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See, to me, that is as far as this story needed to go. . I'm not saying every worthy sp has a recommendation, or even a review. But like mod points out, as does CK, can any of the negative comments you read be verified? He puts up 10% of the reports he receives, which seems really really low in comparison to the number of trashing and bashing reviews I've read over the years that make it onto other sites. One thing clients don't see when they read these reviews and comments is the comments from the other side. His "rushed" is her "I couldn't get him to the door, he spent 20 minutes past the time the session was over, just getting dressed". His 'cold" is her "he made me uncomfortable, i couldn't wait for the session to be over' or 'he kept asking me for things I already told him I don't provide'. His 'distracted' is her "I hope he doesn't hurt me'. Lots of things affect a first appointment. I don't know many sps who can fully relax until someone is visiting for a 2nd or 3rd time. To review based on a first one time visit doesn't seem helpful, unless it is a review only about the advertising and pictures, and the basics of did she do what she promised, and did she charge what she was supposed to charge, and are the pictures accurate. You know, all those things that review sites were created for in the first place, but now evolved into a place to try to intimidate them into providing more for less, and nit pick over the small details that shouldn't even be an issue.

So I was having a convo the other day with a guy and we were talking about face-fucking and deep throating and he kept lamenting that women can't face fuck like they do in porn; his partners always have to stop/gag etc. First of all, they're using hand signals in porn, you just can't see them. That is how the guy knows when to slow down, speed up, or stop. I can't breathe with cock in my throat. I panic if you're holding my head down and don't let up if I try to pull up. If you keep going after I have triggered my gag reflex, I will puke all over your cock. So, HAND SIGNALS! Use em'! Come up with your own. Get creative. Just make sure you've got a signal for "slow down", "stop" and "go crazy." This way you can keep going without having to necessarily stop all the action and pull your cock out, or you know, accidentally making your lady puke, which unless that's your thing, can be rather unpleasant. Happy deepthroating! xox

I would suggest you open your own site then and make your own rules or join a site that allows this... Lots exist... this site is for those who dont want all the negativity. We like it being friendy and fun and no one can slander or do anything to damage a ladies business or disrespect a lady. This rule here wont change.

I don't have strong feelings on this, but I can certainly understand how ladies on the board might feel differently. I agree with Christy that there is something a little creepy about it. In general, i think the whole notion of blocked/hidden profiles runs somewhat counter to the philosophy of the board as a community. Since we are all anonymous anyway (unless we choose to disclose more to certain people), the whole notion of hiding your profile seems somewhat redundant. You actually don't have to put anything particularly revealing in your profile. just my .02 on a Saturday morning. Porthos

Bastage!!!! I have an appointment with the surgeon Monday.... he will give me the go ahead to get 'er done. The stone? Make an "o" with your thumb and forefinger (like you are giving the manual signal for 'OK')... the hole in the middle??? THAT'S the size of my gallstone. It's the mother of all gallstones. I believe it may even have minions. Little stones. It's the "Sly" in Sly and the Family Stone. When the stone is gone, I'll be singing "Thank You (Falettinme be mice elf agin) Oh blessed bacon.... I'll have you soon....

Wait just a minute are you trying to tell us that Porn is not real.... that it is not live action... that it is staged..... WTF....is there nothing left in the world that is true... and.... pure. I saw a Christmas thread a little further down the list that better not be saying there is no Santa Claus :)

Dealing with a gallstone that refuses to let me eat BACON. Damn thing.

Interesting Question that Cristy raises. It would seem that most of her concerns are addressed in the post by PistolPete which indicates that verified SP's can access private profiles through the SP only access. That said the basic premise of Cristy's question remains... should a member who chooses to keep their profile private have the right to view other members profiles. Each member has the ability to include or not include as much private details as they wish in their profile so if a person does not want to reveal and personal data just don't include it. If it is your preference to keep your profile completely private maybe it would follow that you either not have the privilege to see other people's profiles or that other members would be able to choose a setting that would restrict access to their own public profile to anyone who has a private profile.... sort of a you only see mine if you show me yours too. I kinda think this would be a much fairer approach. I fully appreciate and agree with the current SP access to private profiles but other members should also be able to see the basics of individuals who are lurking them. Now having said all that.... this is certainly not a burning issue for me.

