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In theory, MOD's definition is warm and fuzzy and what it should be... BUT - (sorry MOD, I doubt you have been an MA) reality is totally different. I have been asked many times as of lately what GFE really means - sadly, some have totally ruined and misrepresented this term - implied and guaranteed DFK, DATY, being fingered, FS and basically everything BUT a relaxing sensual massage. Call me prudish but there has been a change in what is expected in the massage rooms of Ottawa over the last few years. CMJ defines GFE as a "genuinely fabulous experience, girl friend experience" Just like, in REAL life, you don't connect with everyone and wouldn't want just any pretty girl or handsome guy to be your girlfriend/boyfriend. Also in real life, would you want your GF, GFE-ing it up with 5-10 different guys a day? DFK, DATY - lets not forget that now that SP's like to work in some MP's, and the fact that some MP's actively promote and encourage SP services (Blow Jobs and Full Service) in their "massage parlours", your risk for catching all kinds of STD's and STI's (both of the mouth/throat & genitalia area) have dramatically increased. Being selective and genuine is crucial not only for your health but for the longevity of the MASSAGE industry. The lines are being blurred and its very sad. I dont think that GFE guarantees DFK either.... I highly doubt you would play tonsil hockey with someone who has seriously bad gingivitis. Don't I feel sorry for the lady who feels that she can't give a great experience without having to DFK gingivitis boy. I am sorry but man this annoys me... and its a very dangerous road. Call me old fashioned but I am used to the days when GFE was a term that belonged to high end selective courtesans. As MOD said, it implies sensuality - well for me, sensual massage implies that imperatively. Things evolve and change, and I am not against that - however when you take an SP original term and try and apply it to a MA world - you get alot of confusion and blurred lines. Theory and reality are two different things. I hear my staff tell me everyday... and in my opinion, GFE "girlfriend experience" should have stayed an SP term .... hence why CMJ has had to re-define it to appropriately fit into the massage realm. Genuinely Fabulous Experience

John Caines hosts a very popular call in radio show dealing with home renovations. I would like to start a thread where cerbies could ask for suggestions and give advice regarding renos, car maintenance, electronics gardening, etc.... Let's share our hidden knowledge and abilities :) This is the "how to" thread (how to anything....scrapbooking, stainglassing, photography etc....) so share what you are knowledgeable and passionate about and ask questions about what you want to learn!

Making my mom happy... she's suffering from Alzeimer and I went to her place and gave her a bath...yes she's at that level now...although she was reluctant at first I managed to convince her and she thanked me many times...the look of releif on my dad's face...that made my day :) BJ

I think there is a shame when the word prostitute is pronounced and for me a courtesan or a companion makes it more acceptable and classy...just my honest opinion! Oufff...thats a though question!! I truly enjoy what I do and would keep doing it for a long time.....unless.. winning the lottery...no Financial worries ( might keep working still but not as much ;) Falling deeply in love and be supported financialy...:biggrin: I go with first come first serve! I have turned down a reg who contacted me last minute once and I had just got a booking who was confirmed...he suggested i cancel the other for him... No...not gonna happen sorry!

You supply them slave. Call to book your appointment in and become my PLEASED victim, naughty boy 613.820.8887

If the lady has booked a particular date and time for an individual already, even two minutes before me, and I was the regular, I respect the premise of first come first serve. If there is any benefit to being a regular, one shouldn't be bumping a lady's scheduled encounters. As a regular, or even a new client, one thing, first and foremost is to still remember and respect that this is the lady's livelihood, and you expecting her to bump or cancel a scheduled encounter may lead to her lose that encounter for good, which equals to loss of income for her. A gentleman, especially a regular would not want to see a lady lose any income. A rambling RG Additional Comments: I had to cancel last minute once on a lady I see regularly, she got paid in full plus tip by me. While I cancelled last minute due to illness, and it wasn't my fault I got sick, but it wasn't the lady's fault at all...but why should she be at a loss because I was sick. She got compensated in full because she would otherwise be at a loss income wise because she set aside a time and date for me, a time and date I wasn't going to make. And she didn't need to ask me for a cancellation fee, I just had to find out how to get the money to her (email money transfer) A rambling RG

A hug, when it's much needed. A sense of calm and relief is almost instantaneous.

My regular of course! Reputable cerb members still might cancel, or do a no show. Having a good cerb reputation is great but it doesn't mean he'll be a good client for me. If I consider a gentleman a regular then he has been fun, reliable, someone I like and want to see again. Additional Comments: Ill retire when I loose interest in this profession. When that happens it's my time, until then I'll enjoy it;) Additional Comments: To me they are just words. We all give ourselves titles we feel appropriate and comfortable with. Call it what you like they all have the same meaning, more or less.

Yes they are wonderful compliments. The best compliment to me is repeat visits.

