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Your question is a little offensive. Might be better asked "has anyone been with" or "has anyone had an appointment with" or ... well I hope you get the point. Then "she might be worth it"? Brother, these are ladies not objects. Your not going to get much help when your questions read as rude or mean. Your name says "good guy" lets try that... little more gentleman like will get a lot more help here on cerb.

I read the article that has been referred to here in this thread. According to the article, the charges that were filed were as follows: Procuring for prostitution a person under the age of 18. Knowingly concealing a person under the age of 18 in a bawdy house. Exercising control over a person under the age of 18. Living off the avails of prostitution of a person under the age of 18. Counselling a person under the age of 18 to engage in prostitution. Householder permitting sexual activity. Internet luring for the purposes of prostitution (two charges). Sexual exploitation of a young person. Breach of recognizance (three charges). Breach or probation (two charges). If I am correct, I find it interesting that NONE of these charges are related to things from the Bedford decision and are a validation of the fact that the existing criminal code already addresses the kinds of criminal activities that the vast majority of us are in full agreement with. A new prostitution law is not required.

If I may interjet for a moment... clients only see SPs in a certain mode. She is offering the perfect fantasy being the woman the person wants her to be in that moment through the way of intimacy. They truly do not know her in everyday life. I don't think many people would want to see me in a bad mood when I'm not working. lol. I am a grouch! This isn't to say when you see her that how she receives you is a put on but everyday life is complicated and being an SP and dealing with this is even more difficult and awkward at times.. Two weeks ago, I had 3 clients ask me out off the clock. I declined because I don't get involved with clients and no matter how great the chemistry or intimacy was, it is not indicative of real everyday life. I enjoy what I do for a living for various reasons but it doesn't make me a nympho on the hunt for a f**k buddy or because I have a great chemistry with a client that a more serious relationship should occur. I'm not looking to date anyone. I think people who see SPs or MAs should just enjoy what they have and when they walk out the door to leave it in that special place between the two of them until they meet again. So many people get too ahead of themselves with what "could be" but life is so much more complicated than that. The purpose of seeing an SP is having those lust feelings and the chemistry with someone you enjoy but also being able to leave it just the way it is which is how it's supposed to be. That's when you know you've met a very good provider! ;)

We are judged all the time. Sad to say but true. I've been in this situation more then once..sometimes if you tell them right off what you do they think "Wow, all the free sex i can have". That isn't true by the way. wink .If you tell them later then they may walk away or they get it. Some dudes think they get it but it takes a special someone that really does. When dating someone it takes a lot more time to hit the sheets. wink

Here are a couple good resources in regards to this government survey. They provide some background info, ideas and guidelines for folks to use to form their own unique responses to the survey. These helpful guidelines were prepared by sex workers and their allies from all across the country, and are designed to inspire you to create your own personal answers. From Maggie's Toronto: http://maggiestoronto.ca/news?news_id=118 From POWER Ottawa: http://www.powerottawa.ca/CALLTOACTION.pdf

Lol I signed up yesterday to see what this site was all about, and although I am flattered that I appear to possibly be fake, I can assure you that I'm definitely real!! :) Additional Comments: Awe u guys r so nice :)

Well being a webcam model first, clients on cam were asking if i met in person...I met my first client that way...then I met Carrie Moon who helped me out building my first website and got me started in Ottawa...thank you Carrie :) Being my own boss...making my own Schedule...meeting amazing gents and having great encouters (amazing sex) and being able to provide for my kids :) Yes but will make sure that feeling are not in the way...communication !! Bad hygiene...Rushed sessions... That happens a lot too...at least for me! I keep repeating to myself that they are clients and im a provider and it has to stay that way...definately not easy sometimes... I felt nervous...but once we met I felt amazing and knew I was meant for this! Oh yes absolutely!! I have met ladies here that i consider now my BBF and continue to meet more and more wonderful ladies... I would say take the plunge and stop worrying...thats what we are here for and most would make you feel at ease the minute you walk in :) Oh yes It happened more then once lol...when the client walks out and you go...OMFG that was amazing!!! Make sure my room is ready...music...have a nice hot shower, get dressed up , make up and picture the encounter...gets me even more frisky!! When i meet guys that way and we spend time together...usually im very upfront with what i do...I do mention that im not working now and what he is seeing is the real me... I will let him know early so if he wants to take me out on a more intimate date...there is no secret! BJ xxx Additional Comments: I'm a early bird so I really enjoy mornings...afternoon also but when it gets too late like past 11pm...I have to get really psych to have an encounter past that time...sometimes it works good but I have turned down lots of demands after 11...unless hes a reg...then I will see him! And yes guys that call or text after midnight are not the clients you want to meet... BJ

