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Booty is in the eye of the beholder my friend. ;-)

Actually if you book on a 777L the bathrooms at the back of the first class cabin are big and if you book a 777W the bathrooms in the front of first class are large enough possibly for 3 people :) I have yet to achieve entrance into the mile high, however I have my preferred airplane washrooms selected :)

Hello everybody I just have one concern about this: As much as I'm sure a good-bye kiss is welcomed by some gentlemen, I am always super-careful not to leave any traces of make-up on my visitors, once they have taken their end-of-appointment shower. I don't wear heavy make-up, but I wouldn't want to risk leaving any sparkly stuff on my visitors. A gentleman who is single may not mind, but I always respect the fact that some gentlemen have 'another life' that they do not wish to perturb. So I generally end my appointments with a hug, and I even tell my gentlemen that I don't want to leave any make-up on them, and I think most appreciate that. I would love to hear others' thoughts on this ;)

I find the wonderful women at ALO Spas are the best! Always a nice, relaxed, clean environment with attendants who take great care of you! Safe, very clean and no worries :)

I expect Halifax will be broke this year from all the damage I've seen. Not sure what it is but this year is horrendous for holes and chipped top layers. It's like an obstacle course.

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I have to agree! Though it's usually the other way arround. I make sure to give the lady a big nice hug before leaving, to make sure she knows that i really enjoyed our time together and that i care for her more then just sex. I'm usually more a repeat kind of guy then trying new ones so it's almost always a date with someone i know.

Where are you? Why is it, the only posts here are simply asking for info but with no other contributions? WE WANT to hear from you!! You obviously have a screen name , you must have opinions? I look at other cities, and see much being learned and taught! yes I know we are small in population, but really, do you not have anything to say? Chat about anything, we are listening and want to engage! The benefits of US providers as well as YOU! It is well worth it! Talk to us, our community can only get better by hearing from you:) Give it a try...what excites you? What is it that get's your goat? What have you learned by being a hobbyist? What concerns you? You don't have to be a philosopher. but just be honest and respectful to others... hope to see more posts in NB:) It will help me, and you to get to know each other!

I recently had some play time with some regulars of mine that I hadn't seen for a while. With these girls I have strong chemistry with and really enjoy being with. I just noticed that with certain girls when we say bye, We just hug for a few minutes and end it with some nice long passionate kisses. This too me shows that they genuine like me and enjoyed our times together. Thinking back over my many sessions. Some ended with just a quick hug and quick kiss, but the most enjoyable sessions ended with a nice hug and kiss. I'm starting to find the good bye kiss and hug important to me now. As with some girls, you never know if this is the last time you will see them or not. Due to them retiring or not travelling girls not coming back, or other personal reasons. Or the fact that I may give the hobby also. So with girls that truly mean something to me or have had a great time with. The final hug and kiss good bye shows me if there is some sort of connection between us and means something to me, just in case I never see them again :( I wonder if the SP's/MA's or hobbyist feel the same way.

Newbie to the board :) Happy and Safe Hobbying to all.

Actually, highlights of the week. I have been in Kingston since last Wednesday. I ended up driving a full 16 hours straight through and it was a good decision as I got here before a reasonably good snow storm. I have had a great visit with my daughter and since we love projects we have have primed and painted their newly gyprocked basement and have laid a laminate floor. Starting to look at weather for my trip home later in the week but who knows what we will end up in the middle of. :) Love getting away with my kids!

Bad Girls - absolutely one of my all time favorites! Additional Comments: Happy Saint Patricks Day everyone. Hope you have fun, stay safe and play hard!

I am curled up watching come dine with me, is a fun foody show:) Good for a boring sunday:)

I highly recommend Peachy, my ATF :biggrin: Here is her recommendation thread - http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=4309&page=13 I also have had great experience with - Evelyne Lemay, Isabella Gia, SexxyRebecca, Emily J, Hannah Star etc. Note that these ladies are all full service providers.

