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It's that time of year again: International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. Today we honour those who have been taken from us and support those still with us. If you're looking to attend a Dec. 17 event in your area, check out the list of events posted here: http://www.december17.org/event-locations/

How do you spend Christmas eve? Do you go carolling visiting friends and family finish up your shopping cozy up to a fire and just relax at home go out to dinner We have a family gathering. Eating, drinking and catching up:) then everyone goes home and waits for Santa- yes I believe in Santa Claus:)

I'm not "seasoned social attendee" just a "rookie" therefore whatever dates works best for the majority, and especially for the individuals running it and those that like to attend from out of town,is my input. As for name tags, I have no issue with it, really doesn't bother me, last Thursday, I made the effort to shake hands and introduce myself to many of guests,gents and ladies that I could. It got very busy throughout the night, as more people arriving at different hours. However, I was on a mission, to see more ladies,chat more with the ladies than guys that evening :) no offence gents..LOL.

I sure hope your kidding. What single mom would choose to have a sex toy for herself over a real toy for her child? If you know of one then perhaps the child should be living elsewhere. Just saying.

I have experienced providing this type of encounter without knowing ahead of time twice. The gents are not members but had just returned home from being deployed overseas for six months and just wanted to talk and be held from what they endured and witnessed. It was very emotional and a huge eye opener for me. You read the papers and see the news but to be in the company of a soldier right after they return home, is nothing like what you read or see on the news. I don't openly offer this but when I'm asked I usually accept, everyone needs a warm embrace, someone to listen to them and possibly even a shoulder to cry on. I would never deny someone in need of that.

If I may help clear up the question earlier in this thread in regards to the definition of upscale. As an independent, there is no establishment to promote, book, or answer inquiries. The client should expect the same attention to detail, environment and cleanliness, that you would find at one of the elite spa's, but in a private setting and priced inclusively for these reasons. These threads are informative and it's never redundant to inform ourselves.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=160855 You will enjoy your time spent.

Greetings Gentleman, I'm a playful and fun loving seductress whom specializes in the art of complete sensory relaxation. I invite you to take a moment that is delectably indulgent and free from distraction. All while exploring every inch of your body.... Our encounter includes a shower for two, full body relaxation, body slides and stunning conclusion. What we focus on expands, so why not focus on sensuality, relaxation, pleasure, vitality and bliss? ;) My recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=sensual+erin Discreet and upscale location downtown. My schedule this week: Today 11:30-6pm, Tomorrow, 10am-6pm Friday 9am-9pm. Please send an email to [email protected] or send a pm. I look forward to learning more about you and reply to all friendly inquiries. Sensually yours, Erin xoxo

Hello Gentlemen!! My name is Chasity! Outgoing and bubbly I will make you feel at ease the moment you step into my world.. Your time with me will be spent enjoying what it feels like to truly be pampered. Never rushed I like to spend every minute ensuring we make a genuine connection . I will excite all your senses and put you over the edge. I am a tall, fit , brunette with 34DD's, Long Dark Hair, Big Blue eyes and a great smile. Sneak a Peek at my albums ( my profile is a work in progress!) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=8247 You can find me at CMJ ... where all your fantasies will become reality.. My Schedule TUESDAY DEC 17TH 10:00AM - 4:00PM FRIDAY DEC.20TH - CLUBMADELLYNJAE'S XXXMAS PARTY I will be Attending from 2PM UNTIL LATE! SATURDAY DEC 21st 4:00PM - 10:00PM Not a Member of CMJ yet? That's okay PM to be my VIP Guest! Chasityxxoo Reco: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=160456 Pics: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=8247 www.clubcmj.com 613-523-6199

And too frequently you may risk some people from out of town not being able to attend :) xoxo

I'm easy on the date. Really, you guys who are getting off your asses and running the show should do whatever's best for you. The rest of us can damn well fit in! I don't really like the idea of nametags, because discretion. And half the fun is finding out who mysterious people are :) And then finding out who was there but you missed, dammit!

If you can sing Oh Holy Night i will I will consider a reduced donation. However you need to be very good !! Love to all . Xo.