Never had the sugar daddy experience, for most of all I don't have enough money. I think the key to a good SD/SB experience is the connection/chemistry between the two people Just the same as you can have great encounters between SP/Client, or bad encounters between SP/Client you can have a great SD/SB relationship or bad SD/SB relationship If both the lady and gentleman have a connection/chemistry and can arrange a mutually beneficial relationship a SD/SB can be a good thing If the connection/chemistry isn't there and/or the relationship isn't mutually beneficial then a SD/SB can be a bad thing The concept shouldn't be written off. But all participants must benefit Just the same as this lifestyle. It shouldn't be written off, but it must be a mutually beneficial lifestyle A rambling RG

I'm very much on the shy side, so my initial contact will be either PM (if explicitly stated by the lady) or text (usually in the form "Hello, is this Katrina?", to confirm I have the right phone number). If I don't get something back from a text in an hour or so, I could send a follow up of the type "I suspect you're busy; feel free to text me back whenever you can". I've read here that many ladies won't text back if it's not right away so as to not embarrass the gentleman in case he's no longer in a private situation. Since I don't have that problem, I might as well let her know so she doesn't stress about it. I won't be sending a third poke, though.

Food Carving! Amazing what people can do.....

I agree I am glad she got caught but I don't think she be the last one because there is one person and I believe he is a member on here that does ad for many girls in Dartmouth and Halifax which I believe will eventually be caught. I have been told from a friend of mine that use to work with him that the other girls are underage. She could be wrong but based on the pics in the ads, she could be right. I believe his name is Ritchie. I be very careful guys in going there.

Important to a sense that wherever it is, it's not in a seedy area. I'm fine with hotel or private condo, with preference to condo. It hasn't happened yet, but if someone said some motel, I'd probably decline. I'm just worried that it's some sort of scam.

Not a fan of hotels by and large, I know a lot of people locally and always need a to have a side story available and it also feels a little too cliche to me. If it's to a residence or condo/apartment I'll always do a drive by or google map search to scope out the neighborhood for safety as well as to ensure I don't know any one living in the building or near by. Peace MG

When I was single this happened often. For me, I would say so by the second date, if it were a proper date. The scenario you mention, is just a meeting, so need to get personal. But the second date after you get my number, I would face to face tell you. I would rather be judged face to face rather then a txt. But as a general rule, you wont get me in bed that night anyways, you need to do a bit more then take me out to dinner one night. So no worries off my back if you think your gonna get a frebbie, lol... Then see by your reaction if I would see you again. Life is tricky, and I do not want more complications by hiding the fact.

I wouldn't change too much Summer. I am already a "regular" so to speak and I enjoy extended visits......so I would probably focus more on visiting in the most part with the ladies I love spending time with already and whom all are very very dedicated to confidentiality and smart business. Therefore sorry gals.... I may become a "bigger" pain in the ass ;) I already host at my suite when I am on the road .... but would probably do more of that in my neck of the woods as it is a smaller centre, particularly if I was meeting someone new. Like anything else in life, if you are bright and sensible you can adapt to any situation life throws at us. And if I am going attempt to adapt to something it will most certainly be to continue spending time with beautiful and amazing women and getting nekkid and having orgasms cause they are healthy and keep a spring in my step :) I would probably not mass text penis pics anymore.... ya know ..... in case the "John" police are monitoring my sexts ;)

