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Also, please be sure to wash your hands when you arrive, if you are not hopping in the shower. You may have showered at home, but the route to get you to me has taken you through many public venues -- door handles, elevator buttons, even handling money or your keys.

Those who restrict do so for their reasons and those are to be respected. I have allowed digits with some and have not with others. The hands must be very clean, with no cuts or nicks. You must be gentle and LISTEN. If I say stop, STOP, if I say no more, then NO MORE. Some just don't know how to be gentle and some just don't listen, for those, NO digits:( For the men who know how to touch a woman, digits are very erotic and hot especially when combined with oral;)

Many men can be quite rough with digits. Forceful and deep digits can be painful, which is why some ladies prefer to just say 'no digits'.

I want to have sex with 3 women at the same time (trio). I need to learn how to do it right with just one.

I can understand the sentiment that more testing = better policy, and that's true to a point. However, mandatory testing is actually counterproductive, and there's good evidence to suggest that it could actually make people engage in more risky behaviour, rather than the reverse. It comes down to something called the Peltzman Effect, a.k.a. Risk Compensation - whenever an external variable decreases risk, then people's own risky behaviour tends to increase as a result. Here's a simple narrative to illustrate this: A client walks into an incall, sees that the girl has her test results on display, and that her results say she's negative for HIV. He says, "Oh, you're clean and I'm clean, can we do BBFS?" He assumes that her negative test means there's no risk for him, so he chooses not to use a condom because he mistakenly believes that the test would have informed him if there was any risk. What he doesn't realize is that there's a 3-month incubation period during which HIV isn't detectable by any test, and he ignores the risk of other STIs - such as syphilis, for example - because he's not worried about contracting HIV. Here's another article I wrote about it, regarding Canada's HIV disclosure laws: http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/nikki-thomas/hiv-status_b_1937993.html The stats actually show that sex workers are more aware of STIs than the general public, and we tend to have lower STI rates as well, simply because we take proper precautions. It seems like contradictory logic, but the very fact that clients are concerned about STI risk from sex workers means they're far more likely to take proper precautions to reduce that risk on their own. Mandatory testing is not a good means for preventing the spread of STIs, and the UN didn't make that determination lightly - the evidence is very much in favour of not forcing mandatory STI testing on sex workers, not just from a personal perspective, but a public health perspective as well.

I remember one lady ( who has since left Ottawa) told me that she had disallowed digits after a client was too rough on her and left her off work for a week or so. Since then, I always remember to have my fingers filed and smoothed before the meetings. Washing the hands upon arrival is also a very good idea as Kathryn Bardot says above.

Well I for one really enjoy digits :) BUT your hands and fingernails must be top notch. IF you have scrapes or rough peeling skin, or super dirty fingernails-it just wont happen.

I just have sensitive parts, so nails, hygiene, and force were all things I considered when placing the restriction I now have on digits.. While it can be fun, it can also be unsavory when someone doesn't trim their nails before our date or take the hints to be a bit more gentle :(

I know there's at least one lady who has a restriction on digits in part for hygiene issues. Some people's bits can be overly sensitive to germs or more prone to infection than average, and even though one would certainly hope/expect that folks have thoroughly washed their hands, a person could understandably be concerned. I imagine for others there's a point where they don't like having to risk telling someone they need to do a better job at trimming and/or cleaning their nails, so simply making it a restriction is easier.

Some men think that using force ( and not intentionally most of them time) without realizing that this is NOT pleasurable. And yes, it is painful so some SPs may stop offering it all together. I always let my guests in on a little secret to guide them... That less force actually provides better stimulation.

Fingernails can be an issue and our skin internally is very delicate. Also, if a lady is med-high volume it's more wear and tear on her if she needs to make her cookie last.

