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I think Fortunateone explained it best. For any client to pick any sp based on the titles she or he places on themselves is silly, imo. I think many of us may be high and low volume depending on the day, time of year or needs. Show me a sp who claims to be low volume that'll refuse a number of clients in one day, especially if she's gone through a dry period for a long time and needs to make rent, bills, or extra money for something. Some who claim to never offer specials, at these times also will cave and do so, but, perhaps in a way that doesn't appear to be a special, but offer another 'option" or instead of hourly only appts, offer1/2 hour appointments. We all do what we have to do in times of need or slow times, and that's the business of the sp. So because of this I think it pointless to choose based on High, low, exclusive, or any other title. Choose based on personality, looks, posts, rapport, intelligence, or something else that is constant and really more important:)

I like the comment about the 'perceived' high volume being signaled with the 15-30 minute appointment options. It would probably surprise some to find out that some sps who have a 15 minute option may do it because they are low volume, as in really not very busy, and they need that as a way to attract at least a few clients at some point in the day. Maybe they don't have the luxury of waiting for that multiple hour client to appear, or rely on that kind of session. interesting tho, that it is possible to be someone with a one hour or two hour minimum and end up seeing more clients in a day than someone who only does half hour appointments. I say this only because i don't think there is a magic number as to what equals high versus low. There are some who might think things are super slow because they have 'only' seen 5 clients in a day, while others think they are rushed off their feet if they juggled their way to seeing 3. Personally i do think 5 is a lot, but even if I were to see 5 one day, that would be so unusual that I don't think anyone would call me high volume because that might have happened one day out of the month. The majority of days may be zero, one or maximum of two. The reality is, due to the zeros and ones, a low volume provider may be high volume from time to time, because we never know what tomorrow may not bring us.

For those who want to get really into this stuff, there's a useful infographic here and a good white paper here. h/t @ggreenwald, who has more than a passing interest in this stuff :)

Enjoy! Something to think about. Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more: 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short - enjoy it. 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends WILL! 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what THEIR JOURNEY, is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye, but don't worry, God never blinks. 16.. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways. 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 19.. It's never too late to be happy. But it's all up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. TODAY IS SPECIAL! 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25. YOU MAKE YOUR OWN HAPPINESS! SO TRUE!! 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?' 27. Always choose life. 28. Forgive 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 33. BELIEVE IN MIRACLES! I SURE DO!! I HAVE SEEN IT HAPPEN!! 34. ************* God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. **************** 35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it NOW! 36. Growing old beats the alternative of dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. 38. All that truly matters in the end is that YOU ARE LOVED!! 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you need 42. The best is yet to come... 43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 44. Yield. 45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift." *** LIFE IS CERTAINLY, THE GREATEST THING, APPRECIATE IT! *** Friends are the family that we choose.

Claire isn't an SP. MA only....but a damn good one!

Your point about honesty is interesting... I was in a relationship a couple of years ago in which my GF admitted that she was a former escort. Now, being liberal, I did not pass any judgement whatsoever while accepting and being completely at peace with her revelation. Then, in the spirit of keeping everything above board, I admitted to being a hobbyist, albeit only when I'm single. I thought if anyone would understand, it would be her. Well, imagine my surprise when she gave me the third degree and kept going on about how immoral, depraved, disgusting etc. etc. etc. my behavior was. If that isn't the pot calling the kettle black, I don't know what is!! It turned out to be a blessing in disguise, since it spelled the end of our relationship. Looking back, we really weren't compatible.

