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I've been contemplating whether or not I should add my 2 cents on the topic. I had pretty much decided to stay silent because I was afraid I'd be judged but then I realized that I really don't give a flying.... Let me elaborate. I've spent the past year and a half really getting to know myself. It was a laborious and surprising journey but at the end of it I found out that I like me. I have many wonderful qualities. I'm a good person. I respect myself as well as my body. I accept others as they are and don't judge them if they have beliefs or exercise practices that I personally don't feel comfortable adopting for myself. I've read mostly negative remarks about SPs who offer 15min sessions and the men who love them. If that's how they feel, fine. Nothing they say or feel will change the price of tea in my world nor will I lose sleep over it. At the end of the day my clients are happy and I have no problem looking myself in the mirror. As you may have guessed, I do offer 15 minute sessions. Granted, I don't offer them all the time because it's a pain in the rear to take the time to get freshened up and primped when the client probably won't really have time to notice that I look good. I only offer this option Mon-Fri from 10am - 2pm. The clients who request this option are looking for some sexual attention under the radar so they come see me during their lunch break. The time it takes to drive to me and back to work afterwards uses up a good percentage and stopping quickly to actually pick up something to eat takes up even more. How much time is left for hanky panky? About 15 minutes I'd guess. In my experience, it's rarely about money as was suggested earlier in the thread. In my opinion, these comments were completely uncalled for. I take great pride in what I do and I do it well. I can and have given quite amazing quickie sessions. I have a considerable amount of respect for myself as well as for my body and I would never be found on a corner. As for getting what you pay for, I've had clients tell me that I gave them a much more satisfying experience than they've had elsewhere and I did it in half the time or less. Granted the quickies are nothing compared to a full session but they do have their place in our community. One last thing... I'm curious. This reads as if to say unless you've been "trained" by agency (and I'm not familiar with this training. My old agency didn't offer any classes) you aren't an escort. If this is indeed what you were trying to convey then what are these un-trained ladies to call themselves? I have so much more to say on the subject and about the comments that have been posted. However, in the interest of peace I'll digress but before I do I'd just like to ask everyone to please remember that we're all human beings with our own unique thoughts, ideas and preferences. Suggesting or making insinuations about another's character based on how much time they decide to spend with a SP or on a SP for offering options/services that you don't feel comfortable offering (or for any reason) is just plain not right. Afterall..... We cum dumpsters have feelings too! :icon_mrgreen:

As a single unattached woman I've often heard throughout my single years, why aren't you married, why don't you have a boyfriend. Then comes the other question are you gay, lol. I guess if a girl is single some assume she might be gay?? I never understood that conclusion as gay men and women date, marry and couple. Anyway, it does appear that even today it's expected that we are all supposed to be coupled. Being single seems to leave the impression with some that the single person is somehow lost, not marriage material, incapable of finding a mate?? Whatever happened to choices, and that being single is a chosen position for many:)

That, and not having children. Many people cannot conceive of a life lived without marriage and especially without having kids. Many have never imagined that these things are choices, and treat them instead as unquestionable edicts. And many who will inquire about their absence with an initial air of kindness soon turn to condescension ("Oh, you'll change your mind!" "It's different when its yours!"). Then if you continue to explain your position, they take offense, as though by being secure in your own choices you are denigrating theirs. The world's full of all kinds of people. The most adult thing you can do in life is know yourself, and construct a life in accordance with your own nature. It's often harder than taking the better-traveled road, but I think it's much more rewarding to carve our your own.

It is notable that they seemed to be completely uninterested in the fact that these girls were running escort services - the charges were related to working in Canada with without authorization rather than the line of work they were in. The fact that border services was involved from the beginning would suggest to me that HRPD involvement was due to the specific people targeted by the feds rather than random local vice activities. This is perhaps one of the few cases were local police actually helped the local sex industry, if unintentionally: they got rid of illegal immigrant workers taking revenue away from legit local ladies trying to make a living. Interesting when you think about it.

