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My view on this has evolved over my time as an SP. I don't have any age restrictions at all and I do not ask for your age when someone requests an appointment with me. In fact, I welcome men of all ages to respectfully contact me if they are interested in what I have to offer them. I ignore any and all requests that are below my standards, regardless of age. I've found less-than-desirable men of all ages, and while maybe there are a few more young guys who haven't learned how to talk to a woman yet, I wouldn't personally ban them all because of a few bad apples. Of course, to each their own though, and for some it's just a comfort thing, and everyones own preferences are to be respected. I've seen many young university students, as young as 19 years old. I've had a great time with many of them, and still see some of them regularly. If they can compose a nice introduction, give me all the info I need and they seem respectful and friendly, I have no issues with age at all. It actually turns me on a bit when younger dudes are looking for an experienced lady a few years their senior rather than a girl their own age. That alone shows me some kind of maturity. I also think that for young guys, especially university students, or those starting out in their career, if they have the means, seeing an SP is a great option. Considering the alternatives... like bars, online dating, one-night-stands with possible expectations, banging a classmate who you then have to see everyday, etc, this is a much better route for young guys who just want some temporary honest fun. :)

I think everyone goes out sometimes. I'm not sure what let loose means but I don't think anyone prevents themselves from living because they are an SP or an MA. It's a rule that if you recognize an SP or MA while you're out and about that you don't approach them, the same goes for an SP or MA who recognizes a client out in public. We keep our distance, pretend we don't know each other, and perhaps send a PM or an e-mail to be like "Hey! I saw you!" in a not-so-creepy way ;) Alternatively, (and if more appropriate), you don't e-mail or PM at all... especially if there wasn't mutual recognition or you've never met the person privately.

Yes, you are correct and I'm sorry if I offended any SPs who offer these appts as it was not my intent. I should have worded it differently yet my emotions got the best of me as I've had to deal with people who want them but don't bother to read my ad or tell me they only have X amount and want 15 mins.. Rest assured, I'm not someone who looks down on other providers or make them feel bad for offering 15 minute appts. To each their own,.

A little light playful spanking on the behind can be fun ;) However, there are a select few out there who may and try and use this playful method as a defence as they turned the playful fun it into something vile, such as slapping a lady very hard , because they are sick and are looking to hurt her and see the reaction that goes along with it-those kind deserve to be slapped right back ;) Keep it light and keep it fun ;)

Yeah, I've actually had considerably better luck with local independent Halifax ladies than with agency girls from big cities, almost to the point of avoiding the big agencies completely. I've never encountered drugs or henchmen on a date around here. For a small market I think we some of the best SP's in the country.

I seen a couple of nights ago. I can not recommend based on my experience as I will not be repeating.

I couldn't have said it better myself! I rely on my gut feeling when it comes to age....like cristy said...when it starts with "hey or whats up"...not a good start lol In the last 2 days I met 2 Young gentlemen..26 and 27 yrs old and I would repeat!...I think its a lot more about...not how old but how mature one person is!! Just a note from a mature lady to younger guys...even if your a first timer...be a gentleman...it will never fail you :) BJ xxx

Good evening, this is long overdue, have posted notes on her wall previously. Nathalie is a "free spirit", who is passionate about things she believes in, lusty, provocative and extremely sexy. She is smart, a great communicator, and extremely sexual. Every time we meet, there is a healthy sexual tension, that we both love to explore. She drives me crazy with lust! Her voice, eyes, lips are all tantalizing. She is a truly sexual experience, for both men and women! I am so glad we have become connected!

Respectfully, Nicolette, there is a difference between saying "it makes me feel like xxx" and using a phrase such as "a device" or "As an SP, I offer an "experience" not to be a "cum bucket" for someone's release for lack of better words." Especially the last statement. It can be read as "providers who do offer 15 minute sessions don't offer an 'experience', they are just 'cum dumpsters'." I don't offer 15 minute sessions. I don't like them, they are not for me. But that is the extent to which I will speak to that in public, because I don't know my audience. What I say in private to friends who know me, and know that I am speaking only of my own feelings and experiences... that may be something else. I don't want to alienate providers who do offer these sessions, for whatever reason, or the clients who seek them out. Your two hour booking may be someone else's 15 minute client. That client is still the same person, and that provider is still another person, like yourself, who works as a sex worker. You just do it in different ways, and market to different clientele.