I will always have a set of fresh towels ready for you to use, so you can wrap a towel around you after your shower. I also do this for massage sessions, some people are shy at first, so I will drape a towel over their buttocks first. I am in search, and have found robes that are at wholesale price, so that maybe soon I can offer you a fresh robe with the towels. For me, I will throw a robe on instead of my cloths while you get dressed. I always will be naked when your naked, dressed when you are dressed. I also prefer to leave the room as you disrobe for massage, most people feel funny if they are being watched as they hop out of their pants etc...then I enter and undress elegantly while you watch:) But if we sit and chat first, I usually will disrobe half way, as you men are visual creatures, lol Hope this answers your etiquette question?

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=20104 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=34148 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=102834&highlight=handles Just a few threads that covered this topic RG

I'm glad she was caught and is being charged. I don't agree with this AT ALL!

It is based again on the under 18 criteria. See the following link, http://yourlaws.ca/criminal-code-canada/171-householder-permitting-sexual-activity

For Running underage girls, Throw her in Jail and throw the key away!!!!

I just spoke with someone that knows her and she was well aware she was running underage girls. She has already been caught and had been under house arrest only able to leave home on Fridays for a couple of hours. Maybe this is one of her breach charges?

This woman is know as Mamma Flo and has been around and maybe still is a provider herself. I have never met her but I know people that do. I also had not heard she was running underage girls . The last I heard she was living in a basement apartment on Evans Avenue. This is a section of Fairview in Halifax . Its a section of town that boarders Old Clayton Park. It has good and bad parts all through Fairview, this one not being particularly bad. Perhaps not a good walk at night.

WHAT !!! ??? !!!! Lust ends ??? Tabarnack !!! ;) Oh ya right...it lasts until wedding vows. "As I slide this ring on your finger we vow now to have sex on our wedding night and maybe on the honeymoon a little bit and then never again until ovulation time. ;)" Now take out the garbage while I vacuum. And in a few years my lawyer will contact your lawyer Fuck. whether you fall for an SP or a bartender or an accountant or the sushi guy with the big knife chopping up fish. Doesn't matter. if you pursue it and she or he isn't interested move along folks. And "love" or "in love" doesn't really happen overnight IMO. It's just a word at that point. That truly takes a little time. And once it happens it never truly goes away. The "good and loving" memories are always there :)

Please post any BUSINESS RELATED announcements or self promotions in the advertising/announcements areas only. When you visit a town/city and then post a "Thank You" for that city please ensure it goes into the announcements area and not the discussion area. When posting and choosing the correct category consider this. Is this post I am about to make for my business? (Example: An Advertisement, Announcement, Schedule, Thanking of Visiting a city and asking if anyone is interested, Polling the guys on your new photos, etc...) -> IF SO THIS GOES IN THE ANNOUNCEMENT AREA Is it a general discussion topic (and not about you specifically) ... and does it still pertain to that city? If so then it can go into the discussion area The discussion area is more for people looking for info on a specific spot or provider in that area or general discussions for that city. A guy may however be looking for a specific service and may say "Does anyone provide this service" in that case you can say "Yes, I do" or if they are asking specifically about you in a thread... but if they ask "Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does xxxx" then they are obviously asking the other guys so posting here would be a blatant advertisement and self promotion. (Not allowed) Hope that clears things up a bit as we have had some confusion as to what is and is not allowed in each area. Basically the announcements area are for the SP's to promote themselves and the discussion area is mostly for the men to ask each other questions (or as the SP's question) but sometimes a SP posts a very good question that is not posted for gain of her own business and that is very much acceptable and encouraged.

got a code in my node. sniff sniff

This time is not a quote, is the link of a video a man made for his baby but as or more inspirational than any quote I have posted, especially if you read his story.