Duo etiquette rules: 1. Choose providers who either have seen each other naked or can stomach seeing each other naked. 2. Choose providers of the same species or genus. For example, do not ask if a provider will work with a chia pet, velociraptor or plank of wood as a duo partner. 3. If you have a kink about clothing, make sure that one or both of the providers do not show up in the same outfit you are wearing. One of you is going to look better and the other will cry just a little bit. 4. Establish well before the encounter who gets to be Batman, who gets to be Robin and who gets to be Alfred the butler. You can't have two Batmans. That's an international convention. 5. Establish a bacon friendly environment. Everyone loves bacon and if they don't, they can't be part of the duo. 6. If you own an iguana and it is fed through an ingenious contraption that automatically dispenses food onto an an awaiting plate, make sure that both providers see and understand. Everyone needs to know about reptile dish function. (or was that erectile dysfunction??? Maybe I heard it wrong.) 7. Gifts are nice but be equal in the distribution. You can't give a bottle of champagne to one provider and a package of lime jello to the other. 8. Nobody is allowed to fart. That's against the rules. 9. If you are playing Risk as part of the encounter, always remember to establish in Australia and secure Siam. That's a guaranteed 3 extra guys every turn. Duo chicks dig Risk. 10. Margarine should never be used as part of a fantasy. Always use premium dairy products, not corn or other vegetable based substitutes. 11. There is no 11, please proceed to 12. 12. I was kidding about 11, there is no 12. 13. Skip the clown fetish. It's weird and will freak EVERYBODY out. 14. Lube and crazy glue should never be kept in the same drawer. Trust me on that. 15. If you are new to the duo game, please don't send pictures of your penis to either partner. You'll get penis cooties and be unable to perform. ... that's what I have so far.... but then again, I am tired.

Take a look and sign up and share this link if you agree, with as many as possible :) Now is the time to be heard. http://www.change.org/petitions/justice-minister-peter-mackay-produce-new-legislation-legalizing-prostitution-and-related-activities You can use your psuedonyms, as you will see, but address fields are required. I used the address i provide for someone needing GPS directions, when I am not prepared to give out my real address.

I agree with you, however, I also think we as clients are responsible for our choices. If I seen an ad for a sp that I was attracted to but looked even remotely like they could be underage I would be sure to ask for proof of age. No need to disclose names or addresses, but i would want to see a birth date with a picture. If they couldn't provide me with that, I would respectfully decline the date.

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I was once with a lady and she said no digits, we were having a great time, so I asked if I could do digits with a condom, and she agreed. She had a hot explosive orgasm, and it was awesome.

I met my current established duo partner through a suggestion by a gentleman who had seen us both. He had seen us each on our own, so he knew what we were like, and he asked us each individually. She and I were open to it, met for a coffee, and the rest is history. I have received an occasional request from a prospective client, who I have never met, to offer a duo with a lady I have also never met. I decline. There is no harm in asking a lady, as of course each lady has her own opinions. But I would recommend knowing each lady first... a duo is the best when there is a comfort level there, coming in not knowing the other parties can be, awkward.

The real problem i think with some of these articles are the attitudes of the commentators, who come up with the farfetched idea that all the clients know these are underage sps, and they are choosing to see 13 year olds who are apparently posting all these online ads. It doesn't matter to them that the ad sites themselves have minimum age requirements, and that it is legal to see sps who are supposed to be 18 as the ad states. In other words, this issue is more your problem than either the underage ad poster or the legal age sps posting ads, because right now many people blame the clients for seeing underagers, not the teenager for choosing to do the work and posting the ad and posing as 18.

33. And never, ever, mention "Bats in the cave".

Well, of course you don't have feelings of guilt! If your first two SPs were Cleo Catra and SexxxyRebecca, then the centre of your brain the processes guilt has been vapourized by their sexiness and their wild, high quality service. You could probably rob a bank tomorrow and wouldn't even think twice about it! :biggrin: Seriously though, I do suggest you stick with high quality SPs given that you have set the bar as high as you have. If you TOFTT a few times and have some bad experiences, then your feelings about seeing SPs might change. So, stick with the women of CERB and SPs with a strong reco history, and you will die a guilt-free and fully "self-actualized" man!

I've been with a lady that permitted digits with a condom on, guess you could term it CD (Covered Digits). Its a nice compromise. She's protected and you get to stimulate her that way. She also provided some guidance while "digiting", which is a total turn on to me. Nothing like pleasuring someone the way they like to be pleasured.