Very cool illusion (you may have to click to enlarge to see it)

I think you are over-thinking this, not once has someone brought me a gift, card or made a gesture of some sort and my immediate reaction was "he's doing it to curry favour" I simply assume they are doing it to be nice. We share an intimate moment with the people we meet, often they get to know us quite well and we get to know them. It's actually quite odd because in some instances I know ladies don't even know the names of their clients yet you know their bodies, you often know what their daily stresses are and you know a good deal about their dreams, goals and personal fantasies as well. There is intimacy in that and it's not at all unusual that someone will provide a token of appreciation for that relationship,or a gift to wish someone well when they have taken ill, it's normal to show concern for those around you. I would be surprised to think any lady automatically assumed you were trying to use that token to leverage her for more than she might usually offer. The only thing I will say is that for some companions flowers can be uncomfortable to receive simply because they are not always discreet, if she sees a number of men on any given day then a person walking into her room with a bouquet of flowers might be conspicuous. Take that into account and consider her personal situation, does she have a private entrance, would that be a concern for her? Personally I love having fresh flowers in my room, though I only host when travelling so they need to come with a vase, but not every lady does. Tea, a gift card for a pedicure, or even some nice candles might be easier to hide in a little bag if discretion matters. I am sure she'll appreciate it.

Honestly RG, it doesn't matter. I had asked the original question to perhaps get a sense of thinking on the matter. When you're dealing with people on a regular basis but in a way that really doesn't promote feedback (beyond the extremes it seems), questions such as these tend to get a little more of an overall opinion. Mind you, many times it's from those who are serious about their interactions and a small percentage of the overall population of this community but still good input. To answer your other question, and some may disagree, but high volume would be the number of individual people seen. To me, one person for multiple hours is still only one person. @Mambo35 You are correct. Discretion IS paramount and there are a lot of assumptions. In some ways, this was a question about challenging assumptions and if they do indeed have impact. Perhaps I initially used the wrong verbiage with "volume". It was more a question about whether gentlemen are willing to either wait or schedule to see a provider if booking is difficult (busy, booked, limited availability) or whether one gives up after a time or two. Connection seems to be important to the serious gentlemen so I would think the former. For those yet to meet, I might think the latter.

+1 with respect to Malika. Beautiful, smart, and a fantastic service provider.

Condolences. Cherish those happy memories.

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Just had the call from dad that has been expected for a bit that Mom passed away after her quite long fight with liver cancer. It is sad but a relief at the same time as we know how bad she was suffering recently. She did make it almost to year 5 after the initial 3-6 month expectation when diagnosed and had a large number of happy trips to places she really wanted to go as well and let us that went along have good memories too.

I bought a lotto max worth 50 million as a tip and I have never seen an sp turn so red as she blushed. lol she didn't win

I should have mentioned that I had fun dates with people with all sorts of different abilities. It can be fun to try different things to see what works for which person.

As etasman2000 stated Malika is in TO and I can vouch ...She Rocks !!! Sweetshay is a ton of fun and sexy as the dickens :) Lacey Lovelle hails from TO I believe as well. She's fun !!! mmm hmmm Some ladies off the cuff that hail from TO that I haven't met but personally would visit with in a heartbeat if the stars aligned ..... Allana Johnson Berlin Kylie Daniels - was mentioned already

I finally got to meet my beautiful virtual "wife" last Friday in Kingston for a four hour encounter. Screening/verification was taken care of with no issue. Gabriella arrived at my hotel on time. She looks young and beautiful, and her photos are accurate. We sat down on the couch and over drinks and we got caught up on old times and current events. I say got caught up because Gabriella and I have gotten to know one another through email's and pm's, not to mention posts on CERB, so while it was our first encounter, it wasn't with a stranger, if that makes sense. After drinks, we headed downstairs to the restaurant where we had dinner and continued getting to know one another. Then we went back to my hotel room, where we did what newlyweds do. In this case it started with a shower for two. Then we got out of the shower and dried off. My lovely bride then ordered me to bed, telling me to lay face down. She then treated me to a deep massage, including a body slide. Then my beautiful virtual "wife" and I consummated our marriage. The details of which are private between Gabriella and myself, but I will say I'm happy we "got married." We then laid in each others arms, kissing and cuddling. Gabriella is not a clock watcher by any means, we had an unrushed encounter. Unfortunately the time runs out too fast, and she did have to go. Definitely Gabriella is a lady I will see again Just one final comment. My recommendation of Gabriella is truthful, except for the stuff about her being my wife That is just some bantering she and I have done both on CERB and in private emails and included here for a bit of lightheartedness. But that said, Gabriella is a terrific lady who I would recommend seeing to a gentleman looking for a encounter with a wonderful companion.

