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Like every city my friend, it pays to plan ahead. It's saturday night.... and if no calls come early, it's a night off to enjoy yourself with friends. Just a helpful hint.

What signs? It has been explained elsewhere on this board about the process of getting a bill passed and into law. Even if they were going with the Nordic model, and that is a big "if", it would take months if not a year for it to get through the house. It is not even been drafted yet, let alone ever started going through all the steps. As for your estimate of how long before it is challenged, I think you are way off on that one as well. If the Government tries to put a law in place that clearly ignores the supreme court ruling in regards to the specific portions of the Criminal code that were struck down, then I don't think anyone would be convicted. First the Nordic model does not outlaw selling of sexual services, so then that is still a legal job, even though nobody can buy. But the Nordic model also outlaws brothels, and living off the avails, which is in direct contravention of the SCC ruling. One of the key conditions of that ruling was that selling sex was still legal. That condition is met in the Nordic model, so putting back the same restrictions would not be accepted. Judges would not convict, and most smart prosecutors would not prosecute because they do not like having their rulings overturned. The SCC ruling is a legal precedent that most defense counsels would use, and challenges and appeals to that would not take as long even if there was a conviction. The court has examined all the evidence and ruled. They will not try and put this model in place, they know what the rulings meant. However, as we see, even from the Liberal policy convention, everybody is trying to avoid taking a position. They are going to analyze it, and seek input, it will get delayed procedurally, it will die on the order paper. They know they have two choices, either outright criminalization, or regulation. They talk about Nordic to keep the uneducated masses happy, but they know it will not work.

I can't imagine any lady stay up waiting for a phone call for a possible maybe late night encounter. Just because the ladies are professional companions doesn't mean they are available 24/7...they have hours when they are available usually daytime to evening and hours when they can have their own life My experience, and I've seen ladies in small towns, like Ottawa, Hamilton and most of all Toronto, usually ladies' last call is around 9-10pm Perhaps pre booking a date with a lady is what you should do, she might be willing to accept a late night call RG

From my experience there are very few late night calls and even fewer "good" late night calls. From a business perspective, it's not worth being available when there are consistently no clients. Sorry your night wasn't enjoyable.

I hear you... the everyone wanting to book at the same time... sometime you can work your magic and make things work but lots of times is just not there.. I am an early riser.. I used to work day time before.. mornings. .. ow because I decided to go back to school I have to work evenings. ... I still get up at 5am... but nothing pisses me off more than calls at 1 or 2 am... I know I should put the phone on silent. .. but I forget because I pass out..and is that day this stupid calls come.... Now I make sure I get up and I send message to anyone that contacts me late at night to properly read adds (my hours are there) and it shows absolutely lack of respect to be contacted at that time.. I think Is simple common sense

I rarely answer my phone after midnight, unless it is pre-booked. The type of clients that call that late are generally drunk and dis-respectful. Pre-booking late night is the only way to ensure you get to see the lady you are interested in. Good luck! Wanted to add some examples of inquiries I've encountered from after midnight: 2:00 am Hey Lady, I'm horney, wanna fuck? 2:08 am Here's a picture of my junk, what can you do to it? 3:12 am Hey I have $20 do you have a car? 4:17 am Looking for some rock - do you know where I can get some? These are true examples from different people I have never met. Totally different then the ones I receive during the day. Yes, I am not in Halifax right now, but 2 of these examples came while I was in Halifax recently. Ill stick with my daytime callers.

Plagiarism (Coping text from another provider to post as your own) is NOT acceptable on cerb. Copying someone's text is the SAME as stealing someones photos. Stealing someone's text (even off another website to post it here) will get you in HOT WATER with the mods and members here on cerb. It could get you suspended or banned from cerb as well. So don't do it please. It's not nice... and I hate having my pm flooded with people telling me someone is copying someones text.

Sometimes I find during an extended visit of 2 or more hours I get the munchies lol... especially if the rendezvous happens to be right over lunch or dinner and we hadn't planned a meal. I always offer a glass of wine, a beer, or something non alcoholic depending on my guest's preference, or the time of day, and a snack is always a nice little extra. If you were offered some nibbles during an encounter, would you partake? if so, what would you most enjoy?

Following our two big hockey wins in the last two days I had to repost this.

