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I highly doubt everyone on here has one, or why would we all be on here, lol! I don't have one. I *have* had fuck buddies in the past, and the thing to keep it mind is a fuck buddy rides a very thin line into 'relationship'. They tend to start as easy sex, but then you start to sleep over... go for breakfast... text off and on... all of those things that make seeing escorts clean and simple, rather than dating. Many 'fuck buddy' relationships I've had have ended just as messy as relationships, because one, or both, of the people develop feelings toward one another.

From a ladies point of view I think P411 is great. It is becoming more and more popular and its one of the screening methods I encourage to new guests without a reference. I used it for the last few years and have found it easy to use as well as the gentlemen I know that have used the site to be verified mentioned is was easy and worth it.

I would like very much to believe that it is simply because the general population is becoming more enlightened, more aware. Monogamy is not natural. Those who believe it is need to recognize that strict sexual fidelity is a lofty but perhaps fundamentally doomed aspiration. Just look at the rise in divorces, and the number of "celeb" stories about infidelity. Tiger Woods was ridiculed for his multiple sex partners. Justin Bieber gets thrown to the media wolves for hiring a sex worker. Looking at mammals alone (as yes, even we humans are animals), 3-5% practice some form of monogamy, and even then there are limits. Even Emperor Penguins mate with one penguin for a year, and then move on. :) From a chemical and biological standpoint, sexual monogamy depends not just on particular hormones that are released in the brain, but on receptors for these hormones. Among humans, we have the chemicals and the receptors, but it varies from person to person how much we have. Based on brain wiring alone, inclination toward fidelity can vary dramatically from one individual to another. Quite simply, SEX is as necessary to humans as eating and breathing. And with the apparent surge in the swingers lifestyle, I am thrilled to think that couples, who chose to be together on the long term, have realized that while their hearts are committed to each other, they can still explore their sexual fantasies without "cheating". What's more, it VERY often ends up teaching them trust in each other, increasing communication between them, and improving their own PERSONAL sex life tenfold!!! Women and men BOTH have a desire to "stray" or "explore". Swinging allows couples to do just that, and what's more, they can do it TOGETHER.

Just wanted to add my 2 cents, as i have been an MA for approx. 3 years now and a former independent SP I of course respect both professions equally. I feel that MA & SP are different in their own sensual and amazing ways. Both can be seductive and thrilling experiences ! I however for my own reasons; prefer the MA world only because I love the whole build up and sensuality of the massage, the connection between my client and I and the seductiveness of the whole experience. This is what i seek, and enjoy it thoroughly ! Both are wonderful worlds to explore ! Variety is the spice of life!

Hey boys ... come and spice up your day with me at the Paradise Spa in Ottawa .. I'm here till 9pm tonight .. pm me or just call 613-820-8887 to book ! I'll be waiting for you xxx

Took a nice long drive through Val Des Monts today and then went to Poutinefest.

I disagree that seeing an SP is a good option for a younger guy. I don't really prefer the younger guys. If I did, I could make a fortune, because it seems, in recent years, they're starting younger and younger. I think this is because we're becoming more of a consumer society. Young people think first to buy what they want, rather than to live the life. In a way, that's really sad. For many years, I wouldn't see younger men because I didn't want to "become the crutch that cripples." In other words, I always felt that, by relying on the service of SPs, young men were able to take an edge off that otherwise might have compelled them to develop the skills and qualities they'd need to form more profound relationships with women. But I think all that's out the window these days. We've become a zombie culture, stiffly trudging from one immediate urge to another with our credit cards in hand. It will probably get worse before it gets better. My preference is for a man who's walked a fair track of life, who brings a heart that has loved well, and who knows himself well enough to admit how much he has yet to learn.

Wanted to discuss something personal away from my Routine SP.. tra la la :-) Yeah I do have personal relationships and Yeah I do date.Anyways.... Okay, so recently I met a guy that I thought I liked, and I assumed that he liked me, earlier today we hooked up a little (fingering and a lot of french kissing, sex kinda happened but he lost his erection quickly). Anyway, I asked him to go down on me and he refused, saying that I'm a squirter and that I get too wet, I'm mildly insulted, to say that least. Now I'm trying to figure out what I should do with this guy, and if any other females here have ever encountered this.

