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There is so much stigmatization in society. Not just in the escorts world, but in every aspect of human lives. I've often said, that prostitution is considered bad, because the men who make the laws and rules, really don't like it when women have a means to say "these are my terms, like it or leave it". They are not in control of our bodies, and they don't like it. I was talking to a guy once, he knows what I do, and he was bad mouthing a girl who used to have a bad addiction. She has been clean for months, but in his mind, he kept talking about how she would give BJ's for $5 so she could get her drugs. He didn't even seem to realize how much of a dick he was being. She was on a new path in life, doing well, but in his mind she was still a dirty street whore. I gave him a piece of my mind about this, and let him think about how two-faced he was being. Needless to say, he is no longer welcome in my life, as I don't ever want to have to listen to his crap and views. I feel that women are given the short end of the stick in life - and those of us that fight for equality fight in every part of our lives. I am a feminist - always was and always will be. I will not let others dictate their views on me - just like I don't dictate my views on them. If they don't like it, they can move on. If I don't like theirs, I move on. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me. However, it doesn't mean I have to listen to it. I am proud to be a slut, whore, friend, lady, tramp, bitch - what ever you want to call me, as long as you call me!

The kitty I adopted from the TCR in January got really sick and the vet couldn't figure out what was wrong with her. She passed away last night. RIP Riff Raff.

About me: I am very outgoing, open minded, sensual, playful. My services include full body massage, Hottub sessions and reverse massage and I cater to some fetish's. We can play dress up (with pre-notice) Everything that goes on in our session together is confidential. I have Blond hair blue eyes, tanned baby soft skin. No tattos. I weigh about 110 pounds. This Week, you can find me in the west end, Paradise Spa Saturday 4:00pm - 9:00pm To book your time with me you can call 613-820-8887 xoxoxo

I'm Sasha, a young fit and playful MA who loves to massage and can do it for hours. My sensual erotic massage will relieve your tension & leave you more than satisfied. I'm very fun, open minded and comfortable to be around so let's make this experience as enjoyable and naughty as your fantasies.. I'm petite 5'4, athletic 120 lbs, perky b34 bust, nice round booty, brunette, golden tan, seductive lips, exotic hazel bedroom eyes, 100% natural beauty.. Services: Non-rushed service Full erotic body massage Reverse massage Slippery body slides reverse body slides Shower for 2 Hot tub fun Relaxing music Fresh towels & linens Duos Some fetishes ATM available on site Schedule: Saturday@ Angels: 4pm-11pm http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=S&t=146238 Join me for some hot steamy fun an experience to never forget, come have the very best!! call: (Angels): 613-274-7073 or (Paradise): 613-820-8887 Incall location only! -Sasha xxx

Angels Touch Massage 65 Bentley Ave. Sat March 1 10am-11pm * LATER HOURS* Full Body Relaxation Massage Treat yourself to an unforgettable amazing erotic,naughty massage,I also enjoy Sexy showers,bodyslides,fetishes, role play, Duos & Naughty fun!I'm 5'8 tall & fit long blonde hair & beautiful blue eyes always ready to try new things absolutely Xxperienced! If u have any questions just ask Single Massage: 30 minutes $50. 45 minutes $60. 60 minutes $80. Steamy Duo Massage:2 Attendants 30 minute $80. 45 minute $100. 60 minute $130. My Recommendations *** http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=120424 Pm me For Info or call spa for an apt @613-274-7073

1)wow...not much to add here...if you walk in with a smile, that's a bonus :D I2) adore my regulars because it gets better and better after each appt...that being said I like the excitement of meeting a new client :) 3)For me a regular is a repeat client...after a second visit he is considered a regular...now...I have regulars and great regulars ;) 4)I prefer longer appointements, no more half hours it's way to rushed, 2 hours and more is my fav that way you can get to know him better and build that connection! 5)Oh I love it...so nice to know that someone is thinking of you :D 6)That too is appreciated...I usually do not initiate such message but I love receiving them and will definately answer back :) 7)If I get in touch with them it's because they asked me to let them know when i was coming back...and I dont mind keeping in touch with reg clients :) as long as it's stays within the client/sp boundaries! BJxxx

