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Signs that you've spent too much time on Cerb: You overhear a nearby person make an interesting observation and automatically yell out "thanks". Your friends notice that you've stopped complaining about bad experiences with restaurants, movies, and sporting events and only share which ones you'd recommend. When you go somewhere new you don't feel like you can be fully involved until you've said at least five things. Instead of just thinking happy thoughts your immediate reaction to seeing a picture of alluring eyes, a best bum, beautiful lingerie, an appreciated redhead, loved boobies, or awesome abs is that you better login and share it. You notice a couple people shouting at each other and warn them they should wait for more people to speak in between them or they may get in trouble. You're looking through the alphabet books in a bookstore and think the theme or word choices are very boring. Your boss sends you 100 emails and you automatically congratulate them on their contributions. Someone complains that they weren't allowed into an event and your first thought is to ask them about their hygiene. When watching the Lord of the Rings, the Eye of Sauron reminds you a little of MOD (err...only in the look of the avatar, not the whole personality of ultimate evil thing...) Hmm, did I miss any? :)

Hey I read lots and lots of profiles.... men's and women's....thats why they are public so people can read them...ok now why... - seen their posts so I want to know more about them - Saw their name on my profile - Saw their name on the page of a friend or a lady that I am interested in. But mainly because I am a nosey bastard

I haven't had the pleasure to do so with an SP before, but it is most certainly on my wish list. I did have a girlfriend who I had a lot of fun with in this, both being the one uncuffed and the one restrained. I found both sides of it extremely erotic. We had a velcro kit, something like that pictured below. It was easy to put on and take off (if you just want the illusion of being bound, you don't have to attach it very much), and you had some control over how much slack to allow. The experience can be as sensual, teasing, or passionate as the couple enjoys, and I'd recommend anyone give it a try!

Part of the joy for me Kylie is that I do want to hear from the wonderful ladies I see :) and Many I do ...Still no strings attached. Random and fun is good.....I get enough birthday wishes. but must be understood between the parties. If it is by email I will get it in a month. Regardless of the way of contact, un-written rules and exceptions. I have always looked at it as if I get caught....I get caught. I made my choices in this lifestyle, and chose whom I wanted to see, how we were in contact, and if I made a bad choice and shit hits the fan . Look in the mirror Lee. Start there.

No ID may mean under age but just to play devils advocate... Wouldn't a strange man asking for ID scare the beejesus out of an inexperienced young SP say 18 to 22 who is new at this and scared to death of getting busted by an undercover cop. I wouldn't be showing mine so easy if I was her. That could be a very scary thing. Another thing you should all know is we have emailed back and forth a couple times and she used an email which showed her real name (which I told her wasn't cool and that she should be more cautious and get an anonymous email... anyway. I went on my facebook and searched her name and found her. It was definitely her. I recognized the background in one of her pictures and she was in a bar that I know well. The bars aren't like they use to be and unless you look 50, if you have no ID, your not getting in.

Just to let everyone know, Elise Pm'ed me and gave a very valid reason for the lack of response. It's all good!

Doesn't high-end mean better quality? I honestly just don't get why some think having rates like the ones brought up by the OP ($1000) is what makes a provider high-end. I have been to places with affordable prices who I would consider high-end based on how great they treated me as a customer and also have been to businesses with less affordable prices that I would not consider high-end as I never felt like I was treated the way a client should be treated. I may be wrong but my opinion is, going back to this line of work that the amount someone charges, the clothes one wears, how much make up one has on, etc should not make a provider high-end. Professionalism, respect toward a guest, and that kind of stuff is what should define that as again from my perspective that's what equals better quality.

Watching a man jerk off I think is very erotic, it turns me on! Yet I find a lot of men reluctant to do this when visiting, why? Is it shyness, do some feel its a waste, meaning, they want the woman to do all the touching? Mutual masturbation can be a lot of fun, can't it?

A postable pic from our AW social group: Remy Lacroix, pornstar!

All browsers have their merits, and they disadvantages. One thing to keep in mind when looking at the alternatives to Internet Explorer, is what is the makers intention in producing it. No one does something for free, and if they do, what is their motivation to keeping it up-to-date. There is a very good chance that it is a non-Microsoft add-in that is the source of your grief. The buggy Adobe flash player is a frequent culprit -- it needs to be updated at least weekly. Add in "search bars" are another source of irritation, be they Ask, Google, etc. Most of this stuff can be disabled with the "Manage add-ons" function - click the gear icon on the upper-right (tools) and select "Manage add-ons" -- you can now disable any suspect toolbar/extension, search providers, etc. To try and find the one misbehaving the most, disable them all and then re-enable the ones you need or want. If you have Windows 7 or 8 on your computer, upgrade to Internet Explorer 11 -- it is currently the fastest and most secure browser there is.