Considering the recent discussions here on CERB about fat/skinny body shaming, I wanted to share this amazing website that I came across today! "The Nu Project is a series of honest nudes of women from all over the world. The project began in 2005 and has stayed true to the original vision: no professional models, minimal makeup and no glamour. The focus of the project has been and continues to be the subjects and their personalities, spaces, insecurities and quirks." It is quite a remarkable collection of photographs of a wide variety of real women. It is a showcases and celebrates the beauty in ALL women's bodies, in their natural state. All unique and beautiful in their own way! :) www.thenuproject.com Enjoy!

Hello everyone,I don't know if i posted this in the right section but I'm looking for an appartment furnished in Ottawa. If you have any suggestions as to where to look or no someone who is interested in renting long term please pm me with the info.Thank you BJ xxx

Congrats Oldguy on your 500+ post achievement !

Congratulations Tracie on your 1k posts, I always enjoy reading your input in threads here, and enjoy reading your blog/web site, oh and yes our tweets :) Continue on Tracie!! you are a great contributor to this board!

To the Queen of my Nova Scotia Wet Dreams, Ms. Midnite-Massage, CONGRATULATIONS on the 1000 post milestone. You are a warm, caring, enlightened and humorous contributor here and a wonderful and supportive friend. Bring on the next 1000! This is the one time I feel comfortable using your signature saying.... !RAWR! to you!!!

For those who havent met me,My name is Maya,The GreekGoddess MA ,and Im here to Accommodate your wants,and needs.For those whom met me,well you know me.I also provide Gspot Stimulation for the Gents interested in this service! -I am an easy going person,down to earth,open minded girl,easy to approach.. -My Recos Range from Ottawa,Montreal,and Toronto. -My Rates i believe is quite reasonable and fair,you wont be disappointed,only happy about it.[/color] -My session are ALL INCLUSIVE 130 for 30mins, 45mins 160,and 1 hr 180!! All these services include bodyslide reverse and fun fun FUN!Wink!!! My description is;Long raven black hair,beautiful alluring eyes,olive skin,5'3,nice A&T This week Schedule:Monday to friday from 330-11pm!! Sat from 1-9pm! -Looking foward meeting you pervs! -For Booking call 274-7073 Or you may Pm me personally! **Je parle francais Aussi!!!!**

I use P411 myself and I am a paid member on P411 it is valuable site for some gents that may travel to other Canadian cities, or down to the USA. I have met some great reputable providers through the site, and I will continue to be a paid member on their site. The screening process is very easy, and when are verified or okay by other providers, it just makes the next appointment so much easier for booking appointments. I realize that not all ladies use P411 but it does have its advantages for the lady and gents, another venue to advertise for the ladies,and a screening program in place and the gents are able to view the ladies. :)

