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Screening/verification isn't just unique to Halifax. I see ladies in London, Hamilton, Toronto, Kingston and Ottawa and they require verification (full name, board handle, phone, email, reference etc, ) The ladies are discrete and will not disclose your information to your wife, kids, family, business connections etc. That would be very unprofessional on their part, and one thing the ladies are, is professional, and discrete. They just want to ensure their safety by verifying who you are. I've lost count of how many companions received my personal information. My family, friends, co-workers and neighbours don't know nor have a clue that I partake in this lifestyle. That is because information collected by ladies is treated confidentially. And on the balance scale of life, yes your privacy is important. But the lady's safety is even more important. And she is being alone with a man intimately she doesn't know. If you don't trust the lady with your information, how can she trust you to be alone with intimately? And starting off an encounter for the first time with mistrust isn't a good way for two people to meet intimately My two cents RG

My post is not intended to insult you either and I can understand why anyone would want to save money BUT we are talking about a very sensitive subject and a business unlike any and a business that from one to another NO one can compare, nor should they want to. So to say because one charges $$ the other should and because it costs $$ in one city it should here. It sounds like you are the type who picks are a girl based more on her rates than any other criteria, so this posts leads me to believe. Which I find sad as many ladies that charge beyond the rate which you think is "fair" are made to feel as though, as you said, they are charging to much. Your last sentence I find well I'll just say funny!! If I charge less I'll get more business? NO! Back when I first dabbled in this business, back when the rate was 1/2 of what I now charge, I was told I had one of the best bodies out there, by men and women, and my service was very good as well. Back then men were still complaining and surmising as to how we should go about getting more business etc. So my point is-no matter what a lady has, no matter the quality of her service, no matter her location, or year, there will be someone complaining about how, where, when or why we should charge what we do, see this amount of clients, do things this way or that way, and it's always said by someone who isn't in the business, by a man, by someone who doesn't get that many of us are giving you a piece of ourselves, a very personal, honed, proudly offered, experience, well taken care of piece of ourselves. This " piece" isn't to be taken lightly nor should it's cost or value as it goes well beyond the dollar and it is and always will be incomparable, well at least to those who seek out a lady for more than just her hourly rate;)

For myself, if there is say 20 min remaining of our time, or IF I do have few moments I can spare to chat longer. I would lead you to a sitting area, or just have pillow chat. I often ask, " are you on a tight time schedule? Would you like to sit and chat? " I may offer a bottle of water or beverage. If I am pressed for time, then obviously if the hour is done, I will lead to where your shoes are, have a bit of chat and give you a passionate long kiss and hug, I would hope this is a nice way to indicate that I have other obligations . For the most part, SP's are very good with time management. Normally never booking appointments too close together, so that there is some wiggle room. I think you seem to be a very thoughtful Gentlemen to consider her feelings. There is no harm in asking while your there with her, such as " are you pressed for time, would you like to chat a bit? Get to know one another?" I am sure if she has time, it would be appreciated:) Especially when traveling as an SP, it can get rather lonely and boring....or the other way, extremely busy. She may then say" ohh would love to hun, but I have some commitments" Just look for small indicators, and simply asking is the best way to know:)

I must agree and thank you for taking the time to speak up. This question is not off to the best start. There is no "versus" between an SP or MA. They are both completely different experiences. There's being tactful and asking questions, but I get the impression as well the question was asked for members to explain why they do visit MA's, and for MA's to justify our services and rates? I think that's up to the OP to do his research, read the recommendations, and not challenge the activity and great feedback in the massage area. If I am approached in this manner by an inquiry, I will most likely not be booking with them.

After being on Cerb for over 3 years now. I've met many women from Cerb, of all sizes and races and ages. I've become on-line friends with many of them thou chat and PM's. I've also read most of the threads here and have come to the conclusion that the women that are the most successful and that I have had the best sessions with are women who truly love their work. I've learnt that some of these women started being an SP or MA due to personal circumstances. But have learnt that they actually enjoy doing this type of work and planned on doing it for as long as they can. These women enjoy giving and receiving pleasure and companionship. And as long as you are a gentleman and have good hygiene they welcome with you with open arms. And for the allocated time, they focus their attention on giving you companionship and pleasure. And if the chemistry is there and connection made. a friendship may be form where repeat encounters may occur with each one getting better and better as the comfort level and trust level form between two consenting adults. I have been lucky and have many encounters with kind loving women that I have continued contact with. Like any other job. If you truly love your work, and are good at it, success will come to you. This is a job where you can offer companionship and pleasure to men that are lonely or just lack the physical intimacy that humans need due to unfortunate circumstances. I am truly grateful to have met so many women that love their work and hope to meet many more. It really has changed my life. xoxoxox to all of you.