Lately there have been a lot of people viewing my page yet they have blocked me from theirs:frown: I realize that some prefer to only allow certain "friends" or whomever to view their profile page and that's their right. BUT just like a blocked number raises suspicions and lacks trust so do blocked profiles. I think it only fair for those who choose to view mine that they give me the right to view theirs:) Am I alone on this?

Everyone has different kissing styles. Some people enjoy kissing, some not at all. Some people are turned off by particular kinds of kissing and others find it incredibly arousing. Finding someone with the same kissing style as you is hard, and sometimes there's a period of adjustment (usually no longer than a couple of kisses) while you adjust and accommodate someone who kisses differently than you. Ideally, this period of adjustment is rather quick with two people who are willing to adapt and make compromises. I love soft kisses and loose-lipped kisses. Kisses that are slow enough that I can breathe through my nose. I really enjoy sucking on lips, smiling while I kiss, and as passion develops, a little bit of teeth is really fun. I love French kissing... I found this really interesting article on how to kiss. I agree with most of it, especially the following: 1) keep your lips soft: this is probably the most important part of kissing. There is so much leeway and exploration that can happen when people have soft lips, 3) manageable level of saliva: this is also important (so important), 5) make sure to breath: yes, and if possible (especially if you need to move away for a second to do it), breathe in the person's ear. It's incredibly sexy to hear an excited inhalation/exhalation of breath. You can then combine this with a little bit of ear nibbling and/or kissing. Again, it's important not to forget rule #3. Please, no saliva in the ear, 6) use your hands: they are a great accessory to amazing kissing! 9) mix it up: definitely... I always find myself smiling, laughing, moving, nibbling, kissing, tugging... I use my whole body to kiss and I find that really fun. I could spend an entire encounter kissing someone if the chemistry is good. How do you feel about kissing? What do you do when you kiss someone and you realize your kissing styles don't align? How versatile are you and how willing are you to compromise on the kind of kissing you like? What turns you on, and turns you off, when kissing a partner? I'm eager to hear your responses! Love, Nat

Yes, put them on your "ignore list" http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/profile.php?do=ignorelist I don't like members blocking their profile. If they do this, they get on my "do not book list" - sorry, I can't understand why anyone would do this unless they have something to hide.

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No to your answer of performance. ;) AND Actually YES to both, as in watching a *couple* of ladies having sex (voyeur) :) while I'm standing naked and stroking myself (exhibitionist). You never specified if it was MFM or MFF or MMFF Now if it was the later MMFF I have had the opportunity to participate in those a couple of times, and there was some voyeur, and all of us were were hanging out ;) (pun intended ) and having a good old time. :) I think once you are deeply involved with the lady, you really do forget there is anyone else in the room. :) Over my time, exploring my sexuality I have opened a window that sometimes goes beyond thinking outside the box, and I never found myself to be chicken to explore these ideas, as long as they were safe, and I was 100% certain I wanted explore these new adventures. A lot of it is mind over matter for some, take for example a Poly event, being able to perform around 3-5 other gents with one lady.Once you explored something for the very 1st time, you want to do it more often so your performance really becomes secondary.