Hello Gents! Hope you all enjoyed your weekend ! Lets get you feeling great about your week ahead with some sensual & erotic pleasure My new schedule for this week is posted below, check it out ! Looking for a sensual yet seductive experience with an MA Goddess ? Well you have cum to the right lady for you! I am beautiful not only on the outside but the inside too! Beauty & Brains! what a bonus . I love to tease and please! I value the favour of being equally pleasured. Sounds like fun doesnt it ? Cum feel my touchably silky, soft, smooth skin, round firm behind, firm naturally 36C big luscious boobies and fully relax & enjoy the erotic pleasure of my services. I invite you to explore true passion & eroticism with me, lets go on some new adventures that will surely take your mind and body on a trip to paradise. UPDATES: -Very New V.I.P. Package ! -Halloween Photoshoot Pictures, Coming soon ! -Brand New Personal Website Coming Soon -Extended New Work Hours !!! A LITTLE BIT ABOUT MYSELF: My Appearance: 23 year old, long haired brunette, dazzling sexy hazel eyes, lightly tanned, silky smooth skin, I stand at 5'3, 125lbs with curves in all of the right places, 36C perfect tittys!, gorgeous face features and i am Italian & French of nationality. My Personality: very outgoing, playful, sensual, erotic, seductive, naughty, bubbly, sweet, kinky, classy, talkative, sweet, caring, intelligent, respectful, dis*creet and open minded ! WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT IN A SEXY SESSION WITH ME : -erotic sensual & seductive nude massage -great conversation & atmosphere -An ending that is sure to leave you more than happy! -reverse massage -duo massage (2 girls, 4 hands) -soapy showers for 2 -topless massage -multiple experiences -pearl necklace/russian release -cob -dirty talk -foot fetish/worship -strip tease/lap dance/pole tease (if requested) -fetish's & role play (if requested) -outfits, heels, stockings, exotic wear/lingerie (if requested) Feel free to message me if you have any questions in regards to my services! My Very New V.I.P. Package: Only for the discerning, classy and upscale gentleman at my discretion. My package includes several different services combined into one package for one price! All services depend on comfortability together and are YMMV! I recommend a 45-60mins session to fully enjoy each others company, relaxation and un-rushed play time. For more information regarding the services please text or pm me. Fees: (Door Fees Only): 30mins: $50 45mins: $60 60mins: $80 PLUS tipping in the room (Please PM/Text me) (Door fee rates for duo massage also available, please PM/Text me) Location: (Monday-Friday) Merivale & Hunt Club. (Incalls Only). Angels Touch. Clean, discreet, upscale & professional. ATM on-site, Free parking, fresh towels, a/c & heat, nice showers in each room & hygienic products for you & I both. Schedule for this week: Wed. Nov. 18th-Fri. Nov. 22nd: Mon: 10am-7pm (TODAY) Tues: 10am-9pm Wed: 10am-9pm Thurs: 10am-4pm Fri: 10am-7pm EMAIL. PM. CALL. TEXT Me for more information or to book your sexy session with a TRUE BEAUTY! 613-600-3943 (no blocked calls pls) [email protected] Personal Website: taylordevine.escort-site.com Angels Touch: 613-274-7074 Paradise Spa: 613-820-8887 Recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...=taylor+devine CRAVE TAYLOR BOYS! XOXO MUAHS! CIAO FOR NOW!

Congratulations on reaching 1000! You have been an outstanding contributor so far and I am looking forward to reading more! You always seem to put lots of thought behind what you write which makes your posts interesting to read. Have a great week!!!

If you want pictures of regular women, try http://www.reddit.com/r/gonewild where women and men post naughty pictures of themselves. For the uninitiated, an F or M in the title usually gives away whether it's a guy, girl or a couple. Something along the lines of "{F}eeling frisky in the shower" for example. To be honest, I think gonewild is about 99% women now since there are other gonewild subreddits that are more specific. For example: http://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildcurvy (for more curves) http://www.reddit.com/r/ladybonersgw (for the ladies) http://www.reddit.com/r/GWCouples (for the amateur pornographers) In any event, it's all real people posting naughty pictures of themselves without the aid of professional lighting, makeup, hair and post processing.

Congrats Tracie on reaching your first 1000 post, keep up the good work!

Rawr- woot, congrats:) Keep them cumming Tracie, you are a very deserving, appreciated and involved member-thank you for your participation and friendship. I look forward to many more of your posts.

Congrats Tracie - I always enjoy your posts and look forward to many more. Rawr! xoxo

Congrats on 1000 ! I very much enjoy reading your posts ! Whether it be helpful and insightful posts, funny posts or naughty posts ;) Ohhhh behave.....

congrats and keep them coming

Miss Midnite!! :biggrin: I always love reading your sexy and insightful posts! Keep em comin! :cooter: xoxo

E is for eating that daring darling mmmm

Awesome achievement. Great posts :-)

V is for V ( The alien series) :-)

There IS an existing market for both MA's and SP's ! :) I gleefully respect both and those who optimistically seek them. Cheers to diversity! And cheers to keeping it rosey!

