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I've experience many great GFE experiences, the best being, when there is a connection or chemistry between the two of you. It's the feeling where they truly enjoy your company and do their best to make your time enjoyable and intimate. It's not about the extra's, my best experiences have been with women that don't provide any extras, just a lot of physical contact, kissing, continuous body slides, and mutual touching. Some chatting, cuddling and hugs. It's about the teasing and making the session last as long as they can. When the time is over, you don't want to leave. When you leave, you already know that you are coming back again and you know that she wants to have you back. To me that is a true GFE session. It's like dating someone for the first time, getting to know each other in intimate ways, but not going all the way yet :)

@Rob369 as Emma said, you can always engage in some conversations with the person you're interested in prior to meeting to determine if they are open to what you're looking for. This is also a great time for post reading as well, especially the ones involving topics that are more affectionate or sensual in nature ie: kissing, touch, cuddling, playfulness etc. This will give you a deeper understanding of the person you wish to see. Websites, blogs etc. are also great indicators. It may take a little effort but your pleasure is worth it for finding someone who can give you what you want and need! When it comes to a partner wanting to indulge in the hobby, I have to say it would depend on the circumstances. Trust is definitely needed as is communication. If they are interested in pursuing this because they are not feeling loved or valued, than that is something that needs to be dealt with and not ignored because it can lead to many issues. If it is simply a matter of variety, interest or treat, as long as there has been open communication about things, then certainly. Indulging together can also be a great experience to deepen the relationship and keep the fires burning. I have had clients bring me a thoughtful gift or write just to say they were thinking of me. It's the simple things that mean the most to me. I am myself in what I do so anything genuine makes me smile. I care about people and it's nice to have that returned.

I love that this topic has opened such a great discussion. One thing I wonder, as some ladies (to be frank, as myself) have been in the business for a while, and to be honest, don't get as many reviews as I once did. I think this is due to avoid redundancy. I don't think this is because my service has declined, but more the idea that - "oh yeah, we know her, so no need to review anymore." I think this is true for some other local ladies with good reviews but because they are not "new" that clientele maybe figures that a review is not needed. If a newbie were come to the board and base their decision on "local and reviewed well" then there could be a fair amount of ladies that would be overlooked as their reviews aren't up to the minute. By no means am I implying anybody should review me or others to try to "bump us up." I am just making and observation. The idea of TOFTT is important too because a new lady shouldn't be denied clientele on the sheer fact she is new, but I do agree that the lady's fee should reflect her "starter" status (for lack of a better word) and once established a good reputation, adopt the standard/fair fee. just my two cents PS one more point - just because a lady is local doesn't always mean that your privacy is compromised. It just takes a bit of research to know that there are ladies that value their discretion as much as yours :)

Things that make me Happy: See senior couples walking in the park holding hands (lets me know we all have that chance to grow old with someone) Listening to my son try and teach me to count to 10 in French on FaceTime - he's 5 and when I don't get it he hangs up on me :) The sun shining - even on an awful winter day and the feeling of being loved - nothing beats that!

I'm local to Winnipeg and mostly see regular clientele here, some for 5+ years. I also travel to Regina/Saskatoon almost monthly (weather permitting), and have the same kind of clientele there. Mostly repeat customers, some for years. I think for me, the choice has been mostly about finding a connection, and true sexual fun. I'm a lover when you need me. Sensual Porscha

I don't know if my opinion matters. For me as a touring gentleman locally is from Ottawa, Ont in the east to London, Ont in the west. Seeing a companion has nothing to do with local versus visiting however. It has to do with whoever interests me, and second, if I can tour to the city (or cities) she is in to see her. To me touring ladies aren't a threat to local ladies nor should local ladies be considered a threat to touring ladies. Each lady just needs to present and market herself, as the saying goes there is someone for everyone. Instead of worrying about what another lady does, just advertise yourself, and who you are. Maybe a gentleman wants to see that other lady, whether she is touring or local, but also, by the same token, some other gentleman wants to meet you. And seeing a companion at least for me, is based on my interest in meeting her first and foremost. Not on whether she is a local versus visiting companion A rambling which I hope makes sense RG

Making my mom happy... she's suffering from Alzeimer and I went to her place and gave her a bath...yes she's at that level now...although she was reluctant at first I managed to convince her and she thanked me many times...the look of releif on my dad's face...that made my day :) BJ