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

What makes you happy....makes you smile, grin from hear to hear...I know you guys will definately come up with the big "O" lol....besides to big "O"... My son just told me...hey mom listen to this: It made me happy instantly :) Doing a good deed makes me happy :) Watching my kids smile makes me happy :) Smiling to a stranger and getting a smile back...nice! Let's get some positive and happy moments here...I'm feeling happy and would like it to be contagious! Thanks for sharing :D BJ

Getting a text from my daughter to see if I'm available for a Skype session. She'll have the baby on for a visit, and he's now able to sit up and starting to recognize whats going on, on the laptop. It's such a treat watching him develop, just seven months old.

Opinion of a guy - what Erin and cmj are posting is the way things always have been and will be unfortunately. But it really is a parallel to life outside the massage service world. Guys that are rude , creepy and gross that don't know how to treat women in the 9-5 world never get laid or have a happy partner either. A key word is respect too. If guys would figure out that the girls workings as MAs don't look at a dude and say..oh I want him sticking his fingers in me right now. Ha. You pay for fantasy but these girls are real people too. Treat them like the beautiful hard working ladies they are. They have to protect their hygiene and bodies too as it is their livelihood and they need a comfort factor. Erin and cmj keep up the high standards as I have personal experience with both. When I'm done a session I know I feel fantastic and the girl feels she met a decent , clean guy that made her day better not worse. That's my two cents... jerks like that and others I think MAs should just give me a swift kick in the balls. What will they do...go home and tell their wives.

Beauty is everywhere and in everything, from an object to a person actions, you just need to look. I can honestly say since me life changed so did my perception. I find beauty in the simplest things in their purest form. A genuine laugh or smile, act of kindness, selflessness. I think as human we've grown accustom to how something should look or be that we've lost sight of what actual beauty is. I know I did, and now that my eyes and mind are open I see beauty everywhere I just have to look.

As an sp, I can honestly say I'm not a hobbiest, never have been probably never will be, I'm on the receiving end. So, to answer your question, in my humble opinion : Not very likely.

I find physical beauty boring. I'd much rather look at someone who is interesting looking, scarred, tatted, someone who has some life on them and maybe even extra weight. But what I think I now know is that kindness shows on a persons face. It shows in their eyes, smile, it's a sincerity that is unmistakeable and to me that is beauty.

People that are there at those very hard times are those to be cherished. It is those times when we all need support. You are very lucky to have such special and thoughtful clients. Additional Comments: Some are aware of how much I love animals and support shelters. So the gents that made donations on behalf of me are my most memorable gifts/favors to date.

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OMG royal, separated at birth? I am sitting in my theater type lazy boy (cup holder, junk food receptacle etc) in my too big pj pants, eating pumpkin seeds with beer and watching .... Wait for it... American Idol and crying when they sing. I am so pathetic! Next, cheezewhiz and whatever I can find to scoop it out of the jar with. Hmmm I have salt and vinegar chips. Wait, baconnaise with cheezewhiz on my finger!

Cerb is becoming a great venue and I find that it is growing due to the ladies promoting it to gents who find them via BP et al. As a provider, I give prioriry to Cerb members so don't be shy about your handle!

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I would agree with Emma, repeat visits would be a better compliment... Means you truly enjoyed their company and would do it again.

Who doesn't like compliments? People love getting them. Compliment away. Sometimes if I compliment a client he thinks I say that to all the guys...no I only say things I mean and like this board if I have nothing nice to say I say nothing at all.

Again only speaking for myself. If your texting me I want it to read like an email. You can first ask if you have the right number but when it's confirmed I want your name etc. Believe me we can write a book on the stupid text messages and emails we get. Lol so be a gentleman and be polite.

We are judged all the time. Sad to say but true. I've been in this situation more then once..sometimes if you tell them right off what you do they think "Wow, all the free sex i can have". That isn't true by the way. wink .If you tell them later then they may walk away or they get it. Some dudes think they get it but it takes a special someone that really does. When dating someone it takes a lot more time to hit the sheets. wink

Your question is a little offensive. Might be better asked "has anyone been with" or "has anyone had an appointment with" or ... well I hope you get the point. Then "she might be worth it"? Brother, these are ladies not objects. Your not going to get much help when your questions read as rude or mean. Your name says "good guy" lets try that... little more gentleman like will get a lot more help here on cerb.

THANK YOU MOD! I dont know what is it so hard for some guys to understand that the GFE term describes a feeling.., the way how a massage session can be very intimate yet NOT NECESSARILY means that they will Get the so called "Extras" ... that the term GFE has nothing to do with An Specific Service... Is An Experience As a whole! THANK YOU AGAIN :)

i pay my accountant by the hour - i pay my lawyer by the hour -i pay my house cleaner by the hour- all professionals -why would your services be any different- except more enjoyable

I've met Katie several times and all I can say is WOW. The first time I saw her, was kind of by accident cause I had texted a few girls that night and kind of got confused with who I was meeting, but boy was it worth my wild. Seen her a few more times since than, and believe me if it would permit, I would see her everyday if possible. She starts off with a little conversation (she's very easy to talk too) and finding out what you like to do during your visit with her. She gives a great massage and her hands are like magic. She's so good with that massage that one time, I almost fell asleep cause she's that relaxing. She uses a non scented oil and it's great. Once the massage over we got down to a little business and it was great. She's got a sweet tight pussy, and gets wet during daty, and you can tell that she likes it. Without getting into much details, I will say that she's awesome and loves what she does. Once finished, she's totally discreet and makes sure that all is good before you leave. She makes sure to wipe the oil off your back and remove any possible sighting of lipstick or lip gloss on your skin for us guys who need to be discreet. She is totally great.

