every reason that's ever been discussed on CERB. You name it! They are legally justified. The Canadian Human Rights Act prohibits the "denial of service" based upon "race, national or ethnic origin, colour, religion, age, sex, sexual orientation, marital status, family status, disability...". Therefore if you only look at the Canadian Human Rights Act, you might think an sp cannot refuse to provide service to a client based upon race. However it's not that simple. Regardless of what the Canadian Human Rights Act says, neither the state nor a client can compel an sp to have sex with someone they don't want to have sex with. Why? Because compelling/forcing someone to engage in sexual activity conflicts with the sexual assault provisions of the Criminal Code of Canada. When there's a conflict between the Canadian Human Rights Act and the Criminal Code of Canada, the Criminal Code takes precedence. The Criminal Code protects the person who doesn't "consent" or want to engage in sexual activity, regardless of what their reasons are for not consenting. Even if their reasons for not consenting conflict with the Canadian Human Rights Act, they are protected by the Criminal Code. The harm caused by legally forcing someone to have sex against their will is greater than the harm caused by denying sex to a prospective client. The Criminal Code of Canada provisions for sexual assault require that "consent" be given when engaging in sexual activity. Sexual activity without "consent",regardless of why consent is withheld, is sexual assault. The Criminal Code also states that "Consent" "requires the voluntary agreement... to engage in the sexual activity in question." If an sp felt legally "obliged", "compelled" or "forced" to engage in sexual activity with someone because of the Canadian Human Rights Act they would be engaging in sexual activity under "duress". In other words, there would be no "voluntary agreement... to engage in the sexual activity." This is the very definition of sexual assault. This is also a good example of why "No means no." Not, "No means no... but only if you have a good reason." There's a fundamental principle at work here. Neither the state nor another individual can compel us to do something with our bodies that we do not want to do, regardless of whether our reasons are reasonable or unreasonable. This is a very good thing!

Do you think because a lady is racist she should be pressured into having sex with someone she doesn't want to see, that she loses the right to control her body including who she shares it with RG and essentially, this is what it boils down to. nobody should be forced to have sex with someone they don't want to have sex with. i don't care that you consider SP's to be a business like any other business. it will NEVER be like any other business. so you can't have the same rules/regulations regarding discrimination apply to this! If you think otherwise, then i'd question your morality, because essentially you're implying that rape is okay.

Emily J and Cleo Catra for sure!:bigclap:

Hey Folks Well I'm proud to say that I preformed my very first Sounding session today. It wasn't as difficult as I thought it would be. My client certainly enjoyed the new experience. Here's a link to more info on Sounding: http://www.thechaingang.com/article/sounding-male-sexual-pleasure-318/ If you'd like to try a new sensation on your Willy.. PM me for more info. It's really not as bad as it "Sounds"..haha Take Care Ms.Samantha

Please add your name or nod to this thread as a show of strength for THE LIQUOR and as a force against that sob cancer that keeps invading his life. May all this positive energy help kick it out of his life for good!

While I think that the orginial intent of this thread was to let Cerbs wonderful ladies realize that they are sought after and appriciated I fear that it's possibly in poor taste. While the ladies mentioned may appriciate the stamp of approval a more appropriate venue is through reco's. Not to be a kill joy but I have issues with people being treated like objects. Is it possible that we could let this thread die? Thanks, Chuck