As someone who is still on the fence about who to see, or even if I want to see anyone, I can give you a little insight into my own issues (for lack of a better word) and why I might post a thread like that. I haven't, and probably won't as I've decided the only real way to make a decision is to contact the lady I choose directly and work things out. (or not, depending) A lot of you have touched on many of the reasons I would post one of those threads already, but I'll list them here. Maybe it will help let you know why some people need to ask questions. Nervousness - Being both new, as well as having low self esteem, I might ask who to see because I would want to make sure that whoever I see will make me feel comfortable and not feel judged. I might be hoping to find someone who was in the same boat who could give advice as to which SP they found would make me feel most comfortable. Having a good experience - As was pointed out by someone, I would want my first experience to be an enjoyable one, so I might be asking just to reassure myself that the lady(ies) I have picked out will be a good fit. Sometimes you can't get that from reviews. (especially if the review is written like a play-by-play of sexual positions with little else added in) Too many choices (this one wouldn't be for me yet, due to geographical location) - I can see how someone might be overwhelmed with choices. Every woman here on CERB is beautiful, but maybe someone might be looking to narrow things down a bit, maybe looking for a bit more insight into the lady's character in order to make a short list based on what they are looking for. (If I could do it, I would spend time with every lady on here :) ) Bait and switch / horror stories - Until I started finding sites like CERB I never really thought about this possibility, but now that I am aware of it I am a little more leery of things. Some guys might be looking for reassurance that the lady they have picked is going to be who they think they are. Not enough time to do the research - Not really an excuse, but if someone is traveling they might try to do some research on their own, but in the end might decide it is easier just to ask others. I can't see this being an issue for me personally, as all my traveling is planned well in advance, but you never know, it might happen some time that I will have to take an unexpected trip and decide I would like to see a lady while there. These are some of my main concerns, and why I might ask advice on who to see. However having said that I am of the opinion that the best way to narrow things down is to look at the lady's posts if possible, website as well, and if things look good from that aspect, contact the lady herself. I think those are really the only way to make an informed decision. (and even that isn't infallible)

I love to slip and slide too :) Check out another review: "Salina is THE Polish Princess in Ottawa. Her exotic look, porcelain skin, kissable lips are very enticing. Her massage is very good, able to go from hard to soft when she feels the need. Her body is soooooo pretty, erotic and sensitive. Great ability to put folks at ease, and makes you feel like you are the only one in the world when together with her. Not to be missed. Paradise Spa is where she works, very easy to get to, clean, bright, safe and managed very well. Can't wait to play again!!!!" Working until ( tonight

My father was suppose to have one of his kidney remove on Friday...operation didn't happen because they think he may have bladder cancer...my grandmother died of this. FML

I met this sexy young women 2 times. All I can say is you will not be disappointed. Very very sexy very attractive and eager to please I will be seeing her again and highly recommend her. Posted via Mobile Device

Congratulations OldGuy! Thanks for all your contributions.

Zoe D... Would be my choice!

Just want to start by saying that I have had many public run ins with clients-and I have to say 98% of them are just as private about our encounters as I am, and they all handle themselves accordingly ;) as do I :) Here is a story on what NOT to do when you run into an sp in a public setting. I was at the casino last year with a gf of mine. We had a very nice time. About a week or so after-I meet with a regular client of mine-who indicates to me that: 1) Was with his friends and he saw me 2) Told his friends how he knew me and what I do 3) Tried to find me-looked all over the casino-so he could introduce me to his friends as an sp Thank GOD-he did not find me that night. When he told me this-I could not believe it...His intentions were not meant to be bad-however I feel humiliated that he just spit out that info about me-that these guys know who I am as VANESSA VALE-yet I have no clue as to who they are or what they look like. IT was super invasive. And no offence, but also scary when someone can act so stupidly carless when it comes to discretion. He thought this would benefit me financially. I would rather starve and have my lights turned off than expose myself as an sp to whomever, because just like our clients, many of us ladies have to keep this hush hush too ;) It would be just as bad as me pointing out to my friends who I spend time with as an sp....privacy is important for both parties.

