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This article is by an adult movie performer telling her story, but I thought she made some really well-worded arguments and observations that many here would appreciate. http://www.xojane.com/sex/duke-university-freshman-porn-star

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I have to say, my initial reaction to this is, "Why the hell do you have to put a label on yourself?"

Isle of Skye, Scotland:

So here we are, we survived the polar vortex, floods, ice storms, airports shut down and power outages! Spring is almost here, 23 days, what is on your "to do list" for spring? My list starts: 1.clean my dog yard, ewwww, not going to be fun! Can I pay for this service I wonder? hahahha, not a fun chore, we had so much snow! I know ,even tho I can't see it...IT is there! lol 2. Get new windows in ( hope hope) 3. produce a new album:) NO not the same day as I do chore number 1! hahahha

Yes, I agree with most of what you said. However, the fundamental difference (at least for me) is that with the old laws, outcalls were 100% legal. That is, for a strictly outcall guy like myself, I could have my fun without the risk of being charged. Now, under a Nordic model, I would effectively be breaking the law every time I invite a lady to my residence.

The Cupcake Lounge in Downtown & Westboro Ottawa will donate all their proceeds to this cause and I think they will even make special cupcakes. Oh and I must say their cupcakes are REALLY good :tongue:

Plagiarism (Coping text from another provider to post as your own) is NOT acceptable on cerb. Copying someone's text is the SAME as stealing someones photos. Stealing someone's text (even off another website to post it here) will get you in HOT WATER with the mods and members here on cerb. It could get you suspended or banned from cerb as well. So don't do it please. It's not nice... and I hate having my pm flooded with people telling me someone is copying someones text.

If I get no response to an email or text (which are always polite) then I won't make another attempt. That being said if I do get a response further contact will be based on said response. Life is short and there are lots of options out there. Peace MG

Susan Sarandon who is still blazing hot is about to be a grandma which would then make her a GILF? Peace MG

Just wanted to say a big thank you to those who have been so sweet to me, a lil newbie here on CERB. Can't wait to get to know those of you in the west, and hopefully those of you in Ottawa soon as well ;) xoxo Ceska

A mommy's love!!

I'm a dog lover with two of my own. When I see them all cuddled up, and happy, in their favourite spot it always makes me smile. Actually, a lot of what they do makes me smile. I'm an ol' softie. lol. Did I mention that I'm a dog lover?

I wouldn't say rigid I'd say more than reasonable. I will only book with a new client if I can confirm the details he has provided me. But I must say I have booked a few with a gut feeling, not always a good idea.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=panther here's how they define a panther I am with Phaedrus on this one, why use a label? We are all comprised of so many qualities, characteristics and traits, to many to be categorized into age groups and to many to be given just one name. Instead of labelling me I prefer anyone who has met me or wants to meet me to just call me by my name:)If you are attracted by my pictures, posts, reco's and talking to me yet become turned off because I am of a certain age.....well good, then you weren't for me anyways. To label or judge anyone because of their age is as dumb as labelling them because of their hair color. But that's just my take on it;)

Shes a member here, why not drop her a line to say hello and make her feel welcome. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=96326. I'm sure she'd be happy to see so much interest about her.

I think most of us would prefer "no labels" except then how difficult would advertising be to promote yourself and find the clients you seek? Unfortunately labels are a way to distinguish what you're looking for from what you're not and a required component of this industry.

I really prefer no label...that sort of thing means nothing to me. To me what matters is the connection I think I might have with a lady (determined by her posts/profile/website) not some arbitrary label based on whether she has children or not or her age. Not to mention realistically, me being almost 53, how old would a cougar have to be to be labelled cougar if interested in me? But that's me A morning rambling RG

I just watched this, the way these cows jumped for joy:) http://vitaminl.tv/video/2677