Please post any BUSINESS RELATED announcements or self promotions in the advertising/announcements areas only. When you visit a town/city and then post a "Thank You" for that city please ensure it goes into the announcements area and not the discussion area. When posting and choosing the correct category consider this. Is this post I am about to make for my business? (Example: An Advertisement, Announcement, Schedule, Thanking of Visiting a city and asking if anyone is interested, Polling the guys on your new photos, etc...) -> IF SO THIS GOES IN THE ANNOUNCEMENT AREA Is it a general discussion topic (and not about you specifically) ... and does it still pertain to that city? If so then it can go into the discussion area The discussion area is more for people looking for info on a specific spot or provider in that area or general discussions for that city. A guy may however be looking for a specific service and may say "Does anyone provide this service" in that case you can say "Yes, I do" or if they are asking specifically about you in a thread... but if they ask "Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does xxxx" then they are obviously asking the other guys so posting here would be a blatant advertisement and self promotion. (Not allowed) Hope that clears things up a bit as we have had some confusion as to what is and is not allowed in each area. Basically the announcements area are for the SP's to promote themselves and the discussion area is mostly for the men to ask each other questions (or as the SP's question) but sometimes a SP posts a very good question that is not posted for gain of her own business and that is very much acceptable and encouraged.

The perceived quality of any date, longer or shorter, seems more to depend on knowing what you want and selecting the right sort of companion for that date. There are many ladies that enjoy shorter encounters, they find the 30min. option ideal as they prefer a more physical encounter and there is no shortage of clients that also seek that out. Then there are ladies that are uncomfortable in shorter time frames, have min. 1hr (or longer) dates because they like to go a little slower, ease into the date if you will. There are a number of clients that seek out this sort of companionship as well. A 1hr date can be entirely physical or it can be a little slower, where you have a little conversation and some time to sip wine or lie back and relax together. In that situation you really just need to know your companion, know what type of date she prefers as it will flow best when you are both on the same page. Figure out what you find most appealing, whether you prefer a date with more of a mental connection or something that is more of a raw physical encounter then seek out a lady that has similar tastes. If you connect with someone with a similar interest then it will be a quality date. :)

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When you run across people whether you know them or not that truly love and care for each other. I have a special affinity towards seeing elderly couple that cherish each other.

I would not. Those of us who are partnered or married depend on the support we get from our SO. Many times they help us book tickets, rooms and keep the home running while we are away. They also support us financially, if we have a bad week their paycheck is in the bank, guaranteed. This allows us not to fret about seeing X number of people and saves a lot of stress. In return for all this if my SO wanted to see someone else that is a treat he totally deserves.

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A movie on VOD...Saving Private Ryan Watching it on my new tv...WOW!!!...how I managed with that old huge tube tv I don't know RG

Home means comfort over style. Sweat pants trump slacks. Baggy tee shirts complete the ensemble. Dinner is often eaten in front of the television right from the coffee table. All manner of bodily sound effects are in play. Burps and farts break the silence with disturbing regularity. I guess my classiest move is the drive by fart. My SO & I will be on the love seat and I need to get up for some reason. As I exit the area I leave something for her to remember me. Drive by. :pete:

CMJ is totally right, massage industry is not what It used to be, everyday full service spas come into the business and all the magic of the sensual massage goes to other level. I think solution is for those spas to become agencies, and stop calling themselves massage parlors.

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I think you need to bear in mind that: Not all local ladies are established There are "new" local ladies popping up all the time who come and go or stick around and eventually become established or otherwise. Not all visiting ladies are new - there are established providers who tour. Those with recos/reviews are probably a better gamble than some new visiting lady no one has ever heard about. Whatever you choose, the bottom line is if it sounds too good to be true, or appears sketchy, it probably is.

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In theory, MOD's definition is warm and fuzzy and what it should be... BUT - (sorry MOD, I doubt you have been an MA) reality is totally different. I have been asked many times as of lately what GFE really means - sadly, some have totally ruined and misrepresented this term - implied and guaranteed DFK, DATY, being fingered, FS and basically everything BUT a relaxing sensual massage. Call me prudish but there has been a change in what is expected in the massage rooms of Ottawa over the last few years. CMJ defines GFE as a "genuinely fabulous experience, girl friend experience" Just like, in REAL life, you don't connect with everyone and wouldn't want just any pretty girl or handsome guy to be your girlfriend/boyfriend. Also in real life, would you want your GF, GFE-ing it up with 5-10 different guys a day? DFK, DATY - lets not forget that now that SP's like to work in some MP's, and the fact that some MP's actively promote and encourage SP services (Blow Jobs and Full Service) in their "massage parlours", your risk for catching all kinds of STD's and STI's (both of the mouth/throat & genitalia area) have dramatically increased. Being selective and genuine is crucial not only for your health but for the longevity of the MASSAGE industry. The lines are being blurred and its very sad. I dont think that GFE guarantees DFK either.... I highly doubt you would play tonsil hockey with someone who has seriously bad gingivitis. Don't I feel sorry for the lady who feels that she can't give a great experience without having to DFK gingivitis boy. I am sorry but man this annoys me... and its a very dangerous road. Call me old fashioned but I am used to the days when GFE was a term that belonged to high end selective courtesans. As MOD said, it implies sensuality - well for me, sensual massage implies that imperatively. Things evolve and change, and I am not against that - however when you take an SP original term and try and apply it to a MA world - you get alot of confusion and blurred lines. Theory and reality are two different things. I hear my staff tell me everyday... and in my opinion, GFE "girlfriend experience" should have stayed an SP term .... hence why CMJ has had to re-define it to appropriately fit into the massage realm. Genuinely Fabulous Experience

