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I'm 'out' about being an escort in my personal life. When I meet new people, I test the waters before I tell them but I don't hesitate overly long. The issue I often face when meeting new people is something along the following. They say, "it's alright that you're an escort, but... your clients... aren't they kind of gross? Isn't it nasty to have to do things you don't want to do with people you aren't attracted to, or who are dirty?" I'm always really amazed that people say those sorts of things. I adore my clients, and I'm lucky to have had very positive experiences. They ask me lots of mean questions (i.e. about hygiene, weight, appearance, STIs, etc) as if this were a reason to stigmatize, or dislike, not my job as an escort, but rather the clients that seek my services... Ewwww seems to be their reaction. So I've done a few things to 'humanize' clients in the minds of the people I meet. I usually say, "Do you like your dad, brother, uncle, cousin?" "Well, of course", they say. "He's probably my most typical client", I respond. They are shocked. I say other things too, of course, but that's usually where I start... My question is for the clients on the board, if you could say anything to the people I talk to, what would you want to say about yourself? While I'm really good at defending my clients in these situations, I'm curious to see what other people would say if they could be open about their involvement on CERB.

I know you asked for client input but I wanted to comment here. I think the big thing that should be communicated is that our guests are just like anyone else. Everyone has wants and needs, some that get met and some that don't. Our clients are just more pro-active in having their needs met in a safe and enjoyable way that harms no one. Everyone needs human touch and companionship yet sometimes life gets in the way of being able to have committed and fulfilling relationships. As men and women, we too often deny ourselves basic needs for no apparent reason except that we "should". Our clients could be, and normally are, anyone of any walk of life, any color, race and even religion. No different from friends, family, co-workers, neighbors or favorite barrista. It's not just about sex, it's about human connection and companionship, touch, focusing on ones self for a moment in time. Something everyone wants at one time or another.

Nat, There are so many falsehoods that surround this business on both sides. Quiet frankly , in my everyday life I'm quite sure that nobody would surmise that I choose to enjoy the company of companions. I don't have that "seedy" factor that many wrongly assume about clients and companions. I take my small kids who I adore to swimming lessons and sit with all the other parents waiting for my daughter at her dance lessons. I always make sure that whenever possible I'm home to brush my kids teeth, read them their story and put them to bed. I'm silly and can reduce myself to a child to play with them and relate to the world on their level. I'm an excellent Dad. I'm at the top of my profession, wear a suit almost every day and day in, day out I professionally present the image of walking the straight and narrow. Despite the irony, I am an excellent supportive husband that actually worships his wife and thanks the stars every day that she is in my life. I volunteer for charities, play music and sing at old age homes to entertain throughout the year in an attempt to just contribute a little bit more. To the outside world I present the epitome of having my life together. I'm sure I'm not alone in this there are other clients who's own story mirrors mine. Just as you state many of us clients are in fact just "real everyday people". We all have our own personal reasons why we choose to enjoy the company of companions but for many of us that reason is not that, "nobody else would have sex with us unless paid". It's so much more broad and can't just be reduced to "dollars for sex". Yes there is sex, but in my case it's more about an aspect of intimacy and closeness that I crave and sometimes that's just simply the sensation of a beautiful ladies hand in mine as we lay together. Beautiful, simple and definitely not "gross". I don't know if I explained myself or my thoughts properly but it can just be summed up by saying, "I'm an everyday real man".