To flip the coin, my criteria for booking a gentlemen, 1. from his first enquiry, I can see if this person is respectful and classy. That is my number 1 thing I look at, an enquiry that is " what's up" or " lookin' to blow my load" is not going to even be answered" 2. The ability to follow instructions. If you can not follow a simple request like " no blocked numbers or no email bookings" then how can I be assured that you will follow my requests such as "NO means NO" Or to show up on the time we decided? I have one gent for weeks trying to book with me, I keep saying not on email, must have a phone. He says, I do not have one, well go get one at walmart then! He still is trying, this guy will NEVER get in. 3. If on CERB and has some kind of posting history is always a good way to get a booking, as I know you have must have spent some time getting to know me and the lingo of our industry. A cerb member with history here is going to get the booking before joe-blow I have no knowledge on. 4. If your not calling/txt every night 4 am....not interested in meeting you cause you are probably doing something to stay awake every night. If you work nights, best to txt me in the day before work to let me know this. I do not provide services after 9 pm anyways. 5. To return to me, you have been clean, fresh, respectful and kind. If not, I suppose " I am not available today" or if so uncomfortable for me, I will say so. You can then look for another provider. Geee, hope I do not come across as too rigid, but this is what I am comfortable with:)

Try to avoid watching TV or using the computer for at least an hour before going to bed. {Advice from my doctor} I use a combination of things to get sleep: Sleepy Time Herbal Tea White Noise generator Lavender Oil sprinkled on my pillow Mug of hot milk Light snack at bedtime Doctor prescribed sleep aids (Not sleeping pills) No caffeine products after 6 pm No phone, cellphone, TV, or computer in bedroom Room darkening curtains on bedroom window Regular exercise (Something as simple as going for a 20 to 30 minute walk 5 times a week -- turn off cellphone) * But what worked the best was having a SP come to my home to tuck me into bed for the night. ;) 23 and 1/2 hours

For those who aren't aware, tomorrow is National Cupcake Day in support of SPCAs and Humane Societies. I know there are lots of animal lovers like me here so I thought I'd post a link for more info. In Kingston there are several bake shops, schools and businesses taking part. There are events planned all across the country so if you'd like more information on what's planned in your community, just check with your local SPCA. It's a great fundraiser, it raises awareness and there's cupcakes!!! Who doesn't like cupcakes????:-D http://nationalcupcakeday.org/

Almost every day I get up and see that there were several missed calls in the middle of the night right up to 5 and 6 AM. Well I am getting up at 6 or so but I bet the person that is calling me at 5 AM is not someone I'd like to see. There must be some people out there willing to see "gentleman " around the clock otherwise requests like this would not be made.

I prefer to think of myself as Panther...a sexy woman on the prowl who is smart enough to now how to play, caring enough to enjoy the play, childlike enough to make it fun, lustful enough to make it passionate plus confident and all around awesome! I'd rather make my own "label" lol. :boobies:

For the record I am not a fan of either term but the main difference is in the intent of the subject, a MILF is someone a man or men want to f*ck and a Cougar is a woman that wants to f*ck (younger) men. If you feel one suits you better use it, if you don't feel comfortable with either term then don't use either. From the free dictionary online: or http://thesaurus.com/browse/mature

I have never had a SDaddy, but my GF did. She hated it! She said she no life, could never go anywhere out of her city, hard to have friends, as he would get jealous even with her girl friends, and she decided to work on the side cause each year the cash got smaller and smaller. He would buy her a car, but then not much for the pocket,. So now she has 3 secret lives. Her true life. Her Sdaddy life, then also an SP life. She would have to keep it secrete from her Sdaddy, as he would cut her off completely if he knew. But yet was hard to make apt with clients cause he would call last min and tell her to come over, therefore she would end up standing her clients up:( She can't wait to get out of this one!

Finally I met Samantha First of all she is very fun to be with Very caring to your needs and from the session we had she loves sex Except anal which is ok with me She receives you in a huge bedroom equal to the Hotel Frontenac The session takes place on a super high king bed Her bj is awesome She knows where to apply pressure Dfk was continuous and passionate like it should be with a girlfriend For those who love big tits you will not be disappointed They are 44dd and very yummy Yummy is also her pussy She really enjoyed datty if you are gentle and not rough It is been too long that I was searching to replace the sensuous Misslizzy who retired her loveliness I think I found my replacement with Samantha. Be a gentleman with her and you will be rewarded Also her condo is amazing almost a suite with a king bed I think I found my BBW after By the way I saw her 2 consecutive Fridays and will again

Today 3-9pm Tuesday 5-9pm Wednesday 11am- 4pm Thursday 5-11pm Saturday 4-9pm West end, @ paradise Spa 613-820-8887 xoxoxo

