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...so I was laying in savasna (corpse pose) at the end of my yoga class this evening and was thinking about orgasms. The teacher ended the class with a quote from Ghandi. Something along the lines of "we try to make other people happy in the ways that we want them to be happy. We are too attached to our own ways that sometimes, it's hard to be respectful of peoples processes" (I've paraphrased the quote). I was laying and thinking about how elusive an orgasm can be at times. Sometimes I think people are too attached to getting people off the way they want to get them off, rather than helping them along their own process, or supporting them throughout their own process. Do we stop and think "how can I support this person?" "what does she/he need to get off?" "does that conflict with what I want to get them off?" I think we get really attached to particular images and fantasies. Legs here, body parts there, contortions right, left (no your other left), and center... but is that really ideal? Is that what they want, or what we want? I'm thinking a lot more people would have powerful orgasms if they were supported along their process. I have to admit that I've probably gotten wrapped up in this too, but I want to be more mindful from this point forward. Now Ghandi was abstinent (much later in his life)....but hopefully he won't mind the inspiration ;) Food for thought. Nat xox

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=168507 I know plagiarism is frowned upon here and it's appreciated by the providers who work hard on their unique branding :) I was browsing another forum and noticed a brand new provider using a very familiar name. I wasn't sure what to do so I messaged her and advised her that her name wasn't original and that it had been used by a very well known provider for years. She said she would change it but she hasn't at this point. As she's new she has no pics and no website. Therefore if someone does a web search they could very easily think she's someone that she certainly is not. I feel it's a form of plagiarism, and it borders on bait & switch, and gentlemen should be aware that this isn't who they may think it is. Anyways I thought long and hard before posting this, I don't want to cause her trouble but I feel strongly that using another providers name shouldn't be supported or tolerated. Especially when the name belongs to a legend like Brynn Winters.

This was a cross Canada phone in radio show regarding what the government should do about the sex trade industry. I listened to half of it and most people were in favour of decriminalizing or legalizing prostitution. You can listen to it here. This program gave me hope. I'm listening to it again now. The host seems pro sex worker. http://640toronto.com/syn/123/308/canada-talks-national And there's a poll too! So far decriminalizing option is winning!

As I am on that board I notice it to..It's a very different dynamic than here where all kind of posts are allow..So I apologize for hi jacking the tread and the reason of my posting how misleading I can be since the lady mentioned relocating from somewhere else but not where with no site and picture I want to make sure that guys wouldn't get mislead that this person is back and get the baits and switch and put her blog there as well on how odd I though that both first and last name were the same..Let's face face they are a lot of victoria and Jessica but both first and last name together..not much Soon after my post was erase and I am still waiting for explanation I know here if you do so etching wrong they give you an infraction describing what is the thing they don't accept which I am grateful to have..There nothing Do you feel it's okay?Not?

For a very long time our culture insisted that one relationship could and would be the sole source of all our relationship and human-to-human needs: passionate love wild eroticism responsible love dutiful pair-bonding partners in big projects (kids/careers/whatever) mutual support in crises of whatever kind ... but it turns out that in fact, one person is seldom all of those things, or at least not all of those things at the same time. And that's true for both men and women, even though our society has been deeply reluctant to acknowledge that wives and mothers crave sex and excitement too. People find different ways to deal with this: the martyrdom of dutiful resignation, enormously risky secret affairs, whatever. But it's no surprise that even in happy marriages, people crave things on the outside, and inevitably lots of people take steps to acquire it. What's surprising is that we've been so narrow-mindedly terrified to admit it and change our views on relationships, human needs, and how to satisfy the latter honestly and responsibly.

So I'm in a very loving relationship but there is no sex. We've tried to work on this over the years but have come to the conclusion that it is what it is. The only issue is that I still need to have sex and she doesn't. The SPs provide me with the sex that I need and there are no strings attached. My heart still belongs to her. I'm not sure if she knows about my hobby or not but she goes out of her way to not find out (never ask questions and stays away from these issues) I have to live with the guilt but otherwise happy. I know it sound like I'm justifying but I'm fine with it.

