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Just a thought--you know her in real life and it's never happened, so why do you think you should be able to pay her to get that privilege? Booking a call with her and not telling her who you are is called "FALSE PRETENSES" and nobody likes thinking Person X is going to show up and then having Person Y arrive. Forget you saw her ad, and don't ever try to trick her into seeing you by not telling her who you are.

I think the easiest option for you would be to stick with establishments and providers who offer the all inclusive rates. Ox That way you know exactly how much you will be spending and if you wish to tip, it will because you wanted to above and beyond rather then "tipping" for services. VIP, CMJ and upscale independents like Jessica Massage and Sensual Erin offer all inclusive rates with no hidden fees.

Wow Thank you so very much! I am far to humble to "self advertise" in a way that would take away the spot light from another deserving lady. I never want to put on an air of " I am the best" attitude. There is something for everyone. I want to see all the ladies do well, and have a piece of pie! I know at the end of the day, it is the hobbyist will decide in there own way, who, when and why they choose a particular lady. Thanks for the recognition, I appreciate it! xoxoox, Sophia:)

I am of a more re-structured mind. Our instincts (or inner voice) is more connected to our heart than our head. Our head is the center of ego (thus the negative voice that's louder then the rest). When we quiet ourselves enough to hear the inner voice, THAT is the one that never steers us wrong. So I would say get out of your head, get out of your heart and hear the inner voice. You are right, there is no such thing as "never". If we listen to the right voice, things fall into place even if they seem impossible. Speaking from experience, I have found this to be true. Good luck.

My advice for the OP and others who may find themselves in this situation for future reference is to not call her and leave it at that. Just because you find her attractive and want to spend time with her doesn't mean she will go for it if you just happened to just show up. I respectfully disagree with others about telling her you know her beforehand. This is just being an alarmist and for her to be on the receiving end of that is not anything to be peachy keen about. If someone did this to me, I'd be upset and there would be no encounter regardless of whether or not I knew that the person contacted me knowing it was me or had no idea it was me. Remember, if you were to go ahead and set up an appt knowing it's her, that imo is sneaky ( and women can't stand men who are sneaky, myself included) and it's not the way to go about wanting to be with someone even if she never knew this. You could always plead your case that you didn't know it was her. However, this is dependant on if you knew her personally in the last few years to be able to recognize her which you said you did or haven't seen her in a long, long time where people's appearance can change minimally or drastically. In your case, you do know it's her and if you know what's right, this would always remain in the back of your mind as a guilty feeling. You would also be putting yourself in an awkward position for rejection and no one likes to experience that. An SP has the right to refuse anyone...even if she does know them. Please don't go about this the wrong way because it's always possible in her mind that she will consider you a douchebag forever from there on out for calling her out ( esp if she were to find out that you did know her beforehand) and you also have your privacy to think about if you both have mutual friends/acquaintances in common. And let's not forget social media where gossip is rampant. Not everyone is accepting of this hobby. I had an SP friend of mine see a client who claimed to know me from when I was younger and put her on the spot about it by attempting to get it out of her if xxxxxxxxxxxxx was my name. I don't know what was said during their time together. That was not cool on his end or discrete for that matter. If you do recognize an SP online or in public, it's best to keep it to yourself. And don't just show up.. it doesn't make for a good scene that ends on a positive note.

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More thinking about it, especially after reading some of the other posts...and especially considering if she is/was a friend, move on. Don't even contact her about an encounter. Just you contacting her may put her at unease, she now knows you know about her being a escort. She may not feel free to decline, fearing reprisals (ie blackmail etc). You may be under normal circumstances the perfect client, but since she is a friend, it absolutely clouds you and her having an SP/Client relationship. So don't contact her. Even though she'll never know, it could be the biggest act of friendship you can do for her An early morning rambling RG

My .02 cents on this is don't think about it, just forget you seen her ad and move on. There are so many other girls out there don't risk the "friendship" you have things can turn sour real quick and I would not want to be mixed up in it. Again just my opinion you can still do what you want, you know her better then I or anyone else on here.

I agree, that is why I charge $9.99 for 5 hours of my time. :biggrin:

I know there must be a bit on here about this but i cant find it at all! Im a new member and want to post a recomendation about an SP i have just seen. How can i go about this? Any ideas! Many thanks in advance Phil

Silly but, the fact that a sleepover guest made the bed before they left made my day!

Maybe it is just because it is Christmas and I find myself more aware of the people around me but I think it really SUCKS that so many wonderful people struggle financially and have to deal emotionally with the stress and problems of being without in a world of plenty. I kinda think we can do better and encourage if us to make a positive impact in our community. Let's each reach out and make it a Merry Christmas for someone we don't know. Just my opinion.