Mature is 35 plus, imo, I've used that since i got started. It is a label but it shows that you are over 30, and looking for mature attitude. I find that even the 20 year old guys who call (looking for the milf experience) see that word in ads and contact with a good attitude and very polite lol. milf i think doesn't mean you have to have a kid (yummy mommy, for younger women with under 10 year olds would have to to use the YM term i think). I think MILF is for the definition given, has to remind the now 20-25 year old that this is an sp who is of the age of his friend's mom when he and his friends were in their mid teens. So usually 35 ish. If you chose to use the term MILF in ads, it would attract guys under 25, if that is what you want. Many can figure it out by just contacting older sps if they have that milf fantasy, but using the term i think is going to attract more. they probably search for the term. cougar I agree is a more aggressive person. I am not aggressive in sessions, so milf is more agreeable to me. If you have the personality that would encourage the younger visitor getting himself attacked and seduced, then use Cougar in ads lol. I think, really, 35 is too young to use that term. 40 plus, you have to be holding yourself together by hope and a good pushup bra and cosmetics, and at 35 that is still holding together naturally lol. over 40, and chances are it isn't holding together so easily, lol

I heard the spring birds this weekend! Things are finally thawing and it feels good. I am looking forward to getting some work done at home - get it finished. Being able to walk the dog for a real walk. Spring cleaning too. Get rid of the winter stuff, and bring out the summer stuff.

My Availability! Today 10am-9pm Tuesday 10am-9pm Wednesday 3:30pm-11pm Thursday 3:30-11pm Friday 3:30pm-11pm Hello Gentlemen and thank you for taking the time to check out my ad! My name is Mandy, I am 22 years young, super bubbly, brunette bombshell, with a tight body that will make you say OMG! My curves are in the perfect places and my seductive green/hazel eyes will put you in a erotic trance... My soft hands will paralyze you as I touch you in all of the right spots at the perfect pace, leaving you wanting more, more and more! My bodyslides will keep you moaning while I rub my C cup natural breasts all over you... yummy, wet and slippery :wink: Don't be shy to ask to massage me, I love to be oiled up and my purrrring will keep you going! If your the type who enjoys some sexy company in the shower I am more than willing to get steamy with you. I strive on making my clients feel satisfied! So... why not come over and enjoy yourself I am sure you deserve it! Once your gone you will be left with naughty fantasies and dirty dreams for days. If you are interested in any of the above you will find me at Paradise Spa, located in the west end of Ottawa. It is a place like no other! Very clean, friendly staff, discreet, with an atm on site. The rooms have private showers, fresh linens, soaps, oils/gels, & big mirrors to watch us from every angle possible :wink: To book your sexy session call the spa, 613-820-8887 & request me! Or feel free to PM me for my availability or service inquiries. Yours truly, CandyMandy xox

This has been one long cold brutal winter. Spring will be very welcomed by me and I'm sure by all the wildlife, that survived! I plan on starting to tour, hopefully. Driving is the only way I can do this as I won't fly my dogs, nor will I leave them behind, so road trips as soon as the snow goes:)

i think that anything would be good along the lines of cheese and fruits as they are easy to eat and not to much mess . I would stay away from chips and nuts as they can be a little messy and leave salt and grease every were. over all on a long date i think it is a good idea to have a little snack as a break or before :)

yes i guess planning ahead is the best way to go , but for someone with an eratic schedule its kinda tough sometimes , then if your there a short time and spend the evening on the town checking out the sights and talent, by the time you get back to your room maybe last minute is all you have ... but thanks for all the replys i agree and totally understand everyones point of view as well ... maybe just blueball frustrated at the time hahaha .

I do agree I hope everyone had a good time...just having a bit of fun here:-) As for the figure skating..... RG :-)

except me :) I came back...I just couldn't stay away! After being waited on hand and foot like a queen it's my turn to give you some of that TLC you deserve. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/picture.php?albumid=7894&pictureid=51886 Let me pass on some of my warmth;) available this week Tuesday 10-2 Friday 10-4 if you these days dont' fit your schedule pm me I'm always available for special requests! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/picture.php?albumid=7894&pictureid=51885 Not a member? ask to be my VIP guest 613-523-6199 or pm to get details.