The Christmas Song (Chestnuts roasting by an open fire) ... esp. Nat King Cole's version. Porthos

Exactly my thoughts Vanessa. Msog is included with all my experiences, some gents can and some are just drained or unable to but the option is there. After pillow talk and cuddled time, if it's around 5-10 minutes prior to our time being up, then the gent may extend their time but I will not put that type of pressure on myself or the gent, although I have been able to succeed in doing so when the chemistry is just right and I feel like challenging myself all in good fun, sometimes I can and other times it's just not possible in the last 5-10 minutes . I prefer not to have that type of pressure on either of us. Where is the fun in that?:icon_biggrin:

As an older sp who does nor share a face pic, I truly enjoy the surprise and delight once I open the door :)

The Pogues- Fairytale Of New York.

Also...I am REALLY forward...but if it host at the same location is please possible to have for a better wine selection? Seriously, I am well aware I am consider a wine snob..but most of the time I can mange a decent white or red wine...but there was literally no choice. at all.

Thank you everyone for the sweet birthday wishes... It was a great night full of lots of dancing and champagne :) Kisses to all of you

we spend it at home ... some egg nog, a roaring fire, maybe a wee dram of something stronger. Carols playing, sometimes we watch an old Christmas movie. Always a classic ... Alastair Sim as Scrooge, or It's a Wonderful Life. Porthos

I run around visiting...sober.... Found this though:

I agree with loneskater.....In other words Trying for a cheap deal!!!!!.....And I must say that I learned a long time ago that cheaper isn't necessarily better Guys! Just say'in.........

I'd go with the March date. This last one was so well organized which leads to so much fun that it is worth the wait. As for name tags, two thoughts. I seem to remember from the first Social I attended that there were no name tags because of the "civilian" wait staff. Second thought... name tags make it too easy. Each of us who is curious about another of us should take their courage in their hands and go ask. At this most recent gathering, I was asked - which made me feel good that a stranger was interested enough to ask - and I asked - and I think that asking will lead to something interesting. :)

A very good time had by all! At least I got to use my mistletoe and enjoyed some lovely pecks on the cheeks from some very pretty ladies, however nobody took me up on the other spot where I had my mistletoe, maybe next year, I will keep trying. MisterT & Skates did a wonderful job. Thanks.

Im thinking March for me but it really doesn't matter. Whatever is best for you and loneskater. I do have a suggestion though. What are your thoughts on name tags for the gents? Their handles not actual names. Just an idea.

Maybe it is just because it is Christmas and I find myself more aware of the people around me but I think it really SUCKS that so many wonderful people struggle financially and have to deal emotionally with the stress and problems of being without in a world of plenty. I kinda think we can do better and encourage if us to make a positive impact in our community. Let's each reach out and make it a Merry Christmas for someone we don't know. Just my opinion.

oops ... I'm a little late ... had a rather sketchy drive home yesterday across the park ... there's tons of freakin snow here in central Ontario :D anyways ... please also accept my belated thanks for a fun evening! especially to those who's hard work went into organizing it.. great job! also thanks to the ladies who included me for dinner beforehand, an absolute pleasure to meet you all :) have a super holiday season everyone!! I'm going skiing!!

There are no deal breakers in this business. Be you and only show what you are comfortable showing, no matter what your clients want. Find your style, comfort zone and you'll then attract those whom you are meant to attract. Best of luck and enjoy your shoot:)

I answered "no", but... y'know what? My real, slightly odd answer is: no, I wouldn't pay to cuddle with someone I hadn't already seen for a GFE visit. but under the right circumstances, I can see myself paying for a cuddle session with someone I *had* seen for a GFE encounter. The only way I can make sense of this feeling on my part is: if it's someone I hadn't seen before, the comfortable intimacy of the cuddle (if we were able to build that) would eventually fall prey to me wondering "wow, can't we take this further... man, I wonder what it would be like to... mm, I wonder what she looks like when..." but if it's someone I'd already seen and with whom I'd already been, you know, uh, fully intimate, then some of that curiosity would be satisfied. Plus, we'd already have some kind of physical and intimate bond to build upon and make the lighter connection of the cuddle feel more meaningful and reassuring. Yup, I think it's entirely possible that once I'd established a little-r relationship with an SP, that on some occasions I'd like to just "hang out, close up" with her and talk and caress a bit. That could totally work.