I pretty much agree with you. The stigma comes from the old view of male/female power dynamics, and you're right that despite many advances in many areas of society, this one fiercely resists change. For a very long time in Western society, a woman's value lay entirely and exclusively in her sexual and reproductive powers. There was a long time even in English law when women couldn't own property and had no particular claim on her children; she and they were mere appendages of the husband. (Even today, the father walks his daughter down the aisle in the marriage ceremony and "gives away" the bride-object to her new owner, and how many people really stop to ask "wait, what?"? We're all too busy being caught up in the happy security of a familiar tradition.) When sex is the only measure of your value and using it to secure a husband is your only path to financial security, you do all you can to ensure it retains its value. Women will shame another woman who shares sex freely because she's devaluing the currency in general; and everyone shames, or at least pities, the prostitute for "squandering" her own sole value for the sake of an income when she should be conserving it to secure a husband. And from the man's side you're right; his value was measured by his ability to secure a good wife (and the access to sex and reproduction that entailed). A truly successful man should have a large supply of women throwing themselves at him in the hopes of securing him as a husband. Simply buying sex with money suggested he was incapable of acquiring it through merit. Everyone was supposed to stick to the rules for the sexual "transaction", or the authorities (and their peers) would come down hard to preserve the accepted order. Or at least... everyone should always appear to follow the rules. And that's the rub, because even in such a rigid society prostitutes wouldn't exist without men to secretly be their clients. And plenty of young women, and wives, experienced sexual attraction and acted on it outside of marriage. But when institutions hold sway and individuals are lesser partners in society, you maintain appearances at all costs lest that all-powerful community turn upon you. Essentially: the powers that be, and even the individual participants in a rigid society, won't tolerate others who challenge its rules. The same thing happened to gypsies, who owned no land and therefore were seen as rootless and untrustworthy. People who disregarded the rules of sex=marriage were like sexual gypsies and suffered accordingly. These things all sound silly today, BUT... traditions die hard, even when the reasons they arose don't apply any more. Most people still think that the standard life script -- marry in a church and have kids -- fundamentally rules any successful life, regardless of other changes in society. Parents and other authority figures are happy to reinforce this idea. So you get the dual behaviour of people becoming freer with sex to a point, but still buying into the idea of it as currency to purchase marriage, and that ultimately, sex should reside exclusively within that marriage. Anything else is a threat to all those who still buy into that idea. Still... there's change underway. It's had to wait until the Old Guard largely die off and those that remain becomes outnumbered by a newer generation growing up with different ideas. Just as same-sex marriage has unexpectedly begun to achieve normality, the other anachronisms about marriage and sexuality may give way too. This could be helping to pave the way for acceptance of sexual service providers too. There will always be a conservative rump who will never accept the change, but I think those numbers are changing. We'll see.

@ A1B2C3D4E5 It sounds like you already have the high points of being a great client covered. The things after that I say are specific to you and your provider. There is a laundry list of things you an do to be a good client but to be a great client, you need to be on for your specific SP. We are all individuals and have likes and dislikes, things that excited us and turn us on and people we connect with. To be a great client, you need to develop a relationship within the boundaries and learn her as she will learn you. Great clients are not born, they are created with time and attention. I for one love both my regulars and meeting new people. Both create excitement, energy and possibilities. There is always the potential to build and I love that aspect with both. I think a regular client is anyone you see regularly but that is "their" regular. It could be weekly, bi weekly, monthly, every few months etc. It's a consistent thing. Personally I love two hour sessions as it allows that extra time to snuggle, talk, laugh or explore. These sessions say that you enjoy the person you're with. Shorter are still great especially in this world of "busy". I love maintaining a connection with people whether just to say hi, acknowledge a birthday or a holiday so when someone thinks of me, it is definitely smile worthy. I always like to acknowledge someone after our first meeting as everyone provides me something to smile about. I follow the lead of the other person though, if they don't go for that sort of thing or don't want it, then I don't do it and I don't expect it. It's difficult sometimes when you just want to say hello when many times it's taken as a play for business.

What happened to you has happened to several clients who I used to see. You have taken the time to solve the underlying issue and have graduated from seeing SPs to falling in love (probably). It happens. That is why SPs are here. We are here when you are too busy, too distracted, too preoccupied with life, etc. Life moves on and it looks like you are moving on. Nothing wrong with that.