I totally agree Ice4fun...and a true gent would never ask this! The one thing that stood out for me was that a client offered me a massage at the beginning of the appt (1h) and it lasted for 30 min :icon_biggrin:...omfg it was amazing! I felt like a queen!! And a client in NY brought me a BD gift before our second appt :), that was a very sweet thought!!!

Glad to hear that you had a good experience with her. Unfortunately, many have not had the same experience, and the shortfalls have been noted in other forums, were she interested in checking. You might want to give us a few details of your session, explaining how it was a positive experience. And, since it is your first post here, you could give us a frame of reference by comparing her to other SP's you may have visited. Maybe a little about the area she works out of, were facilities provided, fresh towels, easy parking. Its not the clients job to give advice or teach an SP. But if she'd like a little constructive criticism, she could work on her presentation on the internet. Declaring oneself as a student and then posting an ad with such horrible spelling and grammar, well, it does not bode well for a professional encounter. That and using current pictures (the very nice, professional ones she uses along with the phone camera shots are quite old, nice, but old, and saying they were taken yesterday whe we've seen them for years, well) would go a long way to enhancing her reputation. There, I've started the ball rolling, my two cents worth of free advice, as the quoted poster requested.

So last week I decided to go for a massage after about a 2 year absence and had the most mind blowing experience. Mind you in past years I used to frequent several establishments and Indies but nothing I have experienced before compared to the awesome session i had last week at CMJ. Maybe the standards have changed in the last two years, maybe it was a one off and I lucked out, but wow. So, here's a shout out to the management and fine ladies at CMJ (yes it was duo). Will be back very soon.

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Thanks everyone! I'd like to respond to the "What makes you smile" thread here: It is coming to CERB and knowing that I am surrounded by people who care and that I care for.

This is a problem of the employer. They are the ones who actually issue the T-4 slips. During my many years of working I did not know an employer who did not screw up at least one persons pay every pay period. That is why they are slow issuing the T-4 slips. They are still scrambling to fix errors. Note: Always verify each and every paycheck you receive to ensure it is accurate. Most companies have a special form for you to fill out when you find errors. Some companies will also offer to deduct an extra $20 per pay for income tax. This can make a big difference at tax time. Any over payment is refunded. OR if you owe then you will not owe quite as much.

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I agree. I often times see some ladies ads, and ask my partner if he would like to book with her. He has not yet, but we do at times book a lady together. I do like lady love from time to time to. The only time I would have an issue with this is if he was hiding it from me, or maybe spending too much time with the same lady over and over. Then I would feel put aside:( Like you say Katherine "a treat" is deserved. Being an MA, I do treat him with spa sessions about once a week so he feels cared for too. :)

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You are certainly right you cant describe a feeling... I think what CMJ is trying to clarify is that Offering a GFE experience doesnt mean extra services in menu. If we choose to be massage attendants is because we want to play the sensual game of teasing. Is about cuddling sharing feelings and experiences is not about extras. Is not a term to cover DATY, fs and other services

What has the country come too when the Prime Minister is so bad we start to think Rob Ford is ok.lolollol

i live here in town and I would love to be a regular client, if your ever in town pm me and I'll show you around

Getting a text from my daughter to see if I'm available for a Skype session. She'll have the baby on for a visit, and he's now able to sit up and starting to recognize whats going on, on the laptop. It's such a treat watching him develop, just seven months old.

Just read Nathalies Ad.... so now all I can think about is Her and Savannah kissing.....Ahhhhh to be in Ottawa for the week of the Social.

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Opinion of a guy - what Erin and cmj are posting is the way things always have been and will be unfortunately. But it really is a parallel to life outside the massage service world. Guys that are rude , creepy and gross that don't know how to treat women in the 9-5 world never get laid or have a happy partner either. A key word is respect too. If guys would figure out that the girls workings as MAs don't look at a dude and say..oh I want him sticking his fingers in me right now. Ha. You pay for fantasy but these girls are real people too. Treat them like the beautiful hard working ladies they are. They have to protect their hygiene and bodies too as it is their livelihood and they need a comfort factor. Erin and cmj keep up the high standards as I have personal experience with both. When I'm done a session I know I feel fantastic and the girl feels she met a decent , clean guy that made her day better not worse. That's my two cents... jerks like that and others I think MAs should just give me a swift kick in the balls. What will they do...go home and tell their wives.