If I get no response to an email or text (which are always polite) then I won't make another attempt. That being said if I do get a response further contact will be based on said response. Life is short and there are lots of options out there. Peace MG

I don't like it I love it and every way but none;) Seeing it shoot onto my body, particularly my boobies I find orgasmic:boobies: Seeing the look on a mans face when he is about to blow and that horny in itself is a huge turn on, but what about sex isn't;)

Disclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!

Congrats for an amazing 2000 posts qwertyaccount! Awesome... Keep them coming! Thank you!!!

Happy belated Birthday hope you had a good one

Happy belated Birthday Bianca Hope your day was great RG

I went through a baby names website and wrote down a bunch I liked and then picked the one I thought suited me the best.

Sorry I am not a hobbyist, but in my experience, I have had been turned down by both scenarios, I simply feel, you can not please everyone:) There have been people who turned me down in a nice hotel too. I would ask him what hotel he had, and providing he was in a nice place, perhaps I would go see him at his location if it were to my standards and he was confirmed in his room. Maybe then I would insist next time to visit me at my location? Some people are just not informed, and when this happens all kinds of paranoia come into play. Just the other day someone was convinced that I had some cars " with really long antenna " were watching my house 2 streets over! LMAO...really, if there were people watching my house I might need to call the police! Later that day I realized it was the windshield washers left up because of a storm! hahaha Sorry here is my additional comments. Bianca, this person must have not looked into the great rep you have here, as anyone I think, would know you would provide nothing but the best location and with utmost discretion that is needed for safety! Additional Comments: What is up with the "almost booking"? meaning the guy who enquires for rates, times avail then given the best time to be agreed on? So even though it is NOT confirmed, if you say..." I am thinking for tomorrow around 3" I say "please confirm by 130" , even if you can't make it...why not just txt and say sorry can not make it? Am I suppose to txt you at 130 and ask why you have not called yet? If I do, are you going to be upset?

That sounds way too much like an ad and nothing like anything any guy I know would write.

I don't know this person nor the situation but I did want to say there is a chance she didn't know the girl was underage. There are some young girls who are clever, crafty and know how to get fake id, who look older and know how and what to do to fool someone into hiring them. Perhaps this was the case in this situation? If it was I feel sorry for her, if it wasn't shame on her!

Look beautiful :)

Wrong, it will not have to go up to the SCC again. The first time someone is charged under anything that resembles the three parts struck down, Living off avails, Bawdy house (and all that entails including found-in provisions) and public soliciting their lawyer will trot out the SCC decision that says as long as selling sex is legal, these laws are not valid and the client can not be found guilty. Case dismissed. The government will have to take another approach.

Awesome contributions - thank you!

I can't wait for spring! Wish it were here now.

Congratulations qwertyaccount on this milestone Looking forward to your next 2000 posts RG

Good job Qwerty. Well done!

I think everyone for their replies. I wondering about having a SD for making my life a bit easier. It looks like it makes life more complicated. No need for more complications in my life. No need for yet an additional secret life.

Speaking for myself only my rate isn't for what I do it's for time spent together.

LOL....my first session I was so nervous that I couldn't stay hard and didn't orgasm. Luckily the lady was very experienced and still made me feel great and I really enjoyed the intimacy. How I handled it was, pretty matter of factly, we both knew it wasn't going to happen so I just said it. The lady took a more reassuring approach and made me feel like it was ok and normal. I'm so glad I saw who I did and went with experience for my first time. Since others have mentioned her I've decided to edit my post to say Em was my first as well and I'm so grateful.

Continue to care. How could you not care at this point. But do it from a distance. Don't read her ads. Don't read her posts. Not until you can do so with some degree of dispassion, some distance. If you need to, leave CERB for a short while to give yourself a chance to be distracted by the Real World. In any event, the most important thing for you to remember is that this is your issue. Not her's. It would be tremendously unfair for you to look to her for help in this. I hate to be blunt, but it is like this. You broke it. You fix it. You are not alone. There are lots of people here at CERB that have been where you are right now. Most of them are willing to help. Chat with people - other people - not her. Good luck as you follow this path.