Gotta see the optometrist tomorrow. The exam no big deal, but, and he warned me last year, I'll be due for new glasses this year. Just plain ole glasses no problem, but I need progressives. Last time I got glasses (progressives) $600.00+ Ouch!!! RG

1. Do you think that purchasing sexual services from an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: Consensual commercial sexual services/activities between consenting adult service providers and clients should not be a criminal offence. Government has no legitimate role in criminalizing consenting adult sexual activity regardless of whether it is a commercial or non commercial transaction. Criminal law should focus on violence, threats of violence, extortion, withholding of passports/visas, illegal confinement and underage commercial sexual activity. Broadly these acts would fall under the headings of underage prostitution, human trafficking, pimping and assault. I do not support the Nordic model in which one partner (the client) in the service transaction is criminalized. While such laws have been passed elsewhere, I do not believe the Canadian constitution allows for such inequitable rights or criminal laws. I can't think of any other example in Canada where one person can be doing something legal while simultaneously another participant is deemed to be engaged in a criminal act. Any violent acts or threats etc by a client should be prosecuted just as they would be in the case of any two individuals where such harmful behaviour occurred. 2. Do you think that selling sexual services by an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: I do not think that consenting adults selling sexual services should be criminalized. I think everyone recognizes that sex work can never be successfully "abolished". It has and always will exist. Criminalizing homosexual sex and anal sex in the past for example was a misguided attempt to eliminate them. The desire for sex, intimacy, human contact and variety is too deep to stamp out these desires. These desires cannot always be met by accepted social convention. Sex workers (women, men and transgendered) fulfil a need and niche in the commercial market. The next question is will prohibition through criminalization of service providers make citizens in general safer and more specifically will it make sex workers safer? The Supreme Court acknowledged that providing sexual services has unique risks. The social stigma associated with providing sexual services creates a social climate which increases the risks to service providers. Criminalization only increases the stigma and the resulting risks. While much of the Supreme Court's reasoning was based upon the fact that adult prostitution is currently legal, criminalizing it will not eliminate sex work nor will it eliminate or even reduce the risks to sex workers. Criminalization will continue to keep sex work in the shadow. Sex workers who have the means and skills will continue to work using online marketing. Even nordic countries acknowledge they've made no dent in this market. Outside sex workers will be forced even further into the shadows, unsafe locations, be further alienated from law enforcement and have even less opportunity to screen clients. The Nordic model assumes that sex work is exploitation of women by men. Obviously the largest portion of the market for sexual services is male heterosexual clients and female sex workers. The Nordic model however fails to acknowledge the diversity of sex workers and their clients (male sex workers for males, women for women, women for male/female couples, men for male/female couples, transgender workers for males etc.) How can a law be adopted which supposedly targets the exploitation of women by men, yet simultaneously sweeps in many other citizens? Finally, I've met many sex workers and they do not fit the stereotype of exploited or downtrodden women. Many have university degrees, have other small businesses (accounting, design etc) and like many people have made conscious choices about how they want to make their income and how long they want to do this work. Some women, while very intelligent, have not been able to get jobs that pay living wages for a variety of reasons (education, no work experience and a mid life divorce etc.). While sex work was not their first choice of work, they are comfortable doing this work. They will continue do it if it is entirely criminalized (just as many aspects of their work are already criminalized). Will criminalization of their work in its entirety make their lives better? I recognize that some sex workers are in exploitive conditions. These people deserve protection under our criminal laws, just as any citizen does. Existing laws related to assault, extortion etc should be used for their protection and strengthened if necessary to achieve successful prosecution of exploitive pimps or clients. 