Yes, I face this almost daily too:( My statement is this.... I have never been treated with the amount respect and caring in my "real" life as I experience with my clients! My clients genuinely care for me, respect me and want to see me happy and safe. They open the door for me, they support me, make me laugh and blush. They wish me happy birthday, Merry Christmas and Happy Thanksgiving! I have dated, and those men don't even bother with any of that! As for the "gross" client, you have one chance to meet me. If you do not meet my standards, then you either show up next time meeting my standards, or you will get bare min service and not return. But truthfully, this hardly ever happens. I mean gross, as in not cleaned, showered, etc....I do not expect everyone to be a hunk, haahha...this is about a service designed to make men feel good about themselves, feeling cared for, looked after. So as long as they leave happy and confident, then so am I! I take pride in what I do, and put every effort into providing a service that accomplishes all that. There has been one or a few, that I had to have "a talk with" about hygiene. They seemed to have listened to me, as they do arrive ready for a date. But if you are ever rude or mean, then you are leaving ASAP. People just see us a s victims, or whatever....But after you chat with us, you see we are much more in control and have more respect then you would think. I AM NOT A VICTIM! I AM SELF EMPLOYED, PROVIDING A MUCH NEEDED SERVICE. AND THIS MAKES ME HAPPY. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT! Best wishes, xoxoxo, Sophia OOOPSY, JUST NOTICED. This is a question for the clients hahhaha

I guess I write good reviews because I've had more than a few PMs asking for more details. CERB is a recommendation site. I do not believe it is meant to..pardon the pun...list/detail a blow by blow of the activities between two consenting adults. Regardless I don't give out those details. Whatever occurs or does not occur between two consenting adults will not be shared in any detail, on CERB or anywhere else, ever. As a general rule it is pretty safe to assume 'YMMV' applies to everyone!! Ask the Provider directly and respect that their rules, like their rates are nonnegotiable. Want someone to shove ice cubes up your ass until you turn blue and then call you Papa Smurf? There are many proviers out there, chances are someone will. You won't find that kind of information on a recommendation site, or from me. Have a fun time out there and be safe and respectful to your provider.

You have been my support, my laughter and my teacher for 3 years:) If I paid this much attention to my real life community for 3 years, I may have moved mountains! This is my 2014 th post, and happy to do so! I have learned much about respect, from both SP and hobbyist alike. At times it felt harsh, but none the same always coming back with something that has been learned. It is an interesting journey to say the least. Coming from a place that never shows friendly competition or understanding. I have tried so many times to show others this kindness and acceptance, but yet I always have someone lurking in the background trying to make things complicated for me:( I hope that they find their own way, and learn that we are a better help to one another than the opposite. Many of you have always made me feel completely wanted and appreciated. I truly am blessed to have YOU as a friend! Thank you to all who have given me the benefit of doubt, the chance to shine and the drive to keep moving forward! With all my best intentions, Sophia Varoushka xoxo

It's unfortunate there are stigmas about this lifestyle out in the "civilian" world. These are the most honest relationships I've had with women, no expectations on anyone's part except to be treated with respect From my vantage point, the ladies have provided me with a much needed escape, companionship and in some cases even friendship. And all encounters, even though the gentleman pays the lady a donation, still respect the lady's boundaries. I feel I am a better man today for the ladies I have met in this lifestyle. And all the ladies in this lifestyle are very special, for it takes someone very special to be a professional companion. They are much more than just providers of sex. I feel more open with some of the ladies I see than other people in my life. They provide a intimate connection, an escape and companionship, one which I cherish and appreciate A rambling RG

An interesting question, I look forward to this discussion! I'm mature and have no issue knowing what my time and service is worth. Every guest has an ideal provider in mind, some prefer younger providers because they are more visual; others prefer a woman who has experience and can take an encounter into deeper connection territory. Age has nothing to do with what a provider considers fair when it comes to considerations; clients determine what they want and decide if the fee is worth the service they are looking for. Obviously there are enough men out there that realize maturity brings a certain element to the equation that is worthy of their patronage... cat

I don't believe in limiting passion and to me, it's ageless. The more passion you have and for as long as you can possible have it, defines a great life from an "also ran". The thing about passion is you have to listen to your inner self and take risks to follow it because sometimes passion does not conform to what others think it should be or what others think you should be. Find the things you're passionate about (no matter how small) and do those things...make time. Sex, writing, photography, animal rights, sports, hiking, shopping, cooking whatever....DO IT! Now I will slink off after realizing that I have been ignoring my passion lately and need to take my own advice! lol