Personality, wit, sense of humor, and the chance that we have common interests and can just be ourselves and chillaxed when together. Mutual sexual attraction can naturally coincide many and hopefully most times as a result IMO. Now I could be way off on that too...don't know. My story sticking to it ! ;) The ladies that know me now most likely understand what I am TRYING to say. ha Every single lady that I have met, or may meet in the future I hope to have a connection with and ideally hope to meet many times over time if the stars align. The most beautiful bum in the world won't make me get on a plane or jump in the truck and drive hours to come see you. It's bigger than that. You intrigue me and I'll intrigue you ;) I love beauty but I truly don't have any particular physical attribute in a lady that attracts me more than an awesome genuine smile :))) and a laugh.

When it is hot and humid, the dust and debris can absorb enough humidity to become conductive: Here's a failed power module - basic vacuuming returned it to operation. (The fan is actually OUT-flow and not an inlet): The inside of a computer that was used in an auto-body shop. The first is the before, the second is the after cleaning: Tip of the day: If your computer starts to make a noise especially when powering up, that is the bearings in a cooling fan starting to fail or that it is plugged up with gunk. When it stops making the noise, that normally means that the fan has stopped and it is just a matter of time before your system fries.

Welcome Gents, my name is Tiffany. I am 5'11" tall, 130lbs with short dark blond hair, hazel bedroom eyes, and a smile that will drive you crazy!! I believe in the simple pleasures of life, and love sensual experiences!! From the moment I walk into a room with you, you will feel the connection between us. From the first soft flirty move I make to a finish that will leave you weak in the knees, you will be thanking yourself for spending time with me! You will always leave my room felling relaxed and with a smile on your face!! It is after great thought and consideration that I have decided that it is time to announce that I will be leaving the Massage business. I would like to thank all of you for the wonderful memories and I will never forget the kindness of you all. Thank you for teaching me so much about myself this business and how wonderful the world can be. CERB is a Great Community filled with wonderful people, and I am thankful that I have had the opportunity to experience some of that greatness. All that being said that I will be retiring from the business at the end of February, So you still have some time to live all of your Tiff Dreams :wink: I'll be here at Angel's Touch Only 1 Night left to Live your Tiff Dreams... XOXOXO Friday February 28th 3:30-11:00pm ** Few Spots open later in the evening** XOXOXO To reach me Call Angels at 613-274-7073 or Send me a PM here on CERB Services Sensual Relaxation Massage Body Slides, to make you say OMG Sexy Soapy showers for 2 Duo massages(2 girls, 4 hands) Oh, you will never regret spoiling yourself to one of these!! Private Dance Shows Set you on Fire Girl Friend Experience Couples/Ladies Welcome Life is to be enjoyed. not just endured -Gordon B. Hincley

@Rob369 as Emma said, you can always engage in some conversations with the person you're interested in prior to meeting to determine if they are open to what you're looking for. This is also a great time for post reading as well, especially the ones involving topics that are more affectionate or sensual in nature ie: kissing, touch, cuddling, playfulness etc. This will give you a deeper understanding of the person you wish to see. Websites, blogs etc. are also great indicators. It may take a little effort but your pleasure is worth it for finding someone who can give you what you want and need! When it comes to a partner wanting to indulge in the hobby, I have to say it would depend on the circumstances. Trust is definitely needed as is communication. If they are interested in pursuing this because they are not feeling loved or valued, than that is something that needs to be dealt with and not ignored because it can lead to many issues. If it is simply a matter of variety, interest or treat, as long as there has been open communication about things, then certainly. Indulging together can also be a great experience to deepen the relationship and keep the fires burning. I have had clients bring me a thoughtful gift or write just to say they were thinking of me. It's the simple things that mean the most to me. I am myself in what I do so anything genuine makes me smile. I care about people and it's nice to have that returned.

