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It's that time of year again: International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. Today we honour those who have been taken from us and support those still with us. If you're looking to attend a Dec. 17 event in your area, check out the list of events posted here: http://www.december17.org/event-locations/

How do you spend Christmas eve? Do you go carolling visiting friends and family finish up your shopping cozy up to a fire and just relax at home go out to dinner We have a family gathering. Eating, drinking and catching up:) then everyone goes home and waits for Santa- yes I believe in Santa Claus:)

I'm not "seasoned social attendee" just a "rookie" therefore whatever dates works best for the majority, and especially for the individuals running it and those that like to attend from out of town,is my input. As for name tags, I have no issue with it, really doesn't bother me, last Thursday, I made the effort to shake hands and introduce myself to many of guests,gents and ladies that I could. It got very busy throughout the night, as more people arriving at different hours. However, I was on a mission, to see more ladies,chat more with the ladies than guys that evening :) no offence gents..LOL.

I sure hope your kidding. What single mom would choose to have a sex toy for herself over a real toy for her child? If you know of one then perhaps the child should be living elsewhere. Just saying.

I have experienced providing this type of encounter without knowing ahead of time twice. The gents are not members but had just returned home from being deployed overseas for six months and just wanted to talk and be held from what they endured and witnessed. It was very emotional and a huge eye opener for me. You read the papers and see the news but to be in the company of a soldier right after they return home, is nothing like what you read or see on the news. I don't openly offer this but when I'm asked I usually accept, everyone needs a warm embrace, someone to listen to them and possibly even a shoulder to cry on. I would never deny someone in need of that.

If I may help clear up the question earlier in this thread in regards to the definition of upscale. As an independent, there is no establishment to promote, book, or answer inquiries. The client should expect the same attention to detail, environment and cleanliness, that you would find at one of the elite spa's, but in a private setting and priced inclusively for these reasons. These threads are informative and it's never redundant to inform ourselves.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=160855 You will enjoy your time spent.

Greetings Gentleman, I'm a playful and fun loving seductress whom specializes in the art of complete sensory relaxation. I invite you to take a moment that is delectably indulgent and free from distraction. All while exploring every inch of your body.... Our encounter includes a shower for two, full body relaxation, body slides and stunning conclusion. What we focus on expands, so why not focus on sensuality, relaxation, pleasure, vitality and bliss? ;) My recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=sensual+erin Discreet and upscale location downtown. My schedule this week: Today 11:30-6pm, Tomorrow, 10am-6pm Friday 9am-9pm. Please send an email to [email protected] or send a pm. I look forward to learning more about you and reply to all friendly inquiries. Sensually yours, Erin xoxo

Hello Gentlemen!! My name is Chasity! Outgoing and bubbly I will make you feel at ease the moment you step into my world.. Your time with me will be spent enjoying what it feels like to truly be pampered. Never rushed I like to spend every minute ensuring we make a genuine connection . I will excite all your senses and put you over the edge. I am a tall, fit , brunette with 34DD's, Long Dark Hair, Big Blue eyes and a great smile. Sneak a Peek at my albums ( my profile is a work in progress!) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=8247 You can find me at CMJ ... where all your fantasies will become reality.. My Schedule TUESDAY DEC 17TH 10:00AM - 4:00PM FRIDAY DEC.20TH - CLUBMADELLYNJAE'S XXXMAS PARTY I will be Attending from 2PM UNTIL LATE! SATURDAY DEC 21st 4:00PM - 10:00PM Not a Member of CMJ yet? That's okay PM to be my VIP Guest! Chasityxxoo Reco: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=160456 Pics: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=8247 www.clubcmj.com 613-523-6199

And too frequently you may risk some people from out of town not being able to attend :) xoxo

I'm easy on the date. Really, you guys who are getting off your asses and running the show should do whatever's best for you. The rest of us can damn well fit in! I don't really like the idea of nametags, because discretion. And half the fun is finding out who mysterious people are :) And then finding out who was there but you missed, dammit!

If you can sing Oh Holy Night i will I will consider a reduced donation. However you need to be very good !! Love to all . Xo.

The Christmas Song (Chestnuts roasting by an open fire) ... esp. Nat King Cole's version. Porthos

Exactly my thoughts Vanessa. Msog is included with all my experiences, some gents can and some are just drained or unable to but the option is there. After pillow talk and cuddled time, if it's around 5-10 minutes prior to our time being up, then the gent may extend their time but I will not put that type of pressure on myself or the gent, although I have been able to succeed in doing so when the chemistry is just right and I feel like challenging myself all in good fun, sometimes I can and other times it's just not possible in the last 5-10 minutes . I prefer not to have that type of pressure on either of us. Where is the fun in that?:icon_biggrin:

As an older sp who does nor share a face pic, I truly enjoy the surprise and delight once I open the door :)

The Pogues- Fairytale Of New York.