I watched "Protection" last night...wow loved it! lots of action with the great actor...Jason..i forgot his last name but gorgeous :) hehe

My first 5lb of protein shakes and a dedicated, proper pair of running shoes. Good god, I'm turning into one of *those* people!

It would be nice to find a local Asian SP that is Canadian-born. I find my conversations with women from the above-mentioned agencies are limited and makes things a little awkward if you're looking for something more than just getting off. I know that Annessa is the go-to half-Asian SP in the Ottawa area, and she's fantastic.

If feminists really cared about us they would let US decide what's best for US. What a novel idea ... letting a woman take control of her own choices in life. Isn't that what feminism is all about? bunch of freakin hypocrites.

Most potholes I don't mind just ducking around; it's the potholes on the bridges that get me worried! :)

Tomorrow is the last day, folks! Do it. http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cons/curr-cours/proscons-conspros/index.html#2014--02--17

Yes I agree that this could be a problem for some. I usually ask the woman not to wear lipstick ,scents or makeup. I like the woman to be au natural :) Plus I don't like lipstick or perfume on a woman. Some scents give me a headache. But to me the last kiss is important as it can often tell me if the woman truly enjoyed herself with me. If I get just a quick hug and just a peck on the cheek. I probably won't repeat. But if I get a long passionate kiss. and I enjoyed my time with the woman. Then I will most definitely repeat :) But you made a good point.

Here are some gifts that you won't want to give your partner because you'll be left alone, crying, and using the tears to masturbate with. And that hurts. Everywhere. Nothing says, "I have a strong passion for you," like asking your boyfriend or girlfriend to get their privates smelling like hot, sweaty meat. Because being constrained in a t-shirt is the PERFECT way to make love! This gift is basically saying, "Hey, your balls smell terrible." And your response can be, "Well, you shouldn't have bought me those beef jerky underwear." This pie, made with bull testicles, is suppose to be a male aphrodisiac. But here's a clue, ladies. You know what makes men aroused? Boobs. Butts. A female's presence. A female walking. A female sleeping. A female on a phone. ANYTHING ELSE BUT BULL BALLS. http://www.break.com/article/13-valentines-gifts-that-lead-to-you-sleeping-alone-2415759

Agree. I've looked a few times but the resources here make BP an unnecessary risk.

Never gave this much thought but now that you mention it, I've repeated with just one SP and she alway greets me with a long 'make out' session at the door and then the same before I leave. It a nice touch cause it makes me feel wanted.

For those that are worried that they may be "bothering" a lady on her day off - don't know about others - I turn my phone off on days I am not working. I use sponsor ads and don't post everyday - even if I am working that day. My understanding is the difference between brief mode and gallery mode - all the sponsor ads are listed in gallery mode. So, if you are looking at gallery - you are actually looking at the sponsor ads. Might be wrong - but this is my take on it.

Hurley, Elizabeth

Not too bad here in Gander... a few bridges on he TCH very bad, especially one before the Town of Appleton! Already a few collisions because of the bad condition! I don't know if complaining is good enough this days! Just saying!

I'd say Corrie and Rhianna have to be my current favorites there

I made appointment and text when arrived. Stepped off the elevator to find two guys in suits standing in front of door to her room. They looked at me and went into the room beside it leaving the door open. I walked by the room and went to the stairwell and texted her. While waiting a housekeeper walked into the stairway. Walked down to the next floor and left. Got a text 10 min later saying she was alone. I explained that I did not like situation and was a bit nervous and get a reply of "anyways "

Is anyone else at a loss as to why the police are not supporting these girls? She is saying she worked with 100+ other underaged girls. We saw how effective the last sweep was. When do LE realize their tough and tough ways are not working? It seems every time there is a case of underaged or trafficked victims it is cracked by the public. All the LE ever seem to do is break trust with the people who help them. I'm incredibly upset. These were children and the law has failed to keep them safe after they came forward. Unacceptable.

A sad story for sure but the pimps wouldn't be making money or be able to sell their victims if it weren't for the men who are willing to see them. There must be a demand for very young girls or else why does this continue to happen? that's the saddest part. I'll never understand why a grown man would want to have sex with a female that looks like a girl/child, or someone young enough to be his child or grand child, but that's me.