Just came to read this thread for the first time and... OUCH people! Wow is all i can say to some of these responses. I used to regularly offer 15-minute encounters when I started in the industry. A lot of guys liked it as a 'quick introduction' and would book longer the next time. They NEVER made me feel cheapened or like cum dumpster. I don't offer them regularly anymore (I don't really offer anything less than an hour) because I personally prefer longer encounters - but I would never, EVER judge someone for wanting a quick release. And I definitely would never demean a woman for offering it. If you need more than 15 minutes, great! You're in a place where many ladies specialize in longer encounters. The 'full experience' so to speak. But some guys can only afford a quick bj. Or maybe their SO is watching their time so really that's all they can fit in. ANd maybe the SP needs to money to pay her rent. If it doesn't work for you, then find what works - but why in the world are people judging and saying things like 'Okay great, glad to see people don't want these encounters'. All you're doing in insulting the people who DO, and the girls who DO offer them. And you know what? I do have one regular gent who pops in when he can for a quick BJ. I like it. He walks in, I get on my knees, and I get him off. Do you think that cheapens me? If you do, I shake my head at you, seriously. I thought this site was the place to keep it to yourself if you're not saying anything nice... well judging and insulting others for their choice of encounters is doing the exact opposite.

I believe they have souls...my friend's dog passed away last week and here's a video of her other dog saying goodbye.. If you don't believe they have souls after this i don't know what to tell you.

Single not by choice, my wife for 25 years died of cancer. Since that happened of course I have struggled with whether to find another committed relationship, and have decided to lead a single life, I have my children and am comfortably well off. But at times I must admit to bouts of loneliness, and maybe having that companion to share life would be beneficial. Participating in this hobby is obviously enjoyable but the hour always comes to an end.

Living without kids, well my autistic nephew, and I love him to death, but after two trips this past year in a carload filled with family, including him. Well lets just say I'm glad I have no kids...how my brother and his wife do it I don't know. Not being married is right for me. And not having kids is right for me too No regrets RG

Professional companions aren't the issue, it isn't their marriage (sorry for terminology here, not judgement laden, everyone's marriage/relationship is unique) that they are having an affair on. If someone wants to be pointing fingers point fingers at the person who is stepping out. If professional companions were not available, then a married man would be having affairs with women who might want the man to leave his wife for her. If he does leave his wife, she gets hurt. If he doesn't, then the women he is having an affair with gets hurt. Seeing a companion, it is no strings attached, and may, if done discretely, keep a husband with his wife, because he has his companionship needs met. Professional companions do not really, if you think of it, threaten a marriage. As for being single, I know in all likelihood if I mentioned I see companions, probably someone would say "RG, I know a really nice girl for you"...yeah those pesky blind dates again. People would be surprised to know of the many nice girls I've met in this lifestyle, people just have to remember when it comes to sex, nice women and men do have sex. It's just instead of a promise of a ring and a relationship (those pesky strings again) the lady receives her donation A rambling RG

I have to agree; as a single guy (been single for years by choice) i've often had the same questions and remarks throughout my life - being asked if i was gay came up too lol. There is always a bit of surprise at first, then understanding, when i mention that one can be content in being single, free of attachment etc.

Everyday so many people wake up each day dreading the day ahead of them, they dread going to work, and facing all of their fellow colleagues That is not the same for me, I wake up every morning happy and eager to head to work I truly love what I do, and not a lot of people can say that about their career so although people may look down on me for my career choice at least I know that each day I go to work with a smile on my face

Writing love notes. Additional Comments: AND procrasturbating like a mutha....

I voted that I will do this for as long as I enjoy it. I really do have a lot of fun, meet some cool people, see some wonderful sights. But it's more than that for me too. I am not a good girlfriend, significant other, whatever. I have a serious issue with compromise, sharing, etc and that's why I live alone. But we all need companionship, we all need to feel needed, and we all need to feel worthwhile. That's why I enjoy it so much. It supplies me with all the companionship I need, I am completely fulfilled knowing I've made someone's day, week, or month a little happier, and I satisfy my need to be needed. You guys are much more than clients to me. You...each and every one of you I've had the pleasure to meet.... are my significant others, even just for a few hours. Love you all xo

I'm 'out' about being an escort in my personal life. When I meet new people, I test the waters before I tell them but I don't hesitate overly long. The issue I often face when meeting new people is something along the following. They say, "it's alright that you're an escort, but... your clients... aren't they kind of gross? Isn't it nasty to have to do things you don't want to do with people you aren't attracted to, or who are dirty?" I'm always really amazed that people say those sorts of things. I adore my clients, and I'm lucky to have had very positive experiences. They ask me lots of mean questions (i.e. about hygiene, weight, appearance, STIs, etc) as if this were a reason to stigmatize, or dislike, not my job as an escort, but rather the clients that seek my services... Ewwww seems to be their reaction. So I've done a few things to 'humanize' clients in the minds of the people I meet. I usually say, "Do you like your dad, brother, uncle, cousin?" "Well, of course", they say. "He's probably my most typical client", I respond. They are shocked. I say other things too, of course, but that's usually where I start... My question is for the clients on the board, if you could say anything to the people I talk to, what would you want to say about yourself? While I'm really good at defending my clients in these situations, I'm curious to see what other people would say if they could be open about their involvement on CERB.