Bonnie all the way. Watch you don't poke your eye out with those things!

I have to go against what most pooners are saying, because the lady's interests must come first. A face pic may attract more clients. But in the interests of privacy I would recommend never showing a face pic. Winnipeg is a very small town and it is very hard to be anonymous here if your face has been posted on the internet. And anything on the internet is there forever. FOREVER. Never send anyone a face pic. That is basically the same as posting it openly. Guys should be trustworthy but too many aren't. I've had guys ask me to send them face pics of ladies I have seen. I know guys do exchange pics. It's not a big step from there to having some bad client post your details on TheDirty or facebook. If you provide good service and have happy customers you will be busy enough without showing your face. There is a lot of demand in Winnipeg and very few good SPs. So, no to face pics.

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As long as you are happy with your donation weather it's $200 or $500 that is the only factor that matters . What other people think is quite immaterial . Those who wish to pay $100 and are happy with that fine and dandy . It's a big world and full of choices .

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I agree with your decision to move on. I think I'm just repeating what Nicolette said... Tempting as it might be to give her a ring, I was thinking of other complications. As she is/was an old friend, maybe you both know people in common? If so, and if you saw her, things have ways of getting "out". At your stage in life, you may not fully appreciate how your hobbying information (in the hands of unscrupulous people) could forever impact your reputation. To varying degrees, we here on Cerb all have hobbying/professional/personal lives to maintain. I for one, prefer to separate and protect all of the above. I recommend you don't take unnecessary risks. While I respect the professionalism of all the providers here, this is still an underground lifestyle and nobody wants to be "outed" in public. Your friend in turn may also feel the burn. However, since she is advertising with a face pic, I believe she has already accepted any downstream consequences. This includes the possibility of meeting people she knows. She may have a plan on how to handle these types of situations. ...just thinking out loud here

Just make sure you pick an organization that isn't discriminatory! Basically, just avoid the Salvation Army and you're probably okay. http://www.bilerico.com/2011/11/why_you_shouldnt_donate_to_the_salvation_army_bell.php

I feel like this is the flip side of the discretion that SPs grant clients. It seems like the tasteful thing to do would be to take a pass on this situation and extend the same sense of discretion to her. Move on, there are loads of other SPs to choose from. (The OP already indicated that he was going to do exactly that.)

^Sounds like Paige, who is unfortunately just traveling through. This is her second visit (that I know of), so I'm sure she'll be back again. ;)

That's good to hear. For me, I was wondering whether she would think that you might try to blackmail her into something (free sessions, discounts, etc etc) by either saying ahead of time that you do know her in real life, or waiting until you arrive to say the same thing. You have to expect her to be suspicious of your sudden interest but as well, mentioning that you know who she is. I assume she used face pics in her ads, and just might link this thread to the other one here where some guys are discussing that they won't see sps who don't have face pics, for the sps who think they have to lol.

Friday the 13th was good to me. Dropped by Barbs and spent some time with Jenny bar-side and in the CR. No rush, great time as always. Did see another beautiful young thing. Spinner, brunette, 34B, red lipstick and a schoolgirl red plaid skirt. Anyone know her? No chance to meet her as I was "busy".

There is a possibility she would refuse your request more likely because she may feel uncomfortable. .. it will safe you both wasting time... if you don't tell her and you showed up at her door she may still refuse to see you... as per privacy goes... as everyone says it is a 2 way street. .. she may not want people around her finding out about her job .. even more than you don't want people around you knowing that you enjoy paid companionship.. Maybe also what NotchJohnson suggested maybe is better to just move on and not book time together... there is plnety of others ladies...

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I love the books, and I like the adaptation. I kind of identify with Ser Jorah. I'd follow the Khaleesi anywhere! :)

I've been on this site for quite some time, but don't really participate much. I've always been a lurker. There's one thing that I've noticed however over my time that has always remained consistent, and that's that Sophia from Suite Escapes and even before when she was Independent herself and not running the spa is always extremely helpful to anyone asking for advice or recommendations. It would be easy for her as a business owner, when someone asked for a recommendation for a specific in her area, to just recommend her business, but instead she leads them to the advertisement section and the reccommendation section to search out who will meet this persons needs. Compliments aren't given enough to people, and this isn't quite a reccommendation more of a thanks to Sophia for being a class act and a great member of this forum.