Also...I am REALLY forward...but if it host at the same location is please possible to have for a better wine selection? Seriously, I am well aware I am consider a wine snob..but most of the time I can mange a decent white or red wine...but there was literally no choice. at all.

Thank you everyone for the sweet birthday wishes... It was a great night full of lots of dancing and champagne :) Kisses to all of you

we spend it at home ... some egg nog, a roaring fire, maybe a wee dram of something stronger. Carols playing, sometimes we watch an old Christmas movie. Always a classic ... Alastair Sim as Scrooge, or It's a Wonderful Life. Porthos

I run around visiting...sober.... Found this though:

I agree with loneskater.....In other words Trying for a cheap deal!!!!!.....And I must say that I learned a long time ago that cheaper isn't necessarily better Guys! Just say'in.........

I'd go with the March date. This last one was so well organized which leads to so much fun that it is worth the wait. As for name tags, two thoughts. I seem to remember from the first Social I attended that there were no name tags because of the "civilian" wait staff. Second thought... name tags make it too easy. Each of us who is curious about another of us should take their courage in their hands and go ask. At this most recent gathering, I was asked - which made me feel good that a stranger was interested enough to ask - and I asked - and I think that asking will lead to something interesting. :)

A very good time had by all! At least I got to use my mistletoe and enjoyed some lovely pecks on the cheeks from some very pretty ladies, however nobody took me up on the other spot where I had my mistletoe, maybe next year, I will keep trying. MisterT & Skates did a wonderful job. Thanks.

Im thinking March for me but it really doesn't matter. Whatever is best for you and loneskater. I do have a suggestion though. What are your thoughts on name tags for the gents? Their handles not actual names. Just an idea.

Maybe it is just because it is Christmas and I find myself more aware of the people around me but I think it really SUCKS that so many wonderful people struggle financially and have to deal emotionally with the stress and problems of being without in a world of plenty. I kinda think we can do better and encourage if us to make a positive impact in our community. Let's each reach out and make it a Merry Christmas for someone we don't know. Just my opinion.

oops ... I'm a little late ... had a rather sketchy drive home yesterday across the park ... there's tons of freakin snow here in central Ontario :D anyways ... please also accept my belated thanks for a fun evening! especially to those who's hard work went into organizing it.. great job! also thanks to the ladies who included me for dinner beforehand, an absolute pleasure to meet you all :) have a super holiday season everyone!! I'm going skiing!!

There are no deal breakers in this business. Be you and only show what you are comfortable showing, no matter what your clients want. Find your style, comfort zone and you'll then attract those whom you are meant to attract. Best of luck and enjoy your shoot:)

I answered "no", but... y'know what? My real, slightly odd answer is: no, I wouldn't pay to cuddle with someone I hadn't already seen for a GFE visit. but under the right circumstances, I can see myself paying for a cuddle session with someone I *had* seen for a GFE encounter. The only way I can make sense of this feeling on my part is: if it's someone I hadn't seen before, the comfortable intimacy of the cuddle (if we were able to build that) would eventually fall prey to me wondering "wow, can't we take this further... man, I wonder what it would be like to... mm, I wonder what she looks like when..." but if it's someone I'd already seen and with whom I'd already been, you know, uh, fully intimate, then some of that curiosity would be satisfied. Plus, we'd already have some kind of physical and intimate bond to build upon and make the lighter connection of the cuddle feel more meaningful and reassuring. Yup, I think it's entirely possible that once I'd established a little-r relationship with an SP, that on some occasions I'd like to just "hang out, close up" with her and talk and caress a bit. That could totally work.

This is Robyns 2 nd day at Angels Touch. Get there fast. She is stunning,beautiful and sweet. When I walked in and she said she was Robyn, I thought I hit the jackpot. Wow. Great massage (she nearly put me to sleep) in a good way, but I couldn't help staring. A warm, affectionate, all woman and a pleasure to talk to as well. Thanks for the great time Robyn and I would repeat everyday if I could.

A brand new webcam!

For you Katherine I shall sing "Ohhhhh Holy Nightie" I sing it very good cause I wrote it .....just now ;)

Federal Govt-they promised me something, now they took it back. :( feeling heartbroken .

Transsiberian Orchestra - Carol of the Bells Song is also known as "Christmas Eve Sarajevo"

Well I'll chime in again. A lady should show her face if and only if she feels comfortable doing so. But if her comfort zone is to not show her face she shouldn't feel pressured nor should she be pressured into showing it That client you might gain by showing your face might also be a one time only client for only a one hour encounter, or worse even a no show...yet your face is on the internet forever. I'm not saying a lady shouldn't show her face. But don't let prospective clients pressure you into showing it when otherwise you wouldn't. Just my two cents worth RG

Well done, Brad, and thanks for the group posts, too!