Not just a good idea-but a MUST ;)

The best massage i received in 2013 was proided by sensual Erin

Ladies and Gents, i am now making it official, the next Ottawa Social will be held on March 20th, 2014. There is room for 35 ladies and 35 gents. Tickets are now on sale for 35$. Entrance is free for the ladies. As per previous socials, ticket sales will cover a drink for the ladies, snacks (available to anyone) and some door prizes. The socials are never a success without all the attendees and, of course, our sponsors (ALO and CMJ, providers of gifts of the gents for the sat several socials), we also strive to integrate all your comments we receive on site or afterwards. We couldn't improve them without it! We'll do the same for this one in March, bearing in mind we also look to get the "best bang for the buck". Gents, you can pay in person or by email money transfer (you can contact me). Ladies, you can confirm your attendance simply by responding to this thread or by PM'ing me or Loneskater. Cheers!

Is there a little grand standing by this parent? Certainty. I've never seen people more irrational than when they are worked up about their kids. So yes, she certainty would want to overstate the matter a little to draw attention to a system that she blames for her daughter's choices. But I think it is extremely naive to think it isn't a big problem. Just look at the last 48 hours on BP. Probably half of the 70 or 80 ads are by women no older than 22-23. Do you think none of these girls are 17? All the girls under 18 decided "nope, I'm not old enough yet"? It's like saying that there can't be under aged drinking because you see the signs in the liquor store that the legal age is 19. I'm not sure when I walk down the street If I can tell the different between 16 and 20 half the time. Those looking for evidence that this is wide spread aren't going to see it. The evidence will be hiding as something slightly older than it really is. And I do firmly believe there is a market for underaged girls. Men all over the world hop on planes and fly to Thailand for its notorious sex trade, including kids. It's a lot easier to just browse ads in your backyard and read between the lines. I agree this really bad publicity, though. For everyone, regardless of age. Which may be all this mother is really trying to accomplish.

I find that I rarely see stray cats here. Actually, come to think about it, I haven't seen one at all in the Toronto or Ottawa area. But I do know they exist, otherwise I can't imagine how all those cats end up in the local shelters. I think a big problem is when people buy kittens with the wrong expectations. Kittens are insanely adorable. They are tiny, and manageable, but when they get bigger, and develop their own personalities, I've seen owners get frustrated and their vision of pet ownership shattered. I've personally seen someone cycle through 4 cats in a matter of 5 years. All were bought when they were kittens. I feel that for someone to buy a kitten, they must demonstrate ownership abilities through having a pet for a while. No newcomer in my opinion should own a kitten. There are instances where it worked out perfectly, but I've heard of way too many abandonment cases. The thing with older cats is that you can see what sort of personality they have, and find out if it suits you. It makes a huge difference, and the last four cats my family owned, we've had them till their last day. We knew what we were getting into because they were at least 2-3 years old. The average age of all four was about 7.

I wouldn't know what to do without it! Those orgasms are special and explosively mind blowing!!

This is actual what they currently do in my municipality. Although it's only a 10-15 difference per animal. Although not everyone registers their pets.

Good morning, It was lovely to be back in Kingston and I had the most enjoyable time. I am looking forward to my next visit, once it is warmer out (so much to see and do in your lovely city) Have a great day Kingston, xoxo Emily

I also think a program to have strays fixed and released could be a solution. Sadly there's too many to realistically adopt or shelter, but fixing and releasing them would be a better alternatively than leaving them unchecked or putting them down. I'd also be in favour of the government paying or at least subsidizing the cost of owned pets to be fixed, to encourage pet owners to do so. I'd be willing to chip in my share of taxes for such a program.