I agree with you Cat. Trafficking laws, and most major proponents of such legislation and related campaigns, including NGOs aiming to eliminate trafficking, end up reinforcing stigma, silencing and violence against migrant workers, and not just limited to sex workers.... Rarely are such efforts aimed at deconstructing or bringing redress to poverty, or unevenly enforced border control measures. We should be suspicious that, to date, very few countries, for example allow for sexual labourers who have been picked up , detained and questioned in such sweeps to actually apply for a visa to stay in that given country. Countries such as Italy are one of the few exceptions. As it stands, international protocols governing trafficking allow for only two options when a worker has been identified as trafficked (a determination often made against the will of these global citizens); you are either a victim or a criminal. And, once you have provided your information, you are then of little value to authorities (and researchers) and are swiftly deported. This provides no meaningful way for those who are being harmed, or who seek protections, including under the law, to meaningfully report their concerns to authorities or even access supportive services. It should be added that these problems are made possible through a whole variety of laws, including, by the way, under what has been often termed the 'stripper visa' policy aimed largely at women seeking to tour as exotic dancers in Canada", and are no longer able to as they are being denied working visas which were previously being granted....of course, driving the truly problematic situations further underground, and making illegals out of workers trying to make a living. Such a law, while purportedly aimed at helping to eliminate the trafficking of women and girls, and deceitful fronts for prostitution, actually does nothing helpful in terms of any of this...more sensationalism, more patronizing policies that do nothing to accord voice, dignity, labour and human rights to those affected. I also agree with mistert, in that, we will have to see how the current legal challenges pan out to know what the implications are. For example, if the 'prostitution' laws currently under scrutiny are struck down by the highest Court (i.e. the Supreme Court of Canada, which is binding) and, in the process, sex workers consequentially have a foothold to access human and labour rights and Constitutional recognition, then there will be some clout to wield at the policy level in terms of redefining trafficking policy, including definitions of what constitutes trafficking, who would be considered to be a trafficked person, and what options would then be available to those caught up in this net. There is also a continuum in relation to sex work and trafficking that exists that muddies the waters, in that; 1) some people are genuinely forced against their will, or tricked into migrating to a country under false pretenses; 2) some are indentured workers who know they will be doing sex work and are under obligation to repay a specific fee for being able to secure their entry into a given country, often with their passports being held or some other power play to guarantee they will comply ( ...problematic, yes, and ultimately a practice supported by oppressive legislation such as that discussed above). In such cases, the progressive sex work literature and many labour activists attest to the fact that many of these workers (not just women I might add) would still choose this situation over remaining in their countries of origin as they are seeking mobility and increased economic opportunities, and to be reunited with family members/loved ones). Due to personal resourcefulness , the assistance of organizations and sometimes even clients, workers are often able to manage transitioning into a less controlled working situation...And, with a more empowering and redefined trafficking policy scope, this has the potential to improve the odds for folks significantly; 3) some of these people are straight up travelling sex workers, quite informed and largely mobile (however undercover and trickily navigated) who have entered countries to work and make money, and still face the threat of being picked up in these sweeps and being made subject to such laws, regardless of the fact that what they are doing...how they see what they are doing....as sex work...as real work that has meaningful purchase in their lives; and, 4) there are those whose personal circumstances have the potential to cut across more than one, or even all of these categories and realms of experience; who may, in fact, have experienced circumstances of profound coercion, or perhaps, indenturement, but who move into other circumstances, including in making a more empowered choice to participate in some form of sex work. (On the last point) This is not uncommon at all...just like it is not uncommon for sex workers who may have always been in the country, and who may have worked in a more marginalized venue, to then have their circumstances change and engage the opportunity to work in another venue. In the course of my community activism, I've been privy to many stories such as this...And, in the case of grassroots activism by labourers who would outright identify as being trafficked at some point (e.g. see the film "Tales of the night fairies"), there is a strong contingent of those who go on to assert, regardless of potential continued marginalization, that 'yes, "I am now a sex worker" who makes choices every day to continue to participate in the industry'. The understanding that "money talks and bullshit walks" carries great currency in the lives of those who engage in erotic labour and who continue to be patronized and harmed by such oppressive measures and attitudes. Of course, in such hopefulness for some structural policy changes or a favorable court ruling, it's important not to get romantic about the system...the current political party system, the courts or legislature... international governance practices, as they have been powerful forces in securing the oppression and economic disadvantage of so many historically oppressed communities...not to mention gross platforms for politicians to self-ingratiate themselves in the media...while, of course, having no meaningful vested interest or concern for the health and human rights of those they speak for, including sex working citizens....wherever a given worker sits on the continuum. As I heard former Executive Director of Maggie's in Toronto recently state at a sex work conference: 'so long as we have difficulty making a connection between the worker who has parted from their own family to come to this country to take care of the children of some affluent couple; the agricultural worker who has lost their ability to farm back home and is now stuck in a compound picking the potatoes we eat every day; and the lived reality of a sex worker, we will collectively remain the self-fulfilling subjects of our own ignorance' (Keisha Scott, indirect, condensed quote). We cannot afford to do this.