Sorry for your "unlucky" night. For the past few months I've been up at 5-7am so not wanting or not being around for clients at 10pm or later is reasonable, imho. A spur of the moment appt , especially after 10 pm, is a shot in the dark. Perhaps pre-booking might solve your issue:) Better luck next time;)

i find the best way is to just not answer the phone. My quitting time is 9pm, but it isn't that unusual for me to sometimes just be weary of dealing with anyone new, and while i might give out my info, i am just likely to say, not available today, but I will be tomorrow. Sometimes the idea of getting ready for someone who may or may not show up is worse later at night than it is a say 2:00 pm . They may show up, and they may not, and if not that is about 45 minutes of waiting time to find out, and by that time it is close to 10pm, so my way of dealing with being tired of dealing with people for that particular day is to just not be available after 9pm. ;) Additional Comments: 9pm is my cranky time as well. My 'hours' are 9am to 9pm, with a maybe 9am in there. it depends on if i am getting up and dealing with my pets, my coffee, and opening up the drapes, blinds and so on before actually going to get showered and ready for the day. I think that some of the sps who are late night to early morning may be in hotels. Being in my own incall, I have found that day time is easily the busier time of day, 11am to 7pm roughly. But i won't see anyone after 10pm anyway, tho the phone does still ring at 2am, 3am, 4am 5am, etc. So there is definitely something happening at those times of the night. it is just a different type of client than i am willing to see. Additional Comments: Everyone has different rates. The rates for extended dates tend to be based on their full hourly rate for the first hour, and possible discounted or lower rate for the other 3. You might see her hour rate is 300, but for 4 hours as a dinner date, not full play time date, as $750. (300 plus 3x150) You might see her charge $1200 (4 x $300) . You might see her charge $600 (300 plus 3 x $100). Some sps have a 2 hour minimum, so that same sp would be 2x300 plus discounted rate x 2 If she has a $200 hour rate, same kind of mathematics will result in different rates lol. In any case, basically, as already mentioned, you will be paying a rate for all the hours she spends with you, not based entirely on what amount of that time is going to be spent on playtime. Regardless that the meal is paid for, she is a paid companion, being a companion has a rate just as providing services has a rate.

This article is by an adult movie performer telling her story, but I thought she made some really well-worded arguments and observations that many here would appreciate. http://www.xojane.com/sex/duke-university-freshman-porn-star

What's your criteria for booking an appointment with an SP? With the inspiration from Sophie's thread "NB Posters? Where are you? " , I created this one about booking criteria for a SP. Here is my ordered list for booking an appointment with an SP . 1) Reviews of the SP - The most important thing is whether the SP highly recommended. 2) Services Offered- Does SP provide services I need? 3) Personality- Best guess to determine if SP's personality suites me. 4) Attractive- Based on pics, do I feel attracted to the SP? 5) Schedule- Suitable schedule 6) Location- Discrete location is essential 7) Donation- not as important as the criterias above

Have to echo the sentiments already expressed. Plan ahead. But even if you do get in touch well ahead of time, many ladies might not be willing to book a late night appointment unless they have seen you before.

Good question. Me if being hosted I'll eat anything (no play on words intended). Usually I host and often I'll have a cheese tray made up of two or three different cheeses, crackers, olives, nuts well you get the idea I always bring two or three juices and bottled water. And before the encounter I'll email the lady asking what type of wine she would like to drink. And if she prefers something else to drink she can let me know One thing that really comes in handy seeing as I travel is a good cooler bag Anyhow, a rambling RG

Almost every day I get up and see that there were several missed calls in the middle of the night right up to 5 and 6 AM. Well I am getting up at 6 or so but I bet the person that is calling me at 5 AM is not someone I'd like to see. There must be some people out there willing to see "gentleman " around the clock otherwise requests like this would not be made.

The Daytona 500 is on! A different type of Olympics - without the snow!

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I certainly cannot speak for every SP. However for myself I offer a rate for this very thing. My hourly rate is $350, however my rate for a dinner date (4hrs, 2 out 2 in) is $1100. However it TOTALLY depends on the SP, so check with the individual SP :)

From CMJpeyton's album :

Speaking for myself only my rate isn't for what I do it's for time spent together.

In regards to clientele and times of appointments, I definitely notice a difference. Business men tend to see me during their work day as it tends to be convenient. Couples I see in the evenings almost exclusively! As for my preference, anytime after 9am and before 9pm is great :)

Lee Richards I bet whatever you might have up your sleeve would be very cool. Go ahead baby push that envelope, we all love you !

Hmmm I haven't tried dancing but believe me you wouldn't want to see me dance either. I dance like Elaine Venus. Haha shhhhh your not supported to give out my secrets

Go Canada Go. Awesome of you westerners to be getting up so early to see it live. The Olympics bring people to many new sports, I have seen it at work, it is fantastic.