I'm not sure if making it illegal to abandon a cat would help. Don't get me wrong I think it should be illegal to abandon an animal. I just think it is something that is to hard to prove. They would have to be caught in the act. I used to live just outside the city where it was almost like in the country. Dirt roads trees and bushes all over neighbour were far further away. In the back of the house was a small forest where we often walked in. On the other side of it was a dirt road with no houses in sight. This for some reason a**hole would abandon their cat and even dogs. One time I was behind a vehicle who threw a bag out his window while driving. So we stop to see what it was and it was a bag with 4 kittens in it. Unfortunately it was to late and dark that the vehicle got away without us being able to ID it. We took them home and found homes for them. I think all animals should be fixed or neutered unless you are planing on breeding it, and are responsible of those babies. Perhaps a permit to own an animal that isn't fixed should be required. As for leaving dogs tied up for extended periods of time outside. If the dogs is in any sort of distress, without food or water, extreme weather or neglected then yes. If its a dog that likes to stay outside and even sleep outside and feed and has water then I don't see a problem. (I had an old German Shepard/lab mix who preferred being outside and would sleep under the deck. It was a stray that we picked up so perhaps the dog grew accustom to it. The only time he would want to stay in was when it started getting cold or if it was raining.

I'd like to nominate our very own Kathryn Bardot. She walks among us mere mortals and we are glad.

Well my cat was rescued as a feral kitten from the Human Society. They got him young enough that they tried to adopt him...well he really adopted me LOL. But if the Humane Society couldn't get him adopted he would be fixed and returned to the feral colony so he couldn't reproduce. Most feral cats they do that, fix them and return them to the colony, but in my cat's case, they figured he was still young enough to be adoptable, and he was...and he never has even tried to go outside Don't know if that answers your question Cristy RG

I agree with everything you've said except the fact that this problem is fabricated. I don't think it is. In saying that however, I don't feel there are the numbers of underage that she's stated in the article, but then again who really knows. I do also think this is another chance for the media and this woman to make this profession out to be a shameful and criminal one. A way to turn more against it. I just wish, when the seedy side of something is shown that the positive and respectful side is as well.

Had a happy marriage before SP's, have a happier marriage now. So no guilt at all.

I agree wholeheartedly with the advice you have received above. Since you felt the need to approach her and since you cared enough to post the question on the board, then I am going to read between the lines a bit and take a guess that you really like this woman -- and perhaps you feel that her return to school means that you might not be able to enjoy her company as an SP. My advice to you is to be patient young grasshopper. I do know an SP or two who have made the return to school but during some down time (such as after exams, holidays, and the summer break), she will return to the profession temporarily... who would want to give up such pleasure, positive attention, and income, really? If lady luck shines upon you and her, then here's hoping she does run a BP or CERB ad during her down time and you have the opportunity to reconnect! When that happens, you might wish to discuss an exclusive client-SP relationship where you can arrange to see her even if she isn't running ads (I have this very arrangement with one of my favourite SPs). Hmm, now that I look at the calendar, I see March Break is just around the corner, and summer ain't that far away... ;)

Waking up to this scene in St Thomas USVI.

You are right. I wish all ladies would ask their clients to do that for their health and safety. Unfortunately, only one of my regulars demands that, ie. washing hands before the session.

Wow! It got chili all of a sudden!!

On the flip side, depending on the spa's policy if the session goes into overtime, the MA may be charged the extra time for the room. That is something to be aware of as well. A feel for timing is important for an attendant and comes with experience. If you had a great time perhaps it's just inexperience and best to take the positive from it. The timing takes some practice for a balance that should feel seamless in it's entirety.

If the SP is 18 or so she may not be comfortable seeing someone old enough to be her grandfather. If she does not feel that she can serve that age range well, it is better not to advertise to clients who one does not want to have.

Happy Birthday Claire! Hope you enjoy you day. :)

I certainly do darling and have been for the past 27 years!! New in the biz yes but can't live without it!!

My CERB Goddess of the Day today is Emily Rushton. You may ask why she is my CERB Goddess of the Day, when I have mentioned her twice in this thread already, both on her own, and combined with Lonna Lux. In previous mentions in this thread though, my focus was more on Emily as a great companion and contributor to CERB. But in posting in another thread, Reflections on 2013, a year overall which has been a bad year for me, I realized how much of a friend Emily has been and is. She deserves, in my honest opinion, to be my CERB Goddess of the Day not because she is a great companion (she is that BTW) nor because she is a great contributor to CERB (she is that too BTW) but because she has become a good friend, as good as the friends I have in civilian life. Emily is a beautiful person, both inside and out, a real gem. And she is my CERB Goddess of the Day today Thank You Emily