I think what people have to keep in mind is there is an important difference between expressing your tradition vs. forcing others to do so as well. So no, I don't believe anyone should be offended if someone chooses to say Merry Christmas. I know I certainly wouldn't be offended if someone said "happy Hanukkah" or wished me a good "Kwanzaa". Why would I? The intent is to offer me good wishes. But though I strongly feel no one should be told they can't express a given holiday wish in whatever terms works for them, I don't think others should be told they have to use the same. I'm very much in favour of separation of church and state, so I actually agree that public schools should have "holiday concerts" and leave out religious carols. The public sector should be inclusive. I don't think it is fair to pressure kids of other faiths (or atheist) into singing along with a particular religion's hymns. So yeah, everyone say whatever is true for them live and let live. Pretty simple, but I'd say this chart just about sums it up:

I think showing face pics is the exception, not the majority, so there is no reason at all to even consider showing your face. especially if you are new to the biz, you don't yet know how long you may be doing this, and you don't know who might be checking out new ads. Some potential clients will ask. Some potential clients ask for a lot of different things that you don't do and don't offer, so you just have to have an answer ready for those questions the same as if they ask for face pics. They'll say 'many' do show face pics, to which I just tell them that's BS. "many' do not, and of the few ads that do have face pics, the majority of those are B&S fake pics, so of course the sp doesn't mind if the face is showing lol.

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The only reason why I currently show my face is because I am consider an "alternative" SP. I have numerous tattoos and neon bright pink hair.... Which is why I started to show my face 2 1/2 years ago, after people recognize because of my hair. It's a bit committing a social suicide in this case...but again I advertise as your suicide girl next door. To be honest I do not think it will really impact your business if you are someone that is "legitimate" (have pics, a website and do not rip people off). I have been showing less and less of my face in this past year and I still do well. While some people do want to know who they will be meeting, the majority of people you want to meet will be more attracted to your personality that you project, how you handle yourself and will except a nice surprise.

There are no deal breakers in this business. Be you and only show what you are comfortable showing, no matter what your clients want. Find your style, comfort zone and you'll then attract those whom you are meant to attract. Best of luck and enjoy your shoot:)

Pout. Due to personal reasons I could not attend. Another Social and another success from what I see! I know how hard folks work to put these together and kudos go to our coordinators from what Im reading! I am truly looking forward to the next one. My new dress is still hanging there looking lonely and wanting to be worn. I am glad that everyone had a wonderful time. To connect with people that you only read is a special thing and, I think, rather unique to O-Town. I love the CERB community and will make a special effort to come to the next one to meet old friends and make new ones.

It is even very hard to buy a greeting card they all say Happy Holidays. I just ad my own written Merry Christmas at the end . On a positive note I attended my nephews concert this week in Halifax. In previous years there was not even a tree permitted and not one traditional Christmas Carol . This year the last song was , We Wish You A Merry Christmas . That was very nice !

We are removing this from the rules... (As a temporary trial) and we will be allowing link to backpage and craigslist for a limited trial time. Some of the other escort directories will still be on the censor list for competition reasons to EC but I (and the council) have convinced everyone that these links are needed so the guys here can help each other make sure they don't get scammed. please don't abuse this. Ladies... please don't place links on cerb to your backpage ad. We do not want to support BP in that way. This is for research for the guys only.

Btw, there's a few new women at Vibe Urban Spa!! I can't wait to have time to see them. If they are as good as Gina, Alyssa, Tya and all the other nice ladies who already work there... it's gonna a must-see in Ottawa!!

Even better. Thanks for the info!!

Although we have we have some true local gems here in St. John's a significant portion of the ladies we have are actually touring ladies. Personally because of my life situation, playtime for me involves some planning and I'm not usually able to run off to an encounter on a whim. So with the need for planning ahead I always love when I've got lots of advance notice that a lady I adore is coming to town. Because I do have to plan my encounters I tend to try to follow announcements and schedules pretty closely. However, there are some ladies that I would hate to miss so I have asked them to notify me when they start to even consider visiting to ensure that I get a chance to book out my time. I've learned how to play this game in order to maintain proper discretion and have taken all the proper precautions that I should so I don't really mind being contacted. I prefer an email notification or a Cerb PM because I actually have to login to those accounts to get the message. A phone call or text would be ok for me but because those two methods of communication can be generally fraught with issues ladies should generally avoid sending anything unexpected by the client in those forms. IMO a discrete friendly message sent by a lady you've seen before just to say, "hey I'm going to be visiting your area and wanted to let you know" is perfectly fine and appreciated. However, I personally would not like to receive a unsolicited personal message from a lady that I've never communicated with before. Although it might not actually be a solicitation as such, I would likely deem it unprofessional.