This is what community congrats are about. People participating, lending their voice, supporting others and having some fun in the process. Happy you're starting to enjoy all the bard has to offer and looking forward to more!

I see that Beautiful Savannah is Touring in New Brunswick so I thought I would post a recommendation for this amazing lady as the men in NB certainly won't want to miss her visit. I Live in Newfoundland which is Savannah's home base so I have had the opportunity to see this lady on multiple occasion and have never been disappointed When you read Savannah's website or ad you might be like I was and think... this sounds to good to be true but let me assure you she lives up 100% to everything she says. This really is a beautiful Sexy lady whose number one objective is to make you the center of her attention and ensure you enjoy every minute and yes She LOVES what she does. From that first hug at the door and the initial passionate first deep kiss you will know you have made a very very good decision and before very long you will be wishing you had made a longer appointment. Guys this is truly one of the elite ladies in the business and I very highly recommend her. If you want to know more about what her service level includes...i never kiss and tell check out her Website it has all the details or contact her directly...you will not find anyone more approachable.

In regards to Internet Explorer, have you reset the browser? KEEP IN MIND, doing this will delete all your "auto saved" passwords, but as long as you know your passwords, then that's ok. 99.9% of the time it will solve issues with Internet Explorer. Click on the little gear in the top right hand corner, and go to Internet Options. Then click advanced. At the bottom click Restore Advanced Settings. Then click apply. THEN click Reset. Another window will open. Check off the "delete personal settings" check box, and click ok. When all the green check marks are there, click close. Close out internet explorer and open it again. Check to see if your problems are solved. Google Chrome, it could very well be a strange setting or some stupid add on. Click on the three lines and go to settings. Go through those and check to see if anything is weird. Check for extensions and delete anything odd. Make sure your usual search engine is the one you want (google usually). If these don't work, let me know and I will make other suggestions :)

:) Yummy!! I'll say they do come off easily , the play cuffs that is;) Still in any kind of bondage play you have to be very comfortable, obviously, with whom you are playing with. It's not for everyone but for those who like it, as I said-yum:)

I think a good way to get a feel for if the lady is for real or not (other than recos) is to get to know her a little either through PMs, chat room or texting (if she allows casual communication). I've had extensive chats with several clients to the point of feeling as if I already knew them before meeting. I also found that it heightened the anticipation of meeting for both parties and made the actual encounter much more exciting! :p

I am looking to find out how people feel about face pics. More important, for those that choose not to show their face, is this a deal breaker? I don't show my face on the internet or otherwise - ever. Even a selfie I send from my phone. There are many reasons, firstly is that I love going to the States, and they use facial recognition. If they are able to show that I am an escort, they will deny entry and ban me from entering ever again. I also have family that I choose not to let them know what I do. I have worried about everything from my pic being blasted all over the internet, to my own personal safety. I don't live in a large city, people know everyone where I live, and if they saw my face on an ad or website, they would know right away what I do, but I wouldn't know that they know what I do, until they do something. I have no problems with those that show their face. They are amazingly beautiful and brave in my opinion. What is your opinion?

C'mon, we all know not to be shady. We all know to be honest, polite gentlemen. And yet every now and then someone comes along that defies explaination. For the record, when you make claim you have seen me before, and I tell you that I do not think you have, why continue to lie? If I tell you point-blank something seems off about you, don't keep insisting your lie is truth. Suffice to say someone swore he'd seen me before, and despite my better judgement I decided to book with him. I've never seen him before and refused him at the door. If he hadn't been subversive and blatantly lied to me, I wouldn't have had a problem. But lying to me, then threatening and being abusive towards me after I refuse you. Are we not better than this, guys? C'mon. Posted via Mobile Device

Before anyone jumps to conclusions, just remember that Emily Wilson also started at 18 years old with school girl outfit pictures on BP when she started. I think she even posted her Nova Scotia drivers license because of the drama about her here on Nova Scotia CERB.

As I stand above you, legs apart, while caressing my bare pink swell in a most erotic way, I look down to see your master piece engulfed in your manly hand and slowly, being pleasured, up and down, faster and faster. What a beautiful sight! ... OK, enough lol Since I am a voyeur and also enjoy being watched, I find mutual masturbation very stimulating and very erotic! All that to say that it does not need to be a means to an end but simply an activity shared in between many others... I think most of you would be surprised at how many women actually enjoy the sight of a man pleasuring himself !