3. If you support allowing the sale or purchase of sexual services, what limitations should there be, if any, on where or how this can be conducted? Please explain. Comment: The federal government does not need to be involved in specifying where sex work can or cannot occur. This is a zoning and licensing issue for Municipalities. Specifying where sex work can occur is certainly not an issue for criminal law. Municipalities currently have sufficient enabling powers to specify acceptable locations, exterior appearance, signage, concentration and separation distances form other sensitive uses etc. These decisions need to be unique for each community. No community should be given the power to ban any aspect of sex work if it remains legal and if the laws related to indoor sex work are liberalized. Public solicitation, usually on public streets remains problematic. It has social and legal issues similar to panhandling. Outdoor sex workers however should not be forced into unsafe locations which increase their potential risks. 4. Do you think that it should be a criminal offence for a person to benefit economically from the prostitution of an adult? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: I'm answering this question, not on the basis of the assumptions implied by the phrase "prostitution of an adult", which suggests exploitation. My answer is for sex workers who are exercising free will and are making their own choices on how they want to work (independent or agency). Sex workers should be able to pay for accommodations, booking/phone services, personal assistants, marketing services, online services, legal advice, financial advice, drivers, security, clothing, sex toys, restaurants etc. Sex workers should also be able to hire agencies that manage many of these logistics on their behalf. Certainly anyone who is living with a sex worker (partner, children, friends, parents etc) should not be criminally penalized because they receive some financial benefit. Sex workers should be able to financially contribute their earnings to their families and friends just as any other wage earner in Canada can. Anyone who forces a sex worker to involuntarily "hand over" their earnings should be held criminally accountable for any for threats, extortion, intimidation, violence etc which have been used. 5. Are there any other comments you wish to offer to inform the Government's response to the Bedford decision? Comment: The Supreme Court's decision was very well reasoned, particularly in the face of an issue which has much social stigma attached to it. What stood out regarding their decision and written opinion was that it was based upon factual information and not morality. Any Federal response should also be based upon the factual information which we currently know about sex work and should avoid imposing morality upon citizens. There are many things which are considered immoral by a portion of the population (premarital sex, divorce, abortion, interethnic marriage, interfaith marriage, gay marriage, consumption of alcohol, cutting your hair, revealing clothing, working on the sabbath, using mechanical equipment etc. Canada is a secular society and should adopt laws which have a secular basis. What is a secular basis? Minimizing actual harm to our citizens and giving citizens autonomy to live their lives based upon values which may be unpopular or uncommon, provided they do not harm others. Many opponents of sex workers and their clients build straw man arguments. The sex work industry is characterized as being dominated by sex trafficking and exploitation of underage girls. These are certainly harmful behaviours, but there is no factual evidence or peer reviewed studies to support the view that these behaviours are representative of the industry. Fear mongering and decisions based upon fear mongering and inaccurate information will not result in sound law. Criminalizing clients or both clients and sex workers will only draw law enforcement attention away from harmful exploitation. Law enforcement will target easy arrests and never get to the hard undercover work required to crack down on the small proportion of trafficking and underage exploitation. The image of men and women involved in the sex work industry (as clients and providers) presented by abolitionists/prohibitionists is not representative of the majority of clients and workers in my experience. Most are ordinary people with diverse, common and ordinary backgrounds. While those participating in the sex industry will disagree with abolitionists/prohibitionists that sex work is inherently harmful, we all agree that we can find some common ground, which should be the basis for criminal law. Criminal law should continue to focus on exploitation through violence or coercion of adults and any exploitation of underage children or youth.