Congrats Brad ! I always enjoy reading you posts. ! respectful but fun!

Having it six weeks later (March 20th) would likely yield warmer weather.

I think I'll give her a call, thanks for the info

I agree Pete.... she is an amazing lady.

Happy Birthday sweetie!! Wishing you the very best in the year to come. Have a great day.

I vote for march 20th

I am going to say a resounding NOPE. How you depict yourself verbally is what initially sparks the interest. Your words have enticed your target audience to even take the time to view your ad where they ultimately see your pics. Words first....and from what I hear, the BP type of ad that the youngins tend to post (emoticons etc) are a turn off (to respectful gents).

I was going to pm, but I think it is more helpful to the board if dont.I don't mean Any disrespect by not doing so. I think this board is an excellent source for information on whatever it is that you seek. And if you are fortunate enough to have an account you can speak with the specific lady you wish to see to ask directly on what fees are to be expected. Some ladies have non- negotiable rates. And I think it would be unfair to say that a spa or specific lady is not " up-scale" if she chooses not to state the rates as an inclusive amount. It can be stated however one see fit. At any spa, a portion of the fee goes to the " house " whether it's paid up front, or as an inclusive rate. If a lady choose to charge anything beyond that that means she's offing something that is not typical and yes, in that case I agree that it can be quite confusing because some people don't come with the expectations if anything other than a massage and a hj. And please don't be discouraged to go any particular spa, or see a particular lady jake_cdn or anyone else for that matter. There are many great ladies everywhere. Keep it rosey and cheers.

Yes I pm'd you , but for all you guys out there that think that means a bad experience it wasnt

My .02 cents on this is don't think about it, just forget you seen her ad and move on. There are so many other girls out there don't risk the "friendship" you have things can turn sour real quick and I would not want to be mixed up in it. Again just my opinion you can still do what you want, you know her better then I or anyone else on here.

Hi Jake.. This thread I beieve has miost of the info you are looking for... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=148646 Just in case here is answer to each of your individual question... Are private appointments different from appointments in a business environment? A: Service will even be different within the same business as all MAs have their own style, personality.., likes and dislikes so you cant even break service from business like to indipendent,.. as MAs are individuals and everyone is different... Is it rude to ask about the fees beforehand? A: No it is not rude to ask for fees in advanced.. You will find that when you contact a business they may not mention the tipping options... again they can range between 60$-120$... Independents usually will provide you with all inclusive fees and packages... but Also ladies in Spas (i will include myself) can provide you with All inclusive packages and when you compare them It will come to being similar... pretty much the same... the only difference is when you go to an independent she does not have to pay a door fee but some portion will cover rent and other expenses that help run her business... Ladies at a Spa have a set door fee that varies between 40 and 80 depending on the length of the session.... I know that the fees are not to be discussed at the door but can they be determined before going in? A: say you decide to show up as a walkin at a Parlour..., the lady may invite you in the room and you can have a chat about the fees... even before you decide to stay or not... again depending on the level of service you are looking for you are looking between 60$ and 120$... on top of the door fee... I know that the fees are not to be discussed at the door but can they be determined before going in? A: I cant really answer that question.. all I can say is.. there is lots of ladies here on Cerb that may work out of a Spa BUT they book their appointments on their own same as an independent will ... My suggestion is check out what ladies interest you... and if she is part of a spa and dont have a way fo contacting her directly aside from the spa number... talk to the managers they most likely will be able to answer most questions... dont be afraid... Hope this helped....

Wow, Thank you MisterT and Loneskater... you guys rock! Thanks for making it comfortable and fun. Everyone I chatted with were so friendly, thank you. It was my first social and I was a kid in a candy shop... so yummy! To all the ladies, your smiles and beautiful outfits made this event spectacular... your heels kept me drooling and those legs...lots of legs! Thank you for sharing and coming out to meet. I was in heaven and you are all Angels. Looking forward to meeting again. Everyone have a safe and happy holiday season Merci and Take care

Wow! Wow! Wow! So much fun and well worth the trip. HUGE thanks to mistert and loneskater for planning a wonderful evening. Thank you to Annessa for wrapping the door prizes. Thank you to the DROP DEAD GORGEOUS bartenders who were amazing. It was so great to put a face to so many names. I didn't have a chance to say hi to everyone -- it was a flurry! But made many new friends and had an absolutely wonderful time. Thank you SO much for having me !! xoxo

Most won't care, as it's clear from his post what he meant and the main person-Cleo- who he was thanking knows what he means so.. I think it's sweet and very nice of him to post such a truthful and flattering post. We all make spelling boboo's but we all don't thank one another enough;) Congrats to you for popping your hobby cherry and to Cleo for making it so memorable:)