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It's like the rule: " You should never go grocery shopping when you're hungry." Men... well we're kinda, ummmmm.... horny. And.... when the blood rushes to our nether regions, it evacuates from our thinking parts. That's when the inner caveman takes over, "Grog have big woodie like club. Grog need naked lady." Now the caveman scenario works if there is a willing naked lady in the immediate vicinity, perhaps in the same house or room. "Grog now happy. No need to polish club alone and cry after." In the world of courtesans, companions and other c words that sound very classy and debonair, there is a bit of prep time required. And travel. Prep time and travel. Oh. Shower time. And hair time. And make-up time. And finding the right outfit time. And deciding that the first outfit doesn't work with the nail colour she's wearing, so she has to find an appropriate outfit that matches time. And screw it, I like that outfit, i'll just change the nail colour time. And the time just before she changes her nails because that manicure cost 45 dollars and she'll be damned if she doesn't find something to show it off time. And then rooting through the closet to find SOMETHING to match the nail polish time. And then the eyeliner time. And then perfect shoe time. And then comes the time that she reflects that it's only a 30 minute appointment and the perfect outfit, shoes and stockings will be on the floor in two minutes time. And then there's the dammit, I'm dressing for me not for him time. And then there's the where are my keys time. And then the can't find my cell phone time. And then it's time to get to the appointment. So you see guys... you need to book well in advance. Yup.

A lot of Sps are willing to offer last min appointment.. BUT please give us a MINIMUM of notice. Lately I had a lot of request from people who wanted to see me RIGHT NOW, not even able to wait 15min to get ready. For our appointment, we like to be fresh & clean. We are NOT vending machine, put 2$ Im ready. No, no, no.... Please, I, and a lot of others girls, are happy to accomadate you.. But please, we do have a life too.. Its not because Im available Im already dress in lingerie waiting for you..

First and foremost, most of this falls squarely on you to figure out. You say you don't know why you hobby so you really should take a hard deep look and figure it out. Maybe there's something you're missing or that you need. Until you figure it out, you will always be stuck in the middle and unfulfilled and your GF will be paying some of the price. You need to have this answer before you can determine how much the relationship is worth. I agree with non full disclosure, why hurt her more than she already is. This is a trust issue. Unfortunately one area of trust rolls into every area of trust, that's how it works which is why it ends up such a big deal. I don't believe in the whole "cheater" mentality in some situations. I very much try not to judge and understand that there are situations where sometimes there isn't much choice. If an SO can't meet needs for whatever reason, I can completely understand how someone can turn to an SP to have their needs met so they don't go crazy and are better equipped to take care of an SO. I don't view them as a cheater because as people, we sacrifice too much of ourselves everyday. You can't shut off needs. We are human and have basic needs that go beyond food, shelter, water etc. Intimacy, touch, connection, sex. Society tries to exclude these factors which is why we tend to get into so much trouble.

Hilarious list of stuff people got stuck in various orifices (not just butts). http://deadspin.com/what-did-we-get-stuck-in-our-rectums-this-year-1486766986

Great thread! My answer to that is it takes me at least 15 minutes to make my hair straight. My reminder to right now people is that I do not wake up with straight hair and matching bra and undies!!!!

Sorry you got busted. So now she wants to know everything. I understand that. I don't understand why you would tell her everything. You seem to actually want to dig up information about encounters you don't even remember. My goodness. She knows. You tell her it was two or three times, over a lengthy period, some of them before you met her, and that's the end of it. She either stays with you, or she doesn't. I have no idea how often you hobby, but if it is frequently it will hurt her far more than if it's only occasionally (or if she thinks it is occasionally). From there, several things might happen. either she a) insists you give up the hobby or b) she accepts that this is, from time to time, something you will do. If b) you might be even be lucky enough to introduce her to a lady to share the experience with you. If a), however, you will have to decide whether you will stop, or whether you will get much better at hiding your activities. Porthos

Well my quick two cents from a single guy. Tell her everything you remember without the details, and JMHO, don't research because you don't remember. Just tell her what you remember...with this caveat. Ask yourself, do you want to continue in this lifestyle or do you want to save your relationship. If you know you are going to continue on in this lifestyle no matter what, let your SO know. No one knows anyone else's relationship but you shouldn't continue if you know it will hurt your SO and you wish to remain married. It really is your choice...this lifestyle or your relationship, and which is most important to you. But if you chose this lifestyle let your SO know so she can decide what she wants to do. Irrespective of your enjoyment of this lifestyle, she doesn't deserve to be hurt anymore, and she is hurt. Good Luck RG