In theory, MOD's definition is warm and fuzzy and what it should be... BUT - (sorry MOD, I doubt you have been an MA) reality is totally different. I have been asked many times as of lately what GFE really means - sadly, some have totally ruined and misrepresented this term - implied and guaranteed DFK, DATY, being fingered, FS and basically everything BUT a relaxing sensual massage. Call me prudish but there has been a change in what is expected in the massage rooms of Ottawa over the last few years. CMJ defines GFE as a "genuinely fabulous experience, girl friend experience" Just like, in REAL life, you don't connect with everyone and wouldn't want just any pretty girl or handsome guy to be your girlfriend/boyfriend. Also in real life, would you want your GF, GFE-ing it up with 5-10 different guys a day? DFK, DATY - lets not forget that now that SP's like to work in some MP's, and the fact that some MP's actively promote and encourage SP services (Blow Jobs and Full Service) in their "massage parlours", your risk for catching all kinds of STD's and STI's (both of the mouth/throat & genitalia area) have dramatically increased. Being selective and genuine is crucial not only for your health but for the longevity of the MASSAGE industry. The lines are being blurred and its very sad. I dont think that GFE guarantees DFK either.... I highly doubt you would play tonsil hockey with someone who has seriously bad gingivitis. Don't I feel sorry for the lady who feels that she can't give a great experience without having to DFK gingivitis boy. I am sorry but man this annoys me... and its a very dangerous road. Call me old fashioned but I am used to the days when GFE was a term that belonged to high end selective courtesans. As MOD said, it implies sensuality - well for me, sensual massage implies that imperatively. Things evolve and change, and I am not against that - however when you take an SP original term and try and apply it to a MA world - you get alot of confusion and blurred lines. Theory and reality are two different things. I hear my staff tell me everyday... and in my opinion, GFE "girlfriend experience" should have stayed an SP term .... hence why CMJ has had to re-define it to appropriately fit into the massage realm. Genuinely Fabulous Experience

I'm not sure of the answers to your questions but as for men being pigs for loving them, no! I can understand, even though I'm not sexually attracted to women their breasts/bodies are beautiful, in all forms. I obviously love breasts, as I increased mine and still want more of them-just how much more is the question;) Titties are beautiful, just remember to honor the nipples because without them titties would be pointless:):)

When writing a pm, email or texting, please do not send one liners! Many times, it come across as being rude. Ive been on the recieving end of this threw txting, hence the reason why I do not text anymore to make a 1st appointment! WE can not hear your tone of voice, so when you send something like this: "WHEN CAN I SEE YOU?" It just sounds rude. First off, INTRODUCE yourself! Say hello, how are you, I am Mr.XXX. The reason why you are emailing or pm'ing: I am interested in meeting with you on this date and time for this long. A little about yourself, if your comfortable saying anything, some ladies actually request that you do, some don't. Then sign off... Looking forward to hearing from you, Until we meet, or what ever. When you write an actual pm or email, we WILL respond! When I see something that is not like the above described, I dont even want to put in the effort to respond, since you did not take the effort to say more than 3 or 4 words to me! And I am sure I am not the only lady that feels like that! And most importantly!! Read her Ads, website and profile!! They are very imformative. Hence the reason why we put so much effort into them! The effort your going to put in by pm'ing "Whats your rates?", "What time do you start?", or the big question, "What do you look like?" will be alot less than clicking your mouse on the link to her website/profile! You just look very lazy and disrespectful! We are not asking you to write an autobiography about yourself or a novel! 5-6 lines is not asking for much! I know some men are men of very few words, but if you cant take a few minutes to learn about us and say more then a few words, then imagin how we think the encounter will go with you?! Starting an email/pm politely can and will get you a better or if any encounter with your choosen SP/MA! ****************** I've searched and could not find a thread about etiquette on pm'ing, but found this thread, which only shows you how to START a pm: http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15861 If I missed it someone let me know and Ill ask the Mod to add this post to it! Thanks, Tiffany Amber xoxo

Gents (and Ladies) Here's another newbie question but probably everyone is interested to see what you think on this topic. Obviously all of us are aware of the notion of tipping for great service received, however tipping often has customary practices that are unique to the surrounding circumstances. What are the 'best practices' re: tipping in the SP space? For example... - always tip except in the face of worse possible service (like tipping in a restaurant) - only tip if the service was 'blow you away' good (Not a BJ pun!) - never tip because the donations are "all inclusive" (this would seem unlikely to me) And lastly, is tipping generally percentage based (like a waiter or a cab) or a fixed amount based, or whatever you think it was worth based? Sorry to bring up money when so many more fun topics are at hand, but these Ladies deserve Best Practice and personally, I definitely do not want to miss the mark on this important point. Thanks in advance for all of your thoughts.