I've gotta agree with Cleo. I don't mind kissing after daty, nor do my gents seem to :p so I'm not sure why it would be gross to kiss after a bj.. If the thought of your dick grosses you out, its going to make me not want to put it in my mouth for that very reason..

Congrats to you Ice4fun!

Nicely said! Congrats from me, too!

Sometimes I check to see who has visited my profile and I click on their profile Sometimes someone who I don't know (new member lets say) gave me rep points/thanks/nomination, and I check their profile I also if sending a PM/Visitor Message may pull up the member's profile to send the PM/Visitor Message And sometimes based on posts made, I click on the members profile. Finally, this isn't for me about a guy checking another guy's profile, more like one CERBite checking another CERBite's profile, for I look at the ladies profiles too I believe for those who don't want their profile seen, they can go into their control panel to restrict who sees it RG

Don't forget that when you're looking at something innocuous or with Initials and it reminds you of a thread, person or something industry related and you end up smiling to yourself about it while others wonder what you're up to!

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It's funny. In all my years, I never really thought about shoes of any sort. They were just something you wore to protect your feet. Hardly a piece of fashion in my mind. My wife never wore high heels and if she did she would be 6'3". Last summer I visited a strip club in QC and met a girl with the highest heels I had ever seen. When we went up to the "room" she put one of her shoes on my shoulder. At this point I started caressing her foot and her shoe. What a frikin turn on it was. I finally saw the light and have been looking at shoes ever since. I'm thinking the heels would be something great to hold onto.

Far from being credible myself, I tend to rely on three factors. Post count, reputation and the actual contributions from the individual. A low post count does not disqualify if I've read several postings that give insight into the author. Far from being a perfect science, I get a feel from the posts. The higher the post count the more reliable that feel becomes. Not too long ago we had a contributor who basically flooded the boards with posts in a very short time span. The poster tried to portray themself as a thoughtful, reasonable individual. But something about this person seemed off. Soon it became apparent to many on this site that we had a particularly virulent troll in our midst. The community immune system kicked into gear and shortly thereafter the troll was sent packing. My point in relating that story is that the community had decided this individual did not have what it takes to be a successful member of our family. The post count and reputation had little or nothing to do with the decision. It was the words and actions that sealed the troll's fate. On a personal note, I like seeing my own post count rise. I reminds me of how far I've come and how much I still have to learn.

That song is so fantastic. You may not get it but maybe you're missing the point. It had its 15 minutes of internet fame, spawned a number of clever memes and was generally a fun and silly bit of light hearted humor. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Fox_(What_Does_the_Fox_Say%3F) Cheer up man. The world isn't coming to an end.

My contribution for today. I love this outfit!! :)

Just want to start by saying that I have had many public run ins with clients-and I have to say 98% of them are just as private about our encounters as I am, and they all handle themselves accordingly ;) as do I :) Here is a story on what NOT to do when you run into an sp in a public setting. I was at the casino last year with a gf of mine. We had a very nice time. About a week or so after-I meet with a regular client of mine-who indicates to me that: 1) Was with his friends and he saw me 2) Told his friends how he knew me and what I do 3) Tried to find me-looked all over the casino-so he could introduce me to his friends as an sp Thank GOD-he did not find me that night. When he told me this-I could not believe it...His intentions were not meant to be bad-however I feel humiliated that he just spit out that info about me-that these guys know who I am as VANESSA VALE-yet I have no clue as to who they are or what they look like. IT was super invasive. And no offence, but also scary when someone can act so stupidly carless when it comes to discretion. He thought this would benefit me financially. I would rather starve and have my lights turned off than expose myself as an sp to whomever, because just like our clients, many of us ladies have to keep this hush hush too ;) It would be just as bad as me pointing out to my friends who I spend time with as an sp....privacy is important for both parties.

no matter how many mins your buying it still takes the lady the same amount of time to get prepared. Be it 15 (oops sorry this thread is for 20) or be it 60. So pay the hour and stay 15 I mean 20. Wink

Victoria Secret's opening here in Ottawa and spending way too much money there lol :)

I've done it and it is Hot!