Cristy, thanks for the awesome laugh on this wonderful Friday. Very to-the-point and correct for the most part. I think that there might an element of fantasy at play, or the aspect of finding a hidden gem as has been pointed out and in particular the wishes for a university student. In reality, it takes a VERY special lady to be able to offer herself intimately to strangers and that's why you won't see hordes of hot university students jumping at the chance to have sex with us "old guys". Sorry to shatter anybody's perception of self but most 19 year old university students consider you an old fart if you're over 30 and wouldn't touch most of us with a 10 foot pole. LOL. Personally, I don't have a physical type so I find that selection and variety anywhere I've been including Halifax to be quite adequate in terms of my financial ability to partake. My advise is to open your horizons a little and allow yourself to experience ladies of all different sizes, shapes, colors and races. You might just be surprised at just how much "variety" is out there when you really look for it. Oh BTW......having a market (Halifax) filled with 100 ladies who are all 21 years old, 5'6" 115lb, white with brown hair is not having "variety". Just a thought ;)

I think the OP's question is better than people give him credit for. Three well-known and respected escort agencies offer a good variety of women at the $200/hr rate while the top massage spas are $180/hr, so the rates are not that different. The experiences are different, but often it comes down to the woman and what they're like. Some MA's offer amazing experiences that can be incredibly sensual without needing to be mileage based. In fact, sometimes they are more sensual because they're not about mileage. However, most MA's are not like that, and it's hard to imagine many (any?) sessions without kissing or lots of mutual touching being as much fun as ones that allow/encourage it. I think that's just the truth. I'm not as experienced on the SP side, but I have found some very sensual escorts who enjoy sessions that naturally evolve without following a menu. In short, a GFE MA session can be great, but there's a decent chance it might not be, while an escort will provide more things but may not be as naturally sensual. I think it really comes down to the individual woman.

I'll tell you, when I grow up ;)

Screwvenir anything you keep (either given or stolen) from someone's house after you've slept with them.

So true!!

Was looking forward to spending some time with Lyka and she was conve niently located. I was not disapointed. When she opened the door - well.....she's a very beautiful woman and the pics really don't do her justice. A very nice. relaxing time.

I already have a super power... Power of seduction! Is all Ineed!

I'm so thrilled! There has been so much interest in a good old fashioned gangbang on November 21. So now comes the important part. I need FIRM confirmations. I am leaning toward the 7pm time slot however if I get more FIRM yeses for 330 then that it a possibility. It is EXTREMLY important that you only confirm if yu are 100000% sure you can come. The price is dependant on the number of participants. Basically, if i get too many no shows I will not hesitate to cancel. If it goes well I look forward to many many more! So, let me know when you know. Hoping to be able to confirm the event soon! 613 415 5533

There has been some discussion about SP vs MA in the past... There is no such a compaeison between SP and MA services as they are both different... there is not one better than the other.. they are simply different and both are worth what they both offer... rates can range between 120 to 180 depending on the lenght of the appointment (thats an average being indy or working for a spa) My suggestion to find out whether MA services are or not for you... is to take the plunge... like many others that were non MA believers did... and you may be surprised ;-) ;-) .... you can ask some that did ;-)

IMO it depends on what you are looking for. Sometimes I'm in the mood for an SP, other times I'm in the mood for an MA. Once in a while the line becomes a bit blurry and you see one but end up with an experience that you consider to be more in line with what you expected from the other. Some of the MAs, and I say some because I haven't seen a great quantity of them, are so good at what they do that they keep you on edge for so long that you find yourself wishing it didn't have to end in spite of the relief you get from the conclusion. Slammer Posted via Mobile Device

I think everyone goes out sometimes. I'm not sure what let loose means but I don't think anyone prevents themselves from living because they are an SP or an MA. It's a rule that if you recognize an SP or MA while you're out and about that you don't approach them, the same goes for an SP or MA who recognizes a client out in public. We keep our distance, pretend we don't know each other, and perhaps send a PM or an e-mail to be like "Hey! I saw you!" in a not-so-creepy way ;) Alternatively, (and if more appropriate), you don't e-mail or PM at all... especially if there wasn't mutual recognition or you've never met the person privately.