A lot of Sps are willing to offer last min appointment.. BUT please give us a MINIMUM of notice. Lately I had a lot of request from people who wanted to see me RIGHT NOW, not even able to wait 15min to get ready. For our appointment, we like to be fresh & clean. We are NOT vending machine, put 2$ Im ready. No, no, no.... Please, I, and a lot of others girls, are happy to accomadate you.. But please, we do have a life too.. Its not because Im available Im already dress in lingerie waiting for you..

Just got home... opened up a nice cold beer .. mmm yummy it was a long and stressful week... specially for school... glad is over .. now time to recharge for next week!

Hello gentlemen, I'm a sexy mix of playful and naughty Let me release all your daily stresses and lets escape to a world of pleasure. My goal is to ensure that all of your desires have been met. I'm 5'8'', green eyes, brown hair, 34B, toned body NEW RECO: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=168571 I offer GFE, Ymmv, full nudity, showers for two, couples, duo's, sensual massage with bodyslides, manual release.. Call 613-523-6199 Book Online http://www.clubcmj.com or PM me to become my special VIP!

Hi, new to the board and would like to thank everyone that contributes for the great info. I have been reading for awhile and have learned a lot! I am also new to the hobby as well, and looking to have a first encounter in the near future. I was wondering about clearing up a few questions. 1) Is there any positive or negative reasons to visit Independent SP vs agency SP? For some reason I seem to naturally feel more comfortable with using an independent, not sure if this is a reasonable way of thinking? 2) What is the appropriate etiquette when it comes to tipping? Seems like some people feel it is required and others say it is factored in the price? 3) I would be looking to use in call service. Are there usually any hidden fees other that the "donation". Don't want to show up short! 4) I understand the need for providing the SP with a legitimate phone number. I currently only have a home phone (shared), so would it be wise to get a cell phone? Is it common to receive calls from a SP? Thanks

Oh my Boobies!!! God was not generous with me so i grew up with a size AA which is smaller then A...I was called flat chested many times as a teen. I fantasized over breast all my teenage years...yes fantasized...It was a real turn on for me...I knew one day I would get them enhanced to feel better about myself... I say AMEN for breast implant :boobies: BJ

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Quarterflash - Harden My Heart That was good music!! :)

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Things that make me Happy: See senior couples walking in the park holding hands (lets me know we all have that chance to grow old with someone) Listening to my son try and teach me to count to 10 in French on FaceTime - he's 5 and when I don't get it he hangs up on me :) The sun shining - even on an awful winter day and the feeling of being loved - nothing beats that!

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I've experience many great GFE experiences, the best being, when there is a connection or chemistry between the two of you. It's the feeling where they truly enjoy your company and do their best to make your time enjoyable and intimate. It's not about the extra's, my best experiences have been with women that don't provide any extras, just a lot of physical contact, kissing, continuous body slides, and mutual touching. Some chatting, cuddling and hugs. It's about the teasing and making the session last as long as they can. When the time is over, you don't want to leave. When you leave, you already know that you are coming back again and you know that she wants to have you back. To me that is a true GFE session. It's like dating someone for the first time, getting to know each other in intimate ways, but not going all the way yet :)

Hey guys! It's that time again! Looking to have some gang bang fun which means I will need 4-5 lovely gentlemen to help get me off :smile: This will take place on Thursday March 6th at 3:30pm. I have no decided on location yet but it will either be Queen/Kent or Coventry/417. The rate will be $180 for about an hour (we sometimes go a little over). Important: I have tried organizing these in the past with mixed results. As a result I unfortunately have to change the way I do this. If I have not seen you or you do not have a great reference from a well known SP I will need a 50% deposit. I'm sorry, I know it sucks but I had to do it :sad: Hopefully this is an opportunity to get some of your fantasies met. I know I love it and I always have a blast! If you need more information I can be reached on cerb or via text or call (I wont always answers calls, especially if I'm out) 613 415 5533 Insert shameless blog plug....go look at my blog! lol http://www.anonymous0slut.com

Getting a text from my daughter to see if I'm available for a Skype session. She'll have the baby on for a visit, and he's now able to sit up and starting to recognize whats going on, on the laptop. It's such a treat watching him develop, just seven months old.