When I feel lazy I hit the hotel gym - otherwise I use the Insanity videos (best workout ever without weights) I just ordered T25 so I hope its as torturous....

I think it's sweet, thoughtful, and I say give them. I understand the reasons why some have said not to but, if it were me receiving them, you'd get a big hug and kiss;)

Got a call from the surgeon today. I thought she was going to say that my surgery date was going to be 4 months away.... but to my surprise, she said "How does January 20th work for the gallbladder surgery?" I said, "well that is my birthday BUT... YES!!!" Sooooo... in less than a few weeks, I will be reacquainted with one of the true loves in my life. Bacon. I love you. I miss you. We'll be together soon, I promise.

So sweet, who doesn't like a guy holding a flower when you open the door, HOT! for me at least.

After reading many threads and posts I feel I can receive some honest, sound, and candid advice. As an younger individual completely new to this hobby I am unsure of how to breach an issue of mine. My performance is closer to a sprint then to a marathon. That being said my recovery time is quite quick an offers the chance of several repeats. Personally, I can really enjoy myself as much as my company is. I just don't want the sp to feel burdened or bothered by MSOG. Someone who can be casual, relaxed, or invites a sense of play in between playing. I'm am certainly not opposed to a longer time ie 2-3 hrs to have fun and get to know one another. Please, any thoughts or comments would be greatly welcomed.

The current group of ladies at Vibe are such an entirely great team that truly meshes well with each other as a whole...picking any pair of your liking would work out very well but if you are looking for suggestions, and I think some members will agree: an awesome blonde and busty duo with Gina & Kristie or an amazing Asian duo with Ana & Tya would be a great place to start! UPDATE!! GINA has officially RETIRED!!

January is Human Trafficking Awareness month. People in the sex industry, clients, and their allies around the globe are posting on Twitter using the #notyourrescueproject hashtag to make sure people understand that not all sex workers are victims of trafficking and to make sure our voices are heard in the debate about what's best for us. It's a pretty nifty read and I encourage people to participate. Here's what I posted: Here is a compilation of some of the Tweets so far for some of the non-Twitter users out there who are curious :) Click Here. Here are a few articles about it if you want more information about how this all started and why it's relevant: Sex Workers Declare They're #NotYourRescueProject with New Twitter Campaign Sex workers and their allies promote hashtag #NotYourRescueProject Not Your Rescue Project

Congrats on your 7k milestone!

Congrats on the 4k milestone, I think it should be more than "a beer" ;)

Congrats buddy... now let's go get beer.

Congratulations to a smart, funny and very sexy man!

What can I say.... 7000 posts is amazing... congratulations

Thank Paedrus for all of your wonderful contributions. xoxo

Congrats on reaching 7000 posts Nicolette....

Congrats on reaching 4000 posts Phaedrus....

Congrats Nicolette on reaching 7000 wonderful posts!!! Keep them coming. ;)

Congrats on reaching 4000 posts!!!

congrats Nicolette on the 7000 posts great job well done

well done on 4000 great and wonderful posts. I look forward to the many more to come , and reading your take on things. :) TC

Congrats, Nicolette, as it is quite a few posts! Looking forward to the next 1,000! Best, toine

Congratulations, Nicolette! Well done!

congrats Nikki on 7000 wonderful posts. you are a valued member here on cerb, keep' em coming

Yes, conditioner does help make it softer. In response to RG's initial post about the length of time it takes to come in, it varies from person to person and whether there are patches like some of the others have mentioned. Two and a half weeks should be more than enough time in my opinion. Additional hair length will help cover patchy areas. It depends on the look you are looking for or if you want a big pile of hair to help keep your face warmer in the cold. Makes for an interesting look when you come in from outside with icicles hanging off your beard (lol).