Double your pussycat with Cleo Catra and my favorite Kat, Katherine Bardot

Its commonplace to here negative stories and aspects of our line of work, escorting/providing. What it can do to "womanhood", how we are homewreckers, that its demoralizing, sinful, the cause of other crimes, blah, blah, blah! So I wanted to state some positive! This business has allowed me to become independent, completely so.:) Its greatly increased my self esteem. Actually, believe it or not its caused me to be more careful about my eating habits. Having to be naked often, causes me to eat less and more carefully than I would if I knew I'd never have to expose myself:) It allows me to be completely uninhibited, has taught me a lot about my own body and sex. I've also learned a lot of very positive things about men and their bodies;). It satiates my high drive, causes me to exercise more than I would normally. As an introvert I probably wouldn't have met the amount of really great people I've met had I chosen another line of work. I am a much more confident and carefree person because of this business. Probably more empathetic as well:) Yes there have been some rough times and some minor bumps but that would happen in any line of work I suspect. All in all my choice to provide has been a beneficial and a happy and positive experience :)

There is nothing like being with a lady, and she is looking up at you with her big beautiful eyes, and giving you a very sensual sexy deep BJ, where you are almost ready to explode, but you want more play time,So she climbs aboard your body, and you both kiss passionately, or reverse situation, nothing like tasting each other's juices. YUM :) Love to DFK throughout the entire session nothing like getting to that arousal state for both parties involved. ;)

I have certainly tasted my own cum when kissing a lady after a BJ or DATY with a regular partner. Never found the taste offensive and ladies have responded positively to my comfort in doing that. I guess I've always felt that "if I expect you to taste it, I should be prepared to taste it as well".

Absolutely not a deal breaker by any stretch of the imagination. For some ladies they are comfortable showing photos of their face, and those ladies should be respected for doing so But there are many ladies who chose not to show their faces and they too should be respected for that decision. Many enter this profession just for a short time. Many hold other jobs. Some have families And a lot do not want photos of their faces or knowledge that they were in this lifestyle to come out publically. There is an old adage, once a picture is posted on the internet, it is there for good. And some ladies don't want a picture of their face (associated with this lifestyle) to come back at a future date to haunt them, like maybe when they are no longer involved with this lifestyle. So my opinion, a lady should do what she is comfortable doing, and whatever decision she comes to, it needs to be respected A rambling RG

Bretton Woods, While the spirit of your point may be valid, I'm not sure it quite applies to this particular discussion, just in that I don't see that it has been limited to "blonde, brunette, and redhead". Several posts, including the original one, have mentioned black hair. Or do you mean because overall there aren't many in the world, that it's Eurocentric to discuss blonde and red hair at all? If so, I still don't see the problem with anyone suggesting that's what they personally find attractive. A person can't consciously help what hair colour they find appealing (now if someone where to go further and say those with a certain hair colour are inherently better people, that's problematic). I mean, I've always found something very hot about people--of any culture--who have dyed or streaked their hair with an interesting colour (purple, pink, etc). And of course that represents approximately zero to one percent of the world's population. :) Anyway, if forced to pick one I guess I'd have to say I tend to find red hair the most striking. But in reality--like most physical features--I usually end up finding every hair colour attractive. It's more the style the lady wears it and how well it suits her that makes it attractive, so I end up changing my choice depending on who I'm admiring. As in most things, yay for variety! As for importance, as Miquelon says, this is all mostly about an initial attraction. At the end of the day personality is going to make all the difference.

I love discovering older threads that still have life left in them... I am a very honest and open person and am the same with my clients as with anyone. That means that if I give a compliment it's genuine. Everyone is beautiful, everyone has wonderful qualities and everyone has something sexy about them if you're willing to see it. I've said things that go against what my clients think about themselves and have had it pish poshed and that's okay. I can't change their mind about their own perceptions, only they can. I can definitely point out what I see in them though. I've heard the line "I bet you say that to all your clients" and my normal retort is "only if it's true". I won't lie to make someone feel better especially when I can be honest and get the same reaction. Every client deserves my respect and my honesty and that's what I'm giving them. If I love the feel of their skin or the look in their eyes or the way their cock feels in my mouth, I hope they know it's true. If I had to put on an act in this job, I wouldn't be in it. I love it and I can be myself.