Just because a lady has posted her days and hours of availability doesn't mean she is sitting right by her phone all dressed up ready for an encounter. She needs time to get ready for a scheduled encounter..."right now" is not a scheduled encounter. Think about it, a lady may advertise hours from hypothetically speaking 10am to 10pm. Should she get ready for 10am and just wait,the only client of the day that day comes at 9pm...wouldn't you prefer if she is freshly showered for an encounter, just the same as the lady doesn't just prefer, but demands her clients be freshly showered/brushed teeth well you get the idea A rambling RG

There does seem to be a lot of now or never appointment seekers of late. They want it right away, not even giving as you said, 15min to get ready. I can be quick, but just to take a shower takes 15 min so if you want a fresh lady, that is relaxed and prepared give us some notice. It will be worth the wait;) Thanks for the thread Rebecca:)

It's cold. I took two steps outside this afternoon and WHAM. I'm hung like a toddler. I think my testicles have retracted so far into my body that I have two mini kidneys. It's THAT cold.

I haven't been in a relationship where this has happened but if I were cheated on I wouldn't stay. But that's me. I'm rather "square" and old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I believe in monogamy and that the man should be the bread winner and the woman should stay at home and I believe in complete honesty in a relationship- no exceptions. If I'm not all he needs at any point I don't want to be with him. Women are intuitive and quite frankly we know when something is not right, when you are stepping out. There are some who react, some who don't. Some leave, some put up with it, some want to work through it and forgive. It's devastating because you are turning to someone else for affection, sex, or for whatever you are seeking outside of your relationship. We, want to be the only one and some of us will blame ourselves for being the reason you're stepping out, even though we may not be. Women are often very hard on themselves, blaming their looks, figure or sexual prowess for not being enough, when in fact a lot of times none of these points are ever the reason. I've often asked different men why they seek someone outside of their relationship and the common answer is usually they aren't getting what they need from their spouse or so, for some they just need many, a variety, others like the op, don't know why. But whether these were honest answers or not I'll never know. This is one of the biggest reasons for my discomfort in this business, knowing that I'm enabling a cheating man. But I've been contradictory in a lot of aspects in my life. Perhaps I'm more gray than I realize. No matter what we do, it is a choice, life is short and happiness is fleeting and needed. I say if doing something makes you happy then you need it, do it, and suffer the consequences. I guess what you have to ask yourself is -does this lifestyle make me happier than my spouse/so, or does my spouse/so make me happier. Can I have both, or can I survive, be happy without one or the other, that too is a choice. Best of luck.

There are a lot of animal lovers here, most have plenty of knowledge and common sense when it comes to their pets and animals, but just in case someone reading this doesn't PLEASE remember if it's to cold for you outside it is for your pet as well. Some can fair better than others-huskies, berners, bernards, etc, but most dogs and cats and other animals, need shelter from these frigid temperatures. So please, if you see an unattended animal out for long periods take action, call a shelter, the police, humane society, someone until it's helped. Nothing can survive being out unsheltered in these unusually cold temperatures, thank you:) and stay warm, visit an sp today;) http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/thunder-bay/animals-left-outside-drives-worried-calls-to-humane-society-1.2481936

Darling Old Dog, You officially hang out with us SPs WAY TOO MUCH! This is hilariously too accurate! You are the only man I know that can take the chaos that is our day and make it something that makes me spew my wine out my nose and giggle thru the burn! kisses, cat

Oh my do I love this thread... we all have at least one or two a day....then when its not possible its like...oh no!!! can you cancel the other and see me instead!!!! What??? Duh...I'm sure you would love it if someone did that to you!!enough said... BJ

Thank you Rebecca - great thread. It seems lately there are a lot of "can I see you right now?" requests. Unless you have a time machine, just how are you going to get to her place "right now"? How is she going to get to your place "right now"? Another thing, if she does agree to a "last minute appointment", don't send her a million text asking a million questions. How is she going to get ready for you if she has to keep stopping to answer your endless questions? And one last thing, if she does agree to a last minute appointment don't show up 15 minutes early and say "I'm here". Additional Comments: Thank you Rebecca - great thread. It seems lately there are a lot of "can I see you right now?" requests. Unless you have a time machine, just how are you going to get to her place "right now"? How is she going to get to your place "right now"? Another thing, if she does agree to a "last minute appointment", don't send her a million text asking a million questions. How is she going to get ready for you if she has to keep stopping to answer your endless questions? And one last thing, if she does agree to a last minute appointment don't show up 15 minutes early and say "I'm here".