A lot of the GENTLEMEN here know how to be a great client but for those who are still figuring it how might I suggest- 1.Be reliable 2.If you want your sp to be honest -be honest as well! 3.Be reliable 4.If you say you are coming back or going to call -COME BACK-OR CALL! There are lots of fish in the sea, if you don't plan a re-visit don't say you are going to. We'll survive and have fun meeting another client! 5. Be reliable 6.Don't gossip about other girls 7.If there was no chemistry, be a gentlemen and realize this, it might have been you, her or both. But to post about that is childish, catty and pointless. Chemistry is special and doesn't always happen, why expect it to and why be disappointed when it doesn't, move on and find it elsewhere. 8. Be reliable 9. Respect us and we'll respect you. Read through our sites, ads, posts. You'll find all necessary information there. We take the time to post it, the least you can do is take the time to read it! 10.Be discreet. Discretion goes both ways! Keep in mind most sp's use aliases, don't ask a neighbour, hotel staff where so&so lives/stays. If you get lost call. If you are going to be late call, if you are early call. Never assume anything. Every detail must be discussed and agreed upon. 11.If you say you are going to write a reco do so. If when you leave you felt that the experience wasn't worthy, what you expected or you just don't write them, why say you are going to? 12. Remember we are human, and even though many of us are experienced that doesn't mean we can perform miracles. If you are a man with issues in the bedroom don't expect that just because we are sp's we know everything about sex or have magic abilities. Setting your expectations to high will only lead to disappointments. 13. Be reliable 14. an added point to #7-If you like me, her, them. Good, great, wonderful. Write a reco, or don't that's your choice. If you didn't shut your mouth, again- this board says- if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. That rule should carry through with clients comments. If a lady just wasn't your taste, speed, look, etc, that doesn't mean she won't be some one else's. So why plant a bad seed? Would you like us to do that to you! 15. Be appreciative. We go to a lot of trouble to make our clients comfortable, happy, satisfied and glad they came! Give us a thank you, hug, smile, tip, something to show that you realize this and do it with honesty-refer back to #4.#11. 16. Enjoy, have fun and be happy!!

Now wait just a moment...are some of you implying that high vs low volume isn't about how much noise a lady makes in bed???

Well, first so sorry that you are faced with this, especially a sensitive time like the Holidays:( The only thing I can suggest is to delicately explain how you were feeling at the time, that you needed to have some room to play, is a mistake once but if a hobby then you need to look closer into how "not to be caught" . Not sure what "tell her everything" consists of. But would say to keep it low key, and be sure you show her that YOU LOVE HER, and only her. This is a lesson learned. I hope you find peace with this one, Best of luck!

And a lady advertising her availability as (hypothetically speaking here) 10am to 10pm Monday to Saturday doesn't mean she is seeing clients 12 hours a day 6 days a week, just that those are her hours of availability, that's all. RG

the last time I was at pig als I was given the the best private dance of my life, I think that was before the security protocol bs

When it comes to disabilities, you have to understand what type of disabilities they are dealing with. I met a client once who was almost totally disabled (wheelchair bound, but able to move once in a prone position, no acrobatics). He actually felt the medical should provide him a service, like how he has a homeworker come into take care of him. It is totally different dealing with someone who cannot move around, but still wants to experience a sexual experience with someone who is skilled in this. You have to understand what and how they want to experience this. Take your time, book a longer time because everything that we normally take for granted takes longer. Understand that they still have sexual needs and are generally frustrated in people who will brush them off. Just because they have mobility issues, does not mean they dont have needs. However, if they have cognitive or other types of needs, you have to understand how their disability needs to be understood. If they are blind, deaf, mentally challenged, or cognitive disabled, you have to take this into consideration. Just keep in mind to ensure you book a longer call for them. Take your time, fine tune their needs and all is well. Good luck!

I don't know of any in Kanata, but please if anyone knows of any, it would be greatly appreciated. I don't know if Baseline & Greenbank is too far, but there's a lady...Tiffany Amber...who is well worth visiting. She's West of Greenbank. If you're looking for a GFE...she's a 10++!!