Snow I don't mind. Truthfully. It is beautiful, brings great joy to children's faces. It is FUN. We adults can all act like kids again when the snow falls. Living in rural Newfoundland has taught me to appreciate snowshoeing, drinking tea outside in the woods while having a "boil up", skidooing, and just generally playing in the snow. You are NEVER too old to build a snowman or do snow angels :) Shovelling I don't even mind... I used to rather enjoy it growing up in Saskatchewan and trust me, we had our fair share of it there lol. I'm a bit spoiled here as we don't seem to get much. The occasional dump of snow but otherwise, it's fairly mild on the Avalon Peninsula. Let's face it - we are Canadian. Snow is part of who we are. The cold and lack of sunlight that is associated with snow? Now THAT I can do without. As someone who experiences seasonal affective disorder, I miss my sunshine very much and would MUCH rather be in heat than cold. But... I faithfully take my Vitamin D daily, and I love living in Canada -- so I have learned to appreciate all of the seasons. So, I say - let it snow, Let It Snow, Let It Snow, Let It Snow!! PS - Why do you think Canadians are so horny? We need to stay WARM through more months of the year than we need to cool down! LOL !!

I was asked to remove the oral comment, instead I will clarify why I will allow this. If the INDIE MA works as OUTCALL or a SINGLE CALL HOTEL ROOM INCAL VISIT they are technically not breaking any laws. This does become prostitution when it goes beyond just a massage to include oral sex or intercourse so offering this or doing this in a massage spa it makes the spa become a COMMON BAWDY HOUSE and that would be very much illegal and I don't think anyone would ever be foolish enough to admit this happened in a public forum such as this.... not to mention I would need to remove the comment as we do NOT discuss ILLEGAL activities on this site. So... Don't assume Claire does this in a spa. She did say "Some Independent MA's DO offer oral" meaning NO SPA AFFILIATE (I hope that is what she means as that is what I read into this) If a SPA ATTENDANT offers a BJ you are NO LONGER IN A MASSAGE SPA you are in a brothel (AKA COMMON BAWDY HOUSE) DISGUISED as a SPA and at risk of being arrested for being in a common bawdy house if the place gets raided while you are inside. Guys... if you want a BJ or something more don't go to a SPA or a CLUB looking for this and if you find a spa where the girl offers this you may want to leave and maybe even send off a email to the spa as they may not know she is offering this either and putting them at risk.

I was a dancer on and off for 3 years.. I still am but I'm more off than on. I am the type of girl that needs to chat before CR. I'd like to say something here that makes you feel appreciated but in reality it is because I can tell if the guy is going to be a problem by talking to him. I'll take the time to get to know someone so that I feel safe back there. I do however understand that girls need to make their money and my way of doing it often doesnt work out. Think about it, you spend half another chatting with a guy who takes you for one dance or, worse, none at all. Many dancers play the numbers game and they make more than I ever did - do they have as much fun? do they have more problems? well thats the risk we all take. Also, please understand that lots of girls nee to get in the mood. Dancing should be done by those who enjoy it.... but it used to be very good money so women who really had no business pursuing it did. Those girls need to "get warmed up" slowly when they come to work. They have a few drinks, take hours to get ready and then stand around. Ladies who love it even have issues when it is dead sometimes. It sucks performing on an empty stage. All this to say that I think dancing is a dying thing. I think too many get in to it for the money alone and it has ruined it for thos eof us who enjoy the art and the fun. I'm sorry that you ran in to these issues. They are too common

I just wanted to take a moment to thank the wonderful gentlemen I've met here in St.John's. We are lucky to have such a fine group of truly discerning gentleman, and I am incredibly blessed to have been able to spend time with those of you I have met with. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! See you soon ;)

Berlin, thank you for starting this conversation with your clear, sensitive and accurate opening post! I rarely offer one-hour appointments, and never to new clients. Instead, I give a bit of a discount for a first-time meeting so that we can spend a relaxed hour and a half, or more, together. A drink, a glass of wine or a cup of tea and some relaxed conversation smooth the way to a very good erotic encounter. Engage me, turn me on, help me reach high arousal and you're welcome to pound away as much as you like. I'll be with you, and I can be as demanding, responsive and energetic as you can, if not more! And if things come to an end sooner than you'd hoped or expected, that's not a problem. I'm happy to cuddle and engage in lots of sensual after-play. In fact, this is often a bonding experience that may increase my eagerness for round two or for your next visit! I do want to say that the jackhammer enthusiast is, thankfully, rare, perhaps because I learned early on, after someone expected a solid half hour of Greek penetration, not to make half-hour appointments with anyone I don't know quite well. Most of my clients are sensitive and attentive lovers, which makes everything better for both of us.

Yes, it's a new thing. We have had a LARGE increase in new members trying to SHILL post recommendations (Mostly asian ads that are known bait and switchers) so I just made a minimum to post a rec... that stops the lame shill accounts and also gives some credibility to those who make it to 5+ posts and 5+ days. I may make a page that explains the moderation period more clearly and set it so that all new members are asked to read the page. I just don't have time right now to set that all up