Since Savannah joined Cerb we quickly became long distant friends through the virtual world only. We sent, emails,pm's and text messages back and forth over the past several months. I think we both understood, what we enjoyed in the boudoir, and I had visited her web site many times to get all those finals details about her. When Savannah made her announcement that she was coming to Ottawa, I immediately pre-booked with her, to have my preference in time of day and length of time to spend together. We all seen her pictures, she is one very attractive lady with a body I so desire and her eyes are so seductive, such a beautiful lady, have a look for yourself, and I can confirm, Savannah has a easy going personality too. I picked up some gifts for her, to welcome her to Ottawa, we finally met after a long time of being long distant friends through text messages. When I arrived,and she opened the door, it was within a second we kissed saying hello to each other, I don't think I will ever forget that introduction to "hello" Savannah was wearing a black dress, and looked beautiful, and wow could she ever kiss passionately too. I took off my coat, after a giving her the bag of gifts, and took off my boots. We continued with our deep kissing and hands roaming, and it wasn't long before our clothes were in a neat little pile. I explored her from behind, kissing her neck, and going down slowly, to her beautiful bum. Then I worked my way back up and turned her head so we could kiss more, as I explored her gorgeous breasts and nipples with my big hands, she could feel my erection pressed against her sexy bum. It wasn't long before we held hands moving to her bedroom, where we simply devoured each other,soft beautiful long oral which included Savannah riding my entire face,mouth,tongue,chin and then having her gorgeous body on top of me, and she gave me oral in return, we also got into the 69 position, which was plenty of foreplay for us both. I asked her finally to make love where she, climbed aboard and we made love in cowgirl position, and then moved into mish position where I finally succumbed to her erotic pleasures. We snuggled and kissed, touched and caressed each other for a while, and I played more with her, Savannah was again very much more pleased again. After she succumbed to more orgasmic pleasures we decided to cuddle a bit more. Afterwards,we moved into the shower, we washed each other, played again some more, and lots of more erotic foreplay again for us both. We carried on for quite sometime in the shower then dried off, and moved into the living room area, and played some more, I thoroughly was simply all played out from a 2 hour session that turned out to be 2.5 hours. Her ad's for Ottawa had read "Passion,Intensity, Seduction " I can assure you, that Savannah, is a very passionate lady, with a lot of seduction and intensity. It was a extreme pleasure to meet my east coast girlfriend here in Ottawa and hope she comes back to visit us again, Thanks Savannah for a most enjoyable time with you.

you should go see Alexg

There are so many..some of my favorite singers for Christmas songs are the late great ones- Bing Crosby-no one can beat that voice for Christmas songs Nat King Cole- amazing-a talent he passed on to his daughter Natalie. Dean Martin-soothing and of course anything by the late great Luther Vandross- a voice that is just breathtaking http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_CsIPOzIfVQ

Traditionally, I spend Christmas Eve having a huge panic over all the things I should have done weeks ago and haven't :)

Come on!!!

I usually have a Christmas Eve family gathering, but this year it a quiet year. Most likely spending it alone, so I'll figure something out. Perhaps a movie or I'll go out for dinner, gonna play it by ear.

Thanks so much mistert and loneskater and anyone and everyone else who helped organize the Christmas Social! AWESOME!! Wonderful seeing everybody! I had A great Time. Looking forward to seeing My cerb friends new and old at the next social and ........ some of you Ladies of course MUCH SOONER than later!!!!:bigclap:

Thanks for your reply:) Perhaps all the pm's I gotten over the past couple of years from men thanking me for helping them "blast off" and launching their missiles were lying:-? and I think it's always best to speak for ourselves not others;) just a suggestion:)

Congrats Brad, keep them coming!

Thanks gentlemen for a great night. Looking forward to the next one. A spectacular array of ladies as usual. Nice to meet some of you.