Found myself some time this afternoon so I headed in to Barb's to find a buffet, which included hip of beef, cold beer, the shooter girl (who's name escapes me now), on stage giving away a Teemu Selannie #13 Jets jersey, the "Ever-There" Claire, Jenna (previously Jessa & formerly Jenna), & the new-to-me Selina(?)! Selina really heated the place up with her rather athletic stage show. I love it when a great looking woman can take a great song to another level with her moves! She did just that with Lynyrd Skynyrd's Simple Man. Jenna is a natural beauty. No make-up, easy to talk to, a real girl next door type (if we should be so lucky), and, simply put, a GREAT set of tits! Can't wait to get back in to see them all again, the Hip, the beers, the ladies, and another jersey give away, maybe even a 2014 Team Canada Gold Medal winning scorer's jersey! GO CANADA GO!!!

I have seen Lyka more than once and will definitely repeat. If you have yet to partake or have not seen her ads, Lyka is a beautiful young Filipino lady. She is sexy, curvy and tanned with incredible natural breasts and a beautiful face. Trust me you won't be disappointed when you open the door. Playtime with Lyka ranges all the way from intimate and passionate to wild and unleashed. She enjoys herself immensely, as do I and I never feel rushed. We both end up very satisfied. I cannot recommend this lady enough.....Murdock

been there, done that. Your outcome is likely to be improved immeasurably if you can wade these waters together with a good relationship counsellor you're BOTH comfortable with. Re: details - the hunger to know has less to do with knowing what happened, but why - and what questions about herself and you she has burning inside. She uses the details to try and piece together answers to her internal questions. I'd suggest answering truthfully and with as much/little detail as she asks for. Be honest when you're not sure, and say so. If there's something you're not ready to divulge yet, say so, and ask if you can come back to it in a few days. If she'll agree to share her thoughts on what you say, repeat back what she says (to help her judge whether you really heard what she meant), and ask her to tell you more. Listen WITHOUT defending. It's learning time for both of you. You may be surprised that, when this long road is behind you, BOTH of you love the idea of outside sexual exploration (or you might not). If you do, finding ways to explore it (often couples do so together) opens up new possibilities that don't destroy trust. If you end up not seeing eye to eye, the loving thing for both of you is to find partners that share your core values.

I have to ask... why does it matter to you whether the person you're with is a full-time SP, or part time? How does the number of other appointments she has affect her time with you?

Seems appropriate given the thread A Seinfeld episode for every occasion RG

No one in Ottawa, MA or MP is licensed to give "happy-endings". A City License for "happy-endings" does not exist.

I have to admit while blushing right now..I liked the picture of Genevieve Marceau in yoga pants!

There's many ladies (including myself) who do post either on ads or websites what's their minimum required notice so as almost always it resumes to read whatever the lady has posted to avoid disappointment.

Well, first so sorry that you are faced with this, especially a sensitive time like the Holidays:( The only thing I can suggest is to delicately explain how you were feeling at the time, that you needed to have some room to play, is a mistake once but if a hobby then you need to look closer into how "not to be caught" . Not sure what "tell her everything" consists of. But would say to keep it low key, and be sure you show her that YOU LOVE HER, and only her. This is a lesson learned. I hope you find peace with this one, Best of luck!

My condolences jafo. Having a parent passing away is tough Take Care RG

My cat is antsy and glares at me when I won't let her out - but then I open the door and she feels the cold and turns away from the door!! Lol she is a bit hyper though because she can't get outside to run off steam! I am enjoying playing with her more :) AND cuddling more!!!

I've seen this on a few ads on BP. Am I the only one that finds this pretty despicable? Can't say I'd want to meet with a girl that openly racist.

Visiting a place that was pretty much top of the bucket list. And no, it wasn't someone's incall :)

I have met Tia and pictures are accurate, location is a hotel downtown. Although the experience i had with was not bad but i cannot say it was amazing either. I would have to say i find it annoying when an SP answers her cell when she is in a session with me, i believe all of her attention should be focused on me.

Actually the city of Ottawa Body rub license does not prohibit "happy endings", at least the one I read online. It does specify that the attendant must stay clothed at all timesand a few other things concerning hygiene, but it has no specific wording on what can and cannot be "rubbed". I looked at other jurisdictions in Ontario like Mississauga and Pickering, and their regs have specific prohibitions on massaging, buttocks, genitals and breasts, no digits, no oral, no ejaculation. Those words are not on the Body Rub regulations posted on the city of Ottawa website.