To set the record straight, I was contacted to participate and I had full intentions of doing so, until they refused to keep my identity private. I received an email yesterday from my Original contact at CBC who had stepped down from this expose after I was taped in an airport. Yes I show my face, BUT on the internet. You find me when you are seeking company NOT looking for puppies. I am very discreet, yet CBC chose to jeopardize my well being, safety and business by airing this crap. I have had to pull my site and some ads (ads which I spend Thousands on a year). I have nothing to hide and I am proud of what i do, just now I wont be visiting certain places for a long time. I had 2 people email me saying my suitcase is now famous....Thanks CBC! The only lady who they interviewed is local, I personal feel she did it as a dig towards the touring ladies, as why else would she use a hotel that is one of choice and clearly not hidden in her interview, as will her comments about competition definitely lead me to believe that since she cant hold her own she needs to rid the competition. No matter how sweet she tried to make the sugar sound, its all BS. I loved the line about the money the touring girl made, SO glad Adam checked his facts, as well as that he checked the photos he used on his report were real (I wonder how many stolen pics got aired) Nothing on this local lady was used, yet he had fun attacking Keissy and I. Id love to know how he knew I was one of the fist off the plane? That thought sickens me to no end. I had a stalker 4 years ago and this is the same shit, just a different level. Plus why no other sources of advertising mentioned? Clearly he wanted to attack this other board owner, which is a shame. Keissy and I were his target as lets face it, OUR websites sell the story a cheap free unprofessional one does not. Yes I am mad, but myself and Keissy we will get through this, we are discreet and Keissy was never even contacted (so low, but what do you expect from an airport stalker) At the end of the day, the support from people on this has been amazing and I am grateful for everyones kind words.

Good thread Emily. Thanks for starting it! I think I'm pretty easy to get along with as long as I'm comfortable and feel safe. I have clear standards and requirements that I believe are more than reasonable. I have many clients who have never objected to my screening methods and I'm as busy as I want to be. To me, this means that the things I ask for fit within reasonable parameters. Some men are very reluctant to divulge information that may make them traceable in some way. They're entitled to their views. I don't think that anyone should do things they're not comfortable doing, whether they're a paid companion or a client. I reckon that if my screening requirements are too difficult for someone, he'll find another companion who may be more comfortable with him. What I know for sure is that no one is entitled to see me unless I choose to have the meeting. I turn down almost 75% of those who contact me whether because they want things I don't provide, seem to be time-wasters rather than serious clients, refuse to follow my screening or are disrespectful in some way. Some of the disrespectful ones object to being screened and, rather than saying so politely, insult me by pointing out that I'm just a whore, that I must be planning to set them up somehow or that I'm desperate. These guys are no loss to me! The ones who want to argue about or ignore following basic instructions, whether about screening or directions to my place, too often will inappropriately attempt to control other aspects of our encounter if we meet. I'm not interested in having power struggles with clients.

I receive at least one email a day explaining why they can't follow my rules and would I see them anyway. I find this very frustrating,as all my expectations are clearly posted on my web page ,along with "no exceptions are made" ,clearly stated.As said ,we all have our different procedures to follow,when booking an appointment.They differ just as our ways of play differ.We post these because it is what makes us feel secure,protected and comfortable when excepting a booking.I have heard time and time again gentlemen saying they have been "blackmailed",or heard stories of someone using personal information in a fallicious way so they don't want to give any out.I wish some men would realize that when they deal with a "professional" sp this should never happen and discretion is a two way street,we provide it but also expect it.To be blunt, if you want to know where I am ,I should be able to know who you are!!

Simple following instructions, common sense, and discretion. Don't do anything that will cause anyone's eyebrows to be raised, especially front desk, well any hotel staff for that matter And when in the hotel, blend in, like you belong there, not like your lost trying to find your way around RG

Recently, I've been put in a very uncomfortable situation due to someone not following instructions. I had asked a gentleman to send me a quick text message to confirm his number because I knew I was going to be busy dealing with personal things that day and would be in the presence of family members. Well, instead of doing that, he decided to call me a few times. Obviously, I didn't answer his calls. Later that day, I checked my emails and he apologised for calling me but said that he didn't like to send or receive text messages and much preferred to hear my voice instead. Let's just say I wasn't my happy self when I read that. I kindly told him and explained that discretion was of the utmost importance for everyone when involved in this lifestyle only to get told that "we all play a dangerous game when we decide to play"... It's only 'dangerous' and risky if the need for discretion is not understood and the guidelines/instructions are not respected by everyone involved.

I would go back to a day early last year, before a good friend of mine died of cancer. I'm not entirely sure why, but for some reason I kept putting off seeing him while he was sick... then, suddenly, it was too late, and he was gone. I would pick him up and take him to the country side where he could take some pictures with his new digital camera - just like I told him I would. All he wanted to do was get out of his room and enjoy the beauty of the world a bit more before he left it, and I didn't make the time for him. This was one of the biggest mistakes I ever made, and it'd be really awesome if I could go back and do things right.