The problem with posting negative experiences and even allowing comments about them on any board, even when crossed referenced and sometimes even multiple, after all some boys like to stick together;) is that: Some hobbyists that have politely and positively given recos or reviews on other providers can have a "dislike" for another provider and post negative comments because of that. This dislike may have nothing at all to do with her services and in some cases the hobbyist may have not even have met the intended target . But for their reasons they feel the need to bash or trash her. Not all hobbyists are mature, well intentioned gentlemen. Even the ones that some sp's have had no issues with. For that reason I tend not to like seeing negativity anywhere. None of us know why or where it is started or caused or the truth behind it and sp's have little recourse against this. The diary and it's bait and switch is important but I don't think reposting negative reviews is, unless they are danger alerts even then we have a section for that:)

No not all, if that term is being used in a thread (See Cowboy's Diary) Most of those comments are really saving gents the hassle of dealing with fake ad's and scams, or in fact rip off artists. I think there is nothing negative about anyone stating see CK's Diary. In fact saving someone actual harm,or getting ripped off is a benefit to ALL of the gents here on this board that may want to use other sites looking for ladies, he has our best interests. BTW CERB is a recommendation board not a review board. ;)

Are you more of a Voyeur or an Exhibitionist... Would you rather have sex with someone watching or watch while another couple has sex? For me this is really a tough question.... I have never had sex with anyone just watching...while in theory I find the idea interesting lol I wonder if in the actual moment it would have an impact on performance...lol worry it would be negative.. hope it would be positive. Likewise I have never been just a Voyeur and watched others have sex... but this is way less risky so given the choice it would be most likely what I would choose... i know what you are thinking "chicken" lol What about you?

Her name is Chanel and she has recs........http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=C&t=41523

So sorry to hear that, but fear not it will be better again:) Have faith and stay positive.

Not sure which way your BYE is leaning so I'll say two things... First, don't do anything that takes away the ability for tomorrow to be better. Find hope! Second, listen to that little voice inside that says "give it another try" when the world is screaming NO! Big hugs and lots of positive energy for you. There are many of us here if you need someone!

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I'd pick voyeur, myself. Absolutely nothing wrong with being an exhibitionist, of course (indeed, if you like the idea of being a voyeur you have to count on someone else being an exhibitionist, don't you? :) ). I suppose I'm just happy enough to concentrate and perform for the lady I'm with, so the idea of having an audience doesn't do much for me. I can see how it would be a thrill though, and having never tried it I suppose I could be surprised. Wouldn't be the first time something I thought something I had no interest in turned out to be a turn on. On the flip side, well, anyone who watches porn has at least a bit of voyeur in them, no? So I'm fairly sure I'd enjoy watching others enjoying themselves. I think my biggest difficulty there would be resisting the urge to join in!

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No fine line, you were able to use other resources to get your answer. Nothing wrong with that. Hopefully its not a ex boyfriend, bad/unreasonable client or someone who sees her as compitition trying to slander her or damage her business. Problem is... Often it is so make sure whoever posted this info is reputable and not a new member on another forum. Its a lot easier to slander someone with negative reviews the it is to make a nice glowing recommendation for someone worthy of it so we find the recommendations much more valuable then negative comments. Again... If you value negative comments make sure you get a membership on a forum that allows it... Your not going to hurt our feelings if you jump ship or share your time on multiple sites.

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I just want to repeat what canuckhooker said. He was a man who endured hardship far beyond what any of us can imagine. He had every right to be bitter and vindictive but chose forgiveness and peace. He remade South Africa, not as a land for the blacks, rather as a land for all people.

This! I know for a fact that some ladies won't set foot on some of the other boards which are "wretched hives of scum and villainy".

Dad at Health Clinic: You know what your problem is? You're putting the pussy on a pedestal. - The 40 Year Old Virgin I think you're probably right about it hurting your interactions. Not necessarily badly or permanently but it's kind of like living alone for a long time. You become set in your ways, your opinions and habits become hardened, you think that 'your way' of doing things is the best or only way. Then you suddenly have a partner and have to unlearn everything. I think that by not jumping in, you'll be getting all your (mis)information second hand, whether from porn or just other peoples stories. This might set you up for confusion or disappointment in the future. No matter what it is you're doing, there ain't no replacement for experience.