It was a more general observation, and not necessarily in direct response to your post Cristy. ... My point is not to say it isn't cheating. It absolutely is. No denying that, and I've wouldn't even try to justify my hobbying on that basis. There has been a lot of discussion lately about removing the stigma from sex work. I absolutely agree with that. However, there is also a stigma around infidelity. And, it seems to me, that without infidelity there isn't nearly the demand for sex work. So yes, I cheat and I fully accept that. Should that be judged ... well perhaps in some quarters but not here. Just my (friendly) .02

I hope my post didn't come across as judgemental. As it was intended to just explain my point of view and how I would react. Why or how someone does something is for them, but I am always curious as to why? But if calling it cheating is deemed judgemental then I guess I am. But you have to call it what it is. That doesn't mean I'm judging you/him or her for doing it, quite honestly I don't care what anyone outside of my circle does. :)After all, if you vow to your spouse /so to only be with them and you aren't then.. If you said you may wander then you're not cheating. Why you do it really doesn't remove or change the action or give the action a different title. We all do what we do for reasons that are our own, and our own business, but again, many of theses actions do have a name, liked or not.:)

The whole question of cheaing and it's relationship to this business has been discussed many times. Married men make up a large percentage of the individuals who engage in this life style. So I am frequently amused by the judgements that seem to be expressed about the subject. Every person has different reasons why they hobby. Just as providers have different reasons why they do this, so do clients. Judgements should be left aside. Having said that, there is no doubt that it is cheating, and that if caught it comes with a huge emotional cost. If you are married or in a relationship, (Unless you are lucky enough to be in an open relationship) the least you can do is be careful and cautious enough that your partner doesn't find out. I think you do owe your partner that much. and not to be critical of the OP, as things do happen that are unexpected/unanticipated, but it really isn't that hard to take precautions against being caught out. There are tons of posts on this subject and lots of good advice. I've been at this, with varying degrees of frequency, for over 15 years. I've never come even remotely close to being caught. Porthos

A lot of the GENTLEMEN here know how to be a great client but for those who are still figuring it how might I suggest- 1.Be reliable 2.If you want your sp to be honest -be honest as well! 3.Be reliable 4.If you say you are coming back or going to call -COME BACK-OR CALL! There are lots of fish in the sea, if you don't plan a re-visit don't say you are going to. We'll survive and have fun meeting another client! 5. Be reliable 6.Don't gossip about other girls 7.If there was no chemistry, be a gentlemen and realize this, it might have been you, her or both. But to post about that is childish, catty and pointless. Chemistry is special and doesn't always happen, why expect it to and why be disappointed when it doesn't, move on and find it elsewhere. 8. Be reliable 9. Respect us and we'll respect you. Read through our sites, ads, posts. You'll find all necessary information there. We take the time to post it, the least you can do is take the time to read it! 10.Be discreet. Discretion goes both ways! Keep in mind most sp's use aliases, don't ask a neighbour, hotel staff where so&so lives/stays. If you get lost call. If you are going to be late call, if you are early call. Never assume anything. Every detail must be discussed and agreed upon. 11.If you say you are going to write a reco do so. If when you leave you felt that the experience wasn't worthy, what you expected or you just don't write them, why say you are going to? 12. Remember we are human, and even though many of us are experienced that doesn't mean we can perform miracles. If you are a man with issues in the bedroom don't expect that just because we are sp's we know everything about sex or have magic abilities. Setting your expectations to high will only lead to disappointments. 13. Be reliable 14. an added point to #7-If you like me, her, them. Good, great, wonderful. Write a reco, or don't that's your choice. If you didn't shut your mouth, again- this board says- if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. That rule should carry through with clients comments. If a lady just wasn't your taste, speed, look, etc, that doesn't mean she won't be some one else's. So why plant a bad seed? Would you like us to do that to you! 15. Be appreciative. We go to a lot of trouble to make our clients comfortable, happy, satisfied and glad they came! Give us a thank you, hug, smile, tip, something to show that you realize this and do it with honesty-refer back to #4.#11. 16. Enjoy, have fun and be happy!!