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Today I received a book in the mail from one of my Aunts. It is a memorial book to honor my recently deceased mother. The book was filled with photos, letters, notes and other mementos of her. Which I had not scene before. What a wonderful thing to do.

Guns N' Roses - Patience Black Velvet by Alannah Myles (I met her once back in 1989 - made her lunch :p )

Please post any BUSINESS RELATED announcements or self promotions in the advertising/announcements areas only. When you visit a town/city and then post a "Thank You" for that city please ensure it goes into the announcements area and not the discussion area. When posting and choosing the correct category consider this. Is this post I am about to make for my business? (Example: An Advertisement, Announcement, Schedule, Thanking of Visiting a city and asking if anyone is interested, Polling the guys on your new photos, etc...) -> IF SO THIS GOES IN THE ANNOUNCEMENT AREA Is it a general discussion topic (and not about you specifically) ... and does it still pertain to that city? If so then it can go into the discussion area The discussion area is more for people looking for info on a specific spot or provider in that area or general discussions for that city. A guy may however be looking for a specific service and may say "Does anyone provide this service" in that case you can say "Yes, I do" or if they are asking specifically about you in a thread... but if they ask "Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does xxxx" then they are obviously asking the other guys so posting here would be a blatant advertisement and self promotion. (Not allowed) Hope that clears things up a bit as we have had some confusion as to what is and is not allowed in each area. Basically the announcements area are for the SP's to promote themselves and the discussion area is mostly for the men to ask each other questions (or as the SP's question) but sometimes a SP posts a very good question that is not posted for gain of her own business and that is very much acceptable and encouraged.

Ive been asked this many many times over the years, like `whats the trick, what do you REALLY do ? well honestly? its to realize that there isnt one. theres no short cuts, methods or moves, that will do the work for you. im in my hotel room at this very minute, (on a monday, having been here all weekend long) and theres not a piece of trash in my garbage cans, my oil bottle is full, if you didnt know differently, youd say the hot tub, shower and towels hadnt been used. that is whats called discipline. many of the very pretty faces you come across these days are lacking it (teehee, dirty minded gutter joke:jackoff:) which is why i think if you want to make it as an indy, your only hope is to put in at least a year in a decently run, licenced mp, to learn the very basics (discretion, the law, and how have a work persona) Any hoo, thats my opinion, feeling slightly reminiscent today as im about to work outside the comfort zone of my home turf tomorrow....later haters! ;) lol play safe! Additional Comments: like i was saying, its not just my opinion i suppose...http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/local/City-to-look-into-unlicensed-escort-agencies-244753771.html

There is no one thing that's the most important aspect to see an SP. It's a combination of a lot of things. There are a lot of exceptional ladies out here, so there are a lot of ways I narrow down to one. Firstly, price. It's just simple logic, I can either afford her services or not. If not, or I think it's too high, I move on. The next is her presentation. I'm talking about things like her ad, her website. Everyone that I've ever seen has a great website up. Not to judge those who don't have a website up, but it feels like she's more invested in her business. I love blogs, but I've never not seen someone who doesn't have a blog. On the other hand, I have seen a lady just because I loved a post she made, and ignored the first point completely. Finally, when I do see her, does it seem as if she's putting an effort? I know that not all personalities click, and it is a tough job (I can't begin to imagine how much), but things like a clean place, a good attitude. In thankfully just one case, I walked in and the SP's incall was quite messy. She seemed blah about the whole thing, and I felt so creeped out, I excused myself to go to the bathroom, and then faked a stomach ache and left.

For me the most important aspect in seeing sp or ma is to come out feeling better then when I went in. How is this achieved? Well being shy by nature it help to be with someone who is easy going, friendly, talkative. I can't say I ever had bad experience, more like learning experience. I'm constantly changing and evolving so it's really hard to say, I guess it about living and feeling. When selecting someone new I just go with my gut. Wether I saw something physically attractive or intellectually, I just go with what I feel. I take a chance, some of my best were just a chance. It could be spur of the moment and who available. What make me what to repeat and go back. When I feel strong emotional feelings. When I get that feeling good inside that means I had a great time. I know its all vague but it all comes down to how I feel, mostly mentally and emotionally. Cause lets face it if it were only for a sexual release I always got my hand. I don't even need a sexual release to have a good time or even repeat.