I like the idea that no one in my "real" life would ever suspect that I have occasionally seen SP's and gone to SC's. It's my secret, and I treasure my experiences. I have one SP friend with whom we communicate via email, sharing ideas and thoughts. I think this site is a positive and respectful and open way of connecting with others. Someone coming here by accident might take a quick look and think "sleazy" but when you take the time to read the general threads, there is a lot of fascinating and insightful ideas going on. Agree that something within the social groups of getting to know a few people a little more would help to fill a void, but like most friendships, they need to develop over time. A private social group in CERB that isn't just open to the public might be a good place to share stories (while still being respectful of the SP's, of course).

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Prescription drugs are available only by prescription, right? So buying them over the internet is asking for trouble. There are tons of people claiming to sell stuff online. But really, where do they get it? Prescription drugs are strictly regulated. If the stuff they are selling is real, then it is either stolen or diverted from physician's samples. You can get your pills from your doctor or you can get them from some anonymous guy on the internet, who gets them from some other anonymous guy on the internet. Personally I trust my doctor over some internet goofball.

Yum Yum Yum, stop by and show me your...c cute bum! Tee Hee :P Wondering, when you see a tall blonde, do you smile at her or do you look her in the eye trying to seduce her? I like the guys who try to seduce me, why? because I like the challenge!!! ;P come challenge me tonight until 9PM or suffer until next week :)

Why go to heaven when all my friends are in hell? Lol

Heaven is what you make it to be. Dogs, cats, lovers, kids. Everything you loved will be in heaven with you. The more fun you live, the better heaven will be for you. That's my own personal philosophy. Right now, as I'm posting this, I'm watching Scooby Doo with my 3 year old daughter resting against my shoulder. This event one of many that I will relive over and over in my heaven.

I'm from Missouri (the show me state) so if there is a heaven (a whole other discussion) then sure dogs etc go to heaven. Perhaps I'll see my goldfish Flounder there. Peace MG

I find the strangest thing is how people look at me like I'm the bravest human being alive for living my life inspite of being single. I go out all the time to movies, restaurants, concerts, and I travel alone. When I'm telling somebody about what I've been up to and they ask with whom I did these things, and I tell them I went by myself, the look really astonished. People I know will often state that they would be terrified to do those things alone. I've been able to convince a colleague of mine (a divorced woman) that it is perfectly acceptable to go to the movies alone. She was so convinced that "everybody will stare" and "think you're weird". So now she goes to movies alone and enjoys it, and sounds quite impressed with herself. The even stranger thing is, most of my relationships end because I feel it's my partner who is holding me back and I get frustrated with them. I always want to go out and do things, and whatever woman I am dating just wants to stay in all the time.

I hope Heaven has a lot of trees, fire hydrants, parks, throw sticks, balls, chew toys, bones, kibble, beef (no pork please - makes my guy barf), blankets, grass (my guy loves the feeling of grass between his toes), cozy fireplaces, loving hands to give skritches, groomers, hugs. Whew - did I get 'em all?

Just enjoying the variety of the seasons (admittedly the fifth season is never as pretty...)

I am pretty sure my guy has a heart. He is sweet and gentle. He loves me and his sisters (cats). To have a soul is to have a heart, so to me....dogs do go to heaven. I hope to see my past pets there someday....but not soon I hope. The only dogs that don't go to heaven become hot dogs.

I have a friend who dislikes chocolate. Yet I don't know how many times I offer him some, thinking I'm being nice. Because I like chocolate so much and everyone else I know likes chocolate so much, I can't get my head around the fact that he doesn't. I've another friend who keeps trying to get me to watch various movies, promising each one is great and I'll surely love it. Yet each time I give in I invariably find them boring. What I'm saying is I think when people have an idea of what makes them happy it can be very difficult for them to understand that the same things aren't what will make you happy. This becomes especially true when the thing in question is something that most of society considers desirable. Being in a relationship is certainly one of those things that many people deeply want and consider key to their own happiness. So much of life is built around the idea that finding a partner is a key goal for life (consider how many movies and books have that as their plot!). Because of this--with the best of intentions--people will assume that everyone must share the same need to be in a relationship, and they'll either disbelieve or forget anything you say to the contrary. It happens because they care for you they want you to be happy, but unfortunately they confuse what makes them happy with what will make you happy.