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I took one for the team - you guys owe me. :) Will not repeat.

Let's also keep in mind that the focus of CKs diary is Bait and Switch and sometimes potentially dangerous situations. These things are allowed to be posted on CERB too. There is an actual section for this for almost all cities, but it hardly ever gets used. I think these areas could be used much more than they currently are, since B&S/perceived danger covers a lot of the most serious issues with providers. CK doesn't post negative reviews or subjective information about ladies. The info he posts is not usually a matter of opinion, which "reviews" are. That's the difference. While I am not in favour of "review" sites, I do think that getting out information about b&s/dangerous situations is important, and will only benefit the honest providers, the honest gentlemen, and the industry overall. This is not the same as posting negative (and often hurtful) reviews about perceived appearances, services, expectations, etc, which are all always subjective and always YMMV. (And btw, life is YMMV. The phrase existed long before online escort communities.) I don't know about others, but just from casual browsing, I find it pretty easy to figure out by looking at ads, websites, photos, recos, etc who is legit and who's probably not. I don't understand why it's so hard for others to figure this out. And I find it unfortunate that there is still people who think it's appropriate to publicly post about such intimate, and subjective matters having to do with another fellow human being who may just have had a bad day or didn't like the cut of your jib. Thankfully, for the perfection-seekers, the sex-robots will be here soon enough! ;)

Pistol is correct. I should have started the thread with Cerb is a recommendation board. However, negative recos are not allowed. CK's diary is a great opportunity to save someone from getting ripped off, or sucked in to a bait and switch situation, and for that, I am happy that such a research tool exists.

My mom is 84, lives alone, and called me tonight because her new furnace stopped working. My brother went down first but couldn't get it working, so I drove the 10 miles to her place, put 40 liters of diesel fuel in the tank, bled it, and got it fired up. She wanted to pay me for the fuel and I refused......reminding her of how many times she and dad helped me over the years. Then I sat down with her and went over her bank statements. The part that sucks? Mom was sharp as a tack all her life and now is slowly starting to lose her memory. It's time for the son to become the parent and she deserves it.

Owning a farm and having kids.........it's been a ride, for sure. New calves that need names and attention- especially preemies. Litters of kittens every time I turned around and being torn between showing them to my kids or praying the kids didn't find them. Accident-prone foals. Baby birds......omfg......my kids would find them, bring them to me, we'd work out a mothering routine for them, and then my kids would disappear to grampies house for a few days.....grrrr. Friggin' things were usually too young when they were found and they would usually die just before my kids got home, but the kids just moved on to the next adventure without a "thanks for trying, dad"! Dogs....love 'em. I grew up with Border Collies and my current girl is now 15 and showing it. Loves the indoors in the wintertime (like me) and, when the time comes, my wife will have to take her to the vet because I cannot. I'll bury her on the farm in a special spot and cry when nobody's watching. My wife has a useless furball that she loves and spoils (okay, I kinda like her, too) that is a Lhasa Apso- Schitzu cross.....sorta like a cat. Oh, btw......cat lovers......you don't own cats- they own you! LOL .

I find it interesting that no ladies have chosen to respond here. Perhaps it's because they share my view about cybersexing with new clients; it's a no no. 99.9% of the requests are complete wastes of huge amounts time. Just my experience. Not something imo to be encouraged with a provider you haven't met yet, it will most probably leave a most bitter taste on her tongue. If this is something a man craves, he should seek out a cam girl... cat

No SP's would avoid a virgin however most would want to have that information up front in original conversations. As much of a cliche it is, everyone remembers their first time and it should be a great experience. For many, it's not. Only you can know if it's hurting your social interactions. Your friend can offer an opinion but you are the only true expert on your life. If you feel waiting is important to you, do it and screw what your friends think. If you feel that you can't relate to women on certain levels or with a certain confidence because you have not ventured into sexual territory, then making a date with an SP is a wonderful way to delve into the unknown. If you do your research and find someone who excites you, she can provide a great experience and show you everything involved in the sexual/sensual side. Be open and honest with yourself and follow your heart. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!