Damian709, As I'm from you're neck of the woods so I'll welcome you to cerb. The quality or success (what I assume you mean by top bookers) of a companion has nothing to do with age. It has all to do with how that lady interacts with her clients and the experience that she provides. If your "experience" has been that YOU have enjoyed your time with younger ladies more than mature ladies then that's great. Stick with what works for you. I personally have had some of MY best experiences with ladies that would be considered (lol) older. Their intellect and innate ability to understand what I as a client need has been no doubt brought on by their experience and the understanding that the experience is not just about sex. For your first post you decided to poke a bit of a potential hornets nest so please be careful. I recommend that you take your time and read the whole newbie area and become familiar with cerbs rules and tone. It might save you from getting stung. Hmmmm.......ending a post with "what do you think?" seems a little familiar to me, not sure why. Best of luck

Welcome to Cerb, Damien :) To get this conversation started, maybe you could tell us why, in your experience, "younger ladies are better service providers". What does "younger versus "older" mean to you, personally? As far as your first question, I am not certain I understand what it means. Care to expand on the meaning of "top booker"? Thanks :) Additional Comments: Just another question... What makes an SP a good one/a better one in your books?

Terrific thread, Nathalie! I would just really want people to know the respect I have for the ladies I have the opportunity to meet. I could handle assumptions that I must be a loser. Or gross. Could only possibly get sexy by paying for it. Addicted to boobs (okay, that last one may have some truth). But I find the stereotype that I'm happily exploiting women who must surely be victimized deeply troubling and insulting.

I'm a dabbler and I've dabbled in many things and get bored and move on to something new. This is just one of those things and I'll get bored and I will move on. And I hope I'm not normal....I've fought against normalcy my entire life and so far so good :) Peace MG

I'm a mature provider as well...I don't consider myself a top booker. I consider myself a selective booker. ;) most mature ladies do. We consider quality time over quanity appointments.

I was really sick, near fatal, not long ago. My two fave ladies provided an incredible amount of support, hospital visits, getting my prescriptions, phoning and checking up on me. After what they did for me I'd take a bullet for them anyday.

I agree with a number of the other posts that one of the big misconceptions people have about the client/SP relationship is that it is all about sex. For me it is way more about the emotional connection and the pleasure of an SP's company.

Like many of the previous posters I am: a boss, a dad, a little league coach, an uncle, a brother, someone's significant other, a neighbor - pretty much your typical gray haired law abiding tax payer. But I'm fortunate enough to be able to afford to spend some special private time with some very special ladies. This is a complete secret from absolutely everyone except the ladies I see. Part of the allure is that it is my own secret - a part of me that is not predictable. Different than anyone would expect of me.

Someone very close to me died a while back because of a health issue. Its a dicey situation, and can happen very abruptly, and I saw the pain of my friend's family. A month later I started to volunteer to help other people in that situation. Since I was on a street with close access to a 24 hour bus line that went to the hospital, I was the go to guy if someone was needed in the night time. I dealt with families who were angry, upset, and very confused. I was the guy who they could lash out at, vent their frustration, hug, and/or listen to their stories of loved ones passed. I have a few secrets in life that almost no one knows, seeing SP is one, volunteering is another. I did not want to say what I did for admiration or anything of that sort. My point with all of this is that if any of those families saw me, from the very conservative types to the anything goes liberals, I doubt anyone of them would assume I visit SPs. I probably don't fit the societal mold. To my friends, I'm one of "those" fanatics who are constantly pushing female rights. I was blessed with an unusual amount of patience which has been valuable for helping older people get comfortable with computers. Basically, I'm the brother, uncle, cousin that Nathalie mentions. I'm probably no different then anyone else.