as someone who has been thru the "caught wringer" (not with an sp, but RL cheating decades ago), I may have a few insights. The desire to go outside is a combo of evolution, biology, culture, and personal value set. There's sides of our sexuality we can only touch in the excitement of a different person than our SO. But like a buffet, we can't eat everything without a bad hurt after. To get to some sort of resolution that brings you both to the closest win/win, my hunch is that you likely need to dig a lot more into why the craving is so strong. I saw a great therapist for a number of years after, which helped me bring out what I really wanted in life a lot more than I had wanted to dig earlier. I was afraid of knowing, but found it isn't the knowing that's dangerous; it's the choices that were hitting me like 2x4's. More self-awareness helps me make more concious choices, and it becomes easier to give up $5 bills to get $10 ones in return. Or at least be ok with wanting toonies instead, cause they're just so shiny! Hope this helps a bit.

How fast can you guess these words? 1) BOO_S 2) _ _NDOM. 3) F_ _K 4) P_N__S 5) PU_S_ 6) S_X I want to warm you up this weekend with a relaxing yet sensual and steamy massage! I am 5'4, big blue eyes, short dark hair and curvy with tattoos that compliment my body in all the right places!! I will provide you with a deep yet sensual massage to get you started. I will follow up with a sexy body slide and let my fingers lightly explore you making you wanting more! Satisfying for the eyes and the body!! Then I will let the bubbles lead the trail for my fingers in the shower!! Duos couples body slides showers reverse massage foot fetishes My Schedule for the Week of December 30 to January 5: Monday December 30- 10:00AM to 11:00PM Tuesday December 31- 10:00PM to 5:00PM Friday January 3- 3:30PM to 11:00PM Sunday January 5- 3:30PM to 9:00PM I am here today to heighten you senses today from 3:30pm to 11:00pm at Angel's Touch 613-274-7073, Private Message me or email [email protected] to book

After requesting Taras permission I will let you know she is currently dancing in belleville at the caberet downtown on front st. Cheers xo

My thoughts and prayers are with you, I'm so sorry for your loss and for you not being able to be near her. But be assured she felt your presence. Feelings are felt no matter if we are near or far from those we love and her spirit will always be with you.

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I think Eva Pearl has a really cute bum!

I wish you all beautiful happiness and peace in your hearts. Much love Lilly

Nicolette Vaughn Cat Carrie Moon Chanel Reign Dorinda Not in Ottawa, but worth mentioning: Lexy Grace (Halifax) Shortcake (Belleville) Nikki Thomasi (Toronto) - Buns of Steel - seriously folks, proof is in the squeezing! To Bianca: I have felt all the others lol. Yours I have not, but yes it looks great!

I was just woken up by a phone call from the hospital. My mom has taken a turn for the worst. She is not expected to be with us much longer. Man it suck being so far away. She does not deserve to be alone at a time like this. :icon_cry: :icon_cry: :icon_cry: ________________________________________________________________________________ It is about 02:45 in the morning now. I just got off the phone a little while ago with the hospital. My mother has now passed on. :icon_cry: :icon_cry: :icon_cry:

The title of documentary about the SP and their disabled clients in Australia is called Scarlett Road, and it is a quite moving story. Also I recall I watched another documentary film about the SPs and disabled clients in United Kingdom on TV several years ago. I can tell you that Scarlett Road is much better.

To be honest, most of my recommendations, beyond a couple that can offer some things that I *really* want to try, are ones who had recent ads and who, for whatever reason, caught my attention when I was going through the site. When I get a chance to make another visit, the chance that I go to my list and start looking for boxes to check off is slim to none. More than likely, it will be to go through the recent ads and see who/what catches my eye and strikes my interest. If I am being honest, the fact that I can go to any of the ladies who have ads on here and not show up feeling like there will be a big scary-looking dude ready do beat the everliving sh*t out of me, or who will take the cash and dash makes it a lot more difficult to narrow it down.

So sorry for a nosy question but what do you mean even if you are over 40 you will enjoy her. I'm not being aggressive in the least and I am just curious to exactly what your statement means . Love and Happy New Year, Katherine

Phone is 587 930 4900 Advertiser's pictures are all stolen from well known website and Twitter site of BubbleGumDolly. I'd almost like to book with her just in case it is her, cause she's pretty hot. But probably better odds with LotoMax!!!

I have worked with disabled clients.. I don't think any special training is needed other than the ability to listen (they will tell you what they need and how) and compassion. Same as with any other outcall client. No amount of training would have helped me prepare as each one had extremely different capabilities and needs.

Camel toe vs MOOSE KNUCKLE!!!