Lots of Snow here in St. John's last night so woke early to get the driveway cleared..... but best neighbor ever already had it done.

The downside of using face pics can be seen here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=160542 re: face pics, as in the above link. What is to stop an unscrupulous guy from booking an appointment with this sp he knows, and then go about either blatantly or subtley blackmailing her for free time, discounts, or extra services. What is to stop him from exposing her to mutual friends if she refuses him as a client, or puts her foot down if he gets pushy. When sps started posting advertisements, it was 3 lines in a newspaper column. Then some photos were used, often by mps using stock photography in ads or in the yellow pages. Then the internet came along, and the traditional sps still did not put pictures in their ads, and the ones with pictures tended to be BS anyway. \\ Now the online ad with 3 to 5 pics is 'insufficient'. 10% of anyone enquiring asks if there are more pics. for what? 5 pics showing a variety of angles, what more is needed? OH, FACE pictures, of course, my bad. lol. Sps are already being pestered for videos, live face to face online chats, and endless emails, messages and texting. And I remind you, that the majority of guys managed to call sps, book appointments and have terrifically great times, based on a 3 line ad in a newspaper, with not one single picture. For anyone who felt that was too much uncertainty, they went to massage parlours where they could see and meet the sps prior to choosing someone to spend time with. Where is this demand from clients, the carrots dangling in front of the new sps who don't know what will be a good idea 2 years or 10 years down the road take them? That they refuse to book or consider sps who won't use face pics? Really? I don't know, but to me, that just seems really pushy. The limits of this work, and the advertising included, has already been pushed really far. low rates are pushed for, high risk services are pushed for, and now the sp can't even leave the privacy of her home without the idea that someone somewhere has seen her online ad with the nudity and provocative poses, but never contacted or seen her in person, but they know her general location and what she looks like. In the past if someone collected an address and no showed, the sp still had the reassurance that even tho he knew where she was, he still didn't know exactly what she looked like. She could leave thinking that even if he sat out there for 5 hours waiting for her to come out, to follow her, or see what she was driving, or whatever, good luck with that because at least he didn't know what her face looked like!

I believe it will be the way you present yourself, no face picture needed. You can learn a lot about a person by the way he/she communicates. It's your personality that will make the difference, plus as soon as you get recommendations many guys will include that you have a very pretty face or give more details about you that you may have forgotten to say in your ads. My .02 cents

Happy BD.. Have a blast

Happy Early Birthday Wishes Tianna Enjoy your special day RG

Thank you to mistert & Loneskater for organizing a first rate function! It was great to catch up with some old friends and meet some new ones too! I was lucky enough to win a door prize thanks to CMJ & ALO! The Venue was excellent as was the staff! It was a bit dark in the room but Emily's pink shoes helped to brighten it up! Looking forward to the next social! Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to all!

Additional Comments:

Top of my list is respect.

From the RCMP's press release, Project "Combative" targets a criminal organization involved in the smuggling and trafficking of Romanian nationals in Canada. My thoughts, based on the press release. If there is a criminal organization bringing Romanian nationals into Canada and they are made to be sex workers, then yes, I hope law enforcement investigates and the Crown prosecutes them. It sounds, just from what I can take from the RCMP press release, this is more of a case of sex trafficking. This is the ugly side of prostitution and police should target it. The Romanian nationals sound like they are being pimped out by the criminal organization, hence the reason that organization is targeted by the RCMP. We aren't talking about consenting adults here At least that's what I take from the press release RG

This "things that suck" is not just for me, it's for all the cerb guys that call St. John's home. Very recently, St. John's lost one of the best ladies this town has ever seen. Other Cerb members and I will lament for a long time to come Danika's ("Sweet as Pie" here on Cerb) decision to move to Halifax. Although she asked not to be reco'd (she was in huge demand just from word of mouth) in a very short time this fantasic woman became the ATF of pretty much every guy who who was lucky enough to met her. Treat her well Halifax. Right now you guys have no idea the treasure that you have gained, but you soon will. We certainly realize just what we have lost. I got to know her very well over the months and feel genuine sadness to know she's gone. :(