Hi everyone, What do you like about your city? Is it the beautiful landscape? The quality of life? The job opportunities? Is there any major attractions? Or you simply like the people in general? This is just an informative thread to share the good things to see in different places across Canada. As a touring lady, I'd love to know more about what's interesting in other places. Let me share my experience of Montreal... The cultural scene in Montreal is absolutely vibrant We have over a hundred of festivals every year, (Jazz festival, Just for laughs, Montreal World Film Festival, Montreal Fireworks Festival and many other world class events) and a dozen of amazing museums that's one of the most popular reason why people come to Montreal. The ethnic diversity: Montreal features a China Town, a Little Italy, a Little Portugal and various other neighbourhoods adopted by immigrants as their own. The cost of living are more than fair: For a central apartment, you can expect to pay between 600-800$ (depending on the area) for a 2 bedroom. Electricity costs are also pretty low ! Learning french will never be easier: Montreal is a great place to call home, and yes, believe it or not, you can get by on limited french. Nightlife: You can go out whenever you want and there's always something to do. What to do in Montreal? From museums to art galleries, historic sites to beautiful architecture, Montreal has something for everyone. - Mount Royal offers one of the best known vistas in Canada. - The Biodome, Botanical Gardens, Insectarium and Planetarium make up the Montreal Nature Museums, the largest natural science museum in Canada. - A visit to the Olympic Park will take you back in time to 1976. - A walking tour of the Old Port is a view of the evolution of Montreal. The Port features architecture from the 17th century to the 20th century, often right next to each other. - Montreal is also home to major sports teams including the National Hockey League team, the Canadiens; Canadian Football League team, the Alouettes; and more recently the Major League Soccer team, the Impact. I like Montreal for the reasons mentioned above. It's a beautiful city, it's clean, the people are nice and there's a good night life. Oh, and Montreal is well known for its open mindness and pretty girls ;). Come around in summer, you wont' be disappointed !!! :) So, what do you like about your city? I'd love to hear from you guys xoxo

I love Ottawa because it's a small and personable city, similar to Quebec City which is where I'm from. It has the luxuries of a larger metropolitan city center like Toronto or Montreal, without the size and congestion. I love the incredibly amount of festivals that happen here. There's Fringe Festival which is a week-long event with over 50 plays. There's VerseFest which is a spoken word week-long event similar to Fringe. I love InsideOut, which is a GLBTQ movie festival at the National Garllery of Canada. There are some really beautiful parks in Ottawa as well. I love how many bike paths we have too! It's a city meant for cyclists. There's a beautiful view of the city from the Alexandra Bridge. It's really worth it to gross over to the Gatineau side if only for that. I really love our coffee shops. We have a lot of independently owned and operated coffee shops, bars, and restaurants. I love that! In terms of clothing we have some really cute independent stores as well. Like the Workshop Boutique, Victoire's, and Kania. I love visiting Ottawa's Gay Village, Chinatown, and Little Italy, too! In terms of restaurants, TOWN and Zen Kitchen are superb. They are definitely my go-to places for a good meal. They are also independently owned and operated :) Of course, there's the ordinary tourist things that are really fun to see as well. Visiting Canada's Parliament Hill, the Supreme Court of Canada, and the Parliamentary Library are all musts. What I love the most about this city though...are the people! I find people very nice and approachable here. I'm from the country so it was refreshing to have the joys of metropolitan living without feeling like I'm alone all the time.

My passions have changed over the years but two still remain to this day. Motorcycling and photography. I have been doing both for over 25 years. When I get back from a road trip and have hundreds of photos to sort through, the results bring back memories for years to come.

I am passionate about being Passionate ;-)

Great conversation! My take on it is...vive la difference!

On BP there is a car wash being advertised, lol...when I did search had 23 results. Mostly from Europe, I highly doubt these are the ladies you would be meeting!