Anybody seen her? Her ad sounds good an the price is right. I have a hard time resisting a good massage.

Hmm...this thread has been quiet. Let's see, women like looking at recipes, right? ;)

Inside the world of a male sex worker: 'I don't have clients hiring me just to hold their hand' http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/inside-the-world-of-a-male-sex-worker-i-dont-have-clients-hiring-me-just-to-hold-their-hand/story-fnet0gt3-1226759825890

Olderguy, our very own OG! Congrats on the milestone. I expect you'll be hitting the thousand count pretty soon, perhaps before Christmas. Keep on keeping on!

As a young hatchling I grew up watching my heroes on television. I wanted to be an astronaut after watching the Mercury, Gemini and Apollo missions. That was replaced by secret agent after watching The Saint, Mission Impossible, I Spy and The Man from U.N.C.L.E. I grew out of the spy business and graduated to LA Law and The Lawyers. The dream of being someone who screws people for money stayed with me throughout high school and college. Higher learning broadened my horizons. I considered a teaching career until I found out what teachers earn! Back to the dream of law went I. Then I graduated. After school, reality took hold. I found work as a means to earn money to live & play. Despite my education, I drifted from occupation to occupation. I've been a cab driver, a bar tender, a private detective (my spy fantasy), a truck driver, dish washer, porn store cashier, shipper, buyer, materials manager, planner, systems analyst, financial analyst and finally I returned to my most enduring aspiration, the law. I got into commercial law and became a contracts manager. The path I took was circuitous but in the end it led me back to the law. I don't litigate but I negotiate. And that, to me, is the next best thing.

Oh my , I bet I got the last spot! Lucky me.

I have to disagree on the statement that GFE is in a gray area, as it has nothing to do with services offered but rather an experience.., about feelings that arise from an encouther being MA or SP...

Oh, and a handy little tip. Do not roll over and grab that phone by the bed to check the time. I'm in the habit of doing this at home. Momentarily forgot where I was once with a dear lady and picked up the wrong phone. I've never seen her move so fast! I apologized at the time and I apologize again. I made a mental note to never, ever touch any phone, even my own, until I'm headed for the door.

Good going - keep posting!

I have been fortunate in this issue. A provider once told me that the time management of our rendez vous was on her...hers to get me in and out within the time booked...and that I shouldn't worry about it. That said I always make myself aware of the time and make a move or gesture to say that I know it's time to leave, and sometimes it just flows and I'm gone...and sometimes I really do have to be somewhere else. However I am sort of a "regular" type with a couple of ladies and on occasion have been asked "what's your rush", or told "you wont turn into a pumpkin" if you stay a little longer....and it's nice. I dont "worry" too much about it now...I am tuned in to the vibe of our time together and just go with the flow, and that feels good

tineye has 19 locations here's her bp ad http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/better-than-the-rest-24/1631086

Ooh, fun! As a young child I was in the same boat as 2Legit who posted about wanting to be a garbage man. With some of the places and bosses I've formerly worked for in the restaurant biz I sometimes wonder if said places/bosses had the same dream and never quite grew out of it? Which is why I refer to them as being in the FORMER category As I grew older, and testosterone started to play a larger role, I decided I should be a professional wrestler. Seems my intelligence may have peaked as a pre-pubescent, at least I got hair in strange places out of the deal! As I have grown as an adult I have decided that I should not let my career or chosen profession define me as much as it has in the past. I doubt I'll stay in the same field, but it'll do for now

PrettyPaige was all class and very beautiful. We shared a wonderful encounter with simplicity and passion. If this your game then PrettyPaige is the right Woman for you. Hurry back Paige!

With the right attitude, this job can be lots of fun which is why I am still here after all those years. The other day one of my SP friends emailed me a list of things she likes about her job. It is a long list. Have fun everyone! There are many worse jobs out there.

Reading people's minds is not something that interests me....I'm not sure I want to know what others are thinking. However dogs are another story. When they're sitting there, heads cocked to the side and those inquisitive eyes looking right at me....or whining/whimpering for no apparent reason. I would love to know what they're thinking!

Well you may be older but what firm what i gather, you ain't old! Not even after this birthday. Have a good one!

Congrats ! :)

Nice work, sir! Keep them coming.