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Got power back fairly quickly. Office is closed :-). We're being tested for sure. At least the potholes are all filled in.

Plagiarism (Coping text from another provider to post as your own) is NOT acceptable on cerb. Copying someone's text is the SAME as stealing someones photos. Stealing someone's text (even off another website to post it here) will get you in HOT WATER with the mods and members here on cerb. It could get you suspended or banned from cerb as well. So don't do it please. It's not nice... and I hate having my pm flooded with people telling me someone is copying someones text.

Hi all. Just wondering if anyone has any info on this BP poster? I'm new and trying to pick my first girl and almost got hooked into a bait and switch situation previously so i'm a little cautious now. The pictures in this ad look great so if anyone can tell me if they had a good or bad experience with this girl it will be greatly appreciated. http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sweet-sexy-blonde-ready-to-make-your-dreams-come-true-20/1695921 As a side note, I can't believe how friendly everyone is on here. I'm happy to be part of the community and look forward to my first time :)

Had this emailed to me. Artwork on Canadian Forces aircraft. Nothing to do with this lifestyle but thought some here would like it RG http://www.vintagewings.ca/VintageNews/Stories/tabid/116/articleType/ArticleView/articleId/410/language/en-CA/Tails-of-Glory.aspx

Not only should we be thankful for the Beauty of these ladies , but even more thankful for the class and thoughts behind all that beauty . Life is good in Nova Scotia........

I agree, the host did pretty good. For the most part, he didn't let the crazy callers get away with spouting illogical, moral, and hateful BS without fair opposition and questioning. Some action during & post-show on Twitter under the hashtag #CanadiansTalk :)

You might want to check out the bait and switch section here http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=125521 ....and she used a different name as early as last week

I am a happily married hobbiest ... i love my wife and would do anything for her. We have so very many things that bring us together and make us both happy but you know I a Not sure I still believe like I use to that one person can meet all of our needs....perhaps seeing others provide a venue for me to meet needs for intimacy or connection in a way that is not possible with my wife. All that said if I was forced to choose....my hobbiest lifestyle or my wife the choice would be easy...i would choose her in a heartbeat.... i chose her 30 plus years ago and have not regretted that decision for even one second. I am not sure I deserve her but I do Love her. Just my opinion

Like most of us I love to laugh and laugh often; for me it can come at the most or the least of predicable situations. Unfortunately of late, its not been happening as frequently as normal; things have been a bit challenging these past few months on a couple of different fronts, but nonetheless we move on. This evening I was starting to chill after a long but very good day and turned on one of my long time but only occasionally watched shows (CANADIAN btw) - "Just for laughs". I'd had a glass of a very lovely Pinot Grigio and then a simple skit happened on the show. In a Montreal Park setting, a lovely young shapely lady (actress) in a very short skirt sitting on a crowded park bench (real folks) stood up screaming about a supposed mouse running around the bench on the ground. The reactions of the scrambling semi terrified (men & women) were simply hilarious (jumping up and down screaming at the imaginary mouse). It made me start laughing in such a belly busting way that it hurt in a wonderous, feel good moment. It had been far too long since I've laughed that way with tears coming down the cheeks and the belly hurting. After having recovered, it made me think about the last belly busting laugh I've had and realized that it had been years, literally. After more reflection I soon realized it had been far too long and vowed to change that. It would be great to hear some of your stories of great "belly busting laughs' you've had particularly if they've helped you reshape, change or otherwise, your perspectives on life of late.

Second Spring like day here in smalltown Ontario Did a walk didn't even need a jacket, just my hoodie RG

Nikki Quinn. Man oh man. I'm in love. One of the best times of my life.

I'm glad everyone liked it. I did something similar on my facebook (civilian) and guess what - not one person has replied. Go figure. I am an April Fools nut from way back. I've done something every year, and I'm most proud of this one. Again, thanks everyone!

Anja Rubik

hahahahahah Knocking on wood, :bigclap:

laughing my ass off at the news ... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=173536

God love Mr. Mercer!!!