I just wanted to know that you've noticed any changes in your life since you started seeing MA's or SP's. I know in my case that I used to by shy with women and now I'm not. I seem to have more confidence in myself and walk with my head up more. I've started noticing women looking at me and smiling at me more often :). I've also started looking after my health more. I've lost a lot of weight and am more fit. Probably the best shape in my life since high school. Learning to be a better lover. Have fulfilled several fantasy in my bucket list. Have experience things that I could only dream about. Learnt to appreciated women more and how to satisfy them. Have learnt that women actually like being with me :) What changes have you seen since you started meeting MA's / SP's

Literary, or tv/film? If they could walk off the pages, or step off the screen...who would you date/want to be friends with? I'm sure I'll think of many, many more, but the ones that come to mind are: I would date Lucas from Empire Records I would KILL to hang out with Sloane and Don from The Newsroom. I'd sit there and stare at them lovingly and gaze at them while they exchanged witty banter and infuriatingly intelligent quips.

No matter how hard I try not to, I just have to look!

My life hasn't changed. I have run into clients in public and we have an understanding... A smile or a nod is fine -- but don't come over to me and I won't go over to you. I refuse to change my life for fear of ANYTHING. Life is too short!!!! :)

I have to agree with MS Manda , I travel all over the place but am based in this area , We seem to have the best collection of beautiful friendly and accomodating SP's ( I hate using the word Sp ) so I will use ladies , ever so nice , great personalities , extremely valuable assets and we also have a large variety of travelling Sp's . But we have some really beautiful women who offer a variety of services and I am just talking about the reputable local ladies , You can get what ever you need here and if you use your common sense safety should not be an issue , we all know where the dangerous areas are and what agencies/Ladies that you should be aware may not be the safest , but the regular girls are just wonderful . I would rate them up there with any city ,anytime , anyday , anyplace period ............ I Just Love Them Local Beauties , They Rock and Their Hot .............

Hello Infinity654, I Have To Agree With CC & BJ! Age Is Just A Number To Me, For Me It's All On How The Gentleman Presents Himself, How Respectful & How Mature He Acts With/During The Enconter. If The Gentleman Is Mature, Respectful & I Get A Good Vibe From Him..Then I Can Handle It. I Do A Lot Of My Booking On Here By Pm...So I Can Chat Before Hand & Kinda Get A Feel Of The Preson I Am Meeting... I Am 24 Turning 25 In Feb, I Have Only Had Ages 20 & Up So Far & I Started Back In 09 When I Was 20. I Agree With CC! I Prefer To Call Them By Their Real Name Rather Than Calling Them Something Different Like Dear. It Is Just More Professional/Respectful That Way.

Experience doesn't necessarily come with age but with circumstance. But if we are to speak in generalizations the more years obviously and more than likely the more experiences. But why compare? This business is as unique as those involved in it. I will say that when I was in my twenties and having sex with some older men I too wanted it over quickly,( I mention my twenties because my first sexual encounter was at 19, then I had a boyfriend my age until my 21 bday) not in all cases but in some. When someone young-just recollecting my own experiences-has sex with a much older gentleman and the signs of age are there it can sometimes be less than pleasant. As I've matured the physical signs of age in a partner mean less and the other attributes they have are far more important, intriguing and seductive. I want to be with men now that are confident, sensitive, humorous, fun, I could care less about what they look like, but I do care how they treat me, others and themselves. These traits weigh heavily on determining my sexual attraction and chemistry with them. We could argue all day and night about some young people are mature and some older are less mature, so on and so on. There are exceptions to everyone and to every situation. But again if generalizing, and you are an older man, significantly older than your partner don't be surprised if the sex is one sided and short lived, lol.

Worrying about numbers, high or low, is just one aspect of the complicated psychology behind sex and its association with personal worth. It's a dangerous and spiky pit to fall into, because that number is really only a reflection of one set of social skills and hardly defines our overall worth. But it's so emotionally loaded that yeah, people get kind of weird about it. That said, there are a few reasons people might be concerned about a high number of partners, and they're all bad. - if you're just sexually insecure, you'll be worried about your lover comparing you to former partners and you fear you'll come up short. Antidote: sex isn't a single uniform experience subject to objective competition; it has many facets and is a different experience with every partner with different psychological and emotional context. You vs. another is apples vs. oranges. Just focus on making the apple the best apple you can; that's what he/she will value most. - people might really believe, if only subconsciously, that everyone only has so much affection/passion to give, and if they've had lots of former partners then their supply is diluted among all of them -- and most importantly, by implication, he/she is less invested in this relationship than you are. (For an extreme example where this is easier to understand, assume someone's partner's number is 100 and theirs is 1.) Antidote: understand that affection really doesn't work like that. Once again, every relationship is unique and people are able to invest and bring their full faculties to bear each time. Focus on being a good partner, and you're you're more likely to receive their full commitment. - people might really believe that ever partner beyond 1 saps your virtue. Antidote: grow up. Fundamentally, if you're worried about your partner's history instead of your present moment together and maybe your future, YOU have a problem. As a general principle, and on issues ranging far beyond just sex, you shouldn't be trying to make a prison for your partner out of the events and decisions in their past; instead you should be helping them to open the doors to any prison they may have built for themselves, and be whoever they want to be today and tomorrow.

There is no way to separate the two and there are already effective laws on the books for both. Human trafficking is trafficking whether it's for a field worker, house keeper, machine operator or sex worker. No need to change them, simply enforce them. If anything, our trafficking laws victimize the sex worker even more. They are arrested, held in detention then deported while still owing the broker that brought them in for the visa and other costs which they will never be able to pay off once they are back home. And in all honesty the numbers used to support changing the human trafficking laws are so outlandish it's staggering. Once again the Steven Harper gov't proves how truly out of touch they are... cat

I really like what you posted here Cleo. I personally just can't and won't do short encounters like this , but, I don't think that's what these threads about short versus longer encounters end up about anyway (that is the direction this thread has taken); that is, personal preference and mere discussion about the ins and outs of such service offerings. They clearly take on a tone of debasement and abjection and we should all know by now who the stigma largely clings to. To be clear, this statement is not about reducing any one particular comment made by my fellow members to a sum total judgement, but rather, reflects an observation about the overall character such discussion has taken on....and, tends to take on... I was contacted recently by a man who wanted a half hour session with me. When I informed him it was a one hour minimum, he became irate and disrespectful and continued on trying to negotiate obtaining my services anyway...as though I was some sort of irritating pylon to get by to get by to reach his single-minded end-goal. When I told him it was clear to me we were not a good fit due to the hostility I was sensing, he proceeded to tell me I was essentially a 'fat cum dump anyway'. I was astonished. Some say I shouldn't be; that such qualifying, hateful remarks are all around and to be expected here and there if I'm going to remain in the industry. It doesn't matter if it was transparent and pathetic; after all, he'd been interested and turned on enough to contact me! It still hurt, and went to the core of my being. I agree with you, Nicolette (Vaughn), that it is truly upsetting when men seeking our services do not respect our boundaries.....who assert an automatic sense of entitlement to access our time and our bodies without respect for the business model we are going by and the parameters we have set. There is a word for what underpins this; misogyny. This hateful phone call and the length of session of offer, while seemingly a crux of the conflict, was not the problem. So, again, and this is not directed at anyone in particular (at all!), the tone of this kind of discussion so often ends up stigmatizing (mainly) Service Providers while doing little else... Like folks such as Cleo & Kathryn Bardot have highlighted: seek out the services you wish to access, and take the time to inform yourself in advance via ads and personal websites about what is on offer. And, be prepared to accept our answers! And, at the level of our participation on the forum, let's be mindful of how our words and ideas transform themselves from mere subject content and 'free' and 'open' discussion to qualifying value judgments about the relative value of our colleagues, and the customers they bring pleasure to. Service Providers have their reasons for doing things the way they do. It is a highly competitive industry out there. Socio-economic privilege and access to certain markets play a huge role here, as do the personal motivations and short and long term economic goals and needs of SPs in making such determinations about how to run their businesses. Service Providers need our thoughtful care, affirmation and concern. Let's start more threads about that! My two cents! :-) Peace, Anna Additional Comments: p.s. my reference to the helpful commentary offered by Kathryn Bardot on this kind of topic comes from a similarly themed thread entitled "How about 20 or 40 minutes option?"...just wanted to clarify :-)

run by some dudes in highfield id stay away

I know some women like to be spanked. But do most woman really like to be spanked. and if so, is it a light playful spank, a medium spank. Or spanking that will leave hand prints on the but. Just curious, I wouldn't like to hurt a woman, unless it really turns them on? But I could never really do more then a playful spank. Just like to get your opinion?

Good question.... Spanking for me, I can certainly partake if the lady desire it. Now... Substitute 'spanking' with -hair pulling-... or tugging. I can recall many years ago when there was a show on cable called 'Sex and Chocolate', that was composed of 3 ladies and 3 gents panels as separate panels first, then grouped near the end of the show to finish the discussions. The consensus of the ladies suggested that having a handful of hair heighten the pleasure.. Have times changed..? [side note; I will decided to start a new instead..no hijacking intended..]

I had a kitten I was trying to name.....so I accidentally found a new name for me in the process. Plus I was thinking what's the ultimate word used to describe a feeling you have or an experience you had? HEAVEN, baby ;) It was THAT or Claire LeRoar lmfao

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Buddy of mine called her said she was nice on the phone but when he showed up he got rolled for all his cash couple rough necks waiting for him. Told him he couldn't report it to the police because of the situation.

I started at 25 then moved it to 30, because of the continual responses I'd get from 20 something's-hey, hey baby, what's up, I'm a hung young guy, lookin for a stud?, etc, etc!! Realistically though if someone is respectful and I get a good sense from them and don't feel the need to call them dear, lol, instead of their name then they are old enough:)

I let go of BB about a month or 2 ago... and I now I have an S4 I am liking it very much... but I still have much to learn about what it can do ...

Let's turn the table on you. How old is too old?

The S4 is a great phone and you won't be disappointed with it. Don't overlook the HTC One either. It is every bit as good at the S4 but often sells a slight discount, and it has the best camera on the market.

What a coincidence ;) I find the most fulfilling encounters with the more mature gents. As a mature lady, I know what I like in a bed-mate and am very comfortable with myself sexually. There is a certain erotic and sensual chemistry that comes with sharing a bed with a man who knows what he likes and is comfortable with himself as well. Such chemistry, in my opinion found more often with 30+ gents, allows us both to let go and enjoy each other, no request is judged, no script is followed as we can anticipate each others wants and desires with a joy in satisfying those needs. LoL ;)

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Amy and Roxann are definitely worth a call; friendly and professional.

That usually works and you don't have to mention a name

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I am not outcall only. I found the number of no shows and or fake bookings I was receiving to cost me a significant enough amount of time and cash that I was no longer interested in maintaining the financial burden of a 4 star hotel several times a week. Having damaged credit from the past leaves me stuck paying with cash. The cash deposit alone to book a 4 star hotel ranges from 100-250. I can't prebook with credit card for discounted room rates, so am left paying 159-209 on average per night. So coughing up nearly 500 a night to host from hotel incall and having multiple no shows or missed appointments is not My alternatives to outcalls are that the gentlemen consider booking the room for the length of encounter. Provided we have spoken and agreed upon it,I sometimes will split the cost of the room and the gentlemen need only to check out of room once I have left. Is the best I can do at this time

Good phone, very nice screen... I also second the Nexus 5, pure Android...can't beat that lol. Or if you're more adventurous try the note 3,but that's a big phone.

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