Good afternoon, Just a brief moment to say thank you for a lovely time in Kingston. I look forward to visiting again soon. xoxo Emily

First point is bang on, so that's the biggest difference in 'MA vs SP' - what service are you looking for? :) Second point doesn't include the in-room tip though... most spas will charge 50-80 door fee for a one-hour massage, but that doesn't include your hostess tip which could be anywhere from 80-140 (or more or less, I'm just giving a general idea but can't speak for the lovely spa attendants myself :) )

Professional and very skilled. I'd recommend and will repeat.

Older lady smoker gives a fantastic massage you'll leave very relaxed and drained worth a visit.

Whether I am working or off, I live my life the same. However after what happened in April, my life is a bit more under an umbrella so to speak - but that being said not much has changed. I go out, I have fun and I live each day to its fullest. If I see you in public I will not approach you and I expect the same in return.

I live my life as anyone else. . Gi where u want to go., do what I want to do... why would It be different than if I was working at a lawyers office., or for the government... or any other profession...

I personally love to go out dancing and that hasn't stopped since I've become an SP I myself have gone to the Casino a few times and have seen clients of mine while I was there and once we made eye contact we both respectfully smiled and looked away I believe most if not all of us have enough respect not to approach a client or and SP/MA

Really, that question is equally applicable to companions (SPs/MA) and Clients if you think about it. Etiquette as noted by Nathalie is to not acknowledge a lady or gentleman if you run into her/him outside of an encounter. Just walk by each other and pretend you don't know one another. Ladies shouldn't worry about clients outing them. And guys shouldn't worry about ladies outing them either We all respect (or should respect) that we all have lives outside this lifestyle and it should be respected RG

I think this is an appropriate thread to share this on... Now, I enjoy looking at pictures of women as much as the next person (as anyone who follows the various image threads probably knows!) but it's good every so often to have a reminder about what is sometimes taking place with those images, especially in popular media. A lot of us have probably seen similar stories, but this 1 minute video really drives home the manipulation happening to showcase a particular (and near unattainable) idealized view of the female body, and the importance of reminding oneself of the variety of real beauty out there. http://www.upworthy.com/see-why-we-have-an-absolutely-ridiculous-standard-of-beauty-in-just-37-seconds

I am so sad right now. My big boy Vinny is in unexpected surgery right now after a trip to the emergency vet clinic for something that I thought wasn't going to be a big deal. He's pretty tough and resilient, so I have a lot of hope that he will be alright, but it still sucks. He's the friendliest cat I've ever met in my whole life, and a pile of playful fluffy cuddly sucky awesomeness. My animals are like my children, so when they are sick or sad, I feel it too. :( Here's him cuddling with Milo: And here he is playing it cool after he got stuck in a pair of my underwear while playing in the laundry: And the infamous "Bros" photo: Please send hugs our way for Vinny's successful surgery and speedy recovery. :)

Since this is the massage thread, does Shannon offer Massages with MP rates or SP rates?

Summer is a genuine Ottawa girl. She has a great sense of humour, is comfortable with herself and within minutes makes her guest feel the same. Paradise is a very clean and modern facility in a small commercial mall. Upon entering you are greeted by a receptionist - much like going to a hair salon. The rooms are tastefully decorated in warm tones - I suppose they are slightly masculine - browns and coffee colours. The in room shower is clean (the ladies clean them after every use) and the towels are fresh and plush. There is always lots of body wash and shampoo (Old Spice body wash - so no nee to worry about smelling of a ladies perfume after). The lighting is not too dim, although I imagine that it can be dimmed. The massage tables are sturdy and covered with towels that are changed after each guest. There is a professional tanning bed in one of the rooms and it might be an option for "post massage" as it is not advised to take a shower right after a tanning session. I arrived without an appointment and was pleased to hear that I would be having a taste of Summer (winter has been too long). She offered me a shower to start and turned on the water so that it would be warm. A few minutes later she returned and started a deep tissue massage. She is very skilled at finding muscle knots and worked to relieve them. Throughout we had a great conversation and I was genuinely at ease. I left relaxed and refreshed. I will certainly repeat at Paradise (in fact I have been there several times before seeing Summer) but this time I will book in advance to make sure that I see Summer (enough of winter already)!

Always interesting to see how people's opinions vary. I guess I'd draw the line at food-stained sweats or dirty clothes, but beyond that, I can't think of much beyond my chosen SP wearing what she likes to wear to meet me. Jeans? I'm cool with that. Dress? Yup. Skirt? Sure! Nothing? Yowsa! That being said, if it was an outcall, I would be a little taken aback if she showed up in Victoria's Secret...