Come enjoy a sensual massage with this blonde beauty!...Ill tease you all over leave you wanting more and more. Some things you experience with me, GFE, body slides all over you, teasing & teasing all over, reverse massage, and sexxxxy showers for two! PM for inquiries on more things we can do Book an appointment with me today...and see the real thing. Petite (5'2) blonde smooth soft skin, real 34Cs, green eyes, & great personality! Read what people have written about our experiences! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=124971 My Sexy Schedule For Next Week! Available for pre-bookings! Monday 11-6 (east) Wednesday 10-4(west) Thursday 10-10 (west) Friday 9-3 (east) Saturday 10-4(west) Sunday 9-3 (east) Not a cmj member? PM me to find out how you can be my VIP!

I am not young but many of the girls i work with at ALO are in her 20s ... some that come to mind.. Lucia she is a young Italian girl about 20 Beckie young red head about 25 Kassie brunette about 25 Selena Blonde russian about 24 KSenia rusian brunette 22 Romina cute ebony 23 about And there is more but I think I have given you a few choices... Feel free to pm me if you want more info about how to contact them...

What do I think ? I haven't experienced a "top booker" yet. and I hate the word "better". Age is a nothing but a number damien709.

Authenticity in everything I do. It's what I strive for; to stay in the moment, feel it, taste it, smell it and not think, just do no matter what I may be doing... cat

Check me out in my Sexy Costumes this Week!! Hello Boys!!! I am a tall bombshell that is seductive by nature, a statuesque 5'11" and 130lbs with dazzling Hazel eyes and a smile to die for! My personality will captivate you while my massage will leave you relaxed from head to toe, and the rest of our time will Leave you Breathless! Contact me Text 613-277-4328 Call 613-274-7073 (Angels Touch) or by PM Schedule Thursday October 24th, 3:30pm-11:00pm Friday October 25th, 3:30pm-11:00pm Exclusive to Angels Touch Check out what others are saying about my service http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=111731 Sexuality is not a Leisure or Part-time Activity It is a way of Being -Alexander HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!

....and here is a recent duo reco: Cleo Catra and Kathrine Bardot.... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=142947 I searched using a wild card (duo*) and it worked! Have fun! toine

Animals-protecting them:) involving myself in as many charities and causes that will help them. It's important to me that they be treated humanely and respectfully - the environment, living in a way that will leave the smallest footprint. Those are my two biggest passions:)

Maya @ ALO ... Check out her profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=91609

Can't speak for anyone else, but I can definitely say that I am MUCH better in bed at 31 than I was at 19, and if I'd tried to get into this business at a young age I would have failed, miserably. So, for me, I know that I would NOT have been a 'better service provider' when I was younger, not by a long shot. With a bit of age comes maturity, sexual knowledge, and experience. I truly believe I get better with age, and feel confident that's the same with most - if not ALL - women.

I don't think assumptions about his motivations are necessary. His inquiry isn't that off base as I have had young female providers ask me the very same question because they couldn't understand how I could command double what they asked and book more calls than they did. It's comes from the naive view that great sex is only for the young by the young and is a belief held until one day you look in the mirror and you're not young anymore but still sexual! Let's allow him the opportunity to grow a little bit in the awareness that great sex is ageless and starts in the brain, not the body... cat

Hi, I'm a mature provider,happily so.Although I do what I have to to market myself. This isn't a business that is kind to aging, nor are some involved in it. But in saying that I don't believe mature means "top bookers, better quality, etc, neither do I think because a provider is young that she'll be more in demand, better looking, etc. Cerb has some gorgeous, incredibly built mature women, some that can certainly hold their own!! I don't like to think one versus the other either, we all have our fans, no one is better than or less than, just different. It's best to have that frame of mind when it comes to most things:) But if your experiences, tastes are swayed towards younger then enjoy and embrace that but don't compare, there's just no need to:)

I posted this link elsewhere too, but it's a great article and will fit perfectly here. It's an accurate overview of what will likely be next after decriminalization, and what sex workers want & need, and what we don't want in a post de-crim Canada. :) The Sex Workers Are Coming By Joyce Arthur http://rabble.ca/columnists/2013/04/sex-workers-are-coming

Nathalie Lefebvre and I offer duos. We do nuru duos, as well.

mine are .. I love my ass in this outfit I hope he likes my ass in this outfit I wonder how long I'll be wearing this outfit?