Absolutely, and hope very much that they book so I can :) hehehe As for nerves, I believe I have been more nervous meeting the women of cerb than the men!!

Well, I've yet to book with anyone, but I'd have to go dirk's slight reordering. Being new, I might also include "having a CERB presence" with #1. I won't be meeting with anyone unless I've seen and/or interacted with them on this site.

I would move #2 down to the #4 spot and move 3 & 4 up (the girl and therefore the experience are more important than the services offered, just my opinion), but other than that bang on.

And this last one that I also could not resist. With this, I lay the Olympic victories to rest.

There are occasionally great sp's up late but the odds of finding one that is better does decrease after midnight in my experience, but so does the quality of the men searching (myself included). I am at my best in the morning and have a crazy unpredictable yo-yo kind of life but still occassionally get that urge late at night ...so I picture Clint and remember "what you have to ask yourself is, do I feel lucky. Well do ya' ?"

On her profile Bridgette posts her hours. Luxi and cuteasabutton post if they are dancing sometimes. Be great if the clubs became advertisers here and the dancers could post when they are working. Help the dancers. Like the spa owners do.

Well I'm quite the hockey fan and a deeply proud Canadian. I'll be up around 4:00 am Ab time to watch the game tomorrow with a pot of coffee on and a bowl of Cheerios. Bars have special permission to open up early and serve alcohol. Many will go. Since it is a little early for all of Canada my question is - Will you be up watching the game? Any special plans? LET'S GO CANADA!

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While men hide their lovers.., Women present them as their Friends....

Congratulations on a job well done Frank! Looking forward to 1,000 more.

Happy Birthday Lee!

Congratulations Frank on reaching 1000 posts!!! :D

it'd be un-canadian not to be watching the game....I'll be watching and cheering. Go Canada Go!!!! Bring home the gold.

Like RG, I'm reluctant to buy clothes for any lady - there's a 99% chance that I won't get the size, color, style, etc. right and it will end up in the same place that we put all the ties that we received as gifts - in a dark closet next to the animated talking fish trophy. Here's a fun video showing the perfect gift for a lady of any age: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqyT1Yn08t0&list=SPqhOLoL7F7JBHl-RuNeTHMSfxvQBgLaSF&index=6

As Joy says...ask away! Yes, my first orgasm was with a client! I had a very very hard time to get there in my personal life, and yet here a client did it for me! I was shocked, and it took me till 5 years later when for the first time it is my BF that get's me there rather then a client. This is somewhat normal, as with a client we do not have the baggage of our day, life etc...so relaxing to have the big O I think is the key!

I have been in contact, connecting and networking with other sps (and courteous client members) on forums like this since 2007. I have no idea what i would do without this connection. There are very few people that i am on an email alone basis, well basically one or two. Majority of people I stay connected with in sp lounges and discussion areas on sites like this (and sites that are not like this one lol). Some of the people I have known the longest I connected with by contacting them thru their ad like on CL or if they were on a more trashy site, to suggest a different one that would allow them access to sp areas. I've been doing less of this in recent years, but some people i talk to today online I've known since 2007 or 2008 on one site or another. Male and female, btw. I am not sure what people do without that kind of link, and feel sorry for the ones who may use it in a one sided way, as in only connecting or supporting one group often at the expense of the other group. For example, some rare sps will pile on the bandwagon to attack other sps, as tho they are their competition they want to eliminate (or discredit). I feel sorry for them because they will soon discover, if they haven't already, the kind of guy that seems to be their friend today, will quickly abandon them and throw them to the wolves when it suits them. in the meantime, they've alienated the ones who would have had their back from day one.

Despite what the politicians say right now, most of that is to appease the abolitionists and make it look like they are doing something. They have no appetite for making this an issue. Also they will not implement the Nordic model. They know it has the same inherent issues that the over turned sections of the Criminal Code had. It brings back a prohibition on bawdy houses, living off the avails and to some extent the soliciting provision. All that will do is bring the issue back to the front page, where they don't want it to be. The first charge that is laid will be overturned by the first judge that sees the case. Judges don't like having their convictions reversed or judgements overturned, which will happen if they try and convict with the Nordic model. Regardless of what you think of them, most politicians are not stupid, and realize that this is the same laws in a different guise. They cannot let sexworkers work legally and then put the same restrictions in place, which is how the Nordic model works. They will either outright criminalize all aspects or regulate the trade. It is their only two real options.

Nordic laws won't fly... Regardless of what media says. I am waiting to see how things play out before jumping to conclusions.

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