Another belated birthday wish, Lilly! Hope you enjoyed. :)

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happy birthday lilly, all the best

Happy Birthday Lilly! I hope its the best!

Happy Birthday!

Lilly, Hope you have a wonderful day. Are you finally old enough to drink legally? R

Happy Birthday Lilly.... I hope that your day is amazing....

Happy Birthday Lilly may your day be extra special, filled with happy surprises and all that you love:)

Happy Birthday lilly.... hope your day is Amazing

Micro-sculptures made within the eye of a needle

Here is one of my faves ;) Xoxo

Playing around with one of my toys. No...no. A tablet. Tech toy. Get your mind outta the..well, you know.

Wow. This is incredible. I'm teary-eyed looking at how many people have signed this letter in opposition to the criminalization of third parties, and clients, as well as in support of the decriminalization of sex work in Canada. Here's a link to the open letter: http://www.gshi.cfenet.ubc.ca/openletter#.UzRswF7BHw8 My jaw dropped. Over 300 people have signed it! I'm sending a personal thank you letter to those I've come across throughout my own academic career who are supporting this. My heart feels very warm... Nat xoxo

She posts on BP quite often. If anyone has had experience with please let me know. Thank you!

Extremely important. In fact that is what motivated me to seek out a SP the very first time. I was craving a hug and no one would indulge me. :( I had not received a hug in 11 long years. Not since my last relationship in 2000. As for the kissing and cuddling, that is an extra bonus. Now, that is what I ask for up front when arranging to see a SP. Without those three things, the sexy frisky part just isn't worth it. IMHO.

As has been stated chemistry is huge. So if you have met the 2 ladies prior and you are relaxed and comfortable with each other and have chemistry...... and the ladies know each other it is soooooooooooooo much fun Gentleman 11 !! The key is to just relax .... don't envision a whole bunch of expectations..... keep an open mind and let things flow naturally ..... and then just enjoy :) All parties are there to have fun . and that it is ;)

Not for good;) we'll be around...in the very near future xo

I would pick whoever you feel would be the most suited to you. People always say pick her or pick her. Just because one had a wicked experience with a lady, doesn't mean you two will. I've worked there for 6 years, I see it all the time. Don't be nervous. It's relaxing and chill. Everyone is nice.

I can't speak on the reasons why these women say this, as I don't know them. But. I know a few women in my personal life won't date certain races, and I've heard them say,'I'm not racist... well, I hate XXX race, because a group of them once attacked me/assaulted me/etc" I know how traumatic it can be to be assaulted. I personally have been assaulted by a man twice in my life. Both times, it was a white man. But can you imagine if I said... I won't see white guys? That I hate ALL white guys, because I was assaulted by white guys? No one would think that was okay. I would not think it was okay. The men who assaulted me were assholes, their race doesn't have anything to do with it. It wasn't because they were white, and the men who attacked my friends were assholes, no matter what the colour of their skin. There are scumbags of every colour, just like there are gentlemen of every colour. I will decline your request for an invitation if you are disrespectful, dirty, rude, or cheap. But your race? I could not care less if you are white/brown/black/yellow/orange/purple/etc. (sidebar on the size thing.... I've seen just as many black men with smaller cocks as I've seen white men with gigantic dicks. My purrsonal experience has taught me you never know what you'll see under those boxer shorts til the shorts hit the floor).

I had to remove a thread tonight and I am very upset that people are posting crap like this. Some idiot PM'd one of the members claiming that one of the local girls has aids. The member posted this along with other nonsense. Why he felt it was necessary to start a thread like this I will never know but I am done with people trying to slander other peoples reputations. If your too stupid to realize a PM or POST like this is just slanderous and made by either a jealous competitor, ex-boyfriend or drunken idiot trying to cause a problems then let me help you out by telling you first hand that you should just delete the PM and report the user name to me so we can get rid of the trolls! If you feel the need to accuse someone of such a thing publicly do it elsewhere as I don't care to slander anyone on this site and as long as I am moderator of this site I will NOT tolerate it from anyone else here! I will shut down the board before I allow that to happen so if you enjoy the site please respect this policy and rule.