My post is not intended to insult you either and I can understand why anyone would want to save money BUT we are talking about a very sensitive subject and a business unlike any and a business that from one to another NO one can compare, nor should they want to. So to say because one charges $$ the other should and because it costs $$ in one city it should here. It sounds like you are the type who picks are a girl based more on her rates than any other criteria, so this posts leads me to believe. Which I find sad as many ladies that charge beyond the rate which you think is "fair" are made to feel as though, as you said, they are charging to much. Your last sentence I find well I'll just say funny!! If I charge less I'll get more business? NO! Back when I first dabbled in this business, back when the rate was 1/2 of what I now charge, I was told I had one of the best bodies out there, by men and women, and my service was very good as well. Back then men were still complaining and surmising as to how we should go about getting more business etc. So my point is-no matter what a lady has, no matter the quality of her service, no matter her location, or year, there will be someone complaining about how, where, when or why we should charge what we do, see this amount of clients, do things this way or that way, and it's always said by someone who isn't in the business, by a man, by someone who doesn't get that many of us are giving you a piece of ourselves, a very personal, honed, proudly offered, experience, well taken care of piece of ourselves. This " piece" isn't to be taken lightly nor should it's cost or value as it goes well beyond the dollar and it is and always will be incomparable, well at least to those who seek out a lady for more than just her hourly rate;)

I have only experienced it twice but i enjoyed both times very much. The first time the girl didn't know what had happened but i enjoyed it. Having it happen means i am doing a good job. Thats what i want. Having a girl enjoy herself with me is as big if not bigger than me cumming. Women are so beautiful lets show we appreciate them.

I've discovered for me that sex without chemistry is pretty "blaw" and I have little interest in it. So for me it's that there is a strong "real" chemistry and genuine mutual attraction between a lady and I. Physical attributes play very little role for me. Mentally, if we're a good match then the laughter and sense that we feel like old friends seems to come easily. I guess that ladies I have visited with the most on a return basis have all openly expressed that they actually enjoyed our time together as much as I did. That inherently makes me feel good and want to return.

Carmella is very frequently at Barbs. Very pretty, lovely company.

Do hobbiests know how nice it is to hear that it's not all about them? Believe me...THAT'S a turn on for sure.

I've seen her picturs are real wasn't the best I've had wasn't the worst either I'd go back and see her she was friendly her place was clean

Democracy is rife with "what ifs". Who moderates who? Who is to be trusted to be impartial and unbiased? This is an online, virtual, anonymous community. I would not want to be in charge of finding anyone perfect enough to meet the requirements of monitoring this board, as there is not one participant that doesn't have biases and self interest at hand, while still pleasing the masses that seem to demand their perception of perfection instead of practical application. Given the pettiness, immaturity and nonsense I have seen on the board lately, I would gladly choose to have MOD continue as always and permanently ban the whiners, complainers and shit disturbers. The manipulation and games would push anyone over the fragile edge. I know many "valued" participants would be gone but it would give CERB a fresh start and I for one would be glad to see them go. MOD is constantly taken for granted by both hobbiest and SP alike. Has anyone ever thought of what would happen if CERB were shut down? I mean literally, off the air. Having this board is a privilege not a right. It costs nothing to participate and we all gain from it, but it costs $$$, time, heart and soul to run it. This whole "democracy" issue should have never happened. Who has the right to question and complain about MODs decisions to begin with? It's his board, which means his game, his rules!!! He has the right to make decisions without backlash or complaint from anyone in any form. If you don't like his decisions, LEAVE. There are other boards out there for you to participate on. Don't like those, start your own board. To all of those who have pushed MOD to this, those who complained and pitched hissy fits, give your head a shake, grow up and get a life. You have brought this on CERB. It would serve all those involved if MOD decided to simply close up shop and move on to something that doesn't require hyperbaric sensory deprivation treatments to maintain his sanity. You know who you are. All of you who chose to PM him, giving him a hard time about bans and suspensions. All of you who question his decisions. All of you who take petty squabbles to him instead of being an adult and taking the high road. All of you who feel it's more important to be right than it is to be happy. Life doesn't always work out the way you want it to. Accept it and move on. For those who have been banned, take responsibility for your part in it and....move on. Perhaps if some apologies and self policing were implemented, this would all go away. Use a little common sense and empathy from now on and maybe all of this can be resolved without complicating life any more than it already is. cat