I find that this picture below (from FB) does not belong to the " Funny Pictures", or " ..Lol Cat..." or " Puppies" thread, or any existing threads for that matter. It is cute, interesting, endearing and heart-warming. This thread should capture some incredible and interesting pictures you may find in the cyber space.

Since Halloween is approaching us. I decided to start this thread on sexy halloween costumes. Maybe the women of Cerb can post some pictures of themselves in sexy outfits :)

So I had an appointment today with the lovely ebony Adryanna today and I have to tell you the anticipation was off the charts. You see our last encounter ended in the usual volcano eruption and seeing stars that she usually generates but we had a little time at the end and chatted about likes and dislikes. This can be very interesting when you get to know your SP. Especially if they open up a little about what they'd like to try. I always find that the interim correspondence for the next visit will always reference the fantasy and build up the anticipation for it. Well the last visit yielded a great deal of information about how much she really does enjoy Greek (cue the cheering from all the fans of the act) and how she'd like to get fucked in front of a mirror standing up. She really wanted to watch the act and see if the visual sent her over the edge. Just the thought of it sends me over the edge! So today, she greeted me with a mischievous smile and matching thong and bra and she led me past the full length mirror in her room. I immediately sprung to attention thinking this fantasy is not just hers, it's mine too. Just to keep this a reasonable length...foreplay, foreplay, foreplay...then we're standing in front of the mirror with her delicious booty wiggling toward my eager dick. We both had a fun show in the mirror and if you haven't seen her gorgeous ass swallow your dick yet, this is NOT to be missed. The lady loves her Greek and went at it until her legs gave out. Didn't achieve the desired result yet so we washed up and proceeded to the next round of lazy doggy style. This is my favorite with her because her perfect ass slaps up against me enhancing the experience. If you're closer to fifty than thirty like I am, you appreciate all the stimulation you can get since the condom dulls the senses a little. Needless to say, volcanic eruption and stars again. And she came too! Fucking awesome sight with her cumming and pushing back on my dick! This lady gets better and better with every encounter. She even knows how to treat us not-so-young-and-not-a-stallion anymore guys. Just the little things like getting me raging hard before the condom get on, fun foreplay and lots of good encouragement. I will continue to have fun with Adryanna whenever she comes to town. Sometimes twice when she cums to town!

I'm curious to know what you would name as the one thing (activity, cause, subject) that you are most passionate about? I'm actually having some trouble answering this for myself. I have a lot of interests, some charities I support, hobbies I enjoy, and so on, but I'm having trouble picking one thing I'm passionate about to the point that it helps define who I am. But maybe some of you know have a clearer idea for yourselves? (Oh, and just to clarify, I mean other than having sex! Sorry, that's too easy an answer this time. :tongue:)

Well done Claire on hitting this milestone. ;)

Great topic! I am surprised that I have made this small city my home! I have lived virtually every city in Canada, never feeling like I fit anywhere. Then I found Fredericton! This city is safe, clean and so pretty. Lacking in good restaurants, but the beauty here makes up for it. The wonderful Saint John River flowing through our downtown area, really makes a lovely scene. So much fun I have had on this river. Kayaking, is my favorite way to spend a summer afternoon. All summer long there is music, free concerts that fill the air with festive sounds. Blues, Jazz, acoustic country and rock, whatever your taste.

I had a normal 11pm-7am night sleep! I think I already beaten the jetlag!

Congratulations Claire for your milestones. I think I've contributed a lot to your total. As I often come to check out your sexy pictures :) xoxoxox

I know this is an adult board but there are better ways to say things...personally i rather the gentlemen just ask me in a pm or email.. Even then I want respect...as I'm sure every man does. In private we can have the dirty talk..:wink: