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I think everyone goes out sometimes. I'm not sure what let loose means but I don't think anyone prevents themselves from living because they are an SP or an MA. It's a rule that if you recognize an SP or MA while you're out and about that you don't approach them, the same goes for an SP or MA who recognizes a client out in public. We keep our distance, pretend we don't know each other, and perhaps send a PM or an e-mail to be like "Hey! I saw you!" in a not-so-creepy way ;) Alternatively, (and if more appropriate), you don't e-mail or PM at all... especially if there wasn't mutual recognition or you've never met the person privately.

Nathalie, I am surprised to learn of john sweeps in Canada not involving outdoor or public venues (such as massage parlours and strip clubs). I guess I'd better google that. I agree that it would be disastrous if the Swedish model were embraced by Canada, but I think the only thing that will defeat that, in any country, is the court. I have lost faith in the belief of destigmatization. As we see with the issue of race south of the border, no matter how hard you try to combat certain prejudices, you only succeed in driving them underground. Familiarity is the only thing that successfully defeats stigma, and if more customers were willing to be open with their families, friends and colleagues about being customers, then that might actually succeed in changing the most minds. Few customers are in a position to do that, though. Not because they fear the stigma, but because it would create serious complications. It's very hard to destigmatize a group that hides its face. For sure, when people ask me, I tell them that the only men I see are decent guys who I'm proud to know. But it's not like I can say, "For example, you know so-and-so? Well, he's my client." We can make the claim, but we can provide no evidence to back it up.

I have been known to enjoy being spanked. I also have been whipped on occasion, and liked it. Hair pulling? Yes please. HOWEVER, it depends on the mood, the moment and the individual. If I was meeting a client for the first time and he started off with this - I'd be pissed lol. S&M, even mild forms, is hugely based on mutual respect and trust. That doesn't come without effort from both sides, as well as history.

Whoaaa.. thats not exactly an accurate generalization for the rest of us locals here. I understand that this may happen sometimes, but to toss us all into that demographic is unfair and uncalled for.. jmo

I have enjoyed many of your posts. Your enthusiasm and fun shine through and your support of the lovelies here is appreciated I'm sure. I also like that you share your thoughts and advices but on occasion, you also tell it like it is. Thanks for everything, looking forward to the next 1000!

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I have, it's not for everyone.

Most of what has been said already, plus: - Old wounds have been healed through the help and support of wonderful ladies. My heart and soul are happy and open. - My understanding of women has completely changed - My understanding of what women find attractive in me also has changed - I now can appreciate and enjoy more fully women's rich erotic universe - My own erotic palette has become richer, and can now adapt more easily to various women's sexual desires - Dating is now fun and exciting! Things I still have to improve: - Be a better communicator (verbally and non-verbally): convey in a warmer, friendlier and more concise manner my feelings, desires and values - Better at organizing dates lol. Keep it simple and smooth :)

Oh well, it's done. I looked in the mirror and said , "fuck it", grabbed the clippers and went at it. LOL it's different!

I seen a couple of nights ago. I can not recommend based on my experience as I will not be repeating.

SIMPLE: When you're texting or calling an SP, you should always tell the SP what time she has until to get back to you. SD

I agree with you Cat. Trafficking laws, and most major proponents of such legislation and related campaigns, including NGOs aiming to eliminate trafficking, end up reinforcing stigma, silencing and violence against migrant workers, and not just limited to sex workers.... Rarely are such efforts aimed at deconstructing or bringing redress to poverty, or unevenly enforced border control measures. We should be suspicious that, to date, very few countries, for example allow for sexual labourers who have been picked up , detained and questioned in such sweeps to actually apply for a visa to stay in that given country. Countries such as Italy are one of the few exceptions. As it stands, international protocols governing trafficking allow for only two options when a worker has been identified as trafficked (a determination often made against the will of these global citizens); you are either a victim or a criminal. And, once you have provided your information, you are then of little value to authorities (and researchers) and are swiftly deported. This provides no meaningful way for those who are being harmed, or who seek protections, including under the law, to meaningfully report their concerns to authorities or even access supportive services. It should be added that these problems are made possible through a whole variety of laws, including, by the way, under what has been often termed the 'stripper visa' policy aimed largely at women seeking to tour as exotic dancers in Canada", and are no longer able to as they are being denied working visas which were previously being granted....of course, driving the truly problematic situations further underground, and making illegals out of workers trying to make a living. Such a law, while purportedly aimed at helping to eliminate the trafficking of women and girls, and deceitful fronts for prostitution, actually does nothing helpful in terms of any of this...more sensationalism, more patronizing policies that do nothing to accord voice, dignity, labour and human rights to those affected. I also agree with mistert, in that, we will have to see how the current legal challenges pan out to know what the implications are. For example, if the 'prostitution' laws currently under scrutiny are struck down by the highest Court (i.e. the Supreme Court of Canada, which is binding) and, in the process, sex workers consequentially have a foothold to access human and labour rights and Constitutional recognition, then there will be some clout to wield at the policy level in terms of redefining trafficking policy, including definitions of what constitutes trafficking, who would be considered to be a trafficked person, and what options would then be available to those caught up in this net. There is also a continuum in relation to sex work and trafficking that exists that muddies the waters, in that; 1) some people are genuinely forced against their will, or tricked into migrating to a country under false pretenses; 2) some are indentured workers who know they will be doing sex work and are under obligation to repay a specific fee for being able to secure their entry into a given country, often with their passports being held or some other power play to guarantee they will comply ( ...problematic, yes, and ultimately a practice supported by oppressive legislation such as that discussed above). In such cases, the progressive sex work literature and many labour activists attest to the fact that many of these workers (not just women I might add) would still choose this situation over remaining in their countries of origin as they are seeking mobility and increased economic opportunities, and to be reunited with family members/loved ones). Due to personal resourcefulness , the assistance of organizations and sometimes even clients, workers are often able to manage transitioning into a less controlled working situation...And, with a more empowering and redefined trafficking policy scope, this has the potential to improve the odds for folks significantly; 3) some of these people are straight up travelling sex workers, quite informed and largely mobile (however undercover and trickily navigated) who have entered countries to work and make money, and still face the threat of being picked up in these sweeps and being made subject to such laws, regardless of the fact that what they are doing...how they see what they are doing....as sex work...as real work that has meaningful purchase in their lives; and, 4) there are those whose personal circumstances have the potential to cut across more than one, or even all of these categories and realms of experience; who may, in fact, have experienced circumstances of profound coercion, or perhaps, indenturement, but who move into other circumstances, including in making a more empowered choice to participate in some form of sex work. (On the last point) This is not uncommon at all...just like it is not uncommon for sex workers who may have always been in the country, and who may have worked in a more marginalized venue, to then have their circumstances change and engage the opportunity to work in another venue. In the course of my community activism, I've been privy to many stories such as this...And, in the case of grassroots activism by labourers who would outright identify as being trafficked at some point (e.g. see the film "Tales of the night fairies"), there is a strong contingent of those who go on to assert, regardless of potential continued marginalization, that 'yes, "I am now a sex worker" who makes choices every day to continue to participate in the industry'. The understanding that "money talks and bullshit walks" carries great currency in the lives of those who engage in erotic labour and who continue to be patronized and harmed by such oppressive measures and attitudes. Of course, in such hopefulness for some structural policy changes or a favorable court ruling, it's important not to get romantic about the system...the current political party system, the courts or legislature... international governance practices, as they have been powerful forces in securing the oppression and economic disadvantage of so many historically oppressed communities...not to mention gross platforms for politicians to self-ingratiate themselves in the media...while, of course, having no meaningful vested interest or concern for the health and human rights of those they speak for, including sex working citizens....wherever a given worker sits on the continuum. As I heard former Executive Director of Maggie's in Toronto recently state at a sex work conference: 'so long as we have difficulty making a connection between the worker who has parted from their own family to come to this country to take care of the children of some affluent couple; the agricultural worker who has lost their ability to farm back home and is now stuck in a compound picking the potatoes we eat every day; and the lived reality of a sex worker, we will collectively remain the self-fulfilling subjects of our own ignorance' (Keisha Scott, indirect, condensed quote). We cannot afford to do this.

The one major stereotype that I had about this lifestyle was completely wrong...that seeing companions was just about anonymous sexual encounters. Nothing could be further from the truth. In fact some ladies don't just know my personal information needed for verification/screening, a couple know even more more Trust issues, the majority of ladies I see I trust, a couple I completely trust without reservation. To put in perspective I work in a law enforcement field (and isn't everyone in law enforcement supposed to be trustworthy and above reproach?). I find the ladies I see FAR MORE trustworthy than the vast majority of people I work with Definitely with the caveat that ALWAYS respect a lady's boundaries, but when I began in this lifestyle, I never thought a SP/Client could be friends. I thought that the relationship despite it's intimate nature stayed professional. What a pleasant surprise that in some cases friendships can develop, friendships as important as those in "civilian" life. And encounters are far more than just about sex. I personally like longer encounters, it has allowed dates to have time for a social, conversation, connection time. And it has made sex more enjoyable, being intimate with a woman you have spent time getting to know and she know you. This lifestyle has me involved in the most honest, healthy, meaningful and upfront relations I have had with women with no strings, no guilt and no drama A quick rambling RG

JoyfulC, I understand where you're coming from, but I think the stigmatization of clients has another effect that we aren't taking into consideration here. When clients are stigmatized, and we don't fight that stigma, it can (and does) lead to their criminalization. There are lots of 'John sweeps' happening in Canada and they don't always happen in the context of outdoor/visible sex work. In Canada we seem to be moving towards a model of regulation that would criminalize the clients of sex workers, but not the sex workers themselves (known as the 'Swedish' model, because this is the system that exists in a lot of Nordik countries). It's easy to criminalize clients if society thinks they're 'gross' (etc). That's another reason why I think it's important to destigmatize clients...

Thankyou Lexy for taking the time to post this I am very upset and cannot believe someone would do that I am now currently dealing with the administrators on bp to deal with this matter as stealing someone's identity that's how I feel is a crime hopefully this matter will be dealt with soon enough and to everyone who reached out to me regarding this thankyou!

Literary, or tv/film? If they could walk off the pages, or step off the screen...who would you date/want to be friends with? I'm sure I'll think of many, many more, but the ones that come to mind are: I would date Lucas from Empire Records I would KILL to hang out with Sloane and Don from The Newsroom. I'd sit there and stare at them lovingly and gaze at them while they exchanged witty banter and infuriatingly intelligent quips.

http://halifax.en............ca/rnr/4144697202.html Well I'm pissed, these two pictou girls have been using my pictures in their ads. Lol, they are 19 so perhaps I should be flattered, but then again it's theft!! They go by Mandylee and Ashley lee, apparently they also use many other aliases. I've been swamped with emails from men in that area alerting me to the fact that it is a pimp posting them not the girls, but again, that is hear say.

No matter how hard I try not to, I just have to look!

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Don't think we haven't noticed it's been three long months since you updated that blog, Alexxxis! I think it would be equally hot being either the watcher or one of the participants. No bashfulness here.

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Congrats on your milestone Loneskater! Your contributions are appreciated! Keep posting!

Great accomplishment Loneskater - keep it up!

Omg.. I love Don. :) hehe. I had a crazy sexy erotic dream about him a few months ago, lol. Yummy. The first episode I watched... I was going crazy trying to figure out where I recognized him from... He was in the teen movie from the year 2000, "Loser" lol... He was kind of an asshole in it, but I had the major hots for him then too.

My rule on this is that I don't initiate any communication if I see an SP I know in public. Once, I was on a date (a long time ago). We were at St Laurent Mall. We practically walked into an SP I had seen numerous times and I discreetly smiled at her without stopping. She mentioned seeing me the next time I saw her ("I didn't know you had a girlfriend", "I don't"...). With respect to an SP communicating with me, I don't mind if I am alone, especially without my kids. A discreet smile is always nice. But if I am alone and she comes to talk to me, I have no issue. If I am only momentarily alone and the SP comes over, only to have someone else I know join us, I have the perfect excuse already prepared, so it doesn't bother me at all if someone sees us.

Congrats 'Skates!! Keep on posting!!

Mmmm I'm always in the mood for a little hair pulling It completely intensifies the pleasure

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Congratulations darling xoxox I am right behind ya! Lol

Uh-oh, I'm totally late on this one. Oops! Hope it was a very happy (birth)day for you, Pete! FR

Happy Birthday Gorgeous ;) xo

Yes Please. Again tho..... depending on the partner, mood and situation.

LOL LOL LOL !!! Thanks for the good laugh!!! That was really funny.

Yeah, I've actually had considerably better luck with local independent Halifax ladies than with agency girls from big cities, almost to the point of avoiding the big agencies completely. I've never encountered drugs or henchmen on a date around here. For a small market I think we some of the best SP's in the country.

My view on this has evolved over my time as an SP. I don't have any age restrictions at all and I do not ask for your age when someone requests an appointment with me. In fact, I welcome men of all ages to respectfully contact me if they are interested in what I have to offer them. I ignore any and all requests that are below my standards, regardless of age. I've found less-than-desirable men of all ages, and while maybe there are a few more young guys who haven't learned how to talk to a woman yet, I wouldn't personally ban them all because of a few bad apples. Of course, to each their own though, and for some it's just a comfort thing, and everyones own preferences are to be respected. I've seen many young university students, as young as 19 years old. I've had a great time with many of them, and still see some of them regularly. If they can compose a nice introduction, give me all the info I need and they seem respectful and friendly, I have no issues with age at all. It actually turns me on a bit when younger dudes are looking for an experienced lady a few years their senior rather than a girl their own age. That alone shows me some kind of maturity. I also think that for young guys, especially university students, or those starting out in their career, if they have the means, seeing an SP is a great option. Considering the alternatives... like bars, online dating, one-night-stands with possible expectations, banging a classmate who you then have to see everyday, etc, this is a much better route for young guys who just want some temporary honest fun. :)

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I had the pleasure of meeting Tya a few weeks ago. It was my second visit to a SP, CERB gives me the impression that calling my first try a 'disaster' would be an understatement,BUT with Tya it was PERFECT! She was very friendly, taught me some of the etiquette/protocol, provided a true GFE and blissful ending. Thank you Tya!

Khal Drogo from Game of Thrones A model of raw masculinity and pure bestiality! What a shame he's only in the first season :(

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Brad, there's how things should be and there's how things are. We all want progress, and a wise person knows that pressure for progress must be applied prudently, or it can result in a backlash. I thought we were living in a country where individual rights were balanced very well against community interests. I have been living and working in Canada since 1982, and have had almost no problems resulting from unjust laws or overzealous enforcement. Quite the opposite! So why rail and stomp our feet if there isn't a problem? I doubt there's much sympathy these days for the plight of internet advertising prostitutes and their customers in Canada. We're not exactly hard done by. Discretion is important, of course, but I think a huge part of discretion is knowing what the stigma looks like and looking like anything but. This is why I get so annoyed with these guys who try to "be discreet" by parking a couple blocks away and sneaking over on foot. That plays right into the stigma, and while it might be done with the intention of being discreet, it is actually indiscreet. It may be counterintuitive to some, but parking right out front and striding up and knocking on the door like you have every business being here is actually the most discreet thing to do, and attracts the least attention and curiosity. We can use the stigma to our advantage by letting people focus on it instead of on us. It protects our privacy. The only thing that I find sad is when I see an SP or a customer embracing the stigma. I have had customers ask me how I deal with dirty or rude or rough customers. Don't they see that I don't deal with people like that at all? Do they think they're the only decent guy I know? I don't encounter many of such people, but I have heard that some customers assume that all SPs are on drugs (I have known very few who use at all, much less more than on an odd occasion) or are all single mothers on welfare. I've heard SPs over the years make remarks to suggest that they think customers have to pay because they couldn't get laid otherwise. We don't see that much of those attitudes here on CERB, and when we do see it, it's usually nipped in the bud pretty quickly. That's the best type of progress I see!

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Same lady. Great oral skills.

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It is a business unlike other business'. In short, no there is no claim to a rebate etc. Ethically, yes but highly unlikely she would give back any $ as she likely lied in the first place to get you in the door. The other thing is if you have conversed with the SP via email or text, you really don't know if it is the SP you are conversing with. Some have 'Booking Agents' that handle these details.