What's even worse is friends and acquaintances, and giving them benefit of the doubt here, always wanting to fix you up on blind dates. I don't know how many friend of a friend was deemed perfect for me, yet when we met, there was absolutely no chemistry. And she was as uncomfortable as I was, both of us glad the date over. One positive of being a single man, makes me someone who can partake in this lifestyle guilt free :-) Some of the most lonely people I know are those in unhappy relationships And with a batting average of something like 54% divorce rate why are people such strong proponents of marriage for others. It may be right for some people, not everyone A rambling RG

O o: OOOOOOOOOOOOOO !! Good plan....everything else can wait till tomorrow pussycat ;) As for myself I am sipping on a beer thinking about Cleo procasturbating baby :) mmm hmmm

Procrasturbating

you mean freckle bitches? the burger shop lol

It happens a lot! I get the impression that when a gentleman tells another they do think they are doing the sp a favor, not a malicious deed or spreading gossip. BUT like others have said ask first, our information is only for US-the owners- to share and to share where and with whom WE choose. Because a gent is a cerb member doesn't make him more trustworthy, reliable, discreet or more likely to follow the rules. There are good and bad clients on all sites:( Nor does an online friendship allow you to truly know anyone. So as i'ts been said ONLY pass on information AFTER you have been given permission to or simply write a reco, then everyone can see that this is a lady you think highly of and think others should experience:)

Like Berlin, working as a provider is allowing me the ability to continue my education and work while studying without having to pull 40+ hour weeks on top of my classes (been there, done that, don't ever want to do that again). I have a goal in mind, but I also do not see myself magically leaving this business as soon as that goal is achieved. I enjoy providing companionship, and I could see myself continuing it past graduating and finding employment in my field of studies, albeit at a reduced availability. I do think this poll needs more than two options, as it is not always black and white ;)

I contacted her via e-mail as she has no number listed and she emailed back and said she does not give out a number and to email back to setup a time and place. I thought that was kind of odd so I never went any farther than that. I would like to hear if anyone has met her though... pics look pretty good as long as they are her.

Nathalie, I am surprised to learn of john sweeps in Canada not involving outdoor or public venues (such as massage parlours and strip clubs). I guess I'd better google that. I agree that it would be disastrous if the Swedish model were embraced by Canada, but I think the only thing that will defeat that, in any country, is the court. I have lost faith in the belief of destigmatization. As we see with the issue of race south of the border, no matter how hard you try to combat certain prejudices, you only succeed in driving them underground. Familiarity is the only thing that successfully defeats stigma, and if more customers were willing to be open with their families, friends and colleagues about being customers, then that might actually succeed in changing the most minds. Few customers are in a position to do that, though. Not because they fear the stigma, but because it would create serious complications. It's very hard to destigmatize a group that hides its face. For sure, when people ask me, I tell them that the only men I see are decent guys who I'm proud to know. But it's not like I can say, "For example, you know so-and-so? Well, he's my client." We can make the claim, but we can provide no evidence to back it up.

Not sure why he couldn't report her to the police. The police will help and want to know about ladies like this. I'm always amazed when guys think that the cops won't help. If he was robbed, this is a criminal offence and therefore she needs to be reported. I am also assuming she has been reported in the bait and switch area for other to know about?

Im with Tianna on this one. OTK Spanking..... Giddy Up. It always depends on mood, partner and situation tho. I would not bend over for just anyone..... ;)

Bra & panty set (Jessica Simpson) @ The Bay! FYI ladies, major lingerie sale going on till Friday :boobies:

This takes some talent. Wow!!

Photos that will make you look twice. I can't stop laughing at these pictures... every time I view them lol link to the rest of the photos: http://likes.com/weird/photos-that-will-make-you-look-twice?page=4

Nothing like actually calling up and verifying! They are not closed! They were just undergoing renovations!

24/7 and Halicuties are the same "agency" with the same number. Gentlemen please stay safe, do your research and Google phone numbers, as well as always check the warning section. Big Hugs, Lexy

Yes there is Skyy in Smiths Falls. She 38 and quite friendly. She offers massage and FS or both. I saw her in May or June and had a good time. She has an ad on BP right now in the Kingston section.