I'm so very sorry this happened to you and I wish it was easier and less complicated to report these individuals to the police as it's those types that make a lot of men shy away from using the services of other reputable service providers. This was outright theft and they should be ashamed, but they will get what's coming to them-Karma does come back around!!

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I agree Selma Heyak is a total knockout, if she were taller I'd say she was perfect. However the sexiest scenes I'd have to say I've watched were between Mickey Rourke and Kim Bassinger, another gorgeous work of perfection, in the movie WildOchids, their Chemistry was undeniable.

Cock rings come in different materials and configurations. In my experience with older men and men with erectile uncertainties, the man's comfort with the device is very important. I urge men to check out the various models and decide what they want to try. Every one of these has advantages and some drawbacks. All of the toys here are available at Honey Gifts in Vancouver. There are the leather ones with snaps that capitalman mentioned. These are well made from good-quality leather. With four snaps, there are several adjustment options. The snaps make it easy to remove the ring after ejaculation. Leather rings cost $12-15. There are lasso-type adjustable ones: These work best when slipped around the penis and scrotum. The one on the left is made of medical-grade surgical rubber which will make it easy to clean. However, if you're allergic to latex, this may not be the best choice. The ring on the right is made of silicone. Both are fully adjustable for the fit that feels best for you. The rubber one costs about $10 and the silicone is about $19. There are silicone ones that come in different sizes and shapes: These silicone rings are very stretchy. You slide them on over the penis and you can stretch them to go around the scrotum, too, if you like. I keep a set of the ones on the far left in my condom bag. The ones in the middle have different bumps and spines of different textures, all intended to provide additional clitoral stimulation for the woman. The one on the far right is similar to the trio on the left, but has a bigger diameter. These silicone rings cost about $10 for the sets as well as for the single one. And there are some elite models that are beautifully designed and include variable pulse vibrators: This model is made by Lelo, is fully adjustable, rechargeable and costs $126.00. I've never used this model, but Lelo makes ultra high-quality sex toys that are durable, beautifully designed and, the women's toys, at least, are worth every penny. There are other models that have built-in clit vibrators and perineum stimulators. Good ones are made of silicone and can be found in adult toy stores. Cheap, disposable models are available on the racks where condoms are sold in drugstores. I wouldn't use the drugstore variety as most of them are made of a gel substance that is often used in inexpensive sex toys but which can have some unpleasant health consequences for women who are exposed to it frequently. Cock rings should fit snugly, not tightly. As capitalman said, they help to maintain erections by restricting the blood flow. However, if too tight, they may make ejaculation difficult or impossible. Even though these are designed for men, it's important to consider the woman with whom they are used. I am very picky about what can come in contact with my body, particularly my genitals. For that reason, if you are with me, we can either use one of the stretchy, silicone rings that I provide, or you can bring a brand-new, still-in-the-original-sealed-package model of the kind you prefer. I will discard the one you bring after we part company (I don't keep toys in labelled envelopes for each client). The silicone rings are boilable and can be washed in the dishwasher, which means that I know how they were cleaned. As I noted, above, I won't use toys made of gel, at all. Since these toys are inexpensive, buy a couple of different kinds and try them by yourself. See what feels easiest to put on and take off, whether you want more adjustment control or whether you just like the feel of one more than another. I usually ask clients to put the rings on themselves to avoid pinching or pulling pubic hair uncomfortably. Finally, although it's easy for me to say, please don't feel embarrassed or anxious about using a cock ring with a paid companion. Erectile difficulties happen to all men at some point. Being with a new partner can increase anxiety a bit in addition to the various health problems that are a product of aging and lifestyle. Using a cock ring with a condom can be a great way to have a very satisfying, safe encounter with a paid companion.