First I like to see what they are like by the way they post on Cerb. Their pictures and recommendations help me make my decision. But unusually I like to get to them a bit thru chat, or pm or email. Whether I will repeat will depend on connection and chemistry. It's not what's on the menu that counts to me, but whether she likes and enjoys being with me and does her best to make sure I enjoy myself. If we both connect, just go with the flow of the session and see where it leads. If she indicates that she would like to see me again. that is a step in the right direction.

Ahhh, the ?tipping? debate! I noticed there was a decided void in SP response so I will take a minute to share my thoughts? From an agency girl perspective, tipping is often a way to generate extra income because after they pay the agency and the driver, they usually end up on the short end of the stick. 10 years ago, I ran for an agency, we collected $260 for an hour, with $110 going to the house, $40-$100 to the driver depending on where the visit was located, which left me maximum of $110 with as little as $10 in my pocket. With a $15 book on fee and mandatory car cell phone fees of $25 per night, I needed 3 full fees per night to make working worthwhile, God forbid I get credit card calls, which somehow always worked out us getting nothing. We were not allowed to refuse a call so we had to find creative ways to ensure we were paid. Tipping for extra service was the only way to keep our heads above water. The nice thing was that we had a shift, we worked, and we went home and had a life. That said, it was unfair to the guest who would end up with less than what he expected because he was not prepared for the extra fees. Independents are in a slightly different boat. We usually have a higher upfront fee, but we also assume ALL the costs incurred, which is far more than many realize. If we charged what we feel we should to get our ROI, the protests would be heard long and loud. Many Indies have a smaller bottom line than an ambitious girl at a well run agency. So when it comes to tips, many things need to be considered. In the south, SP's are tipped much in the same manner as a restaurant. Anyone walking a restaurant wouldn?t consider walking out without leaving a tip if everything was satisfactory. I tip everyone in the service industry, from the girl who washes my hair, to the man at Suny?s who pumps my gas because a little bit from many adds up at the end of the day. Flowers and trinkets are lovely in thought, but a girl can?t deposit wilted stems into an RRSP, and my bank doesn?t seem to take dildos, massage oil, garter belts or silk stockings on deposit -go figure! As Joyful C has so wisely stated, most SP?s live a fragile existence financially. We provide an illusion of playful luxury for our guests benefit, but rest assured, 90% of the time it is smoke and mirrors. Behind the scenes we struggle to pay our bills, put diapers on our babies and try to take care of those we love, all the while working on a way to get to a normal existence if that does in fact even exist. An extra $20 from each client equals a full appointment by the end of the week, and at the end of the month that pays the cell phone, buys the groceries and lets us take the little ones away for the weekend after we have paid both rents (home and incall), all our advertising, babysitters, hydro, car repairs, personal maintenance and the same expenses everyone else has. Not to mention the monthly payments on augmentation, lifts, tucks and anything else to keep us up to the exceptionally high standards expected if we want to continue making money in this arena. There are few SP?s who can keep up the daily client service to ensure long term financial viability in this business because of the emotional and physical toll this business extracts which sometimes means extended time offs to get our heads, hearts and bodies back in order. We have no paid holidays, benefits or paid personal days. If there is a crisis that forces us to take time off, we lose money and clients which often means we work regardless of illness, pain or any other of lifes challenges. Each SP has her own reasons for working, but the universal element is that we all are trying to achieve some sort of financial stability. I never expect tips, and I can count on one hand how many I have received since my arrival in Canada because of the nature of the business here. Hate to tell you guys, but Canadian men are not known for their generous nature, they rank a close second to Germans in this realm (I think the outlandishly high taxes inflicted in both countries has something to do with it!). I would never expect a tip from guests that have me on retainer, I see them weekly. But unless you are going to be a bankable commodity in a SP?s life, a tip relative to the quality of service is a sure way to say thank you and have her know you mean it... Catherine