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The for all the info!

let me know what brand we decide on so I can stock up at Costco ;) I currently stock the Dove Mens+Care in sensitive because it's the mildest and the scent is barely discernible.

For 2013 it was Tiffany at Angels Touch. Unfortunately she retired from the business at the end of February. Leading the way for 2014 is Chantal Summers @ Paradise.

I love that last connection before someone leaves especially as I genuinely enjoy (and will miss) many who grace my door. This is something I always feel the urge to do however with new clients (and some repeats) I will let them make that move as I have encountered those that prefer to just "go". As long as they leave happy, I'm happy but I do miss the final hug and kiss when it doesn't happen. In some cases you never know if it might be the last time. Life happens.

I totally agree with the last kiss being important. Its paramount as you really don't know if and when you may meet again. For me over the years its very important with my regular guests to be caught up on conversation as well. It's equally important to tell or hear that final funny story be it mine or my guests. So at my house or suite we usually linger at the door for some time talking before that final farewell kiss and hug.

Like everyone else here, I do enjoy a long hug and some long passionate kisses when bidding a fond farewell. These long passionate hugs and kisses are equally important to me in the beginning and during the encounter. I find it not very memorable when she rushes to see you off without those acts. Sometimes, some other gestures could be very endearing as well. I remember after a lovely session recently with a reputable cerb lady here; when I bent down and put on my shoes, she lovingly touched up the hair on the back of my head and whispered gently "you don't want everyone to know that you just had sex!". It was such an adorable and unforgettable act that I will always remember her fondly!

YMMV means just that, what you experience with a lady may well be just the opposite of what another gentleman may write. Every experience is unique, it should not be cookie-cutter. Every gentleman is unique and is treated as such. Just because a gentleman has an absolutely amazing experience with me doesn't mean that I am everyone's taste. I agree with doing your research, contact the lady in the manner she wishes and ask questions if your not sure. I was once asked if I was 'hot', my answer to that is, it depends on what you think is hot! No two ladies are the same, we offer different experiences, we do our best to give you what you seek, but do ask questions about a particular lady's services if you are unsure.

I don't usually make a point of trolling the comments here, but really? Do you think the suit salesman expects to sell a suit to every guy who walks into his store? Do you think the car salesman expects everyone who comes into the car lot to drive off in an Escalade? Why is this any different? I've been to clubs on several occasions where I get approached and immediately asked to go to the CRs. When I've tactfully tried to say no, I get treated like I'm something floating in a toilet bowl. I'm sorry, but I do reserve the right to spend my own money as I choose. Respectfully, that doesn't make me a cheap ass, or any other kind of ass. It means I would prefer to spend my money as I see fit, not you. This thread is for advice on how to get a dancer's interest at the clubs, but I begin to wonder if there's need for a thread on how the dancers could get the client's interest.

Please post any BUSINESS RELATED announcements or self promotions in the advertising/announcements areas only. When you visit a town/city and then post a "Thank You" for that city please ensure it goes into the announcements area and not the discussion area. When posting and choosing the correct category consider this. Is this post I am about to make for my business? (Example: An Advertisement, Announcement, Schedule, Thanking of Visiting a city and asking if anyone is interested, Polling the guys on your new photos, etc...) -> IF SO THIS GOES IN THE ANNOUNCEMENT AREA Is it a general discussion topic (and not about you specifically) ... and does it still pertain to that city? If so then it can go into the discussion area The discussion area is more for people looking for info on a specific spot or provider in that area or general discussions for that city. A guy may however be looking for a specific service and may say "Does anyone provide this service" in that case you can say "Yes, I do" or if they are asking specifically about you in a thread... but if they ask "Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does xxxx" then they are obviously asking the other guys so posting here would be a blatant advertisement and self promotion. (Not allowed) Hope that clears things up a bit as we have had some confusion as to what is and is not allowed in each area. Basically the announcements area are for the SP's to promote themselves and the discussion area is mostly for the men to ask each other questions (or as the SP's question) but sometimes a SP posts a very good question that is not posted for gain of her own business and that is very much acceptable and encouraged.