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If the lady has booked a particular date and time for an individual already, even two minutes before me, and I was the regular, I respect the premise of first come first serve. If there is any benefit to being a regular, one shouldn't be bumping a lady's scheduled encounters. As a regular, or even a new client, one thing, first and foremost is to still remember and respect that this is the lady's livelihood, and you expecting her to bump or cancel a scheduled encounter may lead to her lose that encounter for good, which equals to loss of income for her. A gentleman, especially a regular would not want to see a lady lose any income. A rambling RG Additional Comments: I had to cancel last minute once on a lady I see regularly, she got paid in full plus tip by me. While I cancelled last minute due to illness, and it wasn't my fault I got sick, but it wasn't the lady's fault at all...but why should she be at a loss because I was sick. She got compensated in full because she would otherwise be at a loss income wise because she set aside a time and date for me, a time and date I wasn't going to make. And she didn't need to ask me for a cancellation fee, I just had to find out how to get the money to her (email money transfer) A rambling RG

I have great memories of many gents but the ones that stand out most are: renting me an apartment in Manhattan for a month. Baking me cookies. Sending flowers And one of the best was when my mom passed away several of my clients got together and sent me money. This meant I didn't have to think about work for awhile.

Congratulations qwerty! Awesome milestone to hit.

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You know...that's kinda one of my fantasy. Hope it will happen one day!

Your above post was posted in the recommendation area. We DO NOT reward ladies who bait and switch people with fake photos with recommendations. Your recommendation has been merged into this discussion thread and your live account of her photos being fake has allowed us to move the thread into the warnings area for bait and switch to warn others that her photos are indeed fake. Good service or not this is NOT acceptable so please do not support these ladies who do this.

Wow so glad I read this thread... I am so going to try La Viva! I work nearby and this will be a great find! Thanks all for your reviews! - Excited :boobeyes:

This is a topic very near and dear to me and one I hope you all won't mind if I ramble about for a few :) As the subject of my post suggests, I firmly believe in there being a difference between lust and love, as well as arousal and attraction. And it is VERY easy for us, as human beings, to blur the lines between the two. I speak from experience when I say that... as I have blurred them in my past. LOVE is a choice. It is something that we CHOOSE when we commit ourselves to one other person for the rest of our lives. It is born out of history, respect, unconditional admiration and acceptance. Out of knowing things about the other that no one else knows. About seeing them at their worst, their most vulnerable, and believing that is when they they look their most beautiful or most handsome; Their most attractive. It comes from complete openness, complete honesty and complete trust. With it comes a desire to be a better person - for yourself so that you can be better for THEM. It comes a complete freedom to be yourself, no matter WHAT that entails - because you know that no matter what you say, or do; no matter how grumpy you get, or how crazy or silly, at the end of the day you are welcomed into the loving arms of your CHOSEN partner. LUST is a feeling. An intense, passionate feeling. It is born from newness, from sexual desire, from excitement, anticipation, anxiousness, intimacy and arousal. It is all encompassing, it is amazing, it is FUN. The reality of this is though, lust fades. Even in a relationship with someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with (because you've made that CHOICE to do so), lust fades. This is why marriages ebb and flow, have their ups and downs, and often fail. Too many people believe that if the lust is gone, then the relationship is over. What they FAIL to see, is that if you make a CHOICE to love someone, and ride the rollercoaster through the next down, the next CLIMB is better than anything lust could ever allow you to experience. The CHOICE to love someone is a conscious choice that requires great effort, great committment and great amounts of work. The FEELING of lust is involuntary. It just happens. It is beautiful and natural and wonderful. But it just is. Let's face it: Being with someone we've CHOSEN to love, vs an SP/client that we LUST for is very different. Even the SEX is different. Sex with someone we lust for is fun, yes. It may even be intense, or passionate. It may leave you reeling, thinking about that person and longing to see them again. It envokes all kinds of strange thoughts in your mind that you are left trying to make sense of. But really, it IS just sex. It is erotic, enjoyable and wonderful -- as is the connection that precedes it. But it does nothing for the soul in the long term. On the flip side, SEX with someone you've CHOSEN to love, and have a history and committment with is the kind of sex that relaxes you and makes you feel all warm and loved inside. The kind of sex that makes you want to stay in bed all day naked. The kind of sex that can make you cry because its as much of an emotional release as it is a physical one. The kind of sex that makes you want to crawl inside them and you still wouldn't be close enough to them. NO SP or client could ever replace that very thing with someone you've CHOSEN to love. And that is why although the client/SP relationship may be good... no, GREAT experiences, nobody will ever be better, or replace the ONE person you've chosen to let in your heart. No matter how good the physical connection between SP and client, they will never replace that very same thing in your bed.