Feeling caught up makes me smile, so I am smiling now. Perhaps nothing makes me smile more than seeing and hearing the laughter of a little baby.

HI! My name is Jayla & I'm new to Vibe Urban Spa. I'm looking forward to meeting new people and having a extremely hot, sensual, erotic and fun time! I'm eager to please your fantasies and your desires. Nothing pleases me more than to be able to satisfy your needs. I'm a fun and easy going person... Always open to new experiences :wink: Come to Vibe and have an experence that will have you coming back for more... Vibe Urban Spa is located at 1010 Polytek St, Unit 12 and the number to call is 613 680 8059... My Schedule: Today, February 27 - 10am-3pm Friday, February 28 - 10am-10pm Saturday, March 1 - 12-8pm Hope to see you soon! xoxo __________________

Great Question, For myself I rarely see a visiting SP, firstly because of price, secondly we have a good selection of top service local girls in Wpg. which provide greater VFYM ( you are included in this list). I also prefer to see a local girl whom either has several good reviews by someone I trust, or I have personally seen her and want to continue seeing her. I think over the past several years , Wpg is seeing more & more lower level girls falsely advertising themselves, and providing subpar service, while at the same time we saw a sharp increase in touring girls who were giving above average service at a slightly higher price. However now I think we are seeing more & more touring girls charging much higher prices, and many are giving sub par service, resulting in many frustrated clients, and clients keep looking for that diamond in the rough, and because of the way the local scene has tended to go , many clients forget about the great local girls. Adding into the mix , I think we have seen a decrease in quality girls at the local MP's for various reasons, which just adds to the confusion. My personal opinion is that quality local girls , like yourself, are on the verge of seeing renewed interest in the the local homegrown gal , who gives consistent top quality service, at a reasonable cost. IMHO 200hr is reasonable, and we have enough great local girls to satisfy ones desire for variety. Hopefully more local guys start supporting local. Just my 2c worth.

wow Emma...that is awesome!!

I kinda think a regular client would appreciate the fact that you were already booked and would not expect you to cancel Just my opinion.

Funny, every time this thread comes up my answer is Skittles. Today, though, sour Skittles!!!!

You have two individuals - one is a regular client and the other is a reputable cerb member who has never seen you. If they happen to want to book you at about the same time, who will you give preference to?

I think if you go read their web site you will see it is RMT so I would say answer would be no

I am here and alive :D. Been busy with school and battling with depression and looking for a job no luck so far.

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Red, from Victoria's Secret. ; )

I love Nuru. It is a lot of fun, and incredibly erotic. I had a great nuru session with Nathalie Lefebvre. If you are in Toronto I highly recommend Naughty Nuru. Just google it for the website. Porthos

Congrats qwerty! 2000 wow, keep em coming.

In regards to clientele and times of appointments, I definitely notice a difference. Business men tend to see me during their work day as it tends to be convenient. Couples I see in the evenings almost exclusively! As for my preference, anytime after 9am and before 9pm is great :)

Hmmm I haven't tried dancing but believe me you wouldn't want to see me dance either. I dance like Elaine Venus. Haha shhhhh your not supported to give out my secrets

For me, I do not put in stats, as I figure I have plenty of pictures that can tell the story. Also, lot of the gent's figure I am lying about the stats. Some enquiries even do not know what a B cup, C cup etc means, ( I know how strange eh? ) When I was an agency girl, and they would give the description on the phone, I always hated hearing it. To me sounded like I was being "auctioned off" lol...Now as an agent, I still do not like to give stats cause I do not want my girls to feel the same as I did. I do give a description like: Medium body build, very ample curvy chest, long black hair, smooth skin and pretty white teeth. Unless they ask specifically about the numbers. Ohh BTW I also hate saying "my girls" cause they do not belong to me, LOL, they merely book me to represent them and help them screen for safety. We work together:)

What is sexy? It's the twinkle in the eye and the playful smile. It's being able to laugh at yourself and be ok with that. It's confident and intelligent and playful. It's being yourself even if it's not popular. It's a long t shirt and no underwear, leather gloves playing with a nipple. It's that kiss that promises more, it's the ability to be IN the moment with someone and going anywhere it leads. It's being able to make others feel special without sacrificing someone to do it. It's touching and being touched and having words whispered in the heat of passion. It's the taste and feel of someone you want and crave. It's the curve of a body, and the little personal things that someone does when they think no one is watching. It's love and acceptance, risk and vulnerability. And it's all the little things that are personal to us that make our stomach flutter, our pussies wet and our cocks hard. What is sexy? Everything!