I think people have hit on the key difference: the cougar is aggressive in the pursuit of sexual conquest, wheras the MILF is someone not so much seeking but rather admired and sought. But it's all subjective so yeah, you can't really tell what connotations either term will have for people. They'll decide for themselves. Personally speaking, as an attractive "mature provider" you're my preferred class of SP. When I was a kid I was always sort of in awe of the style and allure of women older than I was; and sure, looking back, there were definitely some MILFs! ;) But they were all unattainable, and certainly not interested in me, so "cougars" weren't really on my radar. Still, for some reason that special allure of a woman in her 40s or 50s hasn't changed for me, even though I've reached their age myself. Funny how the mind works.

I'm with Kyra, I don't like either and I don't really feel either term describes me. I'm a mature woman experience, that's all :)

im totally into foot fetishness :) i have a variety of shoes to choose from, or better yet... my bare feet. Hope to hear from you soon xx Sabrina R

Originally Posted by cristycurves WHY? send out penis pictures WHY? Egads, who really knows but I can make two guesses. One is that the guy is an exhibitionist and get satisfaction out of sharing the image. For others, I wonder if it is because they think it will either impress or please the lady. After all, a lot of men would be thrilled to receive a picture from a lady of her private bits; perhaps they are automatically assuming the reverse is true. Either way, it's a shame that random men are either oblivious or immature enough to assume that unsolicited pics are going to win them any points. Better to assume if a lady actually wants to see a junk shot, she'll ask! :) .................. Originally Posted by cristycurves Please realize that breasts aren't charmin toilet tissue... Oh, you make me laugh and cringe at the same time. I think your question just shows how important it is to communicate. I think one of the best things a lady can do is offer instruction on how she likes to be touched, as (and this is both terrible and wonderful!) no two people are the same. And even the same person will be in a different mood day to day. Offering instruction need not be a negative thing, but can in fact be quite enticing with the right tone. After all, most guys want to offer pleasure, so coming right out and seductively saying how you like to be touched will often be both a turn on for the guy, and hopefully save the lady some uncomfortable groping. ..................... Originally Posted by Summer Could more of you please comment on what you will do if they implement the Nordic model? This is a real concern to many of the women here. Will you drop out of the community? What can we do to ensure that you feel safe booking? I'm mostly holding off until I see what actually happens and how it gets enforced. I'm anxious but hopeful that those who--like today--are discreet and respectable--will not generally be bothered, in which case it would make little difference. We'll see. .................. Originally Posted by Raven Rain can you Gentlemen please explain to some gentlemen have their profile private;other than the one worded answer privacy. I feel that being able to look other a potential clients profile helpful sometimes before meeting them. I often wonder if the people that do are either new or seldom visitors, who just aren't around enough to realize they can feel comfortable and secure without a private profile. How many of them set it to private when they first sign up and then never give it a second thought, not realizing they are mostly only hurting themselves by not allowing the ladies to visit their page in turn. I think a lot of new hobbyists are very paranoid about the industry, and it probably seems like a good function especially when they first sign up. .................. Quote: Originally Posted by Amelie I guess my question is, should ladies charge for social time? Should I include the option of free meet up before a date when someone books a certain amount of hours? Absolutely do whatever you feel comfortable with. At the end of the day there really is no "should" other than what works for you. Personally, I don't think you should feel guilty at all about charging a social rate; if anything, it's a nice bonus that you offer the option at all. If you choose to offer an option where some social time is available with a certain booking length/type, that is up to you as well. I think you have to accept that nothing you do will please everybody, so at the end of the day you might just as well do what you feel good about. ......... Quote: Originally Posted by kimmyxoxo What is your absolute favorite thing about hobbying? Whether it's setting up the meeting, the sex itself or the anticipation of meeting a beautiful stranger... And also what is the thing you hate most about hobbying? That one's easy! Best thing: getting the chance to spend time making wonderful memories with wonderful women. Worst thing: not being able to do it more often! I'm not in a position where I can indulge in a rendezvous very often. On the plus side, it's made the encounters I have had very special. But they've been such good experiences that they make me wish I was in a position where I could see even more ladies, and also get back to repeat with those that have been so good to me.

Ok, I'll poke my head up too and say Hi. Like you hear on sports radio - "First time - long time...." hee hee. I'm also one of those who's been on and off here over the years. Had another profile, walked away from it, came back. I enjoy myself here too much, but even though it's such a small province it's hard to find good info on who (or what) is out there SP-wise. I find this province a bit reserved (I'm from away, live and work here now). People ARE friendly, but take a while to warm up. Wonder if that's reflected here too.

Offices are just school yards for adults - gossip happens weather it is overt or clandestine. Your having a SO, or someone that you want to be your SO completely changes things. No, you're not crazy for passing on this opportunity, and if you handled it correctly with something like "If it weren't for the fact that I have a girlfriend..." the door is still open should things not work out with the other lady.

Been there done that and it lasted for 20 plus years and we are still friends

Nordic laws won't fly... Regardless of what media says. I am waiting to see how things play out before jumping to conclusions.

Layah titles are very eye catching: Layah - Oral Pleasure Specialist, Ejaculation Expert and Semen Manager Layah - Oral Pleasure Specialist - Your Dick Deserves it! :-p Layah - Oral Pleasure Specialist - There's a party in my mouth, who wants to cum?! :p

In my experience Claire Heavens works really well as a Viagra substitute. :) No need of anything like that when you're around her.....