1. Do you think that purchasing sexual services from an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: Consensual commercial sexual services/activities between consenting adult service providers and clients should not be a criminal offence. Government has no legitimate role in criminalizing consenting adult sexual activity regardless of whether it is a commercial or non commercial transaction. Criminal law should focus on violence, threats of violence, extortion, withholding of passports/visas, illegal confinement and underage commercial sexual activity. Broadly these acts would fall under the headings of underage prostitution, human trafficking, pimping and assault. I do not support the Nordic model in which one partner (the client) in the service transaction is criminalized. While such laws have been passed elsewhere, I do not believe the Canadian constitution allows for such inequitable rights or criminal laws. I can't think of any other example in Canada where one person can be doing something legal while simultaneously another participant is deemed to be engaged in a criminal act. Any violent acts or threats etc by a client should be prosecuted just as they would be in the case of any two individuals where such harmful behaviour occurred. 2. Do you think that selling sexual services by an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: I do not think that consenting adults selling sexual services should be criminalized. I think everyone recognizes that sex work can never be successfully "abolished". It has and always will exist. Criminalizing homosexual sex and anal sex in the past for example was a misguided attempt to eliminate them. The desire for sex, intimacy, human contact and variety is too deep to stamp out these desires. These desires cannot always be met by accepted social convention. Sex workers (women, men and transgendered) fulfil a need and niche in the commercial market. The next question is will prohibition through criminalization of service providers make citizens in general safer and more specifically will it make sex workers safer? The Supreme Court acknowledged that providing sexual services has unique risks. The social stigma associated with providing sexual services creates a social climate which increases the risks to service providers. Criminalization only increases the stigma and the resulting risks. While much of the Supreme Court's reasoning was based upon the fact that adult prostitution is currently legal, criminalizing it will not eliminate sex work nor will it eliminate or even reduce the risks to sex workers. Criminalization will continue to keep sex work in the shadow. Sex workers who have the means and skills will continue to work using online marketing. Even nordic countries acknowledge they've made no dent in this market. Outside sex workers will be forced even further into the shadows, unsafe locations, be further alienated from law enforcement and have even less opportunity to screen clients. The Nordic model assumes that sex work is exploitation of women by men. Obviously the largest portion of the market for sexual services is male heterosexual clients and female sex workers. The Nordic model however fails to acknowledge the diversity of sex workers and their clients (male sex workers for males, women for women, women for male/female couples, men for male/female couples, transgender workers for males etc.) How can a law be adopted which supposedly targets the exploitation of women by men, yet simultaneously sweeps in many other citizens? Finally, I've met many sex workers and they do not fit the stereotype of exploited or downtrodden women. Many have university degrees, have other small businesses (accounting, design etc) and like many people have made conscious choices about how they want to make their income and how long they want to do this work. Some women, while very intelligent, have not been able to get jobs that pay living wages for a variety of reasons (education, no work experience and a mid life divorce etc.). While sex work was not their first choice of work, they are comfortable doing this work. They will continue do it if it is entirely criminalized (just as many aspects of their work are already criminalized). Will criminalization of their work in its entirety make their lives better? I recognize that some sex workers are in exploitive conditions. These people deserve protection under our criminal laws, just as any citizen does. Existing laws related to assault, extortion etc should be used for their protection and strengthened if necessary to achieve successful prosecution of exploitive pimps or clients. 3. If you support allowing the sale or purchase of sexual services, what limitations should there be, if any, on where or how this can be conducted? Please explain. Comment: The federal government does not need to be involved in specifying where sex work can or cannot occur. This is a zoning and licensing issue for Municipalities. Specifying where sex work can occur is certainly not an issue for criminal law. Municipalities currently have sufficient enabling powers to specify acceptable locations, exterior appearance, signage, concentration and separation distances form other sensitive uses etc. These decisions need to be unique for each community. No community should be given the power to ban any aspect of sex work if it remains legal and if the laws related to indoor sex work are liberalized. Public solicitation, usually on public streets remains problematic. It has social and legal issues similar to panhandling. Outdoor sex workers however should not be forced into unsafe locations which increase their potential risks. 4. Do you think that it should be a criminal offence for a person to benefit economically from the prostitution of an adult? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: I'm answering this question, not on the basis of the assumptions implied by the phrase "prostitution of an adult", which suggests exploitation. My answer is for sex workers who are exercising free will and are making their own choices on how they want to work (independent or agency). Sex workers should be able to pay for accommodations, booking/phone services, personal assistants, marketing services, online services, legal advice, financial advice, drivers, security, clothing, sex toys, restaurants etc. Sex workers should also be able to hire agencies that manage many of these logistics on their behalf. Certainly anyone who is living with a sex worker (partner, children, friends, parents etc) should not be criminally penalized because they receive some financial benefit. Sex workers should be able to financially contribute their earnings to their families and friends just as any other wage earner in Canada can. Anyone who forces a sex worker to involuntarily "hand over" their earnings should be held criminally accountable for any for threats, extortion, intimidation, violence etc which have been used. 5. Are there any other comments you wish to offer to inform the Government's response to the Bedford decision? Comment: The Supreme Court's decision was very well reasoned, particularly in the face of an issue which has much social stigma attached to it. What stood out regarding their decision and written opinion was that it was based upon factual information and not morality. Any Federal response should also be based upon the factual information which we currently know about sex work and should avoid imposing morality upon citizens. There are many things which are considered immoral by a portion of the population (premarital sex, divorce, abortion, interethnic marriage, interfaith marriage, gay marriage, consumption of alcohol, cutting your hair, revealing clothing, working on the sabbath, using mechanical equipment etc. Canada is a secular society and should adopt laws which have a secular basis. What is a secular basis? Minimizing actual harm to our citizens and giving citizens autonomy to live their lives based upon values which may be unpopular or uncommon, provided they do not harm others. Many opponents of sex workers and their clients build straw man arguments. The sex work industry is characterized as being dominated by sex trafficking and exploitation of underage girls. These are certainly harmful behaviours, but there is no factual evidence or peer reviewed studies to support the view that these behaviours are representative of the industry. Fear mongering and decisions based upon fear mongering and inaccurate information will not result in sound law. Criminalizing clients or both clients and sex workers will only draw law enforcement attention away from harmful exploitation. Law enforcement will target easy arrests and never get to the hard undercover work required to crack down on the small proportion of trafficking and underage exploitation. The image of men and women involved in the sex work industry (as clients and providers) presented by abolitionists/prohibitionists is not representative of the majority of clients and workers in my experience. Most are ordinary people with diverse, common and ordinary backgrounds. While those participating in the sex industry will disagree with abolitionists/prohibitionists that sex work is inherently harmful, we all agree that we can find some common ground, which should be the basis for criminal law. Criminal law should continue to focus on exploitation through violence or coercion of adults and any exploitation of underage children or youth.

I never know what to call mine -- a tuft? A patch? A triangle? I shave the bikini line and the undercarriage but keep a nice piece over the mons.

You can also always ask in the CR for the dancer to wait for a few songs before beginning to dance. In my experience, if a dancer I don't know starts dancing as soon as we get to the cr( in the middle of the song) the experience will usually be not good. Most of the dancers I do know, normally like to chat a bit(no charge) before we get to work in the cr. I have had mixed experiences with buying the dancer a drink prior to a dance. In my case though the dancer has always asked me to buy her a drink, and I have not tried surprising a lady with one. I might try that soon. I agree with the other tips: eye contact, smile, tip while on stage. It also helps if there is an extra chair at the table where you are sitting, and you are in view of where the strippers sit prior to going on stage/chatting location.

I was told to take her clothes off